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Right, questions. I can't build a high senior PhD course, blah, you're the man, blah blah blah.
I can't build a very interesting Instagram.
What should I do?
Well, you need to build an interesting one, but you don't need to have that many pictures. If you were to take one day out of your life,
and get a good camera.
and put on some good clothes and take four or five good pictures.
That's enough. Put them at the top. And even if a girl ever says to you, "Oh, you don't have much on Instagram," just say, "Yeah, I don't use social media very much."
It's not really my thing.
And then she tries to shit test you. She'll say, "Well, why'd you message me then?" So, "Oh, I thought you were beautiful, so I thought I'd message you." But it doesn't mean I have to post on Instagram all the time.
Just play it off. Like I'm a cool cat. I'm on Instagram, dude.
You know, I'm just a Mr. Normal dude. I'm not a fucking Mr. Showoff. So you haven't got to do, you haven't got to have like me pages and pages of supercars.
You just need to have four or five good pictures.
If you can't find four or five good pictures, well, there's something wrong with you.
It ain't that hard. I'm sure you've been on holiday once in your life. Take some good pictures on the beach.
Done.
Get a picture of you in the gym.
Get it from far away so you look muscly or some shit.
It ain't that difficult.
Make it happen.
I shouldn't have explained this to you. This is common sense stuff. Don't be stupid. Five or six good pictures, you can make it happen.
Next, do you answer texts whenever you want or do you have rules for when you respond?
I answer texts in real time. I don't believe in making girls wait.
Message me, I message back. If they start making you wait, well then it's different.
then you're gonna have to return the favor or FDB them or whatever. But if a girl's messaging me, yeah, message them. What the fuck is normal?
A lot of these little dominance tricks that people are taught, make her weight and all
or just trying to feign dominance. If you have genuine dominance, you don't need to do that.
You message me, I message you, everything's fine. Let's go for coffee. Okay, I'll message you later. Everything's normal. There's no need for any of those things.
If I have a girl who ignores me every time I message her, and that eventually decides to message me,
Well, then, yeah, I'm going to take my time on her.
If she does message me first, I will reply, but I'll probably wait the same amount of time she made me wait. But in general, no.
Do you have a call to set up dates?
This is actually interesting.
What I do when I'm texting girls on WhatsApp is,
You okay. Tower of power. You're progressing. So you met her on the street or Tinder or Instagram, wherever you call her WhatsApp. Now you're WhatsAppping.
After a day or even an hour, depending on how long you spoke to them of whatsapping them,
I go onto voice notes.
Because voice notes are that little bit more personal because they get to hear your voice.
So I'll move from texting into voice notes. It's that tiny bit upgrade of personality. I don't do phone calls. If you see my tape speech videos, I don't like phone calls.
But I'll move into voice notes.
The good thing about voice notes is, well, they don't have to answer it. If you call her, she might ignore the call.
I'm busy or whatever, I'm driving, she'll ignore you.
If you give her a voice note, she'll listen to it.
So I actually do recommend after a little bit of texting to upgrade to voice notes. There's nothing wrong with that at all.
smoke a cigar, drink a little bit of whiskey, get your voice deep. Sound like a G.
and send her some voice notes, because once again, it's a tiny bit more personal.
And she might start sending them back to you. If she starts sending you voice notes back, 100% she wants to bang.
100%.
Thank you.
So do I call the set updates? No, I use voice notes or I don't know. I sometimes I organize a date by text. It doesn't really matter. But in general, I use voice notes. That's just something that came to my mind. I haven't mentioned before. You can use voice notes. It's really good.
or send pictures.
what you do and she'll be like, "Oh, hey, how are you?" Instead of just saying, "I'm fine, you, I'll take a picture of my coffee."
Picture it dang.
Yeah, I'm good, thanks. How are you? Just more, here's where I am, here's who I am.
just to break the ice that little bit more to try and get her to agree to me. All about the Tower of Power. Remember, progression at all times.
Don't do it as soon as you get your number. Don't get your number and be like, "Hey, hey, hi, how are you doing?"
Talk to her a little bit first, I'm gonna be a weirdo. After you spoke to her a little bit,
Then you can hit her over there.
Next question.
Tips for trying to close a deal once you got the girl alone at your place.
Now this is actually a really interesting question because if the girls come to your place alone,
She knows what's going down.
Like,
she's not stupid. Unless she's really stupid, she knows what's going down. So the only reason it's not going to happen is if she changes her mind.
Which might happen. She might change her mind.
So you have to be prepared for that.
But if a girl comes to my house
One second.
Yo.
Hello?
This is why I don't do phone calls. I fucking hate phone calls. Hello?
Thank you.
I don't do phone calls.
Anyway.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Um,
Thank you.
*clap*
Thank you.
If a girl comes to your house, she wants to bang. So she might change her mind.
So the girl comes to my house, my routine is very simple. What I do is I go up to my cinema, you may not have a cinema, maybe TV.
I put on a movie.
I always put on a horror movie.
Don't put on music. I've seen a lot of people go, "Well, let's put on music." If you put on music and the girl's drinking and drunk, she wants to party, she wants to have fun, yay, she wants to stay up.
You don't want her to stay up. You want her in bed.
So after the club, if we come home, we've got girls, and they come in, they go, let's put music on. I say, no, no, no, not music, put on a movie.
Because I've noticed before, you start putting music on, you get a bottle of vodka out, it's another three hours of partying.
He's just, I just want to bang.
born.
So no music. You can't put on an action movie, it's the wrong vibe. You can't put on a rom-com, you're not gay.
So it's got to be a horror movie.
Horror movies, you're quiet during, you sit, you're quiet. Horror movies.
So we come in, I put on a horror movie, offer a drink, get some wine, whatever, whatever, pour a couple glasses of wine. Usually I come downstairs to pour it. I usually pour her wine and I pour myself water.
'Cause I don't like having sex when I'm super drunk. If I've been drinking all night in the club, and then we go back,
I don't want to be like getting really hammered and be sloppy. So by then I know what's going to happen. I just start drinking water.
Give them wine, whatever, whatever.
Sit upstairs, I'll watch the movie for
five to six minutes.
before I start to kiss her on the couch.
'Cause she doesn't give a fuck, she didn't come to my house to watch no movie.
She ain't stupid.
Five to six minutes. We'll start kissing for about a minute or so. I'll stand up, get her hand, and walk towards the bedroom.
And she either follows me or she doesn't.
She comes with me, she wants to back. She goes, "Oh no, I can't, I can't." I said, "Oh, you wanna watch a horror movie?"
"Oh yeah, so you're not gonna be scared." I'm like a joke, I'll play it now.
"Well, none of you are here."
I'll watch it for a little bit.
Sit down, more wine, kiss her again, then say, look, I'm going to bed. You want to go home or do you want to go to bed? Oh, I'm going to leave. Okay. No problem. Get taxed.
I'm playing games. The whole thing is about 20 minutes, 30 minutes.
I'm very clear with my intention. She ain't stupid. She's an adult. She came to my house at four in the morning.
The fuck we dare to do?
Play chess.
If you've not enjoyed that, none of these bitches are good enough. So no.
We're not there to play chess, we're gonna fuck.
So that's basically it. I mean, I don't think it's difficult to close a deal. If they come to your house, you should know what's going down unless you're in the friend zone.
If you're in the friend zone or some bullshit, then it's hard.
Let me get some more wood for my fire. But if you're in the friend zone, hold that.
If you're in the friend zone and you can't close the deal, then you're asking stupid questions. Because if you're in the friend zone, you fucked up already.
You already haven't been doing the tower power. You already haven't been doing your progression.
And now you're asking me, well, how are you going to fuck your friends? Well, you can't.
That's why the friend zone is so toxic. That's why you cut off your attention if they don't want a ban.
But if you meet a girl, you get her number, you meet a girl on Instagram.
You get her WhatsApp. You start WhatsAppping her. Then you start voice noting her. You agree to go for coffee. You go for coffee. You agree to go for dinner. You go for dinner. You say, come over, chill at mine. She comes over to chill.
Thank you.
She knows what's going down. Now, maybe she may not want to fuck you the first night she comes over to chill. Maybe the first night she'll want to go home. Cool. But the second night she will. It's not a big rush. Just cool it. You don't want to come across needy. You don't want to come across desperate.
So if a girl ever says to you, "Oh no, not tonight," the instant answer is, "Yeah, alright, cool."
You don't try. Do not be the guy like, "Oh, I'll stay." It's super unattractive. It's super desperate.
Never do that.
A girl goes to me, "Oh, I can't stay with you tonight. Cool."
And then they get pissed off that you don't care. It's a subtle form of FDB.
What do you mean cool? I thought you got coming in her head. She's thinking I came here thinking I was going to bang and I wasn't sure. And now I told him I don't want to bang and he doesn't give a fuck.
Does he even like me?
I'll flip it on them. Flip on them like I told you in the first
The first course.
Get a taxi, come to mine. No, I'm going to go home. All right, cool. I'll get your taxi.
Instantly, bang!
Flip it on them. Give them what they want and watch them lose their minds.
So you don't try, then maybe the second time you'll fuck or whatever. But just be clear with your intention.
And she's coming over for a reason, so it ain't that difficult.
there.