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- Okay, so why don't we go around and have everyone on the panel introduce yourself, say your name, your age, your relationship status. Where are you from and just a little bit about you. Why don't we start here? - Okay, hi everyone, my name is Brittany Renner, I'm 30 years old, I'm single as a Pringle.
I have a one and a half year old son.
And I'm here to learn something new today.
I'll help you with that. That's why they brought me. Damn. Well, so they brought me here to look for trouble. It's Denalva the Troublemaker. You thought she couldn't do it, but she did it. Here she is. I am...
Freshly 30. I am single, not ready to mingle yet. And something interesting about me.
Well, I'm a smart woman. I'm here to see if Mr. Tate can learn something from me.
Oh. Sagittarius, Sagittarius, relax, please. Be nice, be nice. Come on, that wasn't weird.
Andrew Tate, 36 years old. I cannot disclose personal information because of course my enemies are after me.
Yeah, I'm here to educate as I always am. Perhaps somebody will say something remotely insightful, but uh
At least I get a Clementine if not, so. I'm chilling with my orange. And it's your girl Esther, the Nigerian queen. I'm here to entertain, to disagree with somebody in here.
Oh, Auntie, she's looking at you. Really, I am looking at somebody. It's her favorite duo. It's her favorite duo. But no, for real though, I'm just here to have a good time.
just yeah get some vibes and in terms of my relations relationship status i am
Single, doing interviews.
I'm not just going for anybody.
Yeah, that's how it is.
Auntie Jenny here.
54.
I meant to cut out the bullshit.
Simple.
I like that.
Okay. I like that. Thank you guys. I bet you do. Yeah, you have to cut the bullshit. That's the problem with the world today. It's too much bullshit. And they're not direct. If they've got something to say to you, just say it. Why are you being mean already? I don't really care. If you've got something to say, just say it. That'll be around the bush. Just say it. So basically, I'll say it. I've already got my team in. Just say it. Hey, Antio, I beg, give the girl a chance to speak now and relax. What girl? What have I said? This one. What have I said? I'm addressing the elephant in the room, innit? What have I said? Listen, I don't believe in that elephant in the room. You're gonna give yourself up.
Just say it, don't beat around the bush. If you got something to say to me, I am here. Talk to my face. There should be no elephant in the room, 'cause this ain't no zoo, you understand? So if you got something to say, just say it. - Me? - No, I'm just saying, we're just all big people here.
So if I want to say something to you, I'm going to say something to you straight like I normally do. If I've got something to say to Esther, I'm going to tell Esther. Whether she likes it or not, I don't really care. Andrew Tate, my son's older than him, so I don't give a damn who he is. I'm going to just say what I've got to say. So whoever doesn't like it, that's tough. Don't come. You should be here. You missed out, Brittany. I feel picked on.
Okay, so. And Brittany too, right? Even Pearl too. Feel better now. Yeah, Auntie gave me, Auntie was yelling at me in wife school the other day. So she doesn't give a shit.
Okay, so my first question is what is the number one problem facing men today and what is the number one problem facing women today?
I'm gonna say something. Come on ladies and fuckers, educate me. The number one problem with men is that they don't tell women the truth and the number one problem with women is that they can't handle the truth. Simple.
Ooh. That's a good paradigm to start from because it's actually very interesting you say that. A lot of women say, I just want a man who's honest. And then the second you're honest, she's like, what?
You did what? It's like, well, then don't ask me for honesty. Of course I fucking lie. Thank you. So that's a good that's a good point. I agree with that one. I don't think it's the biggest problem, but it certainly is a problem in relationships today. That is a problem. The biggest problem with men today is that I think the world is becoming hyper competitive. Most men are not aware and understanding of how quickly there's going to be a genuine shift in between those who have things and those who do not have things.
Not just finances, but also female status, everything else. And it's a status game, right? And it's becoming harder and harder for men to play.
And that's all women's fault, of course.
- Because, no, but it is, because women choose the winners, right? Women choose who the high-status males are. So,
women pretend to give a shit about men, of course they don't. They give a shit about themselves. And a woman, if you ask her what she wants from a man, she's like, I don't want much, I just wanna find a nice man who's a millionaire and six foot tall and funny and charismatic and interesting and spontaneous and looks after me and doesn't cheat and is funny and good looking and strong, I don't want much. Like they name all this shit that most dudes are never gonna have.
And it's becoming harder and harder, and you end up with people...
top G's who own everything on the planet they could ever possibly wish for. And then you've got other guys who have nothing and you're there's this large divide. There's no longer any middle ground.
You have dudes who can't get any pussy, and then you got dudes who are just blocking girls left, right, and center. And that's what the problem with being a man is today. What about the women?
Well, I would say, well, everybody's got a chance to talk. I'm going to shut up and have my Clementine. No, I want to know. I want to know. I want to learn from you, sir. You want to learn from me? Yes, sir. Well, I wanted to answer. I feel like it goes for both. It's not just one or the other. I feel like it's self-accountability.
Definitely. Women are not accountable for themselves. I agree with you there.
Why just women though? It's both. It's both. It is both.
You're right. But society punishes men for not being self-accountable. But society does not punish women for not being self-accountable. I'll give you an example. If you're a man and you're arrogant and you think you're something when you're not, trust me, society will teach you very quickly that you don't matter when you don't get laid and you stay a fucking brokie. If you're a chick and think you're something when you're not, you can run around with your ego, still get dates, still get laid, still have a fairly sensible social life.
If you're a man and you think you're something you're not, it's a ticking time bomb until society teaches you a lesson.
That's the difference. This is why men in general are more self-accountable because the men who are not self-accountable get fucked up. So those who are successful are very self-accountable people. They look at themselves and go, OK, the only way I'm going to get and progress further, the reason she left me, the only way I'm going to do better, make more money, et cetera, et cetera, is I have to change. Most women don't want to do that. They don't sit and think I have to change. They think, oh, he left me because it's him and I lost my job because my boss and this is this because of this. No, you women don't look in the mirror and change a fucking thing.
Nowadays they can't change it because it's all about body positivity. They can look sexy at a size 28. Are you saying Lizzo's not a ton?
Are you guys trying to get me cancelled? See I'm not gonna, I don't agree what you just said because
90% of cosmetic surgery is by women.
Women are trying to change as much as possible. Men don't want to change. They're not accountable for themselves. They think that because they're a man, you're going to be attracted to them. No. Like, you can't be fat. You stay at home. You're just playing video games. And you expect a woman to want to fuck you. No, she's not going to want to fuck you. Yeah, but then she won't. This is the point. And then she won't. And society will teach them a lesson. They might be able to pull off a little blag with a girl for a year or so. But in general, they're going to end up lonely. In general, they're going to struggle to find partners. I agree with you with the cosmetic surgery thing.
Women are happy to change their appearance and change how they look, but they're not happy to change how they act. Most of them, they're not happy to change. No, they're not. The women are changing what the men don't care about. The men don't care about the big old lips. Yes, they do. No, the women are doing that for themselves. Yeah. Because the men don't care about it. The men would rather a woman change her stinking attitude.
Then put on all that makeup and hair and everything. That's what the men want. But the women will go out there like, oh, I'm going to change this. I'm going to change that. If you look at a man and a man said, yeah, he's fat.
The man will most, if he's feeling bad about himself, he wants to make sense. He'll go and hit the gym. What's the woman going to do? Go and do. Get her BBL. Get her lips done. Put on her makeup. Put on her hair. And stay the big old fat person that she is and say, oh, it's body positivity. The men don't even want that. And the women are not getting all this cosmetic surgery for the men. They're getting it for themselves. You've got to turn around. What man wants a woman that's going to turn around, go and have an operation and can't sit on a plane because her ass has been injected or been interfered with? She's got to lie there on her stomach. You think the men want that? Or wake up in the morning before you've got to hit the house.
She's got put on. I'm sure I worried about some of the men because they must go out with a woman.
And then when they wake up in the morning, they think, who the hell is she? The scar, the scarfish. By the time you take everything off, women need to change their attitudes before they change their makeup. I'm sure that it...
Even more than that, change your attitude.
Because women have got there and they want to change this, they want to change that. All the things that don't count. If you learn to, the same way how women can go out there and learn to put makeup on, learn to cook. Learn to wash by hand.
Not to please a man. That's what you need to do. That's outdated girl. She's that girl. That's outdated. For who?
I'm saying it's like you're we had literally just talked about this off camera when we when you guys came here from the airport when we were talking about Oh, what's the value system or the point system for a woman who cooks versus a woman who can suck good dick and fuck? Well, but you like cooking suck dick is no But I'm saying is is that pearl if you can correct me if I'm wrong, but I'm quoting her was that When she interviewed people on the street that there was more points given to something like a sexual return as opposed to oh wash
give a fuck about that. That's what they think. But we literally just talked about this yesterday. No, it was, okay, I did a street interview and I asked the guys, would you rather have a girl that gave good head or a good cook? And most guys... They want this. But I think that's more... For the quick satisfaction. But I think that's more for like a one night stand. But what I'm trying to say is that if you, all the women out there and they're talking about, well, some of the women want to be settled down. They want a man.
Right? And you've got to think what the man wants. The man is interested in that. Look at, when you're doing street interviews, you're doing...
Single people.
Look at the people there that are happily married and ask them what they do. Because all the things that the women out there are doing, you can be a housewife, you can be going out, you can suck head just as good as any old tramp on the street.
And keep your man. And have a man. And I can say that because I'm 32 years in Canton. Auntie, you can't say attraction is not important, though. You can't say attraction is not important, though. It is important. Initially. Initially, exactly. A man is not going to find you attractive and then think, oh,
Because you can cook well. He's got a chef. Especially a man that's got money. Okay, let's ask Andrew. Andrew, would you be with a girl that's five out of ten?
Because she can cook.
firstly that's not what she said to be fair and secondly i'd be with the 10 out of 10 who can cook because i'm top g but to make the point i think what you have to understand is
what men are looking for in a relationship. So you did the street interview, and you're asking single people, probably young people, probably idiots who know they're on camera, talking shit about good head, all this garbage. It's bullshit. What men are interested in, in life, not just in their relationship, but in their life as a whole is status. I don't think most people understand, especially women, how competitive the male world is and how competitive it is for status. This is why men do everything they do. Men buy the faster car, not to drive any faster, because of status. It's why we want a bigger house. We don't give a shit where we live. It's because of status. It's why we want to go to the gym and get big and strong, because of status.
Everything we do is about status. It's why I want the better jobs, why I want more money, why I wanna be respected.
So what's the number one thing we want our female to give us? Status. That's what we want. So she can give us status by being beautiful. That's one thing she can do. But another thing she could do is if I turn up home and I come home with my boys and she says, I'll cook you all a steak.
That's status. That's all my boys going Ross. You just been out all night and she's here and she's gonna cook for all of us and she'll clean up and tidy up. Boom. That's the kind of girl a man's not gonna want to lose because it makes him look good. That's what I want. Status. Suck a dick. Blah, blah, blah. Listen, dick can only be sucked in so many ways. I mean, let's be serious about this. You had the Gark Gark 3000. No, no, no. This is actually a serious point, right? This is a very serious point because the Western world has collapsed in real time and it's a failed society.
Of females as a whole If a woman comes up to me And goes I'll be the best sex You ever had I am fucking revolted
I don't want the best sex I've ever had. I want you to be pure and a virgin. You shouldn't know what sex is. Cook my fucking dinner. Shut up. Don't come and talk to me about fucking sucking dick. It's vile. It's disgusting. I don't want to hear that shit. Can I say something? I don't want to hear that shit. What I want is a woman who makes me look good. No woman who's running around talking about sucking dick can make me look good. So I lose interest completely and utterly. And that's the truth. So what she's saying is completely correct. These are old school things, but it's not about the act. Yes, you can order food. Of course. It's about the status that comes with it. That's what it's about.
Sagittarius spoken like a true one. That is true. My man's a Sagittarius.
So basically it's a straight shooting sort of conversation. But I think that sometimes we get distracted and we talk about the bicka bicka between men and women. I think that the problem.
that men and women have is the consequences of the bad decisions that the 1% of powerful men make on our behalf. Because our problems are on a societal level, less than between women and men. That is why there's a lot of competition between men, this chase for status that they will never get. Why is that the fault of the 1% of men? Because they're the ones that drive the machine that runs this. It's always been that way. Yeah, but then think about the men that are at the top now, the corruption and everything that's going on.
It feels very good to sit next to somebody like you and just say, do you know what?
Appreciate that you say things that are really true you expose a very toxic truth and a very true truth as well That is out there, but the reality is on the trenches when you go to the grassroots people don't feel the way that you feel It's not as simple as what you say they are victims of this system So my job here is really not to try and make it about men and women is to make you understand that actually we need to start changing the narrative
They're both messed up on either side because then women look bad. No because it's about everybody together women have the trauma men have their traumas
to fight against men and women. That's small. I understand what you're saying. I understand what you're saying. But the idea that this 1% of men have created this terrible society, yeah, I talk about that. I talk about the Matrix. I talk about these things. But it's always been this way. It's always been a small elite group of men who are in charge of the world. And unfortunately, now, we're fighting battles in different ways. The days of old, a man proved his worth by going to war. Basically, every man at any point in his life was going to end up going to war. And he came back victorious. He came back with honor. He got himself a wife. That's how it worked, right?
Now men don't have to go to war
as much depending on where you live in the world and it's slightly different and we fight our wars in other ways and one of the true expressions of testosterone and trying to really express your ability and your combative ability now in the in the modern world is power and influence so in the olden days you'd go to war you come back with a ribbon nowadays you got x amount of followers you can move the world with money i can bend reality with money please understand if i walk into jimmy choo they lock the door no broke he's allowed in tate's here and i buy whatever the fuck i want there's lines outside because i'm there i bend the world with money that's how i that's
So you're talking about high status males and that it's always been that way. Now you have a whole contingent of men who aren't dead. Okay. They didn't die in a ditch.
but they're lonely as fuck jerking off. And that's the reality of it. And women don't give a fuck about them. And why should you? I'm not sitting here actually shitting on women in any way. I think women have a biological instinct to a degree to try and find the best mate they can because it gives them the highest chance of survival and the harsh realities of the world.
And if they look at a man who's not capable, they just don't feel an attraction to him. And that's the bottom line of it. And that's why I actually, I'm largely misunderstood. I don't blame women for a lot of the problems. Women are guilty of certain things, but I have a massive amount of blame to place on men.
Because there's so many men who are genuinely incompetent. I was a chick. I wouldn't fuck these losers either. Like, they're losers. So it's hard. Balance. I love it. Do you know what? I don't understand why people are always going for the 1%. All the women want to rush for the 1%. Why don't you just find a regular 9 to 5 person that's going to look after you? You can be his queen. Why can't you just do that? Why is it really rushing? I've got a man. We don't go on social media. If it weren't for a part, I want none of that. That's social media. 9 to 5. I've got a run property. 32 years. Happy as Larry. What is the problem? It's not old-fashioned. It works.
But let me clarify, when I meant 1% is not the 1% of attraction. I mean the actual people that are in charge of the things that run the world the way that it does. What I'm trying to say is that it's always been an umbrella we've lived under. But the difference is... And men have functioned underneath it. So why is it going to affect me? I'll explain why. Because as Sir Mr. Andrew King Tate said... Like that. I want to know what happened. As he said... I want to know what she's after. I'll have this one after this point. I want to know what she's after. She's going to go home and try that now. It's the quarantine. It is.
So as he very rightly said, society has now evolved. Before men went to war, now men don't go to war. So there's a lot of sense of no purpose that they need to find. And then on the women's side is that the same way that society evolved and made men feel less purpose, they have now had to take on bigger purposes. They have to go to work like they didn't have to do before. They have to take care of the family and work and do all of these things and now deal with the fact that men are feeling a little bit like out of, you know. What are the rubbish? That ain't what I'm saying.
You get a nine-to-five person right. What is wrong with you going out there, finding a regular nine-to-five person?
Right? You can function underneath that. Because I'm always saying the women say, oh, we ain't got enough money. We ain't got enough money. Work with what the man's got. You're right. Work with what the man's got. You can make a man your alpha. Everybody wants to go and find his top earning money. Find a nine to five. Work regular. Save your money. Learn to cook and not have takeouts. And then save your money as they did before. Then you should direct this to the men that feel upset because they're not like how you date. There's always direct something to the men. Why? She's completely, completely right. I'll tell you this.
and find a man who's gonna be nice to her, loyal to her, and make her his queen. Women don't want that.
So they'll sit there and go, no, I want Chris Brown.
And then they'll go try to get Chris Brown. Then Chris Brown will cheat. And they'll be like, I can't believe he cheated. I am devastated. Well, what the fuck do you think is going to happen? If I go to the car garage, right, you have to make a decision what you truly want in your life.
If you truly want to just find a man who's going to look after you and take care of you, you're going to be his queen. He's going to be loyal. You can find that all day, but you're going to have to settle to a degree where a lot of women perhaps are not prepared to do that. You see how women act. They'd rather chase people.
a fraction of a real G's time than have 100% of the time of a fucking dude who they don't respect at that level. And it's kind of like going to a car dealership. You walk in there. If you want reliability, you can get a Nissan. But if you want to get a Ferrari, it comes with headaches. It's going to come with problems. So when girls say to me, oh, you know what, Andrew, you know, you should be loyal. Men like me don't have to be.
And you know that.
So why the fuck are you here trying to tell me what to do? Because you know I don't have to be loyal, and all the girls I'm fucking don't have to be loyal. So why are you sitting here pretending you expected me to be loyal when everyone knew from ground up day one it was never going to ever fucking happen? And you're still here. You're still texting me. They're going to be the one that changes you. Yeah, of course they are. That's the biggest mistake that girls make. So whose fault is this? This is the female decision. They sit there and decide, no, I want this, this, this, this, this, this. Cool, then you're going to have to accept. He ain't going to be loyal to you. He's barely going to reply to you.
They like being cheated. I swear to God, this show has made me believe. I think women like to be cheated on. I don't. I swear to God. No, because all y'all ever talk about is your exes that cheated on you. That's all y'all ever talk about. And it's like, it's like, that's the one. Who only talks about that? The regular women that are on here. The women that come on the show. Oh, good thing I'm irregular and extraordinary. But do you not think it's because we're not holding men accountable? So when a man, because he's a top G, cheats on a woman, it's like, well, what do you expect? When you should actually turn around to him and say. Accountable for what?
Accountable for his natural evolutionary biology. - Is cheating morally correct?
Yes.
It depends. Yes. How can you say that? Are you joking? You're okay with your woman cheating on you then? Absolutely not. That's a rhyme. Oh, it's a rhyme when she cheats on you, but you can cheat on her. There has not been in the history of humanity across any culture, any book, any story, any fable, there has never been across the history of humanity any respect put on the name of a promiscuous female ever.
Ever! You name the biggest conquerors that you can possibly name from history: Genghis Khan, Alexander the Great, all of them! They all had a hundred wives, bunch of children, big G, conquered the world. Normal! That is normal evolutionary biology. That's how men are designed to be. There has never been a single female who has been celebrated for her promiscuity, ever in history. It's always been frowned upon and disgusting. So yes, we are completely and utterly different. Yes, it's different if a woman cheats on a man. And if a man is at a complete top level of his life and ticks every single box, and if he decides to be loyal, which some do,
And I can be loyal and I have been loyal, but there's also times in my life where I think, "Fuck it, I don't want to be." And get a new girlfriend every single day of the week. I can do that and I can decide to do that. If a woman decides to do the same purely because her value is high enough to attract so many males,
because she's beautiful, for example, it is completely different. And I'm going to explain to you why it's completely different, so buckle up. It's different.
Well, I'll tell you why. It is impossible for a female to be promiscuous on a long enough period of time without devaluing herself, because she is fucking people she shouldn't be fucking. There is no way she is sleeping with endless men, and all of them are either high-value men or treating her the way she should be treated. If you find a woman who slept with 50, 100 dudes, she's either fucking dudes which aren't at her level
the pussy she was just too drunk to realize he's a loser who plays video games or she's fucking a top G who barely texts her back so either way she's fucking dude she shouldn't be fucking or a guy who's at the level who doesn't give her the right amount of attention for a woman to find a guy who's truly on a level who truly treats her the way she should be treated that's once every couple years if that you ain't just gonna go out there fucking a new dude every week and say yeah he's worth pussy yeah he treats me good enough to get my pussy and you know what's funny about the universe
It's actually beautiful about the universe because it's equal and opposite forces. When you devalue yourself, it's kind of like men can smell it on you. They can just look at a bitch and go, oh. And that's the way it works. So you have to be very careful as a female and sit and go, does this man truly deserve to fuck me? And if you think about it, the answer 99% of the time, especially if you're promiscuous, is no. So when a woman is sleeping around with all these men, she's devaluing herself. She's devaluing herself. And the world knows, God knows, the universe knows. When a man does it, he doesn't devalue himself at all. That's just the way it works. Can I ask you a question?
- Wait, wait, wait, Esther, one second. So may I ask you a question? What would you say if a woman now is married to two men?
- Haram. - Haram. - Why? - No, I'll tell you why. Let's talk about this. What is the difference between a man, let's say me,
I have four wives, right?
What's the difference between a man having four wives and a woman having four men? You can impregnate the four wives at the same time. You can impregnate the four wives at the same time, and we know who the parents are, right? So let's say you had four pregnancies. You'd know who the mother is because she's carrying the baby, and you know who the dad is. Top G. If you had a woman with four men, and she gets pregnant, who's the parents? What about if— No, I'm asking. Okay, I ask, what if they're different races? Answer the question. You don't know. Answer the question. You don't know. Now, modern science can come along and maybe fix that for you, but that doesn't mean it's not wrong in the eyes of God.
of having a family, the idea of a child being born, one of the baselines for a new life to come onto this planet is for at least to understand who the two people who made it are, at least. If you have a woman fucking four dudes, you don't even know who got her pregnant. It's disgusting. Have you seen the twins that had two different dads? Oh yeah, I saw that. May I just say something then? So if that is the case, yeah, if the one thing that you're meant to have is at least you know who the two people that put that child on Earth are, then that's why promiscuity for men is also a problem, because they get women
Sometimes they don't even know they have children. That's haram, no?
No, it's completely different. It's different because you have to understand I'm talking about
Humans you look at humans from a societal perspective and but society has changed right so let's say two three hundred years ago if a woman got pregnant she needed a man to survive if that man didn't take care of her during pregnancy she was going to die she couldn't work a job she couldn't hunt couldn't fish whatever right a woman literally needed that man for survival so if.
If you were to come to me and say I'm pregnant, but you've been fucked by four different dudes, I'd be like, who says it's mine? Why am I looking after you? None of them want to look after her. She will literally perish. This is why in most of the world today, still today, virginity is so coveted. And throughout all of history, it's been so coveted. Because that's the only way to ensure paternity. She's a virgin. I know that's my baby. She ain't a virgin. Prove it's mine. Outside of this modern science bullshit, shaitan, the devil we have here in the West, in most of the world today, without virginity or at least a low body count or at least anti-promiscuity,
baby. So it's a completely different thing. You're looking at the idea of a woman being pregnant and coming to a group of men and saying, one of you has to take care of me and put up with me when I'm fat and moody and annoying and I need my bills paid. And all the men are going to sit there and go, no, fuck no, prove it's mine. You can't prove it. Bounce. Where it's different. If I get four women pregnant, we know the deal. Okay, so let me ask you a question. So obviously back then for survival, women needed a man. Otherwise, when they were pregnant, they could die and all of these things, they would perish. In today's society, given evolution, given the fact that as women we can
Isn't there a glitch between what is actually happening and the nature of what we have?
In our bodies. I think that's probably the conflict that we're having right now glitch in what way in the sense that women don't feel like they need men in the most physical sense. Perhaps like naturally very interesting women don't feel like they need men in a physical sense because life is soft but it's but it's but it's bullshit and it's bullshit because you still need men by proxy one and two the second life gets difficult you very quickly you very quickly learn how much you need men. But women will go I'm independent I don't need no man because I have an only fans and men be my only fans and if anyone comes up to me I'll call a male police officer I don't need men.
do. You just named your whole life is based on fucking men. The road you're driving on was paved by a man. The house you're living in was built by a man. The car you're driving was designed by a man. Your whole life depends on men. And the second anything bad were to happen to you, the second you were physically threatened, or times were to get hard, or war were to start, or famine, or riots, the first thing you do is find a big strong man, shit yourself, and throw the feminism out the window. Feminism goes out the fucking window the second that the snow needs shoveling, or there's a fucking broken down car, or the tire needs changing. Then all that crap vanishes. It's garbage.
And this is the actual the very interesting thing. I'll make a point here, which is gonna be canceled again. I don't give a fuck But this is the point feminism in and of itself can't be defended any idea the point of an idea is that could be defended by the people who believe in it This is what the whole point of war since the dawn of time It doesn't matter if it was to Christians against the Hindus doesn't matter if it was to Germans against the French There were people who had ideas and ideologies and they're prepared to fight each other to defend their ideology feminism is an ideology which cannot be defended by feminists and
The only people who can defend feminism are the men who subscribe to the garbage. If all the feminists were to get in a line and say, we want feminism, and the conservative men were to get in a line, you would learn very quickly it's bullshit.
I had a friend in Afghanistan when Taliban kicked America out, and he told me,
The Americans were telling we're telling the girls that could go to school So they built all these girls schools and they put the Afghanistan defense forces there and they get funded the Afghan defense forces to To protect these schools you had American satellites you had night vision goggles Taliban were afraid to attack America leaves now you have Afghani defense forces. They're basically blind. They don't have satellites anymore don't that don't have a night vision whatever so now it's a real war and
The men are standing next to this girl's school. The Taliban are coming. You're some dude. You're standing there, and you're looking at this girl's school going,
I don't really give a fuck if girls go to school. Bounce. And you didn't fight. So that's why they all gave up and Taliban took over so quickly. And when I said this, the girls were like, yeah, they should have fought for us, feminism. Why don't the women fight? Oh, wait, the women can't defend their own fucking idea. You need men to defend feminism. So that's why the whole thing is stupid. If the second men don't defend it, it just fails. It's a fucking ideology. It's garbage. May I tell you something now? So this is the thing.
Wait wait
Wait, because this is the thing. For example, in Ukraine, a lot of women took up arms. And in fact, I'm Angolan. Wait, wait, I'm Angolan.
Wait, wait. I'm Angolan. Don't lie. Listen. Wait, no worries. I'll talk about my personal story. No, wait. Let me tell you. Let me tell you something. This is the thing. I think it's also really, like, silly to assume that, for example, a woman, because she didn't go to school, she'll not be as intelligent as a man. Therefore, naturally, a woman is not intelligent. No, it doesn't make sense. If we're now starting to normalize equality and we want to put everybody in the forefront, give a woman a gun. Who's normalizing equality? Well, that's what people are wanting. Then that's the case. People like who? Let me tell you. Who wants to normalize equality?
People are like, oh, feminist. Who else wants that? Well, actually, no equality. I want respect. That's really what I want. Stop it from getting respect. No, no. I get respect.
That's what I want. That's what I like. So you just said you want respect. What I think is. You don't even know what you want. I'll tell you what I want. You don't know what you want. You want equality. As a woman, I carry myself differently. I actually hold the things that I have done in the fight side for. I hold it. That's why when you speak to me, I don't move different. I move different to many of the girls. That's why when you talk to me and you argue with me, I don't take it. I don't argue here. You do sometimes. I tell you. And I'll tell you something.
be somebody, but they are uncomfortable to own that. And the reason why, then I would like to ask you, for example, I do need a man, for example, to, you know, procreate. But other than that, I'm quite strong. And I would find things, I would find a way to protect myself differently. With that mentality, what would be the man that would be for me then? Dinova, Dinova, what would you do?
If one of these security guards broke into your door. What would I do? Okay, I'll tell you. What would you do? What would you do? No, no, seriously, there's no guns here. She's a feminist. I'll tell you. No, I'm not a feminist. She was straight as they take me. I'm not a feminist. I'm a bit smarter. Either I'd play dead. These two guys. One. Yeah. Okay, they see you're not dead. It's okay. No, I'd be like this. And then if not, maybe I would kind of like be very gentle and comply to find a way to get out of it. If they want to come and kill me.
There's not much that many people can do. But let's make an important point. You're talking about equality equaling respect. The way you get respect as a woman is by being feminine. There's nothing. We can be equal and very, very different. I'm not saying that when there's not equality, but you've confused equality with the same. You can be equal with completely different things. You can have a bishop and a knight on a chessboard. They're equal in terms of points, but they do different things, right? A woman can have equal respect to a man if she is very good at being a woman. And a man gets respect for being very good at being a man. When a woman decides she wants to act like a man or a man wants to act like a woman, that's where all gets fucked up.
It's not the same men and women are good at different things. We have different strengths different weaknesses. There's nothing wrong with accepting that There's nothing wrong with saying I'm a woman. I'm good at X. He's a man. He's good at Y then we work together as a team We have a beautiful family. We're happy forever. It's only confused where you have women who sit and go no because in the name of equality We can fight and work. There's no fucking women on the front line in Ukraine. That is silent bullshit They put some chick there dancing around the Pokemon dances to try and convince men to fucking die in a ditch It's garbage. You go to the front line in Ukraine right now. You do not see women in their makeup and their manicures
fucking men in the freezing cold, dying. You know where the women are? Dubai. Chilling. That's where the women are. So to sit and pretend that women are just as capable physically as men is a fucking lie. It's delusion. To say that you're as strong as men is delusion. You are good at other things. You're better than men at a lot of things, but it's not the physical world. And the unfortunate reality about life, this is what we're saying when I was saying earlier that feminism goes out the window when things get hard. The harder the world gets, the closer it gets to the baseline of humanity, the unfortunate baseline of humanity,
is violence. That's what happens. If all the electricity were to go out and all the police sort of quit,
This would become a violent place very quickly and there would be fucking zero feminists left. Zero. You would all need men. That's the bottom line of reality. That's the bottom line. So you have to understand as a woman and say, okay, I need a man who's good at being a man. But no one's saying that we don't need men in society. Of course we do. We're talking about relationships. Yeah, you're strong. But the thing is, I can live my life as a woman and not need a man. What's a woman?
Oh, Pearl, stop it. In my day-to-day life, I don't need a man
fix my car i'll just go to the mechanic but this one right yeah but is the mechanic a man or a woman no no i'm saying yes we need men in society but in relationship the only reason i actually need you is because i want you i don't actually need you do you know what i need i need you to procreate yes i agree but the things i don't need you in my day-to-day life what if someone but wait what wait what if someone breaks into your house
I'll just call the police. Okay, what if they don't come?
What if the average is in the US it takes like 15 minutes for them to get there. But that's not realistic. That doesn't happen on a day to day life. These two guys in your house, what are you doing? That's not realistic. I've not had any man break into my house on a day to day. It doesn't happen. The point is. So let's be realistic now. I know what you're saying, but the point is this. The point is.
When we're talking about feminism as a whole, feminism as a whole demonizes men. And you just sat and said, besides procreation, I don't need a man in my life. I can go to a male mechanic or call a male police officer.
They're men. So it's... In society, you are needed. I agree. I agree. Of course. We need you. Of course. So you're talking about being with a man.
Because you want to. So my question to you is, why would you want to be with a man? Why would a man want to be with you? Because they're sexy. Like, obviously. Because of the kind of... No, no, no, no. Guys, can we just talk about men? Sorry, I love men. No. I love dick, okay? We don't sound like it, but it's not all about dick. What I'm trying to say is that in a good relationship, right, one that works, there's blue jobs and there's pink jobs. Right? And that's the problem that women have got. Oh, jeez. They don't want to be doing no pink jobs. But that's not what we're talking about. We're talking about relationships.
in a relationship.
Because you want a partner. Companionship, friendship, romantic love, things that you can't get by yourself. Like, you want to go on dates with him. It's not about, I need someone to fix my car. Go to a mechanic. You're not safe. Call the police. It's not that easy. Wait, wait. What about a father to your kids? You don't think your kids need a dad. Exactly. You can be around. I definitely want that. These are the stuff. This is the reason why you need a dad. No, you need that. I agree. Wait, wait, wait. It's not that you want it. You need it. I agree.
than a man. But it's like, at the end of the day, it's not like I completely need you. But the whole point is if the lights went out tomorrow, you would need a man. In society, agreed. Why do we add women are so useless? I can change a tie. I'm saying if the lights went out tomorrow...
you would need someone to protect you.
You would. Of course. In society. Not my boyfriend. I'll go underground. Half of my exes can't even do anything. That's actually another problem. A lot of men can't do much. Do you know what I mean? In this day and age, guys can't even fit a tie on. You cannot. You cannot. No, no, no. I can cook. I can cook. Speak to your brothers. They don't know how to do nothing. I'm not even saying. Guys, guys, guys, guys. We have to do one at a time. Can I just say something?
This is why you can't blame all men for your poor choices.
You can't say, I'm talking to both of you, because you're saying, yeah, my man can't do this, my man can't do that. And you want to settle down. Why would you go and choose a man?
that can't do these things that you wanted them to do because my man could do all the blue jobs i need a man because most men grow up with a playstation instead most men grow up with a playstation and porn and things no that's the truth it's not it's not speak for yourself speak for yourself i'm sorry i don't need a mechanic you're my boyfriend you know what i need a father to my children i don't need you know something right she needs a police officer she needs a father for her children right so she's gonna go out there right and you're gonna buy your child
buy your child a bicycle. Who the hell is going to put out the bicycle and fix the electric car?
Who's going to do it? You got YouTube. I know how to do these things. I fixed a Bentley before. I fixed a Bentley. And you can do everything yourself. Go and get some sperm donor or something. Because you obviously don't need a man. That's the future, I think. And the thing is, no, future for who? No, for society. Because at the end of the day, what year are you living in? What year are you living in? Because, like, you act like you're in the storage. Let me finish talking. Let me finish talking, right? Now, you got a man, right?
Bye.
Right? And you're in your bed at one o'clock in the morning. And your man comes in with all of his friends.
And said, oh, babes, all the friends are here. They're hungry. What are you going to do?
Yeah, I cook for my man. I'm a traditional woman in that aspect. I love to cook for my man. Why is it that when people start cooking, they think that cooking is traditional. It's everything. It's not just about cooking. They always say, oh, I cook for my man, so I'm traditional. No, no, no, no. The point is. Wait, wait, wait, wait. I have a question. Are you a virgin?
You're traditional, you're virgin. Are you a virgin? No, I said in that aspect. I'm not going to comment on me being a virgin or not. But what I'm going to say is,
Every human being should be able to cook. She's a hybrid of tradition and modernization. I'm a person that survives. You know, I need to cook to survive. Can I ask Mr. Tate something, right? I'm going to ask you something. Sure. Right, because I don't like bullshit, right? And there's not certain people that I can't even bear. Why are you so excited, man? So I'm going to talk to him because so far, he's talking sense. Thank you very much. Thank you. It's giving pick me. Right. Who said pick me?
Listen, who just said pick me? They want me, don't look at me. I said it, I said it, give him pick me. Because he was having a whole conversation. I don't want to talk to you. I want to talk to Mr. Tate. Hang on a minute, I've been my man for 32 years. Clap for yourself. 32 years. I don't need to clap for myself because I'm happy. I'm not here. And what I was going to ask him, right, is how would you think a woman, would you think that woman. Why are you shouting? Can you calm down? Just calm down. I'm loud. You don't want to hear me shout. Anyway, Mr. Tate, like I was saying before we got rudely interrupted.
right now if you is this your idea of a woman that you think deserves a man
I'm here.
Single. But I'm looking.
I mean I'm like taking you know if you want to hook me up let me know and I just want any anybody but choose How does that make you feel? What is that kind of woman that you think deserves a man? Well, he's a top G come be asking him this question
Because I actually can choose. I've not found a man that I don't want to be with. I know your reality is you're going to beg a man to keep you. I'm in a minute.
You said, unlike you, I have options. We have options, yeah. You're out here looking for a man. You're out here saying that you're looking for a man. Where did I say I was looking for a man? Oh my gosh, you was at the advertising when we done the introductions.
That's what you said. I said I was doing interviews. That is what you said. I didn't say I was going out looking for a man. I said I'm doing interviews. Hang on a minute. You come to me. I'm going to decide if I want you. Mr. Tate. No, Tate. Listen to this insult, right? Listen to the L short. I'm not insulting you. Hang on. Listen. What do you call it? Sign language. I'm learning. Sign language. Right? Listen to what she just said to me. Unlike you, I have options. Fucking 32 years. You think I want options? I'm happy with my man. It's giving. You don't really have much options, though. Because the way you're like, oh, my God. No, it's not big meat.
Auntie, Auntie, she meant clout. Wait, wait. She meant Esther. I'm sure you didn't mean pick me. You meant clout chaser. Is that what it is? It doesn't matter. We could go with that too. I'm sorry. I was just trying to clarify your problem. I was just saying. Wait, wait, wait. Because you guys have told me last thing. Why would I want to have options when I've been in a happy relationship for 32 years? No, clout chases his fans. It don't make no sense. You can monetize on YouTube with clout. Why are you calling her a pick me when you were the one advertising at the beginning of the show?
I'm doing interviews. I wasn't advertising nothing. It's banter. Wait, wait, wait. Do you guys understand what an interview means? Okay. She's being spicy, guys. Stop it. Auntie had a question for Andrew.
What was your question? Oh, she asked already. He didn't answer because everybody's too busy jumping in. I already asked, but you're not too busy jumping in and being women. He's patient. He's ready to get married. Now you can all shut up and let him answer, innit? I'll answer, yeah. So, so.
To go back to one of my earlier points...
Firstly, to make it clear in the disagreement, I agree with, of course, I think everyone knows who I agree with. But I do, because you know what it is though, you know what's actually funny?
The things that she's saying...
our common knowledge 20, 30 years ago. This is how the world functioned. This is how the whole world functioned. The things I say that somehow people believe are controversial,
are exactly the way the world functioned in like the 90s, the 80s, the 70s. All of the entire period of human history, men had a role of masculinity. Women had a role of femininity. We worked as a team. Now the world's come along and they've destroyed and broken everything. And there's this new progressive think and this new generation of women who seem to believe...
That if we completely fuck it all up It's going to end up better And my argument to that is listen
We went from walking around in fields and small nomadic groups to building cities to building the pyramids to going to the moon. We managed to go from a few thousand to billions of people, populate the entire planet, build canals, build skyscrapers, cities. All of this was done based on the back of man being a man, woman being a woman, working together as a family. And now it's destroyed. Now they're going to come along and fuck it up. If it's not broke, don't forget it. It's destroyed. It's been destroyed. Man has destroyed Earth. What are you talking about?
And for women to lose husbands.
built... Man-made decisions for war. Listen, please. Men kill men. Please listen to me.
Men built the earth. I'm not saying men are perfect, but the entire world that you're existing under was built by men. Yeah, it's true. All of it. And the point I'm making is now we're entering a world of new think.
And the problem with new think is it's not tested. I don't give a shit what anyone's opinion is. What I can state as a matter of fact is we had 5,000 years of history that tells us how the world works with X and Y together. We're now entering a new paradigm. There's no 5,000 years of history. So whatever you believe about how it's going to work or it's going to be better or worse, whatever, that's just you guessing. Everyone is guessing, right? So we're entering a brand new paradigm and everything's completely fucked up. The point you were making earlier, which is a fantastic one about if I pick a woman who's advertising, et cetera, et cetera.
Men always, please keep this in mind, especially if you're a female. People always say, you know, the number of emails I get from girls will say you don't give enough girl game. I'll give you girl game right now. Your man wants status.
That's what he wants. You need to find a way to make him look good to the world and to his friends. So how do you do that? I'll tell you. One of the ways a man can get status is to get the girl that no one can get.
That's a very simple way, right? I said not ready to mingle. I did right. Okay, no, but this is the truth, right? If I date a girl...
And she's perfect in every way, head to toe. And then I'd say, I met this girl. Yeah, she's this, she's this. Oh, yeah, I took her for a date.
Even if he didn't fuck her. Do you fuck her? No, no, I just went for a date. So you went, the attraction goes from this to zero. Done. And it may not for some men, because some men haven't got choices, but men like me who genuinely have unlimited options. We want complete exclusivity. That's what we're looking for, because that gives status. That's what we're looking for. So you have to be very careful as a female with all of your actions, all of your interactions with your boyfriend, or when you're looking for a boyfriend, et cetera, and say, am I going to make my man look better by doing X or look worse? Simple things.
About girls nights out right Oh you're insecure da da da It's nothing about insecure I don't give a fuck If no man talks to you all night long I don't care if you're going out and you're going to an All girl club I don't care I know That when my boys say all the Girls are going out and I say not my girl
She stays home.
I look good. That's it. She stays home. She doesn't go out. She doesn't want to go out without me. That's status. It's not about the night out. It's about the status of being the man in the house. That's what a man wants. He wants respect. He wants to be the man of the house. I say she stays home. She stays home. Big G. Boom, boom. That's what we want. Can I ask you something? What does the woman want in your eyes? What do you think? What's the game you give for the boys? I'm going to tell you, but before that, I need another Clementine. I need to give half to our friend here because she just rolled her eyes at me.
And I'm perspicacious. I notice everything. She doesn't realize I'm a ninja. I detect these things. Even when I'm looking directly ahead, I can detect it. So I'm going to give her some of my clementine.
And she's going to feel better. So I'm going to get a Clementine. Would you like some Clementine, my dear? I'm sure. You want some Clementine? I just, I think for me, it's like. I'll ask you a question. Yeah, I would love some. You want some Clementine? Yeah. We're going to hook it up. Okay. Clementine's coming.
All right, go on. Continue. Okay. No, I mean, I just feel like this is definitely a different conversation for me because I'm very open minded. I love hearing different perspective. And I do feel like this is a newer idea. Like you said, it was in the last 30, 40 years. This is a new concept. We don't know how it's going to end. I just know from from like my experience, other women that I've met as well.
want to put up with the disrespect. And even when you were talking about, oh, it's OK for me to cheat, but not for you. My thing is, why not have transparency and have it be polygamous, polyamorous, whatever works for you? That's to me where it loses me with the traditional stuff. I get it. It's like, why can't we have transparency if I sign up for that? Cool. So how does it? No man in a million years. Let's all be realistic, right? No man in a million years is going to meet a girl he likes and go, I want to be polyamorous. Come on, that's gay. Let's cut this bullshit. So let's be realistic. How does a man show love to a woman?
- Tell me. - Exclusivity. - Wrong. - That is how-- - Time, resources, and something else. - Time, resources. - Yeah. - That's a good way to start. So sexual exclusivity is how a female shows primarily
primarily that she's interested in a man. He's the only man who has sexual access to me because I can get pregnant, and this man is the only man who can do it. That's how it's done. A man, yes, I'm not saying all men can cheat. I'm not saying all men should cheat. I'm not saying that. I'm saying that if I truly love a woman...
She won't sit there and go, he shows me his love because he doesn't fuck anyone else. She'll sit there and go, he shows me his love because my bills are paid. I'm in a Bentley. I fly private. I go to Dubai anytime I want. I have a Chanel bag. And I'm not talking about just money. I'm talking about resource and a lifestyle as a whole. This is not just me. This is the world and most of the world today. If you go to Moscow and you find a big G, a rich guy, right? He has his wife. She's pushing a Bentley. She has the kids. She's living in a mansion, whatever. When he goes to the club with his boys, you think he ain't with 19-year-old strippers? Of course he fucking is. Can I ask you? But she's just like, whatever. Don't care.
I'm the one who has the money. Don't give a shit. So you have to sit there, and to a point, you have to sit and analyze the difference. When you're saying disrespect, if you're going to go through life as a woman and say, I only care about the sexual exclusivity of my man, then what you're going to end up doing is having a bunch of failed relationships and fucking loads of dudes. There has to get a point where you go, you know what? This guy ticks so many boxes. Once a year, twice a year, he's out with his boys, does some dumb shit. I'm just going to pretend I didn't notice because my bills are paid. I'm looked after. I can tell he cares about me.
He's ticked so many that's the smart female move as opposed to go. I don't care how good he is to me He fucked that bitch once so I'm gonna leave and I'm gonna get another man who I don't love who'll fuck another bitch Anyway, and then I'll get another man who I don't love will fuck the business and the cycle of dumb shit
I have a question is there ever cheating that's too far like so if a guy cheats on a girl is there ever a point where she? Yeah, there's a lot of cheating that there's completely a lot of like if he if he knocks up another girl would come with all right all right so
man of my word. I don't even think I'm a liar.
So here's your Clementine.
Thank you. And he peeled it. I'm a gentleman. Thank you. I'm a gentleman. Right. So obviously, I'm not saying blatantly disrespect your woman. Right? She's your woman. She's your queen. She's the most important thing in the world to you. She needs to be treated.
In a way that she feels that, right? But it's unfortunate because I keep tying back to this baseline point. But the reason I keep going back to this baseline point is to try and explain to everybody at home how simple the world can be if you go back to the baselines of it. Why do men cheat?
Most women don't know you'll see them all the time. Why do men cheat? Oh, because men are just stupid and why do men fuck girls? Uglier than their main chick. Why do men do all this stuff? You know why I'll tell you why let's go back to the first thing I've been saying this whole time status
"Yeah, that's my chick, she's home. "Took this one home. "Yeah, I got that one, she's chasing me." - That's the dance! - Status! Status! But it's stupid to females, I get it. But that's the male world, because sexual access is an easy indicator of status. So that's one of the reasons they do it, right? So you have to go back into the baseline of why men even cheat in the first place. I'm telling you, if you're a woman,
The smartest thing you can do is look after your man, make him not want to cheat, be perfect. But there's going to be a time across a 20-year marriage you might just need to be a little bit blind.
A little bit. Just a tiny bit. Just don't look at his phone. And you'll be cool. You'll be cool. Just make sure the bills are paid. He does his job as a man. What if you can pay your own bills, though? But this is it. We'll talk about that in a second. But I'm not saying allow this for some fucking Joe Schmo. I'm not saying let some fucking loser pick you up, lock you down, and go cheat on your nose. I'm not saying that. I'm saying if he's a G and he's doing enough of his other jobs. As for you saying what if you can pay your own bills, then what's the reality you face?
Just like I described earlier, I'm going to decide that the thing that I prioritize above everything, above his resource, above the amount he cares for me, you'll see men cheat on a woman and then cry his eyes out trying to get that woman back. He still loves you. It's not the same as if you cheated. He loves you with all his heart. He'd die for you. He'd take a bullet for you, and he'd still fuck that bitch. It doesn't matter. It's a different game for men, right? So you're sitting there going, well, I'm going to prioritize his sexual exclusivity over all of his other attributes. You're just going to end up having endless failed relationships, fucking too many dudes.
What's going to happen is your psychology is going to break. Because females don't like to accept the fact that if you sleep with enough men and you get rid of the stigma around a new dick, your instant answer is constantly new dick. Ah, he didn't text me today. Fuck it. Someone else. Ah, he was rude to me. Fuck it. I'll cheat. Ah, he was this. I'll get a new boyfriend. And then you end up just jumping on cock all day and you're fucking done. You need to. The reality is there has to come a point where you get a guy and he ticks boxes. You're like, you know what? I'm wifey. I've got the Bentley. He does whatever he does. But my bills are paid. That's it. When would you say it's too far?
are.
I'm just curious if there's a line that you would like if he spends money on another girl if he like when does it? Okay, that's a good question. Another second question. Do you think that men ever fall in love with side chicks?
Very good question. And this is a long and in-depth answer, but it's a good question. Let me peel my Clementine. But no, but it's a good question. Where is too far? I think publicly disrespecting is too far.
So like you'll notice, let's talk to Moscow G, alright? Let's take on Oli Gar, a billionaire from Moscow. He has his wife, he has the girls he's in the club with. The girls he's in the club with wouldn't fucking dare message his wife.
They wouldn't dare step out of line. They know their place, right? So if there's a hierarchy and they know their place, that's one way of doing it. Spending money on a girl, certainly, yeah, because men show love primarily through our hard work. Not just through our resource, but through our hard work. If you take a man who's not particularly rich, he shows his wife love by getting up every day.
going to work nine to five, working his ass off and paying those bills. That's how he shows love. That's why he does it for his wife and his children. Most men are out here working bullshit jobs, carrying trash. They're doing that to show love. So giving money, yeah, that would be a far more scary indicator than just sex. Let me give you all an example. I don't know if you all know my history, but I used to run a webcam business a long time ago. Don't want to talk about it, blah, blah, blah. But I had a bunch of girls who used to sit online and talk to guys and they had laptops, right? This is a long time ago. And I used to sit and say to some of the webcam girls,
This man who is sitting in and logging in every night and sending you money every day and telling you he's obsessed with you from the other side of the world and missing out on time with his family to sit here and talk to you and send you money.
That is more cheating than if he just went out and banged something. If he went out and banged something and came home, then done. But he's sitting here giving you his time, his money, his affection. That's cheating for a man, for a man to sit there and give money and time away, right? So you have to stop this idea of sexual exclusivity. Yes, that's for females. That's how females show their love to men. It's not how high status, at least, males show their love to females. And anyone who wants to disagree with me, call me wrong, call me misogynist, whatever bullshit. Look at a history book.
every night, all of them. All of them had maidens, wives, all of them. That's history. What level of G do you have to be to be allowed to cheat? It's not about even being allowed to cheat. I'm not even saying that. And it also depends on the partner you're with. I'm not trying to sit here and advocate for men to run around and fuck a bunch of women. I'm not saying that. That's what you're doing, man. No, but I'm not. No, no, no. Let him explain. Let him land. Let him land. It's about to come. Now, what's this? Let him land. No, but I'm not. I'm not. What I'm actually trying to do is describe the baseline unfortunate realities of human dynamics.
And I'm trying to explain now to the world that any woman can get a man who will not cheat on her if she's prepared to sacrifice a bunch of other things, perhaps, right? In the olden days, it was different. The world was a different place. It was a completely different place, and it was better. Now it's all fucked up. It's fucked up on every level. And men, especially the high-status men, most of them have struggled so hard to become high-status. They've been through so much shit to get where they are. It's like telling him, if you climb this mountain, you can go to a candy store.
And the second he's in the candy store, after one piece of candy, that bitch is saying, no, no more candy.
He's like, no, I just climbed this mountain. I just got rich. I just went through X, Y, Z. I finally got here. I'm finally at the candy store. Now you're telling me I can only have one piece of candy? Okay. What man's going to do with that? Do you think that men owe a woman loyalty if she was there from the beginning? Absolutely. They absolutely owe that woman loyalty. Oh, sorry, sexual loyalty. That's what I meant. Sexual exclusivity is different.
Men, sorry, I mean...
Sexual exclusivity and loyalty are completely disconnected for males. Nobody wants to talk about this, but it's the unfortunate reality is true. I'm telling you, you can get a man, he can go on a holiday,
You can fuck some stripper, you can come home and you can lie detector test him. Do you love your wife? Would you die for your wife? Would you take a bullet for your wife? He'll pass the lie detector test. He loves her with all his heart. He'd do anything for her.
It's just it's just pussy. It's okay. I feel like I guess my question would be that is like how do you view sex? Because I like sex at the end of the day is spiritual unification. I feel like I've gone through a lot of different stuff I've had a lot of different experiences where I did not value myself. So I never had a man that valued me So it's like yeah, you rack up guys and guys you shouldn't be texting back or whatever But I feel like there I understand that there is a difference with how men view sex and how they move around in the world
Sex is a sacred thing no matter male or female is doing it. So that's why for me, my biggest, the hardest for me to understand is like,
This is such a sacred thing, and it's just being—it's like taking a piss for a guy. Can I just say something? You sure about making love to somebody who was having sex?
I'm sorry? You weren't sure that you weren't making love to somebody that was just having sex? Hey, auntie. That's a nice question there. No, that's what it sounds like to me. It sounds like as women, they make love to men that are just having sex.
Right.
That's the difference. That's not the point. But my thing is, okay, not all the time. So I think when men hear that, though, it's like if it was sacred to you, you would have waited until you were married. But it's like, I get that. Right. No, I get that. But the reality is, is that the world is not so black and white. So I understand that there are these things in place that worked and made sense. And now we're approaching an era that, like, we don't know what's going to happen. But there's gray area. You've had sex. I've had sex. She's had sex. We've had sex with different guys. That doesn't mean that we're damaged goods. We're used goods.
I understand that sex is viewed differently, but I feel like
Should not if you're if you're looking at face value, I can understand why you'd be judged from your past But if I'm a guy interested in you, I don't care about what you've done
Men do though. That's the thing like
Like, I...
A virgin is more valuable to a man than a girl that's had sex with multiple men. Like, it just is what it is. There's a limit. But the modern man's solution is not a virgin. A modern man needs a partner, somebody that's actually smart and can survive in the world of today. And that's going to be a lived woman. The men with the most choice are going to pick women that are more pure in general. The ones that are already self-made, I guess so. But that's the thing. The reality is that there's a lot of men out there, especially in the world that we live in today, that need a partner.
for the role they can play in their lives. I don't think average men expect women to be virgins. Do you know what it is? Do you know what it is? But it's this rhetoric that actually then is pumped into these minds and creates what people now complain about the misogynistic world. That's what it is. Even in schools it's like permeated through it all and perpetuated. Why is it misogynistic for men to prefer women that are more pure? It's not that it's but it's not that's not the problem. The problem is now
Listen, the maths is very simple. You've got people like Andrew Tate talking about these things with such clarity and it makes so much sense because it is true.
Right? And then you have men that are in these situations where just average, working an average job, and they cannot fulfill whatever definition is called to be a man in these... Yes, they can, and that's what he said. He did say that. Yes, they can. A nine-to-five man can do it. But then again, but wait, wait. This is the thing. What we're talking about as a man, and this is why I say it's very important for us to understand the person that we're speaking to, and I'm very glad that you've clarified everything that you mean. Not every man is like Andrew Tate. Not every man is going to be able to even...
realistically demand for certain things from a woman so the same way women need to compromise if it comes to a man who is going to cheat on her because he's a top g is the same way men are going to have to compromise and stop blabbing about purity when they can't you just you didn't get none of what you you didn't get none of what i made my point that was the whole point what point well duh what because you just quoted him you just said about his thing and you didn't
It already said that. It already said that. And I reiterated in my own words for my own content for my page. And so what? Do you know what it is, right? Is that too many women, they see regular guys and they feel they're settling. You're not settling. You're not settling.
You're getting what you deserve.
But you can't be asking for a virgin, though. But the difference is men know this. Like, most average men aren't demanding. The average men never say what they're virgin. But the difference is the difference. Wait, wait, wait. The difference is average men know they don't deserve a 10. They know they don't deserve an 8. They know they don't even deserve a 7. And they still go messaging them on the stories and all this dumb stuff that is just ugly. Most men in history haven't even reproduced.
And so it's like men know, but the women are the ones that are delusional. There's regular men out there. There's regular men out there. Shooting a shot at Chris Hemsworth.
There's regular men out there that will have you down. Yeah, but can I just say, people are watching Tate not understanding that Tate is...
part of that 1% of success. And they think that they can demand the same thing. They can demand purity. One second, one second. Sorry, sorry. I understand the point you're all making, but let's understand something.
To the sexual marketplace, females have always been, and still to a degree, are the gatekeepers.
It's men will, you can think about it in a very simplistic way. This is not the case, but let's simplify it for the sake of argument.
Imagine men will run around and fuck anything.
And women are the ones who say yes or no.
You are the gatekeepers that have all the power.
And this is what's actually truly interesting about the sexual marketplace, because whenever women go, there's not enough good men, and then...
Then why you fucking, of course, why would they be good if you don't make them be good?
You're fucking losers. That's a good point. So women, so you're talking about, I'm saying that, you know, the man at a certain level can't do certain things, da, da, da.
If you were with Joe Schmo and he wasn't treating you the way you believe Joe Schmo should treat you, then why are you with him? Leave.
Like women have the gatekeeping. So if you get Joe Schmo and he treats you like you're his queen, treats you perfect, good.
If you get a fucking guy at the absolute upper echelons of value and you still aren't happy with what he's giving you, then leave. Women are the gatekeepers. You women actually have all of the power. This is what's beautiful about the whole thing. Women are constantly complaining. You have all the power. You're the ones who get to choose. Do you know who you should be mad at?
For all this shit? I'll tell you who you should be mad at. Do you know who threw away all the female power in the sexual marketplace? Promiscuous females!
Because now you got chicks who will bang anybody without trying. So why should a dude get up and try? Do you have any idea how hard it is to actually be? Let me make this clear. Go on, Seth. Do you have any idea how hard it is to actually be, no bullshit, a man? And I say this and women go, oh, yeah, dude. As soon as most women encounter any kind of problem, the first thing they do is turn to a man. Their man, their dad, the mechanic, the police, a man. If you actually put a woman in front of a problem and go, no men, they're like, oh, whoa, fuck.
Mental breakdown, men day after day, especially if you're a high level man, let me make something clear from my life. I'll talk from personal experience.
I'm not just looking after me. I'm not just looking after my chick. I'm the guy in about 300 people's phone books that they call when anything big goes wrong. You get arrested in Russia, you need extraction from Ukraine, you need a million dollars, whatever it is, Kazakhstan, abduction, they call me. I'm the first phone call. I'm fixing 400 different lives. I'm a problem solver. Chicks can't fix fucking any of this shit, right? This is how hard it is to be a man. And it's amazing because society expects it of you, but so do women.
If you had a man, be honest, you had a man and you went to your man and said, oh, I've got this problem. I can't fix this. It's broken. The car tire is broken. And he went, I don't know.
You would dry up. You'd be like, well, fuck it. What the fucking point are you? That's the truth. You could sit here and go, oh, we'd call a mechanic. No, you wouldn't. You'd look at your man and go, what do you mean you can't fix it? I'll do it myself. Waste, man. Yeah, and this is what she's saying about your man will get up and go, and you know what's beautiful about masculinity?
A bunch of times a man will go up and he doesn't have a clue how to fix it himself. But he'll go, don't worry, baby, okay. And he'll stand up with no money and no clue. And he'll go out there and fucking try and find a way because as a man you need to be useful. It is so difficult to be a man. You have no idea the amount of pressure that we're under from society and from the women we even want to associate with. On a whole, it's difficult. So you have to keep all these things in mind. It's hard. But can I ask you, you see what you just said about, yeah, the top G, that if they had money you could fly planes and fly that?
Drop it down to if you were earning, like, say, 50,000 a year. Yep. Couldn't you be that same person amongst your peers? 100% you could. That's what I'm trying to say. 100% you could. And also, you have to... Money doesn't make you a top G. No, money's an amplifier. So that's the first thing about money. Money amplifies. Men can make money. Money does not make men.
If you're a dork and you get rich, you're a rich dork. If you're a G and you get rich, you're a top G, right? So that's the first thing about money, and I agree with you. But traditionally, and this is the baseline, and once again, when I say these things, I'm not looking to be attacked for being misogynist. I'm just commenting on how I view the world and how I see things. Traditionally, a man primarily...
gives his attention to a female to get sex,
and she gives him sex back to get the attention. That's the swap, right? So if I'm a dude and I want sex from a girl, I give her attention, I talk to her, I hang out with her, I spend time with her, eventually I get the sex. That's how it works. But the higher value you are as a man, the more valuable your attention is, the more valuable your time is, the less you have to give. It's like potency, right? So I can give five minutes to a chick, and that's worth two weeks of some other dude's time. But that's the reality. So where you are on the scale is just basically how much of your time you have to give.
treat her like a queen, be respected by your peers. She can be happy with you. I'm not saying she will be any, in fact, I'll argue she'll be happier with that man than she'll be with a fucking guy like me. I'm not even out here saying I'll make chicks happy. I'm not even saying that. I'm saying that she'll get the amount of time that she's going to want from that man. The amount of attention is linked to his status. But at a true high level status of man, it's two DMs. Boom, boom. 10 seconds.
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Dot com slash pearly and protect your identity today. Remember supporting my sponsor helps support the channel. Thank you guys again. Do women prefer to be monogamous with a low value man or share a high value man? Well, look, look at society and you tell me. Ask me. Wait, so so let's ask. Let's ask the single ladies. What would you prefer? I would prefer someone who's monogamous. I left a situation where I got the Bentley. I had all that. I had the kids. I had that. That was great.
I want a companion. I want real love. And to me, what monogamy means to me is someone who's committed to themselves. That's like, the answer is within you. And to be honest, I feel like, again, like the sex has been lost in translation and what it means. I don't care man or female, it's been lost as it's so sacred. So for me, I have kind of taken those blinders off where I'm like, okay, he has to be here. I'm okay with dating the trainer in Austin, Texas. That's just
what I'm wanting, most guys in that percentage are not going to give me. So I would rather have a monogamous man than someone who can do whatever. So you think the personal trainer is going to be monogamous?
They're like known for cheating. No. Well, I mean, here's my thing. Like, I get it. Like, I don't generalize people because I'm one of the one of the most misunderstood people online as well. And I feel like there's a lot more to me. And I don't like to just put everyone in a box. I'd like to get to know people. So, no, I'm not going to just say, oh, of course he's going to cheat on me. Like, no. Okay. Okay. Would you take a guy that makes $35,000 a year and had a dad bond?
Had a dad bond. I feel like for me, I would want someone who...
Sorry, go ahead.
I pour into myself and I'm accountable for my shit. I'm aware of what I got going on. I'm not gonna have a mom bod. I'm in the gym. I had a baby a year and a half ago. I'm in the gym four to five times a week. So I would want someone who can match at least the work ethic. Now when it comes to money,
I know for me, I want to be able to, I do not want to rely on a man. I have, I have literally done that before. It didn't pan out in my favor. Okay. Cause what happens is you get the rug ripped from under you and then now you fucking get out, bitch, give me the motherfucking keys. It isn't, it isn't that. So for me, the lifestyle I want, I am responsible for. So I don't look for a man to make X amount of dollars because anything that I want, I'm going to get myself. Well, cause in my head, I feel like a guy's just as likely to cheat if he's in the top 20% of like looks.
Just as likely as mine. You know what I'm saying? Like it just doesn't seem... Let me ask a quick question just so I can clarify something because I understand your points.
You're saying you want a partner, a life partner. Are you sure? And I'm not accusing, I'm genuinely asking. Are you sure you're not confusing people
the amount of time the man spends with you with his monogamy, because there are different things. Cause what happens a lot of the time, if a man's out here chasing chicks, he's barely home. But imagine you had a man who was home seven nights a week. He was always home. I'm talking about like an hour, like during his work lunch, you don't even notice. Yeah.
Then would you even give a shit about monogamy if you had all of his time effectively? Would you really care?
I still would care because I feel like it's still just an hour a day and we're not it's not really quality time. I feel I really have been in so many different situations. Again, the trainer in Austin to the NBA player, baby daddy. Like I have seen all of that stuff. And this is my personal experience and perspective to where I want someone that sees the value in the Grand Canyon. I want somebody who I understand. OK, so that's a good point. And that's just ask the first question. I'm going to ask the second question.
you
The realization you've come to
is an interesting one. It is something that happens, especially to females as they mature. Don't you think it's strange, or why do you think that zero women on earth choose those kind of men who they perhaps have slightly lower status, but are more likely to be loyal to them and be monogamous, et cetera, in the modern world? Because like I said, the world's changed. Why do you think zero women choose them when they're at the peak of their choices? So when a woman is 19, and she can go anywhere she wants, every man wants her,
She can get flown out to Dubai when she has all the choices in the world. Why is she completely uninterested in
And those kind of men. And then once she gets to a certain age of maturity, and there's a whole new generation of girls who have all the choices.
Then they sit there and go, you know what? I deserve monogamy and data. And they all of a sudden want to grow up and mature. Why does no woman decide that when she actually is at her most valuable? I feel like for, like I said, I don't like to speak for all women. I just speak for myself. But I know for me that I was looking for a man for a lifestyle, something that I was not able to do individually by myself. So that's why it's like, well, yeah, I want to be able to do this, do that. I want to go for the football player that was just on GQ. And in reality now I realize, well, OK, there's a lot that comes with that. I can make my own money.
necessarily need that type of guy for the happiness that I'm looking for. Again, seeing without you in the Grand Canyon is a lot different than like, okay,
Here's money for this. Here's allowance for that. And that's the same thing as you asking why a man that is 20, 21, 23 is not a top G, like a 30, 40 year old man. Your age actually dictates your sort of maturity to a large extent. Well, I'm arguing the point. The point I'm trying to make is that what I actually think happens, especially...
in the modern world, because the modern world's all fucked up, and nothing's the way it's supposed to be. The traditional life path of a female is: she's 17, she's 18, she's 19, and her value is massively inflated. And I don't blame her. Of course it's massively inflated. Imagine being 19 years old, have achieved exactly fucking zero in your life, knowing nothing.
You put makeup on and sports stars, billionaires, actors, the most important famous people on the planet, the richest men on the planet are begging for your attention. The ego you're going to develop, let's all be honest, right? The ego you're going to develop is going to be monumental. I'm special. I'm so gorgeous. All this bullshit, right? And then what happens as they grow older, as new generations come along, because the truth is most women are at their peak attraction, let's say in their early 20s.
This is why you'll see a woman who's a bit older go Oh you know I really want monogamy What she's scared of is her dude getting a 21 year old That's what she's fucking scared of She may not know it, she may not say it But basically that's what the truth is Because she knows a 21 year old is going to be more desirable Higher status, more fertile That's what she's scared of Cheating is bad when you're 30 or 27 It's not about that I'm telling you the shift in the female mentality Because when a female is 20 She doesn't give a fuck about any of this She doesn't want to find a nice man Now she's trying to, like you're saying, chasing a lifestyle
Chasing Mr. Promiscuous Chasing Mr. Famous Doesn't give a shit Until she starts Getting scared Oh shit
My age begins with three now and then they change their mentality changes. It's a fear element. That's the reality. It's a biological fear element. I'll give you an example of it.
You know what's amazing about humans? We are still very primal.
When men like these two and me, when we walk through the mall, people just move. It's like you can sense when the big animals turn up, right? It's something amazing about humans. If you have a very attractive 45-year-old woman, she's gorgeous.
but a gorgeous 19 year old walks in, look at that 45 year old woman's face. She's furious. She fucking hates her. She just doesn't like her for no reason. Because women understand, unfortunately, it's unfortunately, but your innately, your age is a massive indicator in your value. In an inverse way to men, men are more valuable as we get older. Every man, every woman knows that. Every woman will sit here and go, yeah, I know a man who's older than me, of course. But if I sit the other way around, I'm misogynistic. It's just the reality of the world. So then we have to go into the other point. The point is this.
When you were at your peak value, you had zero interest in monogamy. But then you find a man who's 35 at his peak value. He's finally struggled and worked because when he was 19, no girl spoke to him. When he was 23, he was broke. When he was 24, he had no life experience. When he was 25, he couldn't fuck. When he was 26, whatever. He finally gets to the point where he's now at his peak value. He at 35 is you when you were 19. And then you're sitting there saying to him, no, you should be a monogamy. It's like, well, you fucking weren't.
You did whatever you wanted in your peak. Now I'm finally got there. And I had to work for my shit. God gave you you. God and L'Oreal gave you you. I had to fucking struggle. I had to go through hell to get on this yacht. You got on the yacht with an Instagram DM. I had to buy it.
And now you're telling me I need to fucking settle down and behave and grow up. Fuck you. It's bullshit. You're assuming that the journey is a man that starts with nothing to something because there's a lot of men. That is exactly the journey of every man on earth. We are born without value.
So there's specificity in that. Because that's not how it should be for everybody. And that's not how it is for everybody. And not for every woman either. So may I just say. Can I ask Brittany something, please?
You know, like...
Then you've learnt in the past, and now you want to find someone to settle down.
With hindsight now,
Would you have reversed it and started young looking for someone to settle down with, looking for those values that now you know? I'm talking that with hindsight.
Okay, well, I actually from 18 to 22, I was in a relationship. I've always actually been a lover girl, despite what I put out online for, you know, I've never seen you online. Yeah, that's fine. That's even better. I have always wanted one person. And I feel like I was so delusional in thinking that, oh, I'm like you said, like, I have value. I'm beautiful. I'm this I'm at my peak. Like, why wouldn't you want to be with me? So going into these relationships are just like, I'm sorry, just people.
Like I'm giving my time I'm pouring into because I want commitment and the reality is I'd never had I'd never really understood my value So I was going through guys giving up sex doing this and it didn't make sense So I believe in like I stay on everything I do like I don't I don't do apology tours It is what it is and I think that's where I feel like when it when they talk about women being delusional and all these other things It is true because what you have to understand is that there are repercussions to your decisions, which is fine
about maybe monogamy, that's three to five percent of animals are monogamous, I think that's what it is. Right? So,
Your window is really, really small for what you're looking for. And even to go on to the point you said, where you were talking about it's like a subconscious fear.
I think it's like for me, I feel like if it was more of a fear, I would have just stayed in my situation like it wouldn't have made sense Like I mean, that was my first kid. I thought I waited and did it right. I left because I
I believe that there's something else on my heart when it comes to love, and I'm just going to have to trust that. And if that means being alone, having a dog, I have to take that chance, because the Bentley, the ring, the house, and still getting—again, I'm going to have to trust that.
Deceived right disrespected because deceit is disrespect right so I
I just, I cannot settle for that. I can't suck a dick and shut up. And that is where...
A lot of people don't like my views and what I represent because it is something new. I don't know how it's going to fucking end. I don't know what's going to happen. So what would you tell your 17 if you had to like...
What would you tell your 17-year-old self?
Knowing what you know now. Looking back and you had to meet yourself at 17, what would you tell yourself? Like, lock it down and wait for the right man. Don't have sex. What would you tell your 17-year-old self?
Mmm.
That the answers aren't outside of you, because I feel like I'd always look for men to answer all of my questions that I've ever had. I thought when I had a man, it would complete me. And I feel like, too, especially with my dad not being in my life, you look for somebody to guide me. So that's where, for me, I put too much value in myself.
someone else having the answers for me. So that's why I'm really big on accountability. So I would just tell myself like to be patient, to take your time. Cause I was always quick. Oh, let's try to get in a relationship. Like we weren't even compatible. There's a lot of just not compatible factors. So I feel like for me, it would be to slow down and to really get to know people instead of just blindly banking on potential that most likely will never be tapped into or selling myself short because there's a fear of, well, I don't know, this could be the best that I could get.
And that's what I meant about women nowadays, because exactly what you'd be telling your 17-year-old self is what happened back in the day. So when I'm repeating these things, I'm going, oh, you're old-fashioned, but it seems like...
Women do what they like.
And then they hit a certain age and say, oh, well, I've got to settle.
But it's not settling. You're just getting whatever you can. You know. Or whatever you deserve. You know what, auntie. Because if you think back now, you'd be telling people now, rather than say that auntie's old-fashioned, or auntie don't know what she's talking about, look what she'd be telling her 17-year-old self, which ain't nothing that I already said.
Yeah, that's fine. Because really and truly, let me finish, let me finish, because what I've always said, and you can check,
I'm an older version of you.
So where you've been...
I've really been on a comeback.
So that's why I asked you, what would you tell your 17-year-old self? Because me telling you is...
I'm telling my 30-year-old self.
Do you understand where I'm coming from? So it's not that I'm old-fashioned, it's just that...
Women hit a certain age and then realise, oh my God, it wasn't that old-fashioned.
You know, it works because it does. But there's no point in waiting until you're...
A certain age, I start thinking about it.
You know, even if you hold your own accountability. So it's like if you meet somebody and they were like 17, 18, and you saw the match in a certain way, they asked you for advice. You wouldn't say do as I do. You say, listen, this is what happened to me. And this is what I thought. And what I recommend you do is blah, blah, blah.
Am I right or am I wrong? If they ask you for your advice. No, I totally get what you're saying. I totally agree with that. I think that no matter what you decide to do, you have to accept whatever repercussions come behind that. So any advice that I give to anybody is do what you want, but just know there are repercussions, good, bad, or indifferent, that are going to come behind it. So...
I mean, and I think that's just where I'm at. I don't even think it's like an age thing. I think it's like,
In reality, I have a son. And you really start asking yourself questions. And again, I hate that it took having a child to...
to really look into my life and call myself out on my bullshit. So if you got pregnant earlier, if you got pregnant at 18, 19, would it...
I was always on birth control. I was on birth control for a decade. I got off birth control because the person I was with wanted to have a baby. So, again, I thought I did it right. Clearly not because I wasn't married. But it still didn't work out because it just wasn't my guy. So that's where I just think, like, even if I still would have taken it slow, there just were a lot of people that just were genuinely not my person. And that's okay. Okay.
Hmm. I would just speaking of speaking of marriage. I wanted to know, do you think we're in a post marriage society?
Because on one hand, we hear that women should wait till they're married to have sex. But at the same time, we also hear from the men that they don't want to get married anymore.
So what do we do with that? Seems like it's true because nowadays a lot of people are looking at marriage as a contract.
rather than a partnership. And there's a huge difference between that because with a contract, there are so many terms and many headaches and this and that. It is a contract. But that's because that is what it is now, because realistically, the traditional sense of marriage is not a contract, really, in terms of the law. Once the law is involved, that's when everything went tits up.
- I think. - Yeah, so the problem is,
Is that there's zero advantage to marriage in the Western world for a man. There is zero statistical advantage. If you use your mind, if you use your head instead of your heart, and you look at the advantages to getting married, there are absolutely not really none.
Because this new idea of new age feminism just basically destroys all men in the idea, in the event of her leaving.
And it's very common that women leave, right? Let's stop the man versus woman attack, et cetera, et cetera. Life's difficult for everybody. We all have different challenges, different things to go through.
But if a woman marries a man and it goes wrong, she has emotional heartbreak. Fine.
But if a man marries a woman and it goes wrong, he has emotional heartbreak. Plus, everything he has ever worked for is ripped out from underneath him. And he has to give that chick money forever. In some places, you don't even have to be married. Exactly. That's why the men don't want to live with the women either. That's right. So when you make these rules and these laws, right, under the guise of feminism and equality, all this garbage...
All you're doing is scaring men away from commitment. And then you have to add in the other hidden element. And the other hidden element is what I said earlier is whose fault a lot of this is is promiscuous women, right? So in society is broken down. If women...
We're saying if all women got together and said we'll only have sex after marriage, guess what men would do?
get married, but you don't. Right. So now you're in Miami. I go to Miami. I can fuck anything in the club. I don't have to marry any of them. If I marry them, I get wrecked. So like, let's all use our brains here. What am I going to do? Well, I'm going to be like, well, no bounce. See, no, no. So men have been scared away from the idea of marriage. And that's a law that is the fault of this new bullshit law and this new feminism and this new crap. They don't give men any tactical
In his own house You know in England You will get accused Of emotional abuse I can marry a woman
not lay a hand on her. I can just raise my voice to her. That's emotional abuse. I can raise my voice to her because she's going out drinking with dudes. She can go out drinking six nights a week with men, and I can say, what the fuck? You're my wife. Sit down. She can call the cops, call me emotionally abusive. I get arrested now. Now there's a court case against me. I have to go to court and defend myself. She'll divorce me, take my house. I have to sell my car because she's drinking vodka with fucking God knows who. But you notice that earlier on. It's insanity.
think of child support. And that's another interesting thing because a lot of these arguments,
It's, it's, it, it goes beyond man and woman and it goes into the larger sphere as a whole, right? Because we talked earlier about war and how a lot of men used to die and that doesn't happen anymore. So what you used to have in societies, and I'm not saying I have all the answers. I'm just commenting, right? What you used to have in societies is a bunch of men would die at war because men have more dangerous lives than women. There'd be a bunch more women than men. The top G's would impregnate a bunch of women and the top G's could take care of the women and that'd be et cetera, et cetera. That's now changed, right?
is pushed is because it's good for society. And it is good for society. It's good for society as a whole to have a man, a woman, a family together, the man provides for the woman, et cetera. The government doesn't want to pay for all these kids. If you don't have child support, who's paying for these kids? The government does it. It breaks down, right? So that's why child support is enforced in many parts of the world. In certain other parts of the world, child support isn't enforced because they have religious beliefs or genuine family beliefs that keep the families together. But in the Western world, now you need child support because you've broken
chicks. Chicks don't want to listen to the man. The man can't even be the man in his own household. He can't even feel respected where he goes. His woman gives him no status, and now he doesn't want to fucking deal with her anymore. So how do you get that kid paid for? Well, then tell the man, or you go to jail. And you just come along with a fucking long arm of the law, and you fuck him. And so, yeah, it's difficult. It's hard to answer. Yeah, but it's hard to answer. The true answer to all of it is an idealistic answer. I don't like to think idealistically and talk idealistically, but it's the truth. The true answer to it is to instill
care of his woman regardless because that's his child. But you will do that. I'll tell you how you do that. You do that by inspiring out of the man by being a very good woman. So I'll give you an example. If I had a child with a woman and she was always a great woman to me. She never cheated on me. She was a good woman to me. And I was running around being whatever. And she's like, look, I just can't put up with you anymore. You're top G. You're going to do what you're going to do. I'm going to look after your kid. You can see him anytime you want. I care about you. Please don't leave me in poverty. I'd say, cool.
100% I'm not fucking dickhead. Cool, I got you. That's a real man though because I was in a situation just yeah But I was just in a situation like that to where it's like hearts don't break even and that's the reality too It's like if those morals and principles are not instilled in a man none of that shit matter so obviously the child support stuff obviously hits close home to me because I
I'm already 50,000. It's just in lawyer fees trying to get him to provide. You know what I mean? And it sucks because it's like you playing the NBA. Like, why couldn't you? Why don't you want to do more? And it's just because, again, of the relationship. It's personal. It's not about our son. That's right. So it's like, yeah, if you're not. I just feel like it's like, why do you get money for making a poor choice? Well, it wasn't a poor choice because it took two. I'm not trying to, like, disrespect you in any way. It's just like, you left.
It just doesn't make sense. Right, because we made a commitment. So we made a, at the end of the day, we made a commitment. We have a forever commitment. Fuck marriage. We are forever family. So again, as someone who is literally going through this, if I made more money than him, I would be paying him child support. And that would be fair to me. But this is what's really interesting. What's truly interesting is if you go to other countries, and I'm talking about civilized countries, right? If you go to Poland or Czech Republic or whatever, these countries, which are in many metrics more civilized than the West, they're safer to live in, they're cleaner, et cetera.
There's no child support laws. So if you have a divorce, the man just takes care of the woman because that's his kid and that's just what he's supposed to do and that's just it. So what you're saying is,
And you're right about the man having the morality instilled inside of them. And my point is that the reason a lot of this doesn't exist, the reason men don't have morality installed in them is not just about the individual case of the man. It's about society as a whole. It's about women as a whole, men as a whole, the dating game as a whole, the life he's living as a whole. And this is the world we live in. This is why I was talking about how dangerous New Think is because now we have this New Think, this new world, and we're living in this new world. And the truth is...
As a man, now the game has changed. In the game of chess, sometimes it's not about winning. It's about making sure you don't lose. If you can not lose, if you can not blunder any pieces and protect your king long enough, you'll win the game. And there's a lot of men who are now like, okay, how do I not lose? Well, you know what? I've become fucking ruthless.
That's how I don't lose. I get all my sex because the women are promiscuous. I get laid as much as I want. I don't let anyone fucking tie me into anything dumb. Any bitch wants to get fresh to me or fucking talk to another dude. I cut her off financially. And you just get ruthless so you don't lose the game. But that's because the game's been rigged against men. So the harder you rig the game against us, the more ruthless we're going to have to be to compete. And it's unfortunate. I'm not saying I have the answers. I'm just saying why men do what they do. Can I just say, with regards to Britney, I just think that with regards to child support, you've got a kid, you look after it.
And I do. No, not you, the men. Oh, I was like, I do look after my son. No, not you. I was like, hold on. That's why I said, no, that's why I said with regards to the child support. That's what I first said. I think that you have a kid that you should look after it. I don't agree that, I don't agree with men giving the women money.
But I think it's disgusting that a man can have a child and not support it. So do I. But this is another thing. So this is the comments we have to make, right? Because we don't have all the answers. We have to make the comments on it. This goes into the deeper point. Every time a court rules in favor of a chick having $100,000 a month,
That puts men off to a level like it's fine if there was a baseline child support thousand dollars a month two thousand dollars a month. That's if you have a kid baseline regardless of income if your man wants to give you more he does it he doesn't whatever whatever. When you come along start saying this percent of a man's income do you have any idea how scary that is to a man who works for his money.
He works for his money. And you know why it's scary? It's not just because he's giving his money away. It's because he knows he isn't giving money to the kid. Yeah, the kid. You can raise a kid on 500 bucks a month in most of the world. You want that kid in Gucci, you in Gucci, you in a nice car going on dates with another dude with my money. You can I'd rather burn the fucking house down than give it to you. They should make vouchers. I just think it incentivizes poor decisions. Like I haven't gotten pregnant by someone.
someone who's done that? Like, why did they get paid more for it? I'm literally telling you that if I made more money than him, I would have no problem paying for my child. And child support laws vary in different states. So in North Carolina, for instance, if you make over combined over $300,000 a year, then you are considered off the grid. So then you have to prove this is how much my, your rent is. Any bill that my son occupies, I get a percent that I get a percentage of. So on the low end, it would be 50%. If there's a big enough salary gap, it could be up to 97%.
the judge gets to decide what makes the most sense. So if my child's father makes $20 million a year from basketball, he gets to decide if $6,000 is a lot, if $8,000 or $10,000, whatever. But you have to prove that. So it's not like you just, it's enough money for a Chanel bag. Like these are, my son watches Peppa Pig, that's a cable bill. You know what I mean? So it's a percentage of everything. So you're not like just living it up. You're just living. So you're able to, there's a roof over your son's head. My whole point is that like, it's all down to choices.
too because I can't get pregnant unless he nuts in me. I understand that. Then there's nothing to argue if you understand that. You're the one that's in control of who gets born. Abortion's legal.
As soon as he nuts his answer, it's completely out of his control. Listen. Can I just say something, though? Wait, auntie. Just playing devil's advocate that I had my child and me and the dad went together. And I didn't take a penny from him. And the government wanted me to, but I decided that no. It was better off that. My child, I look after him myself. Anything he wants to give his son, if he wanted to, is extra. But I worked hard and I've done it all on my own. So why did you do that? Because it's this headache. It's this headache. It's my child. I know a lot of women that went that route. It's my child.
- It's unfair though that you have to think that he's not going to be a man and take care of his child. Don't you think that's unfair on you?
No, because he's my child and he's happy. And I'm going to give him what he wants. But that's the child as well. He made that child. I don't need a man that's the truth, you know. But the whole point is you choose who you sleep with. Listen, right. As far as I'm happy. He chooses as well. That's the thing. Yeah, this is too the tango. What are we talking about? I'm saying right now it's not fair because women have abortion. That's legal. It's not legal for them. They get no saying. They get no saying. And the same thing with birth control. I mean, I could have done. I could have done. But it wasn't worth my time. Why am I going to go and fight a man? You can get an IUD. It's like 99.5%. What if the man wanted the child, though?
That's exactly my point. So I was on birth. Let's just give me an example. My whole point, my point, I think he should. I think he should take care of it. I just don't agree with having legal incentives for women to leave. That's my point. He should give you money for the kid. If you have a kid, you should. But I just don't agree with. See, but the thing is, if men stood up and became fathers to their children, women wouldn't have to. But if women, if women, if women, but men aren't, they're not stepping up. We're in control of who we sleep with.
But you pick who you sleep with. So if you pick a guy that's getting girls pregnant left and right. But she doesn't know that he's not going to be there. She doesn't know that. If she married him, she'd be all right. She trusted this man to be a father to a child. And now she's left with a child and no one's going to support her. Don't you think that's unfair? She should have married him first. I mean, you can get married. Of course. You can get married. That's what I'm saying. You think marriage is what solves problems? Are you guys actually sitting here? No, I'm trying to say marriage will solve financial problems. You've already spoken, auntie. Please don't cut me off.
a problem yeah stop acting like every woman that leaves a marriage and gets divorced is because she's this and she's that there's a lot of women that suffer and they actually need the support and the legal incentive so that they know when they leave somebody can back them up because they'll be on their own stop acting like men are angels because there's a lot of men that are dealing with a lot of the traumas that they have from a man's world being difficult the same way that andrew tate explained a man's world is highly competitive men are out there suffering it is hard to be a man and a lot of the time the person takes the brunt of it is the woman so yes she's well
right to leave, take her child, and be in a better place, and the government should step in to make sure that that man that made her make that decision steps in for their kid. Can I say something? Wait, the time that she takes to take care of the child is the time that she doesn't have to go to work. So she's already done on income, and she's having to be taking care of the child on her own. That don't make sense. Not every man is a bloody angel, and not every woman is a devil. Hang on a minute. Hang on a minute. How do you do that, bro? How do you do that? How do you pick the right man?
I'm talking. I waited. I waited. Yes, you did. I waited. Right? So now it's my time to talk. Talk to me. What I was saying to her is, right, is that if she got married first,
then she would have been alright. She would have to be fighting for the court. So the same law that you're saying would have supported her and her child. That is the difference between getting married first. And that's what I'm saying. And that's what when Pell was saying that. Getting married just gives you more money. It's not a divorce. I'm kid. It's not a good decision, yeah? Excuse me, but I shut up when you were talking. Go on, apologies, my auntie. Right. They meant to disrespect you. So what I was trying to say is that there is an incentive when women get married first and have children. Because I'm not saying that. I'm not saying that you.
women in general. If a woman gets married first before she has a child and then it leaves, then it's totally different. Like he said before, she's up for life.
If she leaves. She's up for life. So if somebody else... She's up for life without marriage, though. That's the point. No, and that is... You want to hear. No, and as a person, again, let's ask somebody who's actually going through it, because none of you fucking know what the fuck you're talking about when it comes to child support. Lawyers, none of that shit. None of you fucking know, okay? So you don't.
The reality is, if I would have gotten married and did everything right and did everything the moral way, right? Guess what? All I would have a dish on top of what I'm going through with child support is alimony. So I'm still in the courts fighting, whether I'm married or whether I'm not. So I get what you're saying, because, hey, you at least get the commitment to maybe back up that he's going to be there. But it doesn't ensure anything. Everybody wants a fucking guaranteed thing. There's no guaranteed in life. We're talking different places.
You still got to fight for your money.
Yes, you have to get a lawyer. Not in England. In England, you get a lawyer and it's sorted.
That's the difference. You wouldn't have to be going there saying, oh, I need this for my child and I need this. Once you get divorced and you go to court, it's that much. I'm saying she just spent 50,000 pounds. She's still fighting. You have to pay that here. You would not have to pay that here.
Do your research. You would not have to pay that here. When you get divorced, she wouldn't be going for all the battle that she's going. It'd be simpler in England to get divorced than in America. That's what I'm saying.
Take your money, don't get married, have a parental partnership, love your woman, pay whatever you pay for your kids. I just want to make a point. You know what you were saying, get married? Even Tate said it himself. Men don't want to get married anymore. Why are you not turning what he's saying? Why are you not twisting what he's saying? You're not even listening to what he's saying. It's not attractive anymore. It's more at loss for a man to get married. You're taking what he's saying and you're twisting it to suit yourself. No, I'm not. He literally said it. Tate, didn't you say that men are scared of getting married now? Okay, but why?
Because like you said, with child support,
They feel like there's no advantage. And the alimony is alimony. You say just get married. It's not that simple because men don't want to marry you. Okay, so let's analyze that point. And first, back to the child support thing, what's actually interesting to talk about is...
There's a lot of countries in the world where there is no child support system.
And it functions, right? So you have to, if you want to pay attention to actually, you know, learn about society as a whole, it's very interesting to study all the different things
societies and economies in which there is no child support, and children don't die. I mean, people get divorced and they still find a way to function. And it's interesting, it's a very long conversation because it extrapolates about how the whole society works as a whole.
That's the first point. Second thing, I'll actually sit here and argue.
The point that I don't think any man really ever wants to get married. I think that women convince them to get married. And I think that any woman who is genuinely serious about convincing her man to get married could do it.
I don't think in the modern world, at least men wake up and go, can't wait to get married. But what they do is they get a chick who's so good.
And ticks so many boxes. And makes them so happy. And she'll sit there and say, you know what? It would mean the world to me. Please. And he'll go, oh, for fuck's sake. All right, then. And that's what happens. So I still think you can convince 99.9% of men to marry you.
The point I was making is...
The society, society isn't convincing the man to marry you. It's not like it used to be where the man believed he had to be married. Society's done the opposite. So it's your job as a woman to make it clear to him that it is worthwhile. Once again,
How would you convince a man it's worthwhile for him to say that's my wife?
Status.
That's how you do it. This is a misunderstood hack to men as a whole.
It's status. If you can say, if you can convince that man, but by marrying you, his status will increase amongst his peers. He's going to do it. And for anyone out here who disagrees with me, the things men do for status, let's actually analyze how baseline men are. What is status? Status is respect, right? Men kill over respect.
Men, gangs kill each other over respect. A man will smash another man's face in for insulting him. We will die for respect and status. You're talking about we won't get married? We'll die for, we'll go to the front line of a war and the only reason we don't walk away and abandon our post as artillery shells reign is because we're afraid of being mocked for being a coward.
We'll die for status. So status is what it's all about. It's what it's always been about. If you want a man to marry you, status. And it's the same thing with nearly anything you want to do.
With a man. I don't know
Anything about your personal life, I'll be honest, I don't know, right?
But I'll tell you this now. If this dude, this NBA player, believed that he would be higher respected amongst his peers and amongst society for taking care of you properly, that's what he'd fucking do. He doesn't feel that because either he's rolling with the wrong people or you've pissed him off in a way or something public's happened. I don't have a clue. But something's happened where he feels like if I take care of her, I'll look like a bitch.
That's what he's scared of. If it was inversed, he had no problem giving you money because that's how men function. I'm telling you right now, as a man, I'm telling you what I would do if I had a chick with a woman, right?
And she went on the news, top Jesus, and fucking... Like I said, I have no idea what you've done, but I was giving my personal made-up scenario. Oh, yeah. She would have gone on the news, top Jesus, and he fucking lied to me. He's a piece of shit, da-da-da.
And then I bought her a Bentley. Well, it was like, well, look, she insults top GD. She insults him. And he's fucking, he's a simp. But if she was like, you know what? He's misunderstood. He's a good guy. It just didn't work out. She'd be in a mansion. Right. And would that be me being a nice guy, caring about her? Or let's be honest. Would it be me being a selfish piece of shit dude and say, what makes me look better?
Men are all about status. It's how we function. It's how we function as a whole. So society, this is where extrapolates. It gets interesting. When society with this new think has destroyed all of the baseline humanities and baseline understandings of how men interact with women.
And now all the things we previously understood about what made a good man, what made a good woman and how we should act together and how we should interact has been erased.
Of course men are acting like dickheads, and of course women are doing wrong things, so nothing makes sense anymore. You've taken the chessboard and moved all the fucking pieces around. Nobody gets it. It should be very simple. I'm a man. I work hard. I take care of my woman. I'm the man of the house. She treats me with respect. She would never insult me or raise her voice to me in front of other people. She has a problem. She brings it to me in private. We act as a team. We work together. If we break up, she was a good woman to me. She fulfilled her roles the best she possibly could. I'm still a man. I'm going to take care of her.
gone.
All of it's gone. All of it. And it's gone because of all the ideas we were discussing earlier. The feminism, the new age bullshit, the fucking dudes left and right and center, all these things...
All these baseline things have eroded society to the point where now you have men ignoring their paternal instinct. You have men who will sit there and go, that's my child.
But fuck her.
That is, that's actually a massive observation to make about how fucked up society is. And it shouldn't be that way because men in a lot of the world are not like that.
So you have to look at all these small things, the small things we talk about. It's no big deal. She goes on boats in Miami. It's no big deal. It is a big deal because now that dude ain't going to want to fucking pay child support because you were on those fucking boats with his fucking the other team. And the thing is that. Do you think that men. That was well said Sagittarius. Thank you very much. Do you think that men marry for like high status families? Like I'm thinking of like Ivanka Trump. Like would someone marry a girl for like status in that way?
if you look at arranged marriages, it's off a status, right? That's an example. But men, men primarily marry for, I'd argue that men, and I say this about men, but women do the same thing, right? Women love the idea of getting status from a man. Women love the idea. And this is where it actually gets a bit messy. The waters get muddy because women love the idea of bragging about the man they're with, but they can only brag about the man they're with. If other women want that man. So you're saying you love women who get cheated and women love getting cheated on. That's not true. But women do not like men that other women don't want.
If you were to say, look, I've got my man, he's perfect, he's rich, he did it, and every girl in the room would go, I would never touch him. She'd be like, oh, shit. Well, I don't want him either, then. What the fuck is this? But you know, can I, on top of that? But it's true, right? Women want men that all the women want. Do you know what's the best man that a woman wants? It's the one that every girl wants, but he doesn't want them. A selective man. I'm sure that's more valuable than the top. But that's the fantasy. That's the fantasy. I just take, you're saying that men are now polygamous and women should accept that. That's the problem.
Disrespecting their woman like yeah, you know what you're what you can't be with one woman now you want to keep cheating with all these different That's not what he said. He's saying if you're gonna go if you're gonna go for a high status guy if you're gonna go for the top 5% of guys, that's what comes with it and if you're not then go for the average guy can I just say that that? Okay for average guys to stick with one woman then it's not about okay. It's okay for anyone to do whatever they want I'm not sitting here saying what's okay. What isn't okay? What I am talking about is
realities of how humans function. What I'm telling is if you give a man unlimited options, like the men at the top of society have, on a long enough time scale he will explore said options. That is a fact. Like I said earlier, you can walk into a car garage and buy a Nissan,
and that's reliable, and it'll never let you down. Or you can buy a McLaren. You cannot sit, like women do, and go, I want the McLaren that's reliable like the Nissan. Well, guess fucking what? That's not real. So you have to choose. Can I ask you something, Mr. Tate? Can I ask you something? Years ago, right, do you...
Do you think it makes a difference? Because years ago, if you went to meet a man...
You go out there and you actually talk. But now you meet a guy, he can go and check out your ID and see what you're all about. Don't you think that by them being able to look and see what you're all about, that makes a difference to how they perceive you? 100%. I think society is fundamentally and utterly broken.
I think the way that men and women interact is broken. I think that men are broken. I think that women are broken. I think everything is completely fucked, genuinely. And this is where we go into the small things. We're talking about status. You're right about IG. If I go on a date with a girl and I look at her Instagram page,
I'm sitting there thinking, does this make me look good or bad? Yes, I want her to be hot. Yes, I want her to have followers. Yes, I want everyone chasing her. But what's that caption about, about fucking city life? What's this about? What's that? That's not, that's not, nah. That puts me off, right? So it's interesting. What's also interesting is the majority of women don't have a clue in the modern world what men find attractive. So we said earlier in the very beginning of this podcast about men who want their dick sucked and all this bullshit. Men don't, that's not attractive to men. We don't want any of that.
They wouldn't have a scooby -doo. They wouldn't have an idea. I know. They want a submissive woman. Hello, my man. She kicks for him. Give him some massage. Feed him great. It's not just about that.
It's not just about that. One of the important things for being a man, especially in a relationship, is we want to be our woman. If I have a woman and I love her, I want to be her portal to the world. I want her to experience things through me and see things through me.
and some purity for her. I want to be the first person to put her on a private jet. I want her to get on the jet and go, wow. I did it. Oh, you took me. It's like giving, you wouldn't want to give someone a Christmas present if they'd had 10 presents better than you beforehand, would you? It's like, well, duh. So as a man, so as a woman,
What makes you attractive to a man to a degree is your innocence and your purity. This is very important. And it can go down to very basic, simple things. I'll tell you, if I walk in a club, do you know who the hottest girl in the club is?
It's the girl who isn't dancing
Isn't twerking on a fucking dead stage. Not surrounded by dudes. Girls want, when girls want male attention in a club, they start drinking, twerking. That is the most revolting Haram bullshit. I may want to fuck you, but I don't want to be with you. If you show me a girl sitting in the corner,
Shy.
I'm like, good, she hasn't experienced too much life. I can show her things. And also, not just show her things. This is a very important point that I get attacked by the matrix for because they completely misunderstand me on purpose. As a man, if I'm out here struggling and leading and trying to lead my household, I also want a woman who shares my values. I want to a degree to educate my woman and show her things and for her to agree with me. Like you said earlier, looking for a male role model. You want to be a role model to your woman. If she's too experienced with life,
It's difficult to be a role model. If she's sitting there shy and quiet, you can come along and say, no, you know what?
Don't take the fucking vaccine. Listen to me. And you can be a role model for her. You can't do that for a woman who knows too fucking much, knows too many dudes, been too many places. So it's this degree of purity that we're looking for that's super important. I'm curious.
You said if she's done too many things, that's bad, right? Yes, correct. So I'm not even talking sexually, been on a private jet. I'm curious because I live to— But how do you get on a private jet without sucking dick? I was just curious because my dad's part of—he's top 1% in terms of income.
And I was just curious, is it different if you did stuff with your dad?
Well, no, that's fine. No, not like that. That's sexual. She said private sex. I know exactly what you're saying. But my point is that we're looking for a true degree of innocence inside of females. And it's that innocence is going to make us feel protective over them. And that the protectiveness is going to make us be good men. So when we're looking at society as a whole and how broken it is, I understand that. Men have a massive role to play. Women have a massive role to play.
the instinctual behavior of man is to die for his woman.
Like someone comes to try and take her, pull a sword, die to defend her. Right. If you're if you're going through life and you find that men don't really feel about you that way, that's because a lot of their instinct is being eroded by the fact that you like you said, they look through your I.G. or they look through your life and you've lived so much life and they just feel like there's nothing new I can bring to this girl's reality. But I don't feel like that's true, though, because, like, I think it's like I get what you're saying to a degree. Right. But it's like.
You could be on a private jet 10 times, but it's going to be special because it's with you. Not for him it isn't. Not for him. For him it's special because it's your first time. Because men, maybe it's a biological predisposition. Maybe it's just the way we're designed. But...
Let's tie it back to sex. Virginity, first time. It's not that you've done it. It's that you've done it the first time with me. That's what is important. It's experience as a whole that men find. It's just the truth. Call me misogynistic, cancel me, whatever. I'm telling the truth I always have done. It's experience of life as a whole that men, to a degree, find off-putting. We don't want a woman who's had a bunch of trauma, had a bunch of experiences, done a bunch of shit, knows a bunch of people, been a bunch of places.
We want the complete polar opposite of that. And what's funny is women want men who have done those things. I'll tell you right now.
Go out there and find a virgin woman and say, do you want to have your first boyfriend? Do you want to lose your virginity to a virgin man or a man who's had a couple girls? She'll choose a dude with experience as a virgin herself. Experience is always coveted and respected in men. It's the opposite in women. That's true. It's true. So we have to look at how fucked up the world is. Women, especially between their 18 and 28 or 18 and 25, let's say, are living these crazy lifestyles, these crazy lives with the most important people, richest people on the planet,
that can be experienced under the sun. And then at 2930, some dudes expected to come along, know he's second place to X, Y, Z, and be happy with that.
And not allow it to hurt his ego and sit there and pick it up and put a fucking brave face on. It kills him every day inside. That's the reality. He's in love with you. And you've been fucking where with fucking who? I can't afford a jet. I'm Joe Schmo. That fucking breaks their hearts. Do you think that hoes can never be turned into housewives? Okay, I'll answer that question. And the answer is actually, truthfully, yes.
which I know a lot of people are confused by, they can.
If you're a good enough, high enough level man, you absolutely can turn a hoe into a housewife. But why the fuck would you? Because you don't have to. A man like me, I could. But I don't have – I'm not low on options, so I would never decide to do that. If you're a billionaire, could you – you can find an old rusty car and rebuild it or you can just buy a new one. So it's not about what could be done. It's about what will be done. So once women hit a certain status of man, I don't think women are stupid. I actually argue the fact that women have a beautiful intuition.
truly almost psychic.
The number of girls, number of times I've come home and she's like, you were cheating. And I was like, how the fuck did she know how the fuck you're cheating? You have intuition and it's real. You guys are smart, right?
And if they get to a certain echelon of man, they're not going to go anywhere because there's nowhere else to go. They're going to get to a guy eventually. They're going to stop at the buck and go, you know what? Where am I going to surpass this specimen? So I'm just going to behave for him. So you could turn a hoe into a housewife that way. But why would a man at that level want to do that? Why do some guys at certain – and this is obviously a celebrity example. But I'm sure we can all think of examples in day-to-day life where a guy with a lot of options does pick a hoe. And wife or, for example, Kim and Kanye.
But cuz it kind of clearly has options. She did not want to be a housewife. No, I'm just okay. I understand I'm just asking because some guys do pick and
Yeah, they do. And it's a really good point. And I have nothing bad to say about Kanye. In fact, I think a lot of the work he's doing now in terms of attacking the Matrix is important, but I can give you a generalized answer. But it's a man who is not true to his masculine imperative, which is going to fall for the propaganda machine, which is being purported upon him, who's going to believe that.
All the crap.
that is being told by society, like a female's past doesn't matter, and all this shit doesn't matter. This is what's interesting in the fight against the Matrix, because people always say to me, Andrew, why do you come here and say all these things? They're literally trying to destroy your life for what you say. And the truth is, as a man, you have two choices. You either fight against the programming and the brainwashing they're trying to put inside of all of our minds, or you end up fighting against yourself. If you're a man and you sit down and you believe the garbage that society is telling you about how society functions between men and women, you're going to end up getting fucking wrecked, like these dudes do.
doesn't mean she'll do it again. Just because, and they sit there like dummies and they get fucking wrecked, right? You have to sit there as a man and go, no, I don't give a shit what society's telling me. I understand something, baseline about humanity, right? And that's why they make these poor choices. And a lot of men do make these poor choices, but it's only in the West.
It's only in the West where this propaganda machine exists. You will not find a Russian billionaire doing this dumb shit. You will not find a Chinese billionaire doing this dumb shit. You do not go to Saudi and find a sheikh doing this dumb shit. None of it. You only find it in the West. Do you think the values of the West are spreading? What values? Name a value of the West. Sorry, sorry, sorry. Name a value. Sorry, I might have misspoke. Ideas. I mean, like, the ideas of the West. Like, I've heard, I've just gotten, like, I get messages from people, like, from all over.
there. Like, I've heard that. Do you not find that to be true?
So, firstly, the West has no value. The only thing the West seems to defend fervently is LGBT. I'm not saying anything bad about it. I'm not. I'm just saying it's the only thing that they'll stand up and fight for. I don't know why. It's weird. Like, they don't care about anything else. They don't care about children going without child support. They don't care about people dying in wars. They don't care about our parents being in parenting homes. They don't care about crime. They don't care about no one being able to pay their energy bills. They don't care about nothing.
They give a shit for some reason about this one thing and they'll fucking throw the flag all around the world. Which is again surrounded around sex. That's all they care about. It's fucking strange. That's the first thing about the values of the West. Second thing, the harder society and the harder the life is as a whole,
the longer it's gonna take for feminism to spread. Feminism only exists in a vacuum of an easy life. If you're living in a society like India, where life is hard, feminism disappears, because the harder life is, the closer people naturally revert to their gender roles. If you got a bunch of 10 men, 10 women, stranded them on a desert island, and they had to survive,
Very quickly, the men would do men's shit and the women would do women's shit. There'd be very little talk about feminism and equality. And all this shit would fucking vanish when shit hits the fan, right? So in countries where life is harder, feminism can't take hold because feminism can only exist in a vacuum of a very privileged life. I'm sure there's some kid in India who didn't get laid off some chick and he's complaining she's a feminist. There's a bunch of dumb shit, right? But I think the world is going to get a lot harder. I think the world is cyclical. I think it's been easy for a while. I think hard times are coming.
And when hard times come, people are going to naturally revert to what gives them the highest chance of survival, which is gender roles. Right. I have the best chance of survival being a man and a woman has the best chance of survival being my woman. That's how she's going to function. Do you think women typically are happier as housewives rather than a career? Well, depends on the career. No, depends on the man. The answer is absolutely not really yes, because giving life is the most beautiful thing a female can do. That's what you've evolved to do. That's the thing that men cannot do.
having children and do their best to be good mothers in the end are the happiest females on the planet. Being a mother and being a housewife is kind of different though. Okay no but it's it's essentially the same thing if you're a housewife long enough I'm going to assume you're going to end up having children and I think that the sooner a woman has children the better if she can find a good man and have a child that's a fantastic thing I think it's a beautiful thing and I don't see the point in a woman slaving away for a corporation that doesn't care about her as opposed to slaving away for her own flesh and blood I think that's a complete waste of a life I think if men are already doing that why would you want to go along and do that as well. Because the career is not just
a corporation. A career can involve a million different things. Well, that's exactly what a career is. It's slaving away for a corporation that doesn't care about you. And I understand you have to pay the bills and I understand you don't want to be completely sufficient. You want to be self-sufficient. You don't want to be dependent on a man. I understand all that. But in an idealistic scenario, in the vacuum of ideology, if you could sit and be a woman and focus on having children or focus on doing a job, I think on a long enough timescale, you're going to be much happier with your progeny as opposed to working a job. Can I ask you a question? Because I feel like we talk a lot about hoes. We talk about a lot of
women kind of get lost. For example...
I think that one of the issues sometimes that I hear a lot about and I personally may say I feel it sometimes is that when you're also
And...
quite educated woman, intellectual, intelligent, whatever, smart. A lot of the time, naturally, you speak in a way that stands out from other people, right?
And,
I find that a lot of the time that kind of intimidates some of the man-dem, where they start thinking, "This girl is a bit too much." Now, it is not my fault that I'm smart. It's not my fault that I can put one and one together very nicely, very quickly.
What kind of man is going to be able to handle that? Sorry, give me a minute. This woman laughs like I don't speak full language. I don't go three degrees. Now I feel like... What, is she trying to say you're not smart? It's okay. I speak how I do for a reason. So please, sir, can you help me out? I'm trying to find a husband, the kind of beast that can handle a woman like me.
Well, this is another point, right? And...
I'm only answering generally, right? Because this is the first time I've met all of you ladies. You've all been very polite to me. You've all been very nice. I'm just talking generally.
And I'm going to answer it based on your last sentence. Your last sentence was handle a woman like me. Let's look at the average man's life like I just discussed earlier, how difficult it is, how competitive he has to be, and how many problems he has to fix. Do you think he wants to handle any woman? Okay, so. Like the idea of any degree of problem. It's the straw that breaks the camel's back. Like the point of having a woman as a man, for me at least, is for her to be my peace and quiet. I have, my life is stress.
roll around with fucking security teams and I've got problems and they're after me. And when I come home to my chick, the last thing I want to do is have to handle anything. I want her to just sit the fuck down and her make me happy. She used to be my positive energy. She used to be my sunshine in the rainstorm. So you're talking about him handle you. I don't know. I can't answer the question exactly. But if you're sitting there constantly arguing over small points or correcting him or that, he's probably thinking this is a battle. I don't have the energy for another fight.
to what I mean as well. So obviously submission is something that people talk about a lot. For me, I'm a logical person, I believe. And I'd submit...
With logic, I don't submit by default because there's a level of respect that I believe I need to have to be able to submit. Obviously, it's not that I go around and I disrespect all men and everything, but I find that...
my level of
Thought process. A lot of the times, mmm. It makes it hard. No. So I know what you're trying to say. Yeah, thank you. No, but you need to find a man you truly respect to submit to him. And I completely respect that. And that's the same with 99% of women. Like, you're never going to submit to a man you don't respect. And respect is ultimately important because you're not going to sleep with a man you don't respect. You're not going to be attracted to a man you don't respect. Respect is the bottom line of it. And the man has a job to do. He has a duty to do to be worthy of respect.
But this all goes back into a very interesting point, some of the points I've kind of mentioned earlier.
If I was a woman,
If I was a chick,
The chance of me ending up in a relationship with a man I don't respect is 0%.
I don't understand how you girls end up. Well, I do understand how you girls end up here. You end up here because of feminism, promiscuity, promises that running around taking dick is fine, dumb shit, stupid decisions. I'm independent, so it doesn't matter that he's a dummy. Bunch of garbage. When you should be waking up going, you know what? I'm going to be extremely selective, and I'm going to take my time and be very, very smart because you're the gatekeeper. By the time you're in a relationship with somebody, you should have immense respect for that man. Absolute immense respect. You shouldn't be able to get there any other way.
by society and lied to and told a bunch of fucking bullshit. So, so you're talking about submission and respect. Yeah.
It'll come when you meet the right man, naturally. And this is another point I make, because I have a lot of men message me. I trust guys. Please understand, I'm the most Googled man on the planet. I have 100,000 emails a day from people. And I get dudes email me. How do I get my woman to submit? And I don't reply to it. I can't reply to all the emails. But if I ever read them, I'm like, bro.
You're a fucking dork. Why would she reply to you? Why would she submit to you? You're a fucking nerd. That's the truth. I'm not out here saying, submit to all men. Men are the boss. I'm saying, listen...
There's natural balance in the universe. When you meet a G, I've never had trouble with a woman obeying me.
She just wants to. It's natural for our dynamic. If she didn't want to obey me, we wouldn't even get to the point of a relationship. If she didn't feel like she wanted to listen to me, we would have never got to where we want to get. It just doesn't work. That shit only happens when the female is fucking giving up sex too easy and the dude is just picking up easy pussy and they end up in some bullshit relationship. They don't even like each other. That's dumb shit. That's dumb shit, right? But I don't have any of these problems in my life. And if you're a dude at home and you're watching this and you go, oh, my woman to submit and she doesn't. Guess what?
She doesn't respect you, and guess whose fault that is a lot of the time?
Your fault. That is your fault as a man. Tell them. Yes. It is. Yes. No, it is. Yes. No, no. That's all. You guys need to damn here. Tell them, please. Tell them. It's not about blaming men and women because everyone has a problem. But then there's also men who are worthy of respect who women refuse to respect because of society. Tell the sisters too. So there's two sides to it, right? But a lot of it is if you're a capable enough man and you're brilliant enough, then the female has no choice. But it's very interesting. Yeah.
This goes back into a point I made earlier about how important it is for us men to find women who we don't believe have had a lot of life experience and look like they are. Because I got attacked. I'm going to make this point right now. I got attacked when the Matrix attacked me and fucking lied about me. They said that men are interested in women who are younger because they're more programmable. And that they're trying to make out that I'm making out that men are out here trying to get women and fucking do bad things to them.
No, what I'm saying is, if you find a woman who's younger and went through less things, less trauma, less relationships, less headache, she's lived less life,
Your ideals, if you ask any woman who loves her man, what's your favorite song? His favorite song. Who do you vote for? Who he votes for. What's your favorite car? His car. That's how it happens when a woman loves a man. And that makes the man feel good, right? If she's been through too much shit, then that's a lot harder to pull off. So that link is very important for men and women. But so yeah, the Matrix attacked me with that. But it's very, very interesting. You have to understand all these small sub dynamics and why things are happening and why the world is the way it is.
And the baseline of it is that everything's fucked. Men are acting like men and women are acting like women and it's all messed up.
Oh, yeah. So what about like your own autonomy and like just like you can your favorite car is your favorite car. My favorite car is my favorite car. Like, why does it have to? I guess that's where I'm confused. Yeah. Why does it have to be like that? Yeah. And that's a good point. Right. I understand that completely, but I'll give you an example. I'll talk from personal experience because it makes it easy for me.
I have a bunch of cars. I love cars. I have 32 cars. My favorite car is X. I pick up a chick. What's your favorite car? This one. I like that one. I'm like, alright, cool. Whatever. No big deal. But...
The agreeableness is ultra attractive.
It depends what the woman wants to do, right? If I was a woman and let's say I'm 22 years old and I meet a billionaire and it's my goal to marry this man and I go to his house and I say, wow, you have so many cars. What's your favorite car? This one. Really? I thought that one too. It looks so good. Why that one? Because this, this, this. Oh, really? Okay. I'll try and remember that.
That's how you get the dude right you don't get the dude by going well that one is a better color your dickhead It's it's it may be small things it may be tiny things but men are ultra interested in things like agreeableness so ultra interested in the idea of a woman absorbing our worldviews we're ultra interested we are that's what we're looking for. What if you say wait from the woman's identity? Wait what if you say she doesn't like the car? No no no wait. Why should she agree to a car that she doesn't like? Why do you want to be with someone that doesn't know who they are?
- Can I say, oh, I like this one. - I'm telling you what the man wants. - This is my favorite, but I like yours too. Yours is quite nice, you know. Actually, now that I'm looking at it, it's quite good. But I like this one, but I like that one as well. - You sound like you want a slave. - Is that fine? - Someone that doesn't have their own mind. - That's just not going against me, it's just being nice. It doesn't cost you much. - It's like, yeah, you can say, oh, baby. - Men don't want a girl that's nagging on them for the smallest things. It's like, why are you giving a guy a heavy cover of a car? - No, no, no, that's not nagging. - That's not nagging, that's not nagging, though. - Obviously, you saying, oh, what car do you like?
likes a different car. I just gave you a solution, though. I'm talking about
I am talking about how as a female to be as attractive as possible to men.
Now, I'm not saying you can't get a man if you say another car. I'm saying how do you be as attractive as possible? Be nice about it. Because you also don't understand how men think. It's different if you come to my house and choose to like another one of my cars.
But what if I only have one car?
And now you say, well, no, I pick up my BMW. Oh, yeah, it's nice. I prefer Mercedes. You know what a man thinks the second you say that? Who picked you up in a Merc? That's the first thing that goes to his fucking mind. How do you know about Mercedes? Who put you in a fucking Merc? What if you can buy your own Mercedes? Exactly. That's not what crosses the man's mind. I'm telling you how men think. But then that's why. And that's why. But Denelva, Denelva, Denelva, what percent of women can really afford their own Mercedes? Bro, best. That's sorry. No, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys. I bought my own car. I tried a BMW.
Okay, I'm really I'm really happy for you. I'm really happy for you. I said what the average woman makes thirty five thousand dollars a year? It's not that hard. I'm really happy for you. I'm really happy for your car But the average woman I'm saying what but the whole point is that what percent of women even earn that much? It's not a high percentage. So when a guy hears that you have been a nice one. I'm really happy for you. I'm really happy for your car. But the average woman, I'm saying what but the whole point is that what percent of women even earn that much? It's not a high percentage. So when a guy hears that you have been a nice one. Wait, wait, wait. When a guy hears that you've been a nice one.
this car and that car and that car. His automatic assumption is that you're an average girl. And that foolishness. And that you've been with a bunch of guys to get to that point. I've had a lot of experiences because of my dad, because my dad's very successful. But I've been in situations where I've said, like, oh, I did this, I did this, I did this, and they think it's with a guy, but it's with my dad. Because most guys assume that you were an average person.
And that's demeaning a woman. To say that she can't afford a lot of stuff. It's not demeaning a woman. It's looking at a balance of probabilities. If I meet an average guy, I assume he makes average money. Sounds like a trauma-guys brother who's been dealing with too many hoes. Wait. Wait. Stop. Wait.
It's based on a balance of probabilities. Can I just say something? That it's all about making a man feel...
Like, everybody says, oh, he's a top G. But it's like, if your man put up a light fit in,
And you're standing there watching them put up the light fitting. Are you, Denalva? They're watching a man put up the light fitting. What would you say while he's putting it up on? How would you react? I'd be like, you're probably doing it wrong, but I'll let you finish.
Right, all right, then. But hang on a minute. And how would you act if your man was putting up the light fitting? I wouldn't have told him. I'd be like, well, thank you, baby. Okay. Oh, I'll be like, see, the thing is. No, just answer the question. I'll just answer the question. What would you say if your man was putting up the light fitting? I'm just asking the question. I would be like, thank you, babe. Thanks for putting up the light fitting. I appreciate you. My man put up the light fitting.
Wow.
He got it all out, it was all in boxes.
He got his toolbox. He was up there on the ladder, whatever you want me to hand you. I was like, oh my God, you're stripping wires.
Oh my God. Then he said, oh, turn up, when it finished, I was like, it works. That's what he's talking about. I agree. That is what he's talking about. When he's talking about the car, he's not saying you can get your own car. He's saying, make the man feel like he's doing something. Make him feel appreciated. That's right. Like, act like a child. No, I agree. I agree. You know, and that's what he's saying. He's not saying that, oh yeah, you don't like that car. It's like, my man got a car. It's like,
Oh my God, it's got to hit your seats. That's the same way a girl likes to hear. You're the most beautiful girl in the world. I think it's got to be a balance though. Like, yeah, I agree. I like to make my mom feel good. When my mom dresses up, I'm like, girl, you look so fine. Like, I like to make my mom feel good. But he has to do that to me as well. Listen, right. He has to offer me that sexual... I listen to Mr. Tate, right, say about... Let me put, for instance, there's an artist that I like. My man likes it too.
COVID had just sort of like finished. I got two free tickets to go to the...
to go. My man said to me, "You're not going." What would you do?
I'm going. What would you do? Why? Why am I not going? It doesn't matter. He said to you, I'm not going. It doesn't matter because that's just the logical submission. I know. Why tell me why I can't go? No, but the whole point is you pick someone that you respect enough to trust his judgment, even when you disagree. That's the whole point. I want to find somebody that I don't agree with. Because you're your own person. Just because you're in a relationship. Guys, guys, guys, guys, stop, stop. Wait, wait, wait, wait. We need one at a time.
or whatever, you trust a man enough to be with him. You trust a man enough to sleep with him. So why won't you trust an opinion? Why does he have to give that? If I say to my man, don't do this.
The first thing is me thinking, no, she's telling me what to do. There must be a reason behind it why she's telling me not to do. Because she trusts me. I did not go. I had two free tickets. I did not go. I'll tell you why. Wait, wait, wait. Until you ask me a question, I'll tell you why. Because the same way a man wants that sort of validation, a woman wants assurance. I don't want to just blindly do everything all the time. Especially sometimes thinking, okay, that's a big shame. So let's talk. That's what submission is. So let's make a point. Auntie made a really important point. Auntie made a really important point. Because the point she's making is twofold and it's extremely important.
submissive.
When it suits them. That's not submission. So she wanted to go to the concert. He said no. She trusts him as a man. She didn't go. Absolute respect for that. That's exactly what my woman would have done. Exactly the same thing. Women go, I'm submissive. You're submissive when he's buying you shit in bed and you're submissive. But the second he says something you don't like, you instantly turn off the submission and run your fucking mouth. That's not submissive. That's manipulation. That's bullshit. So that's the first thing. The second thing is responsibility and authority are linked. Okay.
And as a man, if I'm going to be responsible for a woman, I need a degree of authority over her.
This is the reality of it. If I'm gonna be responsible for paying your bills, responsible for your personal safety, responsible for your personal development, responsible for fixing the life fitting, responsible for everything,
That I'm supposed to do as a man. I need a degree of authority to sometimes come along and say X, Y, Z and be obeyed. If I'm going to have a ship, if you have a ship...
The reason the captain has to go down with the ship...
is because he is responsible for everything that happens on that ship. And because of that, he has authority. If he yells at the shipmates and they all ignore him, then he can't be considered responsible for the problems on the ship, which means he doesn't have to die with it. If you want a man,
Invested in a relationship. He needs to be responsible for you, but he needs authority over you. And you know what? The smartest thing you can do as a woman is sit and go, you know what? Going to this concert is two hours, but this is going to piss him off. And it's going to be a splinter in his mind for years. Is this really worth it? Now, I'm not saying let some man abuse you. Let some man treat his shit. But if you have a good man who's good to you 99% of the time and he comes along and he really cares about something...
You should give him that grace and give him that, you know what? He's the man. He said it. Boom. Done. Because if something happened to you at that concert, if your bag was snatched, if you got fucking robbed, if someone tried to punch you, if someone grabbed you, who would you call?
- Help, help, help me! - The police! - You call your man! - The police! - You call him! - Senor Andrew, Mr. Tate King, master supreme leader of everything, the universe, the matrix and all of that. No, I just say this because it keeps him chill. I've got to make my voice the right way, you know? - But Tate, do you not think that he's not respected? - Wait, wait, wait. - Guys, wait one second, one second. I just, I, you go ahead.
You want to say something? Just doing the most. Of course I have to do the most. This is the thing. What you don't understand is that as a lady, I am displaying to you that it's very easy to speak to a man like Andrew Tate as long as you don't need to step on his toes and you respect the authority that he has. I'm not going to sit here and try and fight against a man that has done a lot more in my life, been in rooms I haven't been in because he's Andrew Tate. I respect you. But I can still put my point across. Okay? My point is... No, but there is a point, of course. Look, I'll just say something.
You just can't see everything you said before. However, it's a point, it's an acknowledgement, and then comes the counter-argument because I don't have to agree with things to speak. Okay? So my point simply is, fine, I get that. But at the end of the day, the same way that we have evolved now, as a woman I have evolved, I would expect, and what I do want is not equality, is a certain level of respect, which means that if I am also somebody that is quite smart, somebody that can take care of themselves, I've done all of this for about 30 years of my life, you can't tell me just no.
The condition is, sorry, yeah? The condition is, instead of telling me, no, give me the assurance as to why you said no. Because actually, I am agreeable when you make me feel assured that what you're doing makes me feel safe. Actually. Because what women are looking in love for is stability. And stability comes from knowing that you can trust the man. I don't trust blindly. It doesn't count if you're only agreeable when you feel like being agreeable. Can I just say something, DeNova? That's why I said I'm submissive out of logic law and respect.
you feel like it's not so good. - Can I just say something, Dinova? - Out of respect.
We live in different houses. Of course. If I went, he'd never know. Me and my man, because I'm a caregiver. If I went, he would have never known. Right.
So I still didn't go.
Okay.
And?
So what you were saying? So I'll say to you, okay, baby, you don't want me to go? Why don't you want me to go? Like, what's worrying you? What's the matter? Why would you not want me to go? But why would I want to question him when he's always got my best interest at heart? Well, I want to know. But he's not explaining that to you. I don't know why because my best interest at heart. Why should he have to explain everything? Because you're not a child. You are also an adult. And it's not only that way. I'm treating a woman like she doesn't have her own mind. It's very disrespectful. It is an acknowledgement. I'm sorry. Think about it. Right? I'm a 26-year-old.
I'm 26, right? I've lived my life all by myself. And then I'm in a relationship and this man is telling me I can't go out. I know you do. With no reason. Girls, let me give you an example. Does that make sense? Can I do that to a man and just say, I don't want you to go out? If I told him, if I told my man, listen, right, you know you said you're going such and such. Well, you know what? I don't really think you should go. He'll think about it and he'll say, you really don't want me to go? And I'll say, no, he won't go. That's a lie. That's not a lie. There's no man that's just nice. If we can do visas like that. Baby, I can veto you. You can veto me any time.
Let me ask your girls a question.
The reason she decided not to go is because this is obviously not a regular occurrence, right? So he had a reason and she trusts his judgment. Let me give you girls a scenario. Let's imagine I'm with a chick, whatever, whatever. She has a concert. I said, I don't want you to go. And she replies like you, why can't I go? And I say...
Got a bad feeling don't go Now what no? No, so which would you think the woman should just go? I don't give a shit stupid feeling and bounce or
My sister this is the key
When you say, I don't know, I just got a bad feeling.
Let me tell you how that is getting translated into my head. He cares about me, and he's actually thinking about something that potentially could be happening that I'm not aware of. I love him for thinking outside the box. But you've reassured me. You've shown me respect for being able to make my own decisions. And that's all it takes. That's all a girl wants to hear. I'm sorry, you need a logical reason as to why you're going to tell me not to say. A feeling is not logical. You can't just say you have a bad feeling. A feeling is not logical. What is it? Guys, guys, guys, guys. The whole point is, like, you're not trying.
Every decision he makes A lot of times like men think things through a lot like more than we realize and so he's already thought about it He's already made his decision. It's a headache to him when every time he makes a decision. He has to explain it to you
If you trust that man and you've been with him as long as auntie's been with her man and he says something with the kind of relationship They have and respect they have for each other. Of course. She's gonna be like, all right. Well, cool done. That's trust That's trust and wasn't happy
- And also that's a really good point about submission, 'cause submission is largely misunderstood.
I can tell you a million stories. I've had girls who are like, yeah, you're the man. You're in charge. And yeah, no problem. Yeah, she's cool on the jet. She's cool in Dubai. She's cool in the restaurants. She's cool in the five stars. She's cool in the Lambo. But the second I say something that she half doesn't like, then she's like, well, you know what? Then she's a feminist, right? So women do this very well. A lot of women flip-flop. Like if you trust your man and you really want to be with him and you really want to submit to him, there's going to be times you're going to submit in ways you don't like. That's the whole point of it. There's going to be times you have to do things you don't want to do.
I've actually said this in the past. I respect you in the fact that you're willing to give a woman a life. You're willing to provide for her. So I respect that you can then tell her, I want you to do this, babe. And she has to listen. But a lot of women...
They want autonomy over themselves. But every... Personally, I don't want a man that's going to provide for me just so he can tell me to sit down. And I'm a dog and I'm going to sit down. Let's understand something. Because I can make my own decisions too. Let's understand something. Every man...
will give you a life. It's just a matter of whether you're happy with the life that man... No, no, exactly.
Every man will give you a life. It's just a matter of whether you're happy with the life that man is capable of giving.
And this goes back into the earlier points we were saying. You can find a good man who will work his ass off and give you the best life he can possibly give you, give you every ounce of strength inside of him. He'll give you all he has. You can get that. But if you're going to wake up and go, no, I don't want that life. I want that life. Well, then that comes with problems. Yeah. And this is the cognitive dissonance that most females operate under where they sit and go, I want that life.
But I want him to act like that guy.
I want the Nissan and the McLaren. You can't have both. What about a project? And there becomes a degree of female maturity.
As you said earlier, you get to a point where you're like, you know what, maybe all that glitz and glam and bullshit.
Is it worth it? It's not worth it. You grow up, right? And that's fantastic. And you make a different decision. And I'm saying that
A lot of women get to that point.
The problem is, in the modern world, the shit women did before they got to that point, from 19 to 24,
pisses the man off to the point where he's never going to be as good as he could be. It's different in your world, right? You met a man, you stayed with that man, Dink. I know plenty of people.
First man, high school sweethearts. The world was different only 40, 50 years ago. The second man, they've been married forever. 50 year marriages. All that shit's gone.
And then we have to tie back into all the other sub points I've made into you've had a very fun life at your peak sexual value from 19 to 24 running around doing X, Y, Z. Now you're with this guy who can't give you the life he knows you've already lived. Part of him feels inferior. His status is damaged because all the shit you did is on Instagram and he ain't the one who gave it to you. And now you're expecting a whole bunch of crap out of him. And now when he comes and works his ass off and manages to save up and buy a BMW and picks you up.
Hey, I got BMW. You go, yeah, I like Mercedes. Mm.
This is the point you're missing. It's not about the fucking car. It's about something larger than that. It's about making him feel like he's a man again and he's in charge. A woman shouldn't have to make a man feel like a man. You're sitting here going, I'm an autonomous female. I can talk about that. But what are you doing? You're damaging the psyche of the man who's trying to love you. Is it worth it for a fucking car?
about what I want and not just what you want. Is that what loving means? If that's it, I can subscribe to that. But I'm not going to subscribe to you. Sit down and you have to sit down. What? I'm a grown-ass woman. I pay my own bills and you're going to tell me what to do? That's fine. But it gets to a point. It gets to a point where you have to sit and analyze the scenario you're in.
And try and realize and pick your battles. And I'm telling you, you may not realize it.
But a man does a whole bunch of shit for you that you don't know. He's watching the shows you want to watch. He's listening to you talk gossip about the girls at work. He's fucking going, yeah, I like that dress, that dress. He doesn't give a fuck about any of it. He's doing it for you. But the second it's back the other way, you have some fucking issue with autonomy. It's bullshit. Listen, yeah, he's right. Because women talk nonsense for a long time. And they say, yeah, babe, you're right. Yeah, babe, come on if she did that. It's true, babe.
good yeah babe yeah it's true you become i agree men do a lot but women do a lot too as much as my if my man caters to me i will do anything to make him happy if he says oh babe i want to i like this meal i will i will make sure i can cook it for him because guess what he actually cares about what i want as well you can't just have a one-way relationship i'm just saying i'm just saying if i was a woman
And I had to make a man as attracted to me as possible. My goal would be to give that man status and make him feel good about himself. And I'd be very, very careful talking too much about life experiences or opposing views. Not because he's out to oppress me. Not because he's an evil, horrible person. But because he's trying to find somebody with a similar life view. He's trying to find somebody he can show the world to. Trying to find somebody he can feel like he can teach things to. That's how you get the best out of a man. I'll tell you how you get the best out of a man. That's why I got Clementine.
when he's playing video games and he's playing video games and you say, all you do is play video games and you nag him, he'll play video games. If you walk in there and go, you know what? You're so smart. I've seen you do so many amazing things and you said so many amazing things. Why do you waste your time playing video games? You could show me so much.
Now you're going to get him off the fucking console. Yeah. I know it's an ego play. I know your old girls are like, why should I have to do that? There's a lot of things. Because it tells you you look pretty in the morning. It's because you win.
It's because in the end you win you talk about why should I have to do that? Well, why should you have to work hard in the gym to get six pack because you win?
That's the game. If you, it's actually men are so simple.
We are so simple and the truth is women know it. This is what's amazing. Women pretend they're confused. You're not confused. You know, you're just egos are in the way and society is telling you something else and you just fucking refuse to be agreeable. Nice.
Let's say a $500 gift.
Okay, and you're happy, right? It's very, it's thoughtful, it's specific to you. Then you found out last year,
He got his ex-girlfriend an entire birthday party.
How does that make you feel? He went to he did the most. He he rented out the nicest hotel in London. He got her everything she wanted the year before.
I don't care. I don't really care.
As long as he's making me happy. Okay, you don't care. We're different people, too. It's a different relationship. And maybe, like, you know, he bought her flowers every day, 365 days a year, and he didn't do that for me. It's like, well, if that's what makes her happy, he's going to do what makes her happy. Exactly. I mean, I get the angle what you're saying is, like, oh, he did all that for her. Why am I not good enough? But the second you compare yourself, you lose. Yeah. And I agree. I agree.
But...
I'm just saying that's how men look at like your past is like basically like you've given it for free. Okay. So here's my question to that because all right, I love like everything we're talking about. Okay. So to all the viewers out there, including myself, right?
You live life, there's gray area.
You live and you fucking learn, right?
- So where the fuck do we go from here? So do I play the shame game where everybody walks away a fucking loser? 'Cause I can do that. I've beat myself up my entire life for every decision I've ever made, right? It got me nowhere. - No. - So I value myself, I see the world differently, through a series of events, right?
So what the fuck comes next? Because that's where I'm confused, right? Because I'm not, it's like, if you don't, if it's not like gifted to you, like even in your situation, like your dad provided you a life that like so many people would kill for. Like, you know what I mean? So that's why it's like,
It sucks because the reason I hate these conversations is because it's never about like...
empathy do I understand the the the scales and how someone may view for this this that in the third okay, but I
Moving forward, then what? So, okay, so I'm just going to, like I said, make it about myself.
I'm 30, single, mom.
My fucking...
checkered passes all over Instagram.
You know what I mean? I have people like you, she's a ho, she's literally known for this. Okay.
So what would be your advice to people like me then? I don't believe in gray area. I believe black and white. Okay, well, that's unfortunate. Because there's gray. I don't believe in gray area. I'll tell you what. There's gray. There's gray in life. I just think there's consequences for your decisions. And I just think my best advice would be to lower your standards.
Like that because because I just think there's going to be consequences for putting, you know, promiscuous stuff on the Internet.
Okay, and you probably won't get the type of guy that you could have got at 22.
Do you know what, sister? It wasn't meant to be then. Do you know what I'll tell you? I would say, because I'm 30 and I'm single out of a situation that actually is not because I was a hoe and I was doing whatever, whatever. People can't call me that. I made my decision to be with somebody that hurt me alone. I stayed for five years. I came out super late. And do you know what I realized? What I learned is that I know now.
I have to be selective and I have to think if me taking longer to get to that stage is what it takes. Then that's what it takes. You accept your future. You accept everything with gratitude, because as long as you're breathing, that's the most important thing. At least you've got your child. I am not afraid because I know the quality of woman that I am. I know my value, regardless of whether I'm 30, 40, 50. Do you understand? So you don't be afraid by other people's time limits and limitations and all of these things, because it actually doesn't matter. And I'll tell you why. Now that your value goes down as you know, that's according to you.
understand your buyer. I'll tell you why. Because since Mr. Andrew Tate explained something about status, I understand very well what that actually means. And as a woman, the quality and the value that I hold for myself is actually the kind of value and quality that a man will appreciate the status it will bring to him, whether or not I'm a virgin. Because I've worked on myself to be a woman of quality and substance. I respect myself and I handle myself as such. Okay? And that is the way that you're going to actually overcome all of these bad mistakes that you've made, because
And if you mean it and if you've always been that way, there's always another another story for everybody. It doesn't matter you'll be a fan No, I'm just got somebody that's more emotionally mature. Do you know? I would say to you? What are you about to say because you just started speaking? I want to say I'm just you said Andrew I want to hear I really because because you've been through a lot in your life I like when when she told me that you were gonna be on and we were gonna be on this panel together I started watching a bunch of your videos and it really was like there's so much and
That you have been through which is why you have a well of wisdom right and the difference between me and you is that you're glorified for it and I am burned at the stake for everything that I've been through and it's so funny because people have always said that we were two sides of the same coin as far as like well if Andrew Tate gets banned Bernie Renner should get banned because there's we are all about accountability and fucking truth right yeah okay so you've been through a lot I've been through a lot
I'm seen as used goods. You're seen as a high value man. So if you're me, then what? What's next? Yeah, it's really interesting. And it's interesting you make the observation and you are correct. That's the difference between the masculine and the feminine. It's kind of, it's unfair, I guess. The world's not fair, but that's the difference between the masculine and the feminine. Men are respected for going through things and surviving. And women are the complete opposite. They're shamed for going through things and surviving. If you look at
"Women love scars on men for a reason." He's gone through something he lived. - They're war wounds. - Yeah, they're war wounds. Men don't want a chick covered in scars.
I'll say this right now, that a woman, the more trauma she goes through, the more masculine she naturally becomes. And if you were to give me my ideal woman, I would not want of wanting her to have a hard life and a bunch of trauma. I like the idea for having a soft feminine life and being a soft person, and I can take care of her and protect her. Whereas as a man, to be a good man, you need to have been through a bunch of trauma. Because if you haven't been through trauma as a man, you're a weakling. You have to have been through a bunch of shit. So the masculine, the feminine is a very interesting point there.
I don't know your history, I don't know the past, but we can just talk in general generalizations in regards to- People like me, I guess, under the same umbrella. It doesn't have to be personal. I don't know what you mean of it, but we'll give generalizations.
One of the main reasons that men are scared of a female with history is because it makes the man insecure. And scared dogs bite. So this is why men will snap or get angry quick or they'll bring up your history. If you get an argument with them, he'll bring up your history, whatever. But a lot of it is insecurity. And it's not insecurity because the man is insecure. The women, the female paradigm in society convinces men, any man who says anything, you're insecure. It's not insecure in that way.
logical way
Like I was saying earlier, she's had a lot of life experience. Let's be honest. Am I the richest guy she's ever had? No. Am I the most famous guy she's ever had? No. Am I the best looking guy she's ever had? No. Like what's keeping her here? And then part of it comes down to, well, am I second place? If she could do better, would she do better? Like there's a whole bunch of insecurity involved.
And that's where tiny things like I'm talking. I know it sounds like dumb shit.
tiny things about the favorite car brand become more important than ever, right? It's your job as a woman, regardless of how much sexual history you've had or what guy you're with, etc. It's your job as a woman to make your man feel secure in the fact and make him feel like a man, like Antti was saying, make him feel like the man, no matter what he does, so that he feels like you really, truly believe he's the best choice for you on the planet. That's your job to do. Now, if you've had a checkered past, that's perhaps more difficult. You need to be more tactful with it, more tactical
to achieve the same result. You have to do the exact same thing, right? So, yeah, yeah,
It's easy for me.
If I get a 21-year-old virgin from some village in Slovakia, and I'm multimillionaire Andrew Tate, of course, it's a very easy. She's never had better. She'll never get better. She's never been anywhere. Boom, boom, easy one, right? But like you said, the world's not so idealistic. The reality is that people have had relationships, et cetera, et cetera. But a man is happiest in the relationship when he feels like man in the house and when he truly feels like...
You believe.
He's the best man that you could possibly ever get and have ever gotten because a man is jealous. I'll tell you something.
I used to say this to girls as like a joke.
And I used to say, you cheated on me before I met you.
And she'd be like what do you mean I didn't even know you He was like yeah you fucked that guy before I even knew you You cheated on me and they used to laugh whatever But that's how men think
That's the male mind. Like, I love you, and you've been fucked by who? But I didn't know you. I don't care if you knew me. You should've waited. What do you mean? But that's the male mind. So he is in competition with all of your exes, and all of your lifestyle, and all the things you've done.
permanently and it's down to you as a woman to sit there and go how do I make him secure in himself and secure in his masculinity and make him believe that investing in me is still worthwhile because I still truly value him.
Despite the fact that I could do X, Y, Z. I hope that gives some clarity, but that's the answer. Do you know what I would have said? I would have said, for anybody in that situation, come off social media and just raise your child. So the person who meets you has got nothing to... I never knew you. I never knew who you were because I've never heard of you before. So when I spoke to you...
But the way you're saying what's on the internet,
Let me just say, you're a nicer person than...
What you sound like. Like what...
you perceive to be. Like you were saying, oh, that Pearl's got, oh, there she's a whore, she's a whore, and I've heard the name, but I don't know anything about you. And I was saying that if you didn't have nothing on social media about your checkered past, and you met somebody the same way how I met you and I conversed and I got to know you, is the same way that they would.
Yeah, and it is interesting. And it's also back to the masculine and feminine, right? Because I'm all over the internet and supposedly I'm misogynist and I'm evil and all this crap, right? But if I meet a girl, even if she disagrees with me, in fact, I'll say this, I've never ever met a single female who's ever come up to me and disagree with me. Every woman comes up to me and loves what I says. But let's imagine I met this imaginary girl. She was sitting with me. And if I were to have a 10 minute conversation with her, by the time I explained the level to which they tried to destroy me, how they tried to freeze all my bank accounts, raise illegal charges against me, put me in jail for things I didn't do, put a travel ban,
take my passport, all this garbage. By the time I explain how hard they tried to hurt me and failed,
She'll want me because she'll be like, you can't kill this guy. And that's going to be it. Like, you say a bunch of shit I don't like, but you know what? You're the man. So it is about experience and it is different. And that's a really good point about social media. Social media amplifies all of this shit. It amplifies all these problems. Everything we're discussing, everything we've discussed back to the beginning from status to promiscuity to your past, it's all social media. Without social media, a lot of it goes away.
Social media. And there's nothing on there about me. I feel like to answer your question, too, because I have had people...
say that as a solution, and it's like, you can run, but you cannot hide from the truth. And I have shared why my voice has been so impactful.
and will continue to be impactful is because I have put myself out there and I have been punished for being honest. So it's like I have been given a platform and a voice for a reason. Even sitting down in this conversation thinking there's not one person I'm probably going to agree with and probably going to want to leave.
I've been called here for a reason. So it's like I can't go against what is in my heart and what I am coded to be, and that's why I feel like it's important for me to sit here and represent people who feel like me, because it's like I didn't, I don't wanna say I didn't, I don't even wanna say that.
Just feel like I don't see a lot of women under my umbrella who feel the way that I feel I don't see opinion shared that I that would be worded the way that I feel nothing I feel like a lot of my thoughts are very unique and it's it's kind of scary because I have been through different things I see the world in a different place and when I even speak online people think I'm fucking speaking Swahili. Yeah, so it's like I know I know and I know exactly what you're saying and you're making good points and it's just I
I think that regardless of whether
Like we're talking about different positions. I compare everything to chess. I know it's annoying. We're looking at different positions on the chess board, but the rules are still the same, right? Okay. No matter how bad your position is or how good your position is, you're still trying to achieve the same objectives. And, and you want, you want the man to get high status and you want the man to feel secure in himself. And I think it's, it's very difficult. I can only talk from the male perspective because I am a man. It is very difficult. If I were to meet a woman who I liked very much,
But she had X whatever, pass whatever, whatever. My concerns would be, how do I know that I'm still the number one? How do I know I'm most important in her life, especially if I don't measure up in certain key metrics? And two, the second thing that's most scary for men is we understand that.
Men are constantly after what we have. Like, your inboxes are all full.
Like they may not be with guys you want to reply to, but guys are still trying to get it. That's the male life. The male life is people are trying to take everything from me. And that's very scary. And you have to make your man really believe like that's impossible. If a man truly believes that nobody can take you from him, he's going to love you in a different way. You can give me two carbon copies of the same chick, but one I think might cheat in the right circumstances. And one I know no matter what would never leave me.
The love I'll feel for this one.
It's a different planet to the love I feel for this one. Even though they're the same person, right? Because that's every man's biggest fear is a woman cheating or leaving. Because there's something visceral and something different about it. I know I talk things and I say men can do things and women can't and all this stuff. But if a woman cheats on a man, that hurts the man at a level that it doesn't hurt the woman if the man cheats on her. It's different. It's different biologically. It's different evolutionarily. Like that's what men used to fight and die over.
You talk to my chick. You look at my chick. It's like you cut his dick off. Yeah, it's like you demasculinize him on every level. And this is why you see these TikToks, right? You see these TikToks. Me and my man went on a break, got back together. He fucked 20 girls, and now he's crying because I went on a date.
- Yes, completely yes. Because the damage level is different. It's just a different thing. So you have to understand the paradigms, you have to understand to play the game, and that's how you make men happy. And I know very well,
How I like to believe that I know I would know very well how to make a woman happy. And I know and whether I do that or not is a conscious decision. And that's where you get to a certain level of grand mastery where I if I get a woman, I will literally decide out of 10, how happy do I want her?
Do I want, does she deserve to be happy 10? Or should I keep her like crying half the time? It's very conscious. And women don't think that way. But I'm saying if you're a smart, if you're a cutting woman, you can be like that. You could be a bit more like, you know what? I want him infatuated with me. This guy ain't worth the time. That guy I want. And then when you're going to do that, just like the game of chess, if you play chess, it's not big moves that make you lose. It's small positional plays. It's that time you argued about your favorite car. It's the time you disagreed with him about the favorite band. It's the dumb shit that adds up.
Whereas really, truthfully, if you're truly smart about the game, you can get him to a point after a few months where he's like, she's my soulmate. She loves everything I love. We think the same. Our hearts are connected. Boom. And then you're safe.
Just don't fuck it up from there. But I just feel like it's so contradicting to feel like what your overall message is, which is about truth. So it's like if if my truth, like if it can be destroyed by the truth, it should be destroyed by the truth. So that's what I'm trying to figure out. Like what it's it's really mind boggling to me because I feel like how could you even be mentally, emotionally, sexually stimulated by a woman who is just agreeable? And, you know, it just doesn't have her own mind. I just don't see that.
exactly what every man does.
wants we don't want you to be complete robots we're not saying we can't have a joke with you we can't say you can't have a laugh with you we're not saying you can't have a personality
But when it comes to things like agreement,
There is not a single man in the world who's going to say she's too agreeable.
She just agrees with me on it. She agrees with me on all the important things in my life. She's too agreeable. I want someone else.
Fuck no.
You're completely and utterly wrong on that point. It's a huge point. This idea that, I understand if you're a complete doormat and you set no standards, men might walk all over you. I'm not talking about that. I'm talking about agreeability and agreeableness as a whole. Men love the idea of an agreeable woman because it gives status, and it makes the man feel like he's a teacher, and it makes the man feel in charge, and it satisfies his ego. And to you, they may be small little tiny points, but to him, they're a big deal. If I were to sit,
I'm telling you right now, if I were to sit with one of my chicks or whatever, or my chick, and I would just sit in the Lambo and say, Lambo's the best car of all of them. I prefer the Lambo. She goes, I don't like that one. I'm like, listen, I bought them all, and I fucking said this is the best one. Shut up.
It would annoy me because that's my reality. I want her to become part of my reality. It's the thing, and you talk about truth.
It's interesting because the truth of your heart and the truth of your soul is to be happy.
That's truth. Truth is for you to end up happy. Now, if you have to sit there
and agree on a, especially on a subject you don't give a fuck about, right? If it's something you care about and you are very knowledgeable about, if it's ancient Roman history and you have a degree in ancient Rome, then fine, argue the point. But if it's cars or something you don't even give a shit about, what, yeah, you're missing the chance to get points on the scoreboard, an easy free throw, and you're just fucking it up going, ah, no, no, no, why? Why?
The truth is just play the game and win. That's the truth. Andrew could be the best female dating coach. Or just learn a couple of words, like how many talks, horsepower. Just throw some words in, how much horsepower does it go? With all due respect, not all men are like that. Some men respect a woman that has their own mind. I know you and the type of men that you're speaking on behalf of. Let me tell you something. Like a woman that will just be so agreeable to everything he says. I've dated men that just respect that I can make decisions.
submissive women have their own mind yeah completely that's there's sometimes that he might be discussing stuff that he might want to be discussed and there's sometimes we're like shut the fuck up and let me say what i've got to say yes and maybe i don't even believe in star signs but my man's a sagittarius so i want this illogical stuff and feelings and emotions and no you don't cry about shit shut up get on with it yeah it's big go get on with it completely and submissive women have their own mind but this is something else you have to take into consideration
a lot of things about relationships and how it works with men, etc. It's because men will lie to you. Men lie,
For the same reason you wear makeup, because...
Men fall in love with what they see. Men fall in love with what they see. And women fall in love with what they hear. So we will lie to you. So you'll go on a date with a guy and you'll sit there and say, I don't listen. No, I'm independent. And what's that man going to say? Oh, I love that. That's exactly the kind of woman I want. Come suck this. It's a fucking lie. That is not what he wants.
It's not what he wants. I'm telling you the truth of what he wants. Yeah, he can't be bothered to argue with you at dinner. Because he doesn't. And you know what? Most men aren't smooth enough to do it. I can sit with a chick and disagree with her and be funny enough and smart enough and charismatic enough. And I'm high status enough. And she respects me enough to listen. But if I'm just some normal dude and I start arguing with a chick, she's going to bounce on the dinner and say, fuck you. See ya. So most dudes dating strategy, most dudes mating strategy is just pure agreement. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
anything to get the puss because they're fucking dorks. That's fine. That's the truth, right? A real G will sit there and say, what do you mean? I don't want to hear this shit. I'm telling you the baseline of how men truly function. If I'm expected to fight and die to protect you,
Because that's what is expected of me by society and of you. You may think you don't expect that of me, but if we're walking down through London in the middle of the night and two guys come up with machetes, you're going to hide behind me
Knowing I'm going to die because I can't win this fight. I'm expected to die to protect you. Well, then I expect you to agree with me. I'm not here to fucking die for somebody who disagrees with me on everything. That's not what I'm here to fucking. If I have that obligation to die on the spot for you, you have the obligation to pretend you like BMWs. So do your fucking part and shut up. And that's the bottom line of it. And you know the difference is the only difference. He's top G. The only difference between him and my man and the level of respect.
is money.
That's the only difference. And this is the same way he talks, the same way he is. See, I was saying, I don't listen to my men. But people say like, oh, my man only earns $40,000, so he can't talk to me the way Andrew Drake talks to his. Why not?
Completely and I think money is a big factor though because it's not in a beautiful relationship. You can't have a woman that's paying her own bills and
She's doing everything for herself. I mean, she's a man. And then you're going to tell her, of course, but I'm saying. Oh, do this. But you, you're different. You do not work on T.J. She doesn't need to work. You take all that stress away from her. I don't work. Then she'll be a lot more free. Why does money have to matter for submission? That's what I mean. I don't work. Because if you have enough money to make sure that she doesn't need to work, go and deal with her boss every day, deal with all this stress, all these bills, then of course she's going to look up to you and be like, oh, okay, he pays my bills. My mamas own about $40,000.
- I'm like, you know what I'm so, I just never, I grew up in a 1% family.
I never expected a dude to pay for everything. I don't know. I don't. I don't. And I still think, like, and I just, I just, like, both of my parents worked, but my mom still submitted to my dad. Like, it wasn't. The point is this. In every relationship that's beautiful.
Every relationship that's happy, regardless of the socioeconomic scale, regardless of how rich or poor they are, regardless of how famous they are, regardless of how whatever. And every relationship where people are truly happy, pay attention.
The man is in charge.
He's the top G of that house. His woman makes him feel that way.
She respects him for what he does.
And they are happy. We're talking about me out here in the world, social media, whatever. It doesn't matter. Every man wants to be the man of his household, the king of his castle. Every single happy relationship is the same. I genuinely implore you to name a happy relationship where the woman's in charge.
Name one.
You can't. They end up broken up. Fucking she leaves him. Whatever. Name a happy relationship where the woman doesn't blindly say, okay, I won't go to that concert.
Name one. There is only one framework in which people are happy with the man in charge. The woman trusts and respects him enough to let him be in charge. And they're a happy couple in relationship. Any other type of relationship is a time bomb to the end. So if you want a happy relationship, that's what you should be aiming for. You need to be thinking, you need to be perspicacious enough and think about these things and sit and go, well, that's the only way relationships work.
So I need to build it that way. Instead of coming along and believing you're going to reinvent the wheel. Okay. So, Tate, do you not think they can be a partnership? Wait, wait. I want to hit one more topic because we're running out of time. So I want to actually give...
the ladies a chance to say, what do you guys disagree with from the red pill and men centric content?
Can I go first? No.
I'm so mixed, though. No, Brittany can go first. I'm not really familiar with all of the topics. I'm assuming the stuff that you guys talk about are considered the red pill.
Um, it's not even like about like
disagreeing I think
I can respect someone's point of view and understand where that truth exists for a lot of people. And I just feel like, okay, cool. Like, I don't know. I don't really disagree. It's just a perspective on life. I'm not here to be like, you're wrong for thinking like that. You're wrong for categorizing, using this scale, using that. Like, it's a perspective. It's valid.
And I totally see certain angles. Like there's a lot of stuff that was said that I mean, there's so many people on this panel, it's hard to talk. But it's like, there's a lot of things I said, okay, maybe I don't agree with just because again, my walk of life and what I've seen and how I feel and what how I choose to be empathetic towards people, regardless of whatever they've been through. But I don't really it's more for you. It's the lack of empathy sometimes.
Yeah, I think that's probably it. OK. Yeah. I'm going to let Esther go. You'll punish me, Ann. No worries, we'll talk. See, what I don't really agree with is the insult culture.
of
men feeling like they're entitled to a woman. A lot of men
Don't look good.
They don't got money.
They don't do anything for themselves.
And they expect women to want to have sex with them, women to want to be with them. Why should she want to be with you? Let me ask you a very important question.
Those delusional men...
Do they sleep with women?
Of course not. But they get angry. You see them in Pell's comments. Oh, she's a modern woman. It's like, no, she doesn't want you because you are a lowlife. Get over it. Go to the gym. Go work on yourself. Go out and get a job. Go and get some money. The red pill does that. They just cry about it. That's what most of the men's centric content tells guys to do. Go to the gym. Get your money up. That sort of thing. Learn game. No, but that's not what they're doing. What they're doing is saying, oh, women are delusional. Oh, women want this. No.
know what they want. If you want those women, go and do what they want and then you'll be chosen. You don't have to worry about the men that aren't getting laid and all the women are ignoring. Okay, yeah, YouTube comments, but besides YouTube comments, they have no voice in society and they don't exist and nobody gives a shit, right? So this is what I was saying earlier about reality slaps men in the face and shows them their place very quickly because all these men
reality is showing them their place there are women who are disagreeable and unlikable and doing wrong things and acting badly and fucking up how to make a man attracted them and they're not being slapped in the face by reality because they're still ending up with a partner so this is the point we're trying to make here i agree i know what you're saying about red pill there's a whole bunch of bitter hateful guys i agree with that yes can i just drop another comment when i came on your show they were in my dms i'm thinking do you not have things to do with your life like the fact
media and then sliding my DMs. Like, you really have nothing to do with your life. - Were they hitting on you or were they insulting me? - Oh no, they were calling me misandrist. - Some girls get hit on even after they insult me. - Oh no, they were calling me misandrist because of the fact that, like, we just don't want you. Like, get over it. - That's just the internet though. Like, I get death threats. I get like people insult me all that. - Yeah, but it's not good enough. - I just think like you go on the internet, duh.
Like, yeah, you're going to get insulted on the internet.
Who hasn't been? But it's obviously it's quite hard, especially when you're receiving a lot of hate from all these men. I mean, I get it. I've had hundreds of videos made on TikTok like that go after my appearance. It happens to me like every single day. Pearl, you called a girl a whale. She's a Pisces. Pearl, you called somebody a whale. That is a big insult. Okay, one, one, one. I called her a whale after she attacked me. After she she attacked me. She knocks the mic out of my hand. She called me a slag.
- I had no idea what that meant. She called me a slag, put the mic out of my hand. So of course I'm gonna call her a whale. You attacked me first. That's what they never talk about. You got called a whale because you attacked me. - I missed a good episode it sounds like. - No, it was a street interview. And this girl, she knocks the mic out of my hand.
And they're pulling her back. How have you used slag? And I was like, you're effing whale. Drunken females. But it was like, that was a response. I've never called someone on my show a whale individually. But when I come on your show, you were quite rude to me.
I'm not going to lie. No, I'm not going to lie. The way you conduct your show today was great. Today was great. But when I was on your show last time, you were like, why do you talk too much? I'm thinking, who is this woman talking to me like that? I'm not a child. But that's the thing. You kept interrupting everybody the whole show. That's what happened. You kept interrupting. But so were you. So were you. But she's a queen. You interrupted too. Because I'm the host. Yeah, the queen. So today, it's like we have a big guest. I'm going to let him talk.
But you're in no offense. You're just a normal guest and normal guests. We don't let dominate the entire conversation. I wasn't dominating the conversation. You were. You probably talked 70 percent of the time. And so I have to interrupt you and stop you because you're talking and nobody else in the room had a chance. And nobody else in the room had a chance to talk. I understand I interrupt people, but that's part of your job as a host is to control the conversation. And if anything, I probably control the conversation less than I should compared to most hosts.
You were rude.
You could just be like, okay, let the next person talk. You were like, why you talk to me? That is so rude. Because we had tried multiple times to tell you nicely.
multiple times to tell you nicely and it just had to ask it just kept escalating that is not sure i think you're trying to gaslight me right now because that's not true the thing is you didn't agree what i was saying and then you resulted you and auntie resulted to insults that's the reason but that's the reason i would say i'm not coming for you right now because you know what it's your show but what i'm trying to say is for us but you're coming for us you just open your mouth
Can I...
No, how was I rude to you? Why you called my name into it? How was I rude to you? But you were rude. How was I rude? You were rude. This is just my point of view. You told a story where you said...
You didn't say your face. You're too nice about it, Pearl. You're saying it too nice. Listen, right? You come on the show. You come on the show, right? I don't care right now because you come on the show. We're not on the streets. Can you calm down? You sound like a human gun. Please just slow down. If I sound like a human gun. Calm down. Don't tell me about calm down. Because you're shouting at me. Why are you shouting at me? Hang on. I heard Mr. Tate talking with passion and loud. I heard nobody telling him to calm down, right? You're there shouting off your mouth, right? I am being loud. The sexism. I am being loud. Don't tell me about calm down.
you're screeching that. Listen, right, as far as I'm concerned, don't even think about coming on Pearl's show and disrespecting her. You've done it already, and now you're coming back here to do it again. Pearl wasn't rude to you. She was rude to me. Pearl wasn't rude to you. You know what? Because we spoke the truth, not your truth, not your truth, because at the end of the day, it's all out there. If you don't know what a woman is, and you can't say what a woman is, you're actually a bully. You're actually a bully. I'm a bully. I'm a three times less your age, and you're screaming like that. Calm down. You can't do that.
This is a podcast. Have some manners, Auntie. Like, what? I don't understand this. Stop, stop, stop. Manners.
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women came for you. That's all I was saying. To be fair, to be fair, then you called me racist and sexist in another pot. I said, no, I said, I said your followers, your followers were racist because they call me a degenerate Nigeria woman. Did they not? Okay. Did they not? Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. So your disagreement. Okay. Your disagreement. Let's go back. Let's go back to the topic. Your disagreement with the red pill.
Oh, so the insult culture. You don't like the bad comments.
No, not the bad comments, the fact that they just feel entitled. When women say what they want, they feel so entitled that women need to change that. It's like, no, women like what they like. Just like a man likes a woman that looks good, a woman that cooks, a woman that's younger. Like you said, someone that's not been traumatized, that's not been through so much experience. Like we don't cry about it, you know? Yes, we do. Do you know what women do now? Yes, wait, wait, wait. I need to stop you there. Yes, we do. What is body positivity? What is slut shaming?
We do cry about it, and we cry about it loud on every social media platform. We do.
Yeah, there's no there's no other way. I'm just gonna give you an equivalent. There's no short man shaming I
No, you don't hear the men crying about that. Women by a large- They do cry about it.
No, they don't. Yes, they do. Do you see short men being pushed to be on the cover of magazines?
where they say we need more short men, short male models. Oh, I see what you mean. Where they're putting plus size women on the cover of magazines. Tom Cruise is short as air. I think he's like 5'8 to 5'10, which is average, actually. Most women don't know only 15% of men over 6 foot. But I think everyone should be positive about what they have. Like, you know what? If you don't have money, like, own it. Be happy with yourself. Just because a woman doesn't want you, that's okay.
saying like men have to deal with the consequences like an average chick can still sleep with an NBA player.
Who's like a top 10%? Okay, okay, okay. I'll give you an example. Okay. I've had guys on that level message me. I think I'm an average chick.
I would never in my right mind think that any of them would take me. Oh, you're rich. Pearl, they watch your money. Men don't care about your money. No, they don't. Some men do. Some men do. Poe's not rich. Poe is not rich. She's from a rich background. She's not rich. So they're saying the medieval maiden. Men don't care about your money. Some men do. Some do. That's bums. Bums care about your money. I personally don't like bums. That's just not my thing. That might be your thing.
I'm not saying high value. I'm saying I don't like guys that don't have jobs. Just for me. Can I just say something that's going to shock everybody?
I would like to hear what Denal has got to say now. Oh my days, you know how much I've been holding on to my seat like, when is it my turn to unleash everything that's been in my head? Okay, cool. Question was again, sorry. What do you disagree with from the red pill? What I disagree with the red pill movement is the fact that it fails to understand that it has extreme limitations because you focus a lot on the extremities of things. And I will revert that back to me.
I don't think the red pill addresses the fact that there were a lot of housewives that were left widowed quite young and therefore had no choice but to step up in transition into a strong and evolved modern woman. And I say that because my dad passed away when I was 12 and I didn't have a man in my life to be able to show me the way. Not only because there's really just not many men in my life, because my mom focused her energies and efforts into raising us and providing for us because she didn't have a man.
I don't think it would be fair to even expect my mom to, when we were all 12, 13, 14, to go and find a new man, because actually that creates even more issues within the home for us to even to accept him, especially 'cause we had close relationship with my dad. With that said, what the red pill movement fails to
address, empathize with, and look for solution is for all the women and the men that come from these sort of homes where actually it is not your fault that you are a product of your environment. So when you're telling me about housewife, you're masculine, you're this, you're that, I have to say,
My mom raised four daughters on her own. By my age, she had the four of us moved freshly to the UK. Of course, she's going to hustle. Of course, I'm going to go through education. Of course, I'm going to work. Of course, I'm going to have to be strong with myself because there's no man to protect me. So because I've had this sort of background, I've had this sort of experience, people tell me your traumas make you less likable or maybe you're too masculine as a woman. No, I am a survivor of a woman, actually, because I didn't have men around me.
of being a wife. I know how to cook. I know how to actually speak to my man, please him verbally and physically.
What's the disagreement? And I'll explain to you the submission side of things where I've actually, the whole show, I've proved that without having any friction with Andrew Tate. As much as he may even say that may not be desirable or not, but I come up with my own solutions where I don't have to compromise who I am, but I can still please you as a man. You told me your favorite car is that one, even though I like that one. I'll be like, do you know what? I like that one. But looking at yours,
nice too, you know. I really like you. You got good taste. It's that simple. What people are failing to do with the red pill movement is to understand that there can be a compromise, because I've had to compromise my life as a woman to be able to survive, because I didn't have a man around me. Okay, you think the red pill doesn't agree with believing compromise? No, and it doesn't deal with the victims of society, of situations that it's just life. Okay. Okay.
Okay.
you
um do you have any points for them
Both of those. Yeah, I can talk about the red pill. I can complain about it just too. I think there is to be fair,
I do think there is a lot of angry, bitter men which are attracted to it.
And those are the ones that will leave these stupid comments. My point was that- Thank you. But my point is that they're already being punished by God and by society, so don't worry about it.
If a woman doesn't act correctly, she doesn't feel...
The true sting of punishment. Not in her prime years. She may feel it later. But in her prime years. It doesn't fucking even matter. Which is why they do it. Whereas if a man. Doesn't have a shit in order. Trust me. He knows very well. Because his reality sucks. And that's why he's sending you DMs. Because he's lonely. Because if he had a life. He wouldn't bother. Right? So. There's that part of it. It does attract a lot of angry bitter people. But I think that's because.
Life's very difficult as a man, like we said earlier, and some of them end up angry and bitter. The answer to all things, I believe, whether you're a man or you're a woman...
to try and heal all rifts between the genders. I think whether you're a man or you're a woman, the answer to all things in life is to take absolute and utter self-accountability for all the good and all the bad.
You must look at yourself and realize that everything good that happened in your life is your fault and everything bad that happens in your life is completely your fault.
And with that, having that high degree of absolute accountability, it doesn't matter. Even if it rains outside, I blame myself because I didn't have to be in London, right? I could have stayed in Dubai and it wouldn't have rained. So I'm responsible for absolutely everything. And if you do that, you pay attention to things and you try your very best to mitigate the negative circumstances.
And work your hardest, you're going to have a pretty good life. I just want to finish by saying that I believe that men and women are best as a team. I don't think any woman will be truly happy without a man. And I certainly know that no man will be happy without a woman. I think it's absolutely beautiful when we work as couples. And we create families. And we stick to our strengths. When men stick to what they're good at and a woman sticks to what they're good at, that makes them the most powerful team on the planet.
And the world we're living in now, we have societal pressures and propagandas which are trying very hard to divide and split the genders. But truthfully, the power and the beauty of the universe relies on us working together.
It's been very nice speaking to you ladies. I'm only upset that you ran out of clementines, and I'm stuck with limes. I was going to say give this man an orange, and those are my limes. There's melon out there. Okay, we got melon. But yeah, all in all, I think it's good. And I also think that discussion is very, very important. And I think that a lot of these issues are delicate and they're nuanced, and people listening to conversations like these, and hearing the different points of view, and understanding each other is a fantastic way to progress. And we're entering brand new territory, and it's never been done before.
And perhaps you can call me old fashioned. I don't think it's going to be as good as it was in the olden days, but we're going to find out. So interesting.
Okay. Thank you guys all for coming. We'll do a little round of applause for the panel.
So why don't we go around and any final thoughts, any social media you want to plug, you can do it now. So start here and then go around.
I mean, I'm good.
okay you already know who she is um i have more like a request
Is that okay? Could you say my name, please?
I can't pronounce it. Dinalva. That's it. Dinalva. Top G. Dinalva and Andrew Tate. Sagittarius team representing. Follow me on the gram. Dinalva.io. He said the name so you know it's legit. Thank you, Pearl.
- My final thoughts,
with just um reflecting on everything we've been speaking about i just think
Men and women, we need to listen to each other. I picked up a lot.
on what Tate was saying about how women need to be a bit more agreeable, make their man feel like he's the only one.
Agreed.
but also,
Men need to listen to women as well. She needs to feel protected. She needs to feel like you're going to be there. You're not going to leave her for another woman.
She needs to feel secured. Like, can we all just listen to each other and what we want in each other? And that's the only way we can strengthen the family unit.
That's what I have to say. And please follow me, Esther, your Nigerian queen.
Ant, you want to go and then you go.
See this lady you can see you're right. I
Thank you.
I'm cool. I just think that.
My final thoughts. When it's out there, it's out there. You said it, you said it.
That's how I feel. And yes,
We've all been through trauma.
I'm sick of hearing about it. I don't mind if you've got trauma you don't know.
But if you know you've got trauma, sort it out. I don't want to hear about it. Call me lack of empathy. No, just lack of bullshit. You know you've got trauma. Sort it out. And, um...
Sometimes when people are talking women need to listen.
Sometimes women need to spend too much time talking. Because I'm sure that half of what Mr Tate said was totally lost or...
mixed around or misunderstood.
I don't give a shit if anybody thinks I'm rude. This is why I'm an if you don't like it. It's tough because I ain't changing.
My final thoughts. Tell them to subscribe to your YouTube. She just hit 15,000. I'm not even YouTube. I made you a YouTube channel. Yeah, and yeah, Auntie Jenny, American Spelling with the Y. Jenny, YouTube. Instagram is nothing on this. Don't go on Instagram. Tell them about your Colin show.
- Oh yeah, and I have a call-in show. And I'd like to have a call-in show, the next one. Women can phone in and disagree with anything I've said. Anybody that wants to phone in and disagree, phone in live, disagree with me, I'll take it. Whatever you disagree with me on, I'm gonna have a disagreement show. Phone up and disagree with me. Yeah, that's what I'm gonna do, 'cause I can do it. 'Cause I am a female OG. I learned that the other day. - That doesn't sound very agreeable. - I learned that the other day. - Andrew, do you have anything else you wanna plug?
Yeah, my Instagram, oh wait, I'm banned.
My YouTube, I'm banned. My Facebook, banned. I've got MySpace. Anyone got MySpace? No, you are. Tom doesn't ban me. I'm on MySpace. Find me on MySpace. No. You're on Rumble. I'm on Rumble, yeah, I was about to say. I'm on Rumble, which is better than YouTube in every way. Sorry, YouTube. Rumble.com slash Tate Speech, and the website is CobraTate.com.
I can't avoid your face on Instagram or TikTok anyway. So it doesn't matter if I'm banned because I'm still around. But CobraTapes.com, I recommend to people, if you like what I say, I have a free email list. Sign up to the free email list. I send an email every single day about different topics. Some are for the guys, some are for the girls, but they're all on there.
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