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So who's the fresh and fit for being here and being the host of the, you know, they've been such a.
a place where I could record podcasts at when I come down to Miami.
But this individual in particular, who's my guest for this episode?
I've seen online a bunch of times.
I've gotten engaged because of what you said.
And I've sat around and I'm watching and listening to this guy, like kind of just give game and break down life in a very –
interesting way to,
And I said to you before, I said, not only is it palatable, but it's logical.
You know, I think your life experiences.
what you've taken out of it and how you approach life from here on out.
makes you such a unique personality. By the way, ladies and gentlemen, I want to introduce you and welcome to Andrew Tate. Hey, hello, everybody. And unique personality. I'm usually called something else. So that's a very nice way to describe me. Usually,
Usually I get the insults.
But no way. Well, you know, it's kind of funny. It's interesting. When you tell the truth about life, there's two ways it can go. You probably know this yourself, right? You have people who you awaken and they understand. And it's like you've given them the red pill and you're Morpheus and you're showing the way out of the Matrix. And you got the people still deep inside of the Matrix who are desperate to defend it, right?
That's what they say in the movie. The people who are still part of the system will defend the system. So whenever I say something online, I get people who come along and say, I've never seen it said that way. That's the most intelligent thing I've ever heard. I listen to you and my life change. And then you get guys who come along and say, he's lying. He's made it up, etc, etc. So it's a good juxtaposition.
like YouTubers, like a lot of times they're juxtaposed to
where they're going to be definitely align themselves against people who they seem to be succeeding with whatever message that maybe even they themselves are preaching, but they haven't gotten this far. I think that's definitely part of it. And I also think that instinctually a rabbit hates a fox.
It's instinctual. Explain that. It means that.
Okay, let's talk about it. I don't even want to get political. I don't even know if we're allowed to get political. No, no, you can do whatever you want. All right, so let's talk about it. By the way, the name of the podcast is Off the Record. Off the Record. Let's go Off the Record. So we got to talk about a shit that you wouldn't say on anything else. All right, okay, let's do it. So let's talk about Trump. I'm not even going to say I'm a Trump fan. I'm not even going to defend Trump. I fuck with Trump. Yeah, so do I, but it's not even about that. I fuck with Trump. Yeah, but the point is that people hated him so feverishly.
So deeply, they couldn't stand him. No matter what he did, they hated him. And that's what I mean when I say a rabbit hates a fox. Sometimes when you're just an inferior specimen.
on the food chain and you look up.
right it's fear yeah but in the modern world that fear is is masked as dislike
Right. So all these little YouTubers are to come along and say something about me. Oh, he's a misogynist. He's this, he's this, he's this. They never say it to me. Of course, they're scared of men like me. So they dislike me. So they go to their other. Why the fuck they think you're a misogynist? Because I tell them the reality and the reality of the world and the reality of the world. The reality of the world is that women have a place and men have a place and we're the perfect complement.
When did you figure this out? So, so, you know, you know, I also did content with, you know, Fresh and Fit and I was telling him I had a realization moment.
about this fairytale that is believed and is also kind of put upon
Many people in society that, oh, women want this, you know, it's almost like this Romeo and Juliet like experience where like, hey, there's this guy who's essentially a white knight who's going to fucking swoop you off your feet and do this and third. But you realize like living in 2021, like that's not the case. You know, I had to figure this out when I was when I was very younger. I had to figure it out when.
I thought women wanted the good guy because that's what they said. We were taught the guy who brought the roses, the guy who was nice, this and third. And I didn't think all these other things really mattered. Okay, maybe a little bit of looks, this and third, but not...
other stuff you know at that point i'm in my uh phase of being in high school college and i'm like well
Like, well, only a gold digger is going to care about what you have and the resources. And I got to realize that, like, you know, the older I got,
Women...
were very different.
than what I was...
brainwashed to think. Yep.
You know, you're completely right. And especially when you look at something like nice, right? Because
you can be nice to women i'm not saying don't be nice the idea of being nice in and of itself has no value because nice is something which is intangible nice is something that can be fabricated right you or i can go out there and be nice we can be nice to people we don't like anybody can be nice so there's no scar there's no scarcity attached how can i have a value something like status is very hard to fake right something like that lambo is very hard to fake something like all these things are very hard to fake but nice can be faked and in fact most girls will tell you the guy
As soon as he didn't get the pussy, he's the one who starts going, you know what, bitch, I don't even let you do this. The whole thing was a lie. So these women have evolved when you come along talking nice to think, ah, I remember the last psycho was talking nice.
Nice is almost a red flag to a lot of women.
right because because why would you and let's be honest gentlemen me being a misogynist right let's be honest why would you be nice to a chick and let's try to i'm gonna be the misogynist meter and by the way i don't know if you know i i identify as a feminist because i believe the core inner feminist ideals that women deserve the same rights as men yep the same opportunities and should
about what the true definition of being a feminist is, makes me one. 100%. Now,
It doesn't make me delusional. So I'll be the meter here. If you start saying some shit, I'm like, hey, misogynist. All right. I'll be that person. I'm ready. I'm ready. Let's go. All right. But the point is when a guy comes along trying to be nice,
I think women instinctively kind of look at you and go, look, you just met me. You don't know me.
And you're being extremely nice to me.
And that, to a degree, I think, warns them. That's deceptive on some level. I think that's the reason they're semi-repulsed by it. Like, you knew me an hour ago, and you're being all nice to me.
Like, what do you want? Well, we know what we want. She knows what we want. So the whole thing just looks fake. It doesn't look genuine. Right. And integrity and being a genuine person is not just something that women respected men. It's something that men respect in medicine that people respect in other people. So it's good when a woman meets you to know that you're a genuine individual doesn't mean don't be nice.
But also means just because she got big titties,
You start turning up and busting out presents an hour in. Yeah. It's just wrong. It tickers her radar. You know, it's wrong. If you were a serial killer weirdo,
and you were uncomfortable with girls and you wanted to convince her to get back in the back of the van you turn up with chocolates bro that's what you do true or false you pull up an ice cream truck yeah they'd be like hey baby so there's something disingenuous about it and that's what i think the confusion is because
A lot of guys also message me and say, oh, yeah, you know, nice, nice. I'm very nice to the women I associate with. I'm a nice guy. But it's genuine. I call that it's like it's like it's like suave. It's like, you know, it's like you got some cool, you know, just it's just a thing about yourself. And to explain to the people who are watching where it's like it's a thing where like you could be within whatever you're into, but you know how to deal with women on a very slick, sleek level that it's not.
say palatable yeah it doesn't come across like you're fucking saying make me a sandwich you're not doing that no i'm not doing that way and and and there's a huge advantage in life to being likable
That is a skill that most people should cultivate, being likable. I can actually honestly say all the people who just, okay, YouTube aside, in the real world, the people who dislike me are people I've decided it's okay for them to dislike me.
or pure violent haters, which every man gets, right? But if I'm in a conversation with somebody and I want them to like me, I have 100% success rate. I know how to make people like me. I know how to be a likable person. I had a guy come to me the other day and he said, "Oh yeah, the women in my office really dislike me." I'm like, "Why?" "Oh yeah, well they're this, they're that." I'm like, "Bro, you're in a corporate setting, arguing with chicks?"
HR, you're going to get wrecked.
Like, well, be likable, like do something like, well, how can you not be likable on that level? So all in all, I think being likable is a superpower. And I think it's something you should cultivate. And it translates across everything from business to women to everything else. And if you're likable enough, you'd be amazed what you get away with. I mean, you see me on Fresh and Fit. I say some shit, bro. But I'm likable enough, but the girl's got to sit there and go...
Yo, I'm watching you talk crazy and you're surrounded by 10, 15 shakes and you're sitting in the middle and.
Even you're talking crazier, they're getting cozier and cozier. And I'm like, like, is it at the point they're not even listening to the fucking words coming out of your mouth? And it's not that you're really. And I think this is where the sincerity comes in. You're not just. There's some people who they aim to offend. Yeah.
right i feel like
When you speak,
people and that's why I keep saying palatable because
It's very direct. It's very...
Strong. Yep.
But it's somehow not offensive. I'm trying to open their mind to a new way of thinking. And there is a skill in doing that. And yeah, so I try not to be offensive unless I deliberately decide to be offensive. How much of that is, you know, and I've listened to you tell your story. And one of the things...
I kind of envy a little bit. And I could be honest with you when I'm like, yo, damn, this guy's a well-traveled guy. Like, I feel like you've had experiences from all over the United States. Well, not all over the world. Correct. So, you know, you've dealt with women in the United States, but, like, you've dealt with women in, you know,
of course, in the East in terms of
Russia, you've dealt with women who are maybe Middle Eastern, you know, I mean, and it's like,
your global outlook of you know um relationships is much more diverse than me who my view on women
It's like, hey, listen, I get women in the Caribbean because I was born there. Of course. I came over to live in the Northeast, and I'm like, hey, this is how New York women are. They're a little bit abrasive. And then I came to Miami, like, oh, my God, this is it. But I haven't really experienced. I think your experience is one of the most valuable things about yourself.
When I watch you, it tells me
Instead of thinking that what you're doing is correct, how about you shut the fuck up and start traveling?
How about you see how women are
in.
Russia, Ukraine. Yep.
How about you go to Paris? I've never been to these places. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But it kind of tells me some shit like, yo,
You need to fucking get out of your comfort zone because what you think is based on where you've been and also the things that is the pretense behind why you're there. Correct.
No, you're completely best, completely correct. And also, you'll notice.
A lot of these arguments I find interesting, these ones we discuss like gender roles and all this kind of shit, because when you go to a country, the closer humanity is to the survival line, the closer that we naturally revert to our gender roles. If you go to a poor country, men are men and women are women.
Wait a minute. Explain that. Explain a bit. So if we're here in the West, right? So we're in America and women are like, there's no such thing as a gender role. Or if a man does it, I can do it too. And just because I'm a... So about equality. It's all about equality. Are you on Twitter? You're not on Twitter. I'm on Twitter, bro.
no way you tweet bro i'm on twitter
They'll get you out of here. Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. Yeah. I've been banned many times, but I'm back for now. So I don't even promote it because I know it ain't going to last that long. But OK, so what's your take, especially on Twitter? It's like.
I'd say.
we're so progressive.
that almost we're aggressive in the fact that we're so progressive in promoting women's opinions ideas rights that essentially you have to hate men yeah completely people have equality completely confused right two plus two is four
Three plus one is four. That's equal. That doesn't mean you can take different paths to the same outcome. Yeah. Happy life can be approached in completely different ways from the masculine and the feminine. But they have this idea that for it to be equal, we must do the same things. And that's absolutely not really wrong in my perspective. And my perspective is also based on the fact that human biology, we grew up a certain way, right? Before this new thing in this new age, men were men were men. We had roles in society. Women were women. They had roles in society. And if you go to most places in the world today, those roles still exist.
line.
the closer they are to their natural genetics or their gender roles so let bro
we're on a boat yeah say we're on a boat you me bunch of you know what's in the cup so look hey hey come on hey i got a little henny in the cup i listen i heard you mention coffee black before i'm like oh okay andrew is not like that he's not like that like that i'm like that i got my coffee my henny let's put mix it all up let's go yo can we get him like some heavy please yo yo there's
hours.
Man, hearing your fucking story...
And I'm like, yo, this guy was operating with running a fucking casino. Yeah.
not in this fucking country. Yo, Fresh, you could be seen on camera, nigga. Don't be ducking. Look at this guy. Look at this guy, man. Yo, yo. By the way, and also, I do want to say, yo, my guy Fresh right here, this wouldn't be possible without him. 100%.
Yo, I have to ask is like, yo,
Dude.
How did you like so and I feel like we're going all the way back. All right. OK, we go all the way back. We can go. If people don't aren't familiar with me and the story, I can do the story from the very. I need the fucking story because.
you started out with like a webcam company some like that right correct how the did you do that all right so you want to go all the way back all the way back all right we're running all the way back so
From the very beginning. I was born in Washington, D.C. You were born here? I was born in D.C., bro. I'm American.
So I was born here in D.C. My father was Air Force. My mother was English. Why the fuck did I think you were born overseas? No, no, no, no. I just live over there. Why? We're going to get there. We're going to get there. So my mother, my dad, my dad was in the Air Force. Yeah. He was in England, based at Chick Sands, and he met...
a bunch of English women, but he took my mom and they moved back to America and I was born. My father was, my father actually worked for the, he was a linguist. So he worked for the CIA. So back in the days, really? Yeah. So back in the days, nowadays, if the American government wants someone who talks Russian, they can easily get someone from a EU member state who speaks Russian, whatever, whatever. Back in those days, if you want to listen on the bugs or whatever, you needed someone who spoke Russian and they didn't trust any native speakers. So they used
record.
for the fastest assimilation of a foreign language. He learned Russian from zero to hero in about three weeks. Done. Alphabet, everything. Thanks.
Just read the dictionary. Really? Yeah. So my father was a genius, right? So and when I say genius and I want to make this clear, because a lot of people say I'm pretty smart.
I'm smart, but I'm not a genius. I grew up around genius. I'm talking about my dad used to tell him a phone number.
Once.
Back for the rest of his life.
that was it so what's your number boom cool
Four and a half years later. Yeah.
It was genius genius. Almost like fucking like Rain Man shit.
god damn yeah so my dad was my dad was all about it so he was in the air force he retired he was actually a chess master so you can look at all this up my dad was one of the best chess players in the world so he was a famous chess player so i grew up so i yo this is so intense that i don't like this is why i had to sit down with you yeah i'm like this is so fucking intense and i'm like if i told someone this story they would say i'm lying so i need you to say the story and i also need you to drop these nuggets that people will google because they're gonna stop this fucking
they're gonna say the fucking liar yeah google emory tate that was his name emory tate it's a chess master and my dad was a really unique guy right because
He's a chess master, but the chess scene is obviously you got a bunch of autistic guys, a bunch of guys who are like math nerds. You got a bunch of XKGB guys at the time. And then you got my dad, who was a big black dude.
but also a chess master, right? So it was kind of weird where he had this... His dad's black? Yeah, yeah, yeah. I know I don't really look it, but my... What the fuck is your...
Listen, let me... Yo, is this shit real? So my dad, my dad's dad was black. You're not black. My dad's dad was black. My dad's mother was half black. My mother's white Irish, so I'm like a third.
So I've got just enough.
I can drink the Henny. You're technically Black Dan. Bro, I got the hands. Like, I got, don't worry, I got the genetic gifts, my friend. You know, I got, yeah, I got what I need. I'm like Daywalker, Blade. Like, they don't really see anything. Wish I'd find this guy.
Yeah. So my dad is this big black guy in this chess scene. So I kind of grew up around a bunch of geniuses. And I also grew up around my dad being the physically the physical specimen of the genius. Yeah. It was kind of a strange dynamic. And I learned a lot about even about power power dynamics, even at a young age. Right.
Because what'd you learn?
I learned that
if you have a status or if you have a certain degree of presence as a man then you're going to be treated differently then i learned a lot about my dad's presence my dad would walk up to a chess tournament three hours late and they'd be like it's closed and breaks cut off he said not for me no And this little door could be and just shit himself like that. My dad was like that. He was just like a big you have to imagine a gangster who plays chess. Yeah,
no, no, no. You know, like, kind of a weird juxtaposition, but that's how he was. So, you're a little kid, you're watching your dad who, you know, he's into these shit, but like...
He has that presence about him. He has that presence and also he also had this he was completely in many ways He was very very nomadic when he left the Air Force
My father was too smart for the world. Right. And I say this in in a way because he wasn't necessarily very.
socially,
I wouldn't say it wasn't socially intelligent, but he didn't give a fuck, right? And there's a degree you need to give a fuck, right? There's a degree you need to be able to interact with people. My dad didn't want to interact with nobody. All he cared about was the chessboard. Because it's the only thing I don't think he could completely fathom in his mind. Yeah. So he was obsessed with chess, right? So when you told him, like, a rental contract or having a house, he was uninterested in all that shit. So my dad used to just drive around the country here in America in the 90s. Like one-track mind. In the 90s, yeah, yeah. Driving, living in his fucking Pontiac Sunbird, driving around the country. And if he ever ran out of money, he'd just go to the park.
to park where the chess players play and say, all right, put the clock on. You get 10 minutes. I got 30 seconds.
He's playing $100 a game and drunk out of his mind on Henny and just fucking smoke people for fucking hustling in the park for chess dollars and then back in the car. So my dad was like the old school chess G.
Yeah, that's how he survived. He survived on chess, purely just my hustling the whole way through.
So I grew up around that. And it was kind of interesting because my mother is obviously the complete opposite. My mother is very stable and, you know, normal family. As a kid, what the fuck are you learning during this time?
I'm learning that you're hard to kill. I think a lot of men forget this. Like, okay, you know, you don't want to make the wrong enemies. But oftentimes, people are afraid to do things because they're worried about the massive downside of failure, right?
especially young guys. I don't know about you, but I get this all the time with young guys going, I want to try this. Young is the time to try. I'm going to try when you're old. You're going to mortgage and kids and shit. Try now. What's the worst? You're going to go broke. A lot of people are far too risk adverse. I don't understand why. Me personally,
Maybe it's the...
The gambler in. I love risk. By the way.
You're so right.
I often tell
like you know people who are now my age i'm like and some of them have kids i said
Hey listen,
you guys are in a different part of your life if i had a bunch of kids and this and third like
Like these days, I don't have kids. Yep. Not married. I'm single. Yep.
i get a call didn't even know i was coming to miami i get a call
maybe a day ago. Yeah.
Hey, we got a situation. We want you to interview Rick Ross. Listen to the session. Win with somewhere.
Book it. I'm there.
I remember talking to this guy I interviewed recently, and he said, yo, having kids, like,
there's a million situations you have to like kind of like think about it so like for me like risk is easy yep
But I also look at people and I'm like,
Granted, I'm 30 now. So it was like...
In my 20s,
I always looked at, you have to take the risk then. I'm just lucky enough that I'm at the age I'm at, and I can still take the risk. But, like, how have you looked at risk? Because, like...
Did your father and mother or maybe father provide like a decent life for you? Like, why would you want to take risks, though?
Because my dad was all about maximum risk. That's all he was about. My dad would go to the park, hustle money out of the people in the park, get enough to go to the tournament, win 10 G's in a chess tournament, the only money he had in the world, and walk straight into the casino. With that money he won? Yeah. And he's like, look, I want 50 grand or we're broke. If I need another $50 for food, we'll go back to the park.
He was all or nothing. He was extremely he adored the idea of being hard to kill. That was his thing to say. I ain't going to die.
I'm hard to kill. He didn't care about like earthly goods and stuff. And I'm the opposite. But in some ways, because I have my nice big house and my nice cars, et cetera, et cetera. But from a very, very young age, I learned his mindset and his mindset was.
You know, you got to take the risk. You got to be that guy. And you also have to understand that failure really, in many cases, isn't going to kill you.
There are certain scenarios where it will, but in the scenarios where it won't, you need to have more bravery. A lot of people out here are talking about, oh, you know, I'm worried if I move to – what the worst happens if you move somewhere? You move home. Like, what's the problem?
So where did you differ with him in your thinking? Because I think his thinking is –
It's dope, but it's radical. It's completely radical. And this is and this is what I always say. And I mean, this with all due respect to my mother, who I love with all my heart. But she watered me down a little bit. And I'm glad because my dad was too smart for the world. Right. So I'm not as it sounds like if you followed your dad all the way, you're either a billionaire or you're homeless. Yeah. One of the two. Yeah. One of the two. No, there's no middle ground. No middle ground. So I like to consider myself, you know, towards the upper end of, you know, I don't want to say middle. I can't say middle. But, you know, I'm doing all right.
story so i grew up around that that was my father and i started playing chess at a young age so when i was five i was state chess champion for indiana in the under 15s i remember i beat a 15 year old when i was five years old i remember walking down there really yeah i remember walking down there with my dad to the indiana state champs i knew i got to look this final game i remember walking down there being super nervous i remember when i won the 15 year old cried and i remember when i won
And that made me happy.
I was so happy. Not that I won, that I made that fucker cry.
- You're five. - I was five, yeah. So I was the youngest ever state chess champion in Indiana. You can verify this as well. That's what I was doing. I learned from my father. - Yo, is it even feasible that you're doing this at five? - Yeah, bro, five. Man, there's grandma-- - Yo, Chris, can we get-- Yo, Chris, can we get a Google or something going-- You're fucking five? - I was five, yeah. It's on my Instagram. You can-- if you scroll to my Instagram, you'll see a newspaper clipping of me playing some other tournament, other kids. But it was only the children's, right, under 15s, but I was five years old. So I was on my way to be a chess champion myself.
And then, but even after I won that, I said to my father, look, my father said, look, we're taking 3 weeks off chess.
You're going to go boxing and karate, all these things. He goes, you're going to be a fucking nerd.
So my father also was very, very understanding of the breadth of life. Yeah. And how lots of different attributes. If you have, if you're 80% in lots of different areas, they can all work together and they can almost amplify each other, right? Yeah. So there's no point, okay, you can be smart and be a complete dork, or you can be 10% less smart than that dork, but you're also a G physically.
And socially?
that's far better than than just being smart yeah it's the culmination of assets so my father said yeah you're gonna be smart of course you're gonna be a chess player of course but you're gonna have all these other assets and attributes about you i was trained from a young age my father instilled me with duty in the bloodline from from a very young age he told me you were gonna be the man that's what you were gonna be you're gonna be able to do this and this and this and this was very purposeful and it's very trained okay but but how did he instill those skills in you yeah so we're there's a yeah scroll keep scrolling down we're on the instant now so
I've got a story behind every one of these pictures, but keep going. It's down there somewhere.
There's a few cars. A Bollywood actress you just went past. How many of these things? All of them, man. All of them. So, um, where is it? It's there somewhere.
We're gonna find it. Yeah, keep going. We're going to the depths now.
There's a newspaper clipping.
Wait, go up? Whoa, look at that shit. Y'all got it.
oh my god yeah it's it's it's there they're up on the left boom
So anything I'm not sure on screen? Yeah, sure. So there's my father.
Yeah.
Wait.
Yeah, so it's been a while since I told the story. So that's me as a kid, and I'm playing three ninth graders there.
And that's my father on the right. And they're talking about how I was upcoming state chess champion, all those kind of things.
That's me as a child. So I was a little chess kid.
okay okay okay that's how it all started you said the beginning my friend so here's we are no you're right but but maybe maybe this is a fast track but how the fuck you turn this into like man you're a fucking magnet for the bitches yeah because life life is chess my friend chess is a basis for life life is chess you have to look at life and look at chess and how they perfectly and not really correlate and you have to understand your place on the board a lot of people the problem they have in the world they live the world we live in today people don't
a king. I know everybody should be a king.
the people who are around me they know i'm the king they're they're the rooks and the knights doesn't mean their life ain't good no way they're still winning the game wait wait they're still winning the game but if everyone's trying to be king then you're gonna lose yo that's hip-hop culture and i'm i'm into that everyone wants to be the king yeah and no one ever wants to be any other pieces and that's the mistake because i have people around me like even my younger brother and all the people who are close to me on my team they'll sit there and say yeah i'm the rook i'm the knight whatever but we're all winning
We're all in Lambos.
You know, we're all in Lambos and you have to know your place. And you can apply chess to life in so many ways. How?
All right, I'll tell you how. All right, the king moves one square at a time.
Right.
The queen can jump across the board.
When you go out to these boats out here in Miami, right? You see a yacht. The man who's on that boat, he had to work his ass hard all his life, one square at a time to get on that boat. How'd the bitch get on the boat?
Instagram. Boom. Across the board. Bang. Done. She ain't doing the hard work.
right?
Also, you can apply it the same way. The queen is a valuable piece, and it is, because any man out here with a good relationship knows how important it is to have a chick who actually supports you. And we're all social animals. We all want a woman who loves us. The queen's an important piece.
But you can still win the game if the bitch dies. Sometimes you've got to go. Sometimes you've got to sacrifice. Sometimes you've got to throw right at the enemy. Boom. Fuck you, bitch. That's the name of the game. Yeah. Okay, okay, I'm following. You understand? So we put it in a bunch of other ways. Pawns. Pawns are members of staff.
Bones can be members of staff or people who work for you. They get to the end of the board, they can become something else. Hold on.
But the term, at least in the hip hop community, a porn, a porn,
feels like they're worthless and they're a sacrificial lamb. They don't seem they don't, they're not seen as the
Winners in the game. Well, that's I would say that a pawn is an individual that can become anything and it just needs a chance to prove himself.
That's what a pawn can be. A pawn gets to the end of the board. Thank you. If a pawn gets to the end of the board, he can be anything, right? So you got to go to war first. You got to go to war for me first. And if you do your job correctly, then you get to be whatever you want when you get to the end of it.
So that's what a pawn's outlook should be. Because if you don't prove yourself, if you're not battle-tested in some degree, then why would you be valuable?
Right. That's life. Look at the boys you have around you. I don't know about you, but I don't roll with boys who won't fight. Like, what the fuck?
Like, they got me battle-tested. You got me in a war with them. No, it's going down. It's going down. You're right. But if I couldn't ever look at, like, people and be like, yo, you're a pawn. A pawn seems like a sack. Okay. So I'm also equating. I'm bringing a little bit of culture. Okay. Yeah. From, like, you know.
hip-hop and this and third into like you know obviously a lot of logic that you're providing
If I tell my homie, like, yo, bro, you're the pawn, you know what he's going to say? Fuck you. Yo, so I'm the guy who is going to take the charges and go down for you to have the glory. Yeah, yeah, yeah. No, I don't really. I understand exactly what you're saying. I didn't mean it.
particularly like that. But I'm just saying that. No, I hear what you're saying. I guess...
for me you're mr palatable because what you're saying doesn't make sense yeah but how do you get someone to understand that chess philosophy and that chess analogy and the fact that they might be playing the role as the pawn but not thinking in the traditional sense of oh i'm the sacrifice because what you just said is a pawn could be anything if they make it to the end yeah correct and i think the best way to do that is to explain that
You start as we all start. We all start as pawns as men.
This is the thing about life as a man. And most women don't understand this. Men are born with absolutely zero intrinsic value. Male life is not respected. Think about it. Men have been dying since the dawn of time. We go to war. There'll be millions of us dying. Nobody cared, right? If three or four women died, it's a tragedy.
If 4,000 men get blown apart, well, the men are doing what the men do, right? Male life has no intrinsic value. We can't reproduce. If you were to leave...
me, you and fresh and all and every other man on earth died, we can repopulate. Yeah, bro, you know, we get it done, right? Leave us the women, right? Leave us the ovens and we'll get the bread baked. Yeah, you just leave fresh here. The whole species here. But if you only have three women and a bunch of men, you couldn't get it done. Right. Yeah. Women could reproduce. Women have an intrinsic value. Women are born with value. We're born with nothing.
If you want to be something as a man, you need to go to war in some form. You need to be a pawn. If you're not a pawn, if you're born anywhere else on the scale, in most cases, you end up being a fake or a fraud. I'll tell you something, man. I know a lot of people with a lot of money, but they were born with it. And when you're born with it, you never really suffered. You've never been hungry. You've never hustled. You've never struggled. You always just called daddy. And there's something about them as a man that is missing.
Trauma is absolutely necessary in the development of male, of a man.
We need trauma. We need that masculine essence. We need to suffer. We need to suffer, my friend. I think the worst life a man could possibly live is one without suffering. Let me ask you a question then. So, for example, for your kids and, say, my kids, Yep.
We went through the suffering.
How do we let them suffer? Well, I'm going to have to make sure he suffers one way or another. I'm telling you now, no matter how much money I have, I'm not going to let my son be raised thinking he's rich. I'm not going to let him be thinking I'm not going to have him be raised with a silver spoon in his mouth saying I can do what I want. Absolutely not. The complete opposite. I refuse to allow my bloodline to be destroyed on that level because it would be destroyed. That's what would happen. You think it's that serious? It's absolutely that serious. I'm telling you, man. All right.
Take 50 dudes who were born rich and 50 dudes were born on the street. Put them out in a rumble. Who's winning? Hey, bruv.
Before I can even answer that,
They've killed me online for this.
And yo,
I've.
I tried to have a little pride about where I'm from. Yeah. I wasn't born...
in the united states i was born in jubaca okay
I look at a lot of people's... Top boss. You know, I look at a lot of people's succeeding. Yeah.
in the United States.
music and I say,
Hey, that's a first-generation...
American. Yeah.
or that's an immigrant just like me. - Yeah.
We don't feel we have any handouts. Yeah.
is tooth and nails. Yep, yep, yep.
But I've been shamed to be like, no, you're trying to separate yourself from the majority of the people who are in this shit.
And I've looked at it, I'm like...
Is that the case?
Because in reality, what you're saying,
I agree with.
But I also agree with in terms of
Thank you.
if you're a dude who feels like you need it like
If you have a kid and he feels like you have it, it's not going to ever work that hard. That's right. And that is a conscious effort that I'm going to have to undertake to ensure that my child feels the pressures I felt.
Because pressure makes diamonds and I felt pressure and that's exactly what I want. I want my child to feel pressure. Okay. I want my boy to feel pressure.
So let me ask you a question. Sure. How do you turn all the success into getting the women? Because women seem to love you.
Do they? Women. Yeah, they do. They do. Do they? So...
I've been watching this guy speak.
And the more and more he speaks women love him more.
And they're like enamored over the stuff you say and they're like, well, you know, he's telling the truth with this and this and third and I'm looking at it. I'm like, what part of it is it?
they're just trying to,
just say whatever to be a part of it or they're just really acknowledging it. I think most of the things I say, I try and explain to the girl or even to the guy.
Right. I try when I try to do business with anyone, I try and make it very clear that although the situation may be uncomfortable, the benefits for you do exist. You have to understand.
You have to understand the benefits for you. So what I'm talking about when I was talking with the girls in the last Fresh and Fit about a man who's going to sometimes cheat. Before I'll say the man's going to sometimes cheat, I'll say a man who is big, strong, rich, takes care of you, looks after you. And then he runs down to that pussy. Let's slow down. Sure.
Because I need you to explain this shit.
Andrew. Yeah.
So I'm a guy who's worked. I've lost so many hours of sleep. I always tell people I'm like, listen,
you know i wish i could be andrew in terms of you know
Physically Fitness, Heather. One of the byproducts of me getting success and me living a unhealthy lifestyle to get success. Yep.
It's me gaining weight. Yeah. Sorry. Yeah. Look at me in college. I'm fucking fit as fuck. I'm broke as fuck. Yeah. That's right. It's true. It's true. I had to live an unhealthy lifestyle.
I wish I could balance it. I wish. I so much wish, but I couldn't.
But now I'm left with this and then I'm here to explain and.
answer to everyone, how do you make this happen? So that's why I ask you,
I'm like...
How do you make this shit happen? And then how do you...
How do you explain to a woman the risks
You had to take.
And then,
validate what they have to go through. I think that a lot of women can instinctively smell it.
I think women to a degree are quite instinctual. You know, they talk about women's intuition and everyone makes fun of them. I think women's intuition to a degree is real. I think women's intuition. I agree. Well, I.
I think it's real in terms of them thinking that you're dealing with another woman. Sometimes I believe they're oblivious to— They're good with that shit, aren't they?
You're cheating. You're like, how the fuck? No, baby. How the fuck you know? You like this girl. And I go a lot. When they say that, it's like, well, I do have some interest in her. But it always lacks in the self-awareness portion of like,
Okay, whatever I said,
I'm not going to acknowledge why you're going to do other things. Yeah, I'm not going to acknowledge that. Hey, listen, you're fucking bored. Yeah, I'm not going to acknowledge that. Hey,
because of what you've been into and i've not been supportive you're doing these it doesn't acknowledge the
They only acknowledge what they have to contribute to that. Yeah. No, I completely agree. And I think, truthfully, I really believe that any woman on an instinctual level, if she gets with a guy she truly respects in her heart, she knows to some degree occasionally he's going to be doing what he's doing.
It's just a matter of putting it in a way and framing it in a way that doesn't upset them. How do you do that? All right. So, all right. I'll tell you how you do that. All right. Let me break it down. How you do that? I'll explain how I did it. This is why I got to have him here because I've heard you say this and I'm like, fuck.
fuck yeah i have to save this clip and cut it to everyone else but i got you here now all right so great so here's how we go so women show loyalty women show love through sexual exclusivity that's what they do they say i love you so i'm sexually exclusive to you that's how you know i love you right because you have the fact that i am sexually exclusive to you as proof and what they expect or what society tells them they should expect is for us to do the same thing by the way
Not to interrupt you, even though I am.
have you heard like you know so i'm in hip-hop so like these new women their whole thing is like hey yo i'm like you know i'm in a hot girl summer so i could sexual exclusivity doesn't mean i could just show everyone that i have the power and i'm like well okay well
if,
even if we happen to cross paths i won't wife you yeah you're advertising that you could be with anyone 100 100 and you how you can have power on your back with the leg spread
You don't have power for nothing, right? It's just bullshit that they've been convinced. They're trying to convince themselves of their own. They're trying to cope. They're trying to justify their disgusting actions. It's haram, my friend. No woman should want to do that. And I don't believe any woman instinctually wants to do that. I don't think women, before they're programmed by the outside society in a negative connotation, I don't think women actually wake up at the age of 14, 15, meet their first love, you know, lose to Virginia and go, you know, I want to go out there and be a hoe. I don't think that's what happens. They have their heart broken. They watch too much sex in the city. Fucking hurt. Yeah, and they're hurt.
they wash too much shit and they lose it instead of having their heart broken and realizing that sometimes things hurt and you don't want to detriment them.
You don't want to detriment your entire future for there on out after. But that's the point I'm trying to make here. And the idea when we were talking earlier about equal men, women, all this crap,
The point that a woman should be sexually exclusive to show she's loyal and a man should be sexually exclusive to show he's loyal. I disagree with that. I think men show loyalty in other ways. And this is why I try and say to my woman.
You cannot call me a cheater.
I'm not cheating on you. If I love another woman, that's cheating. If I take another woman on holidays, that's cheating. If I have another woman living in this fucking condo, that's cheating. If I have another bitch taking care of the way you're taking care of, that's cheating.
I'm just fucking.
That's not cheating.
Right. So I show my loyalty to you in a completely different way. You don't have to look at me and say he only sleeps with me to know that I love to know that he loves me. I show you in many other ways. You have so many other anchors to attach to to know that you're different from every other girl. So why are you concerned about sex or somehow? Why does that bother you? So I'm playing devil's advocate. Sure. But I'm giving you what the woman would tell me if I try to hit him with that. Well,
Thank you.
if you are with other women, it's showing me that you're not that much into me.
all right so then we'll go then okay so let's say if you're in with other women you're not that into me right and also they're gonna then throw well
Thank you.
Because we're equal. Yep.
I won't do that with other men. Yeah. So it kind of makes what you're doing...
That's wrong. No, but it's not wrong. And you need to make them understand the difference between the historical context and the new world, new thing that's being inflicted on their mind. You know, I do this with nearly every chick I'm with every once in a while. I just remind them that they are absolutely not really programmed. Everybody is programmed. Listen, my friend, everybody to some degree is programmed. You and I, the things we're saying to people right now on this podcast is going to change the way some of them think. People are programmed and you're programmed by your environment. And you have to be very, very careful who you allow to program you.
You have to be very, very careful of that. And women aren't. And what happens with females, because males at least are capable of some degree of independent thought. And the reason we're capable of independent thought is because we are born evolutionarily, we're biologically, we have evolved for war. So we were allowed to disagree with the common thesis of society because we can pull out our sword and defend our beliefs.
If you can't defend your belief, you're not going to have any. Right. So men can occasionally come up with independent thought, but women.
They don't have independent thought because they're not capable of violence. So women are programmed by either the society they exist within or the man who's fucking them. One of the two is putting ideas in their mind. And I'm telling you now, you have a good woman. It's because she has a good man putting good ideas in her head. You have a stupid woman. It's because she has society putting ideas in her head. But none of these ideas are from herself. They're not original. They're not a self-origin.
Sorry, Carl. So I don't play. I talk fast. No, no, you're right. I love the fast talking because I think fast as well. Yo.
So I'm going to play devil's advocate. Sure. Well, okay.
Thank you.
derides a certain extent.
Thank you. So no, I'm playing devil's advocate. Okay. Okay. Okay. So the woman's going to say, well, here's the thing.
Whatever you're saying...
And whatever they're thinking...
Right.
What's so wrong with them thinking that
you know,
Um,
the experience of being a woman,
and being a man,
it's not that different it's equal like what's the problem with them trying to hold men accountable to say
hey you can't fuck anything you want to fuck and i have to not do the same or whatever the case is
Well, my answer to that, I would look her in the eyes I'd look the bitch in the eyes and say, do you want to be a hoe? Because if she answers yes, then she's broken
You have to understand, bro. Because there's, I ain't got time to waste, my friend. So if she comes down to that shit and I say, listen, do you want to be a slut? Do you want to be a hoe? Do you want the world to view you as a hoe? Do you want all the men who have fucked you to think of you as a hoe? Do you want me to think of you as a hoe? Do you want your father to be disappointed? Do you want your future men to think of you as a hoe? Do you want that? Because if the answer is, well, yeah, good. Then you ain't shit.
by streets but most women will say well no i don't want to be a hoe but well there is no fucking butt because the butt is and you don't take a bunch of dick isn't it that's the butt the butt is you don't act in a manner which is because of today's society they're gonna say
They're willing to not take a bunch of dick if you don't fuck a bunch of pussy.
Correct. And that's where you have to make them understand the biological and evolutionary differences between men and women. And they already basically understand them, but you have to outline them to them. You have to say, look, how do you do it? Every man since the dawn of time, every king, every sheikh, every sultan had more than one woman.
He had his wife and his concubines, every single one. Look it up. This is the human biological norm. Promiscuous females have never been something of history that was
shined light upon. Nobody was ever proud of a promiscuous female, right? You can talk about Genghis Khan and all his kids and all his wives. There's not one female in history they're going to talk about who was a fantastic woman because she had all these men.
There's no success in it. There's no achievement in it. It's always been frowned upon. And most of the world today, my friend, is still frowned upon.
You can't go to the Arab world and act like these hoes do. You can't go to most parts of Africa and act like these hoes do. You can't do it in India. You can't do it in lots of places in the world. Still, to this day, being a promiscuous female is literally a crime.
literally a crime right because like what did i say i said
The more poor people are, the less money people have, the closer they are to the survival line, the closer they naturally resort to their gender roles. So the men become men and the women become women. And in those countries, the women who are the most feminine in regards to the biological evolution of the female.
because it's the bread line, right?
They're not hoes.
They're not hoes. They don't want to be hoes. They want to be a virgin, get married, have kids straight away. That's all they're looking to do. So my point is when a woman comes along and says, well, if you can do it, I can do it. I'm going to explain to her. Well, that's a very new attitude. That's the last 30, 40 years. That's brand new. That's a new thing. How do you cope with it, though? Because we're in Miami right now. We're in Miami. Miami is the hotspot for these kind of bullshit. Great. So you're in Miami. The chick is going to come to you and be like, well,
based on the environment I'm in.
I don't have to be the...
perfect girl who doesn't fuck. Yep.
Actually, I'm in an environment that probably celebrates the fact that I fuck a bunch of dudes. Probably. And also, I could make an OnlyFans and I could gain some income. Yep. Why the fuck what you're saying is going to be...
relevant and applicable to what I'm doing. Correct. And the conversations I'm having with you, the things I'd be saying, these are only conversations I'd have with a girl who I've been with a while and I was serious about and was receptive and respect me and listen to me. The truth is, I think the biggest mistake men make in the world today is they ignore the warning signs in front of them.
Let me tell you something, my friend. If I go out tonight in Miami and I meet a hoe and I know she's a hoe, I'll fuck her.
But I'm going to get confused about what she is. You hear that, Fresh? Fresh! Did you hear that?
And I ain't here trying to save. I ain't here trying to save nobody. You got to ask Fresh about a good name, Miranda. I'm not getting involved, man. Fresh got the Lambo. He's a big G now. I don't want to get me. No, I don't want to get Miami after me. I don't know. No, no, no, no. Fresh is our guy. I mean, you don't got the big G's in the gangsters. But he got confused a little bit.
I wish we could break down that situation. He met a girl on a yacht. He said...
He met on a yacht, by the way,
he said they were talking for a little bit she wasn't willing to meet him until
He was on the earth. I'm not going to comment on Fresh's situation. I will comment. He's a learned guy. He's a learned guy. He's a good guy. But my point is, my general point is, the number one biggest mistake most men make is that they get confused in regards to a woman's position. Some women are just hoes. Some women are lost to the system. Some women have been programmed. They've been programmed. What you do with them is you do with them exactly what they're good for. You fuck them for fun after a club and you don't talk to them again. If you get confused, all right.
If a hoe's a hoe and she's always been a hoe and you meet her and she basically tells you she's a hoe,
And then you bang her and you fall in love with her. Whose fault is that?
Okay, that's yours. Could you turn a hoe into a housewife? That's stupid, right? That's just dumb. But the reason men do this is because they don't have as much access to sexuality as they want, right? But if you had a bunch of choices, you ain't going to be sticking with a hoe. Okay, so let me give you the intangible. And this is one of the intangibles I've tried to get fresh as well.
Because, you know, you don't like.
The Fresh and Fit podcast is one of the, I think, I think is the prevalent thing in driving self-improvement for men. Best podcast on YouTube. It's awesome. It's entertaining every single night. Exactly.
So,
I've said to Fresh, though, I said, listen,
What you're falling for for that particular girl is what...
The intangible is for every guy.
Sometimes guys just fall in love. So I get what you're saying. Just fuck her after the club and let her go. It's not easy. But there's going to be a guy who says, well, I fuck her and I kind of like her, though. Completely. And actually, I think she's going to be different from me than the other guy she's going to meet at the club tomorrow night. Really? No, completely. But that...
I'm not saying it's easy, right? The right choice, the right path in life is not often the easy choice. I'll make something very clear now. I've had women who I actually genuinely enjoyed the company of, who I was head over heels in love with, who I missed with all my heart when I told them to get fucked.
But I still told him to get the fuck out, and I never messaged him again. Really? You have to be a man about it. How do you achieve that discipline? Because you have to be a man about certain things in life, right? And unfortunately, in the dating sphere we now live in in the world today, man, you got to have boundaries as a man because they'll fucking mess you up. Andrew, I'm not believing this. No, you said Trump. You talked about Trump at the beginning. What was Trump's book, Art of the Deal? You read Art of the Deal by Trump. He says if you're not prepared to walk away from the table, you don't have a negotiating position. But he's talking about deals and business. It's the same thing.
behavior, you don't have a negotiating position.
You're not going to the club with them girls to sluts. I want to go. It's her birthday. I don't care. You're not going to walk away. You can't do nothing. Here's the big difference. And I agree with you up on this point. Here's the big difference between and even me agreeing with someone with Trump said, right?
Once you like a girl, you go against everything you have thought of. It's the history of men. It's that gut feeling. It's that tingling feeling that says, I like her. And you know what you know, and you know it's logical, but you go against logic. You're completely correct.
You're completely correct.
And I'm not saying it's easy. I'm saying, look, what you have to do is, you know, you just argue with the bitch. You leave her apartment. You're sitting in the car. She just pissed you off. You've tried to be the good guy. You haven't done that, Andrew. Stop it. Bro, you're sitting there and you start the car up and you just have to go fuck another one, my friend. No, Andrew. That's where you go. There's nothing else to do. No, Andrew. Spread the seed, my friend. Andrew, be honest with me.
You've been with a girl. She's giving you that fire. Like, that good pussy. Like, amazing shit. She's cool, whatever, whatever. But you know in your fucking... Like, just from everything you've seen, she's a fucking hoe. You can't... It's not the one. But...
Let's just say your gut is saying...
I because you know how women always say this men get with women hoping that they don't change. Yeah. Like we fucked you the first night after we met you. Yeah. We're hoping you're the biggest freak. Yeah. Women get with men hoping that you are going to change. Yeah. Correct. Like, hey, listen, well, I know he was a dog. He was this. He was that. But I'm going to turn him into the perfect gentleman. Correct.
It's already diametrically opposed. Yeah, correct. We want you not to change. You want us to change. Correct.
Have you gotten that situation? 100%. I've been in every negative situation when it regards to... How do you deal with it, though? Because I want to know where, like, your gut is saying...
Man, give her another chance, but your head is saying clearly this ain't the chick. All right. Don't give her that chance. Okay, no. So have I fucked hoes and I like the hoe? Yes. And I realized she was a bit of a hoe. Exactly. 100%. How do you snap out of that? Who does it? All right. I'll tell you one of the easiest ways. I personally snap out of it. And I think this is actually a good metaphor that could be applied to other things besides girls. Yeah. I think you need to be very, very careful of...
You know what they say? Have you heard the saying, you're the sum of the five people you hang around?
Okay. Everyone knows this, right? The five people you're most commonly around, you're going to be something like them.
What is amazing to me is that everybody understands this sentence.
But instead of making sure they spend their time associating with the highest valuable, the sharpest cutting edge individuals they can find. Instead, they just fucking go, yeah, and hang around with idiots.
Right. So my boys and my team.
If I was fucking some hoe and she was acting a hoe and she was acting up,
My boys around me wouldn't even fucking allow this shit to go down. They'd be like, what the fuck? Oh, man, I got friends who have got three wives in the same house. Three wives. Full Muslim, three wives, same house, loyal. Two of them were virgins. Not in America, though. Not in America. No, not in America. Okay. But my point is, I can't be rolling up to my boys. Now, there's no way. I don't give a fuck how good your pussy is. I'm going to take some fucking bitch in front of my fucking team and, like, vouch for her in front of my boy. No. No. My boy said you're a hoe. My boy said you're a hoe.
I already know you're a bit of a hoe. So it is what it is. Like, I'll still fuck you, but I'm not going to allow myself to fall in love. But a lot of that is also experience. And I'm an old man. I'm 35. I've been fucking pussy for 20 years. Have you fell in love with a hoe before? Have I fallen? Okay. So I feel like we all have to certainly. We all have. We've all fallen in love with a hoe before. But I want to make this point, the point I made earlier. There's women who I've fallen completely head over heels in love with. I told her ass not to do something. She still did it. I told her to fuck herself, hoping she would fucking bend. She didn't bend.
So she stood her ground. She stood her ground. And I had to eat that loss. And I stood my ground. But let me tell you something, my friend. In my life now, I go through a breakup a week. I've got so many of them. There's probably one breaking up with me watching this shit right now. I'm accustomed. This is what I'm talking about, the pawn. I've been to war. I've been through it. So what are you going to do? You're accustomed to loss. I'm accustomed to loss. I've lost it, bro. There's nothing this bitch is going to text me that I ain't seen before. I've had enough heartbreak. I've lost enough bitches.
girls and I have enough who are still hanging around. So it is what it is. I was a pawn, my friend. I made it to the end. I made it to the end of the game. So there ain't nothing you're going to be able to say to me. You ain't going to be able to go fucking fuck some dude or put something on Insta. Don't give a fuck. I've been here. I've done it. I'm battle-hardened. Is there a...
Because sometimes women look at men who are aging and they're like, oh, at some point he's going to want the one. He's going to want the guy. He's going to want the woman. 100 percent. Obviously to check out with. 100 percent. Have you ever been to that point or are you anticipating being to that point where you're like, yo, I'm 55.
I can't be doing what I do now. I have this girl who will fit the program that I'm into, and I'm going to check out Yaka Have the Rest. Bro, let me tell you something, actually. The biggest problem I now face in dating, this actually happened to me two days ago. Two days ago, I was here in Miami. In Miami. In Miami. I have a genuine problem with dating, and my problem with dating is— What is this? Bro.
I'm so fucking cool.
Right. So what's happening now? I'm 35. So if I meet a chick and she's like, OK, 35.
Kickboxing world champion.
multi-millionaire not married
not engaged no kids what age of chicks are you looking at bro it doesn't matter it doesn't matter if they're 22 26 doesn't matter what it is oh yeah but they're looking at me going
Something ain't right.
Why you got a girlfriend? Oh, they're hitting you with that. Why me? Why are you here with me? They're saying you're a weird girlfriend. There's something like I'm a serial killer or some shit. Like they think he takes too many boxes. Why is he not married? I bet you're divorced. I bet you're divorced. I bet you're divorced. I get that all the time. Yo, Leaf, this is my right hand man right here.
I remember when I started getting, which I think you're alluding to, when women, they would say to you,
Based on what I've summed you up to,
why are you fucking with me that's right why why me yeah that's it well why yeah why has this culminated to and it is i remember the first time that was asked of me i was like am i up yeah this woman who i think i want to with she's saying she's not worthy by questioning correct her worthiness correct correct what the do you do that because now you're probably thinking well all the accolades and all the things i've accomplished and where i'm at maybe i shouldn't be what do you do with that
What's actually difficult about it is I can take I took this girl out here man to the fucking bad bitch. She's a 10. I know a 10 is. I live in Russia. Ukraine fucking Barbie. 10. 10. And she's sitting there going. Oh, yeah, but you know, so why are you, you know, replying to Instagram messages and it's hard. It's hard now, right? Because I've heard the same. It's hard. Why are you linking me back? Like, that's what and then I had to think I'm like, wait,
Am I the only person who has like some type of celebrity or fame that does this? It's an issue, bro.
Because now they don't want to fuck because they're like, he's going to fuck me and get rid of me. He fucks girls all the time. My girl's like, you probably take a new girl on a date every day. And they're sitting there basically insecure trying to make jokes of it. How do you fix this or how do you deal with it? It's not easy. That's actually probably the hardest dating hurdle I come up against, right? Because I can't sit there and go, well, I'm actually not the man.
Because I am. So it's like it's a hard one to get around. You have to come up with some story. I had a girl for eight years. And we recently had some shit, some shit. You're going to get some shit out. Put it on the plate.
it ain't easy because the girls are sitting there going he's gonna fuck me and he's gonna disappear so they know the game but it's kind of like you gotta be like one of them cute little dogs that bites like they know he's gonna bite but they just have to stroke like ah they know what's gonna happen but they jump in but that's the biggest thing i have now and i think a lot of that's down to my age as well because i'm 35 and a lot of them are thinking if i can nail this fucking rich at 35 to give me a family i'm gonna be pushing a bentley forever it's gonna be all right but also i can't surely every girl's trying to get this dude and no one has something ain't
- They get insecure. - Yeah, they get insecure. - So it was actually quite difficult at this age. I think it was easier when I was a bit younger. - How do you explain, so, you know,
All right, you meet a girl and obviously just a story. Sorry to drop my brother has a different tactic. My brother is a different tactic. Tell me my brother just says, yeah, I have a daughter. I had a previous relationship with a daughter, but we're not together anymore.
So Tristan's tactic is, yeah, almost settled. Oh, no, no, no. His tactic is so efficient, I'm gonna tell you why. Yeah, it's solid. It's solid. Because it's like, women like to feel like someone else fumbled, and they could pick up, yeah, oh, we're gonna pick up the pieces, brilliant. And, you know, it kind of even goes to some of the things that even, they say on Fresh Fit, but I ran into this recently, and I'm actually, I hope she's not watching, I wanna say it. It's like,
For us dudes, and you tell me how you feel. When a woman tells me she has a kid, I'm like, oh! Like, I'm a little bit like, okay now. You know what I mean? It's like...
I'm taking away from like what I would be interested in. Like it's a huge takeaway. Bro.
It feels like these days,
dudes who are in a success level that could be comparable to me when they say they have a kid it almost signals to women like they're more committed it's a signal to the woman that you stand a chance of getting what you want because what you really want out of me is a kid in a credit card some other did it so you might do it if you're 35 36 37 like no in history has never managed to tie me down i'm mr stallion i've been 2000 of you hoes and you've all failed
She ain't gonna sit there with the confidence to believe she's gonna pull it off. And that's why Tristan's tactic is so efficient.
Because Tristata, yeah, we broke up. She lives in Moscow. We're not together anymore. She's like, oh, I'll be the next baby mama. I'll be nicer to him. And then I'll get the big house. You're going to get shit, bitch.
But she believes it, right? So you're right. Whereas with a woman, you're right. If I meet a woman and she has a kid, I'm not going to lie to you. I'm going to be perfectly honest. I don't give a fuck how beautiful you are, et cetera, et cetera. I still will like you. I'll still fuck with you, but it is a detriment. It's a detriment because my – Have you accepted ever to play the stepdaddy role? Brov. Brov. Brov, give me more Hennessy. Let me answer this question. Fuck me. Brov. Brov. Yo, I kiss you. Yo, that is –
Yo, and I think about it, I'm like, "Am I fucking up?" Nah, you know what, I might be polite, like, I might walk in the house and say,
tap the little G safe. Go fuck his mom and leave. But that's about it. I ain't doing no strollers and shit. Come on, bro. I ain't doing strollers and shit. Like, I got a life to live, right? I barely do that. Look, I have my own kids. I ain't pushing a fucking stroller. So I ain't doing it for no other fucking dudes.
Yo.
I've been a little bit conflicted in that, right? You know, so like, you know, slew to us, slew to Meyers, slew to Fresh. You know, I don't even know if I fully buy into the high value man, even though I do believe it's a thing where women are going to go for some dude who they think is going to give value, right? But like high value, maybe I don't like the term, right?
And I'm looking and I'm thinking about it and I'm like,
i just don't know and i've been thinking about because i met a lot of women they're beautiful but
But this is how I look at it. They made mistakes.
They had a kid with some guy who's a bum. He's always a bum. Always. Always a fucking bum. He has three other baby mamas. He's doing nothing. Yep.
But she's stuck with the kid. So I'm like, hey, come see me.
I'm in Salt Lake City.
I'm in fucking Calabasas. I'm in Miami. You know what they're telling me? Oh, I said my baby daddy. And that's a little bit unattractive, but I'm like, maybe...
Maybe I didn't open up my mind.
- Let me tell you something. - And I guess give me a realistic
And there's many people like me now, right? You know, I love, and if you guys didn't see last like podcast with Myron and Fresh, I got to watch it. You know,
Like.
We're dudes who...
you know, we had to work to where we got. It wasn't like we're just a cool dude, just flow no air. So now I'm like...
Did I do all that to be the stepfather for the guy who fucked you in high school? He was cool for three years, fucked you. You got a kid? He's a bum? But now...
On your fall off phase, I gotta like take care of your kid and- Yeah, bruv. Listen, if I meet a beautiful woman and she has a child,
It doesn't mean I won't fuck her, doesn't mean I won't mess with her a little bit, but the chance of me being long-term with that woman...
while she has another man's kid for me personally is 0%. And there's three reasons why that is. The first reason is I watched a documentary about gorillas.
about six years ago and let me tell you something about how gorillas work right so it grew like this by the way yo i've taken a lot of human sociology based on how animals move 100 because we act like we act like we're so independent we're so socialized to deal with but in reality instinctually we move
100% exactly right so let's look at how gorillas work so if you have a bunch of gorillas
Let's say you have five gorillas and five male gorillas and five female gorillas in a fucking, I don't know what you call a pride of gorillas, but a bunch of motherfucking gorillas. Five males, five females. That's not five couples.
You have one alpha gorilla.
fucking all five women and the other four gorilla men get no pussy unless they beat the alpha up, but they can't cause he's the big G. So the big G has all the gorillas, right? Once he impregnates one of them gorillas,
He doesn't really have that much interest in the baby. And what happens is once she's knocked up and she has the kid, he's too busy trying to find a new bit of pussy with never had a baby and chasing the other female gorillas. And what happens is the other four, the beta gorillas, turn up and pretend to look after that baby to get themselves some gorilla puss.
That's what happens. So now let's extrapolate that out, right? So we're talking about the bum in high school, right? Yes. If my man can run around and impregnate four bitches and then some other dudes come along taking his fucking kid to school. You know what I'm saying? I hate that guy. I know. Neither am I.
So you feel me? Yo, neither am I. Yo, it's plagued me. And then, you know what? And listen, good thing you're well-traveled. Because if you were just fucking just always, like, stateside, you're going to get shamed with the term of you got a little dick energy. Oh, bro, listen. And, dude, you got a little dick energy because, wait, you won't take little Johnny that was born with the girl that you're fucking, but he was born by the nigga who fucked her and dipped. That's right. He's on to his other women.
That's right. If you want Brandon to school because you're dealing with his now his mom.
You have a little big energy. You don't have confidence. Confidence now, they're rebranding it. They're rebranding it to be.
You could take.
care of another man's production bro you know what's crazy this actually ties back in it ties back in perfectly to what you were saying earlier about traveling if you go to russia yes i lived in moscow for a while right i listened to you to everything you were saying i'm like yo this is like a different land i've never been bro you in russia a woman with a child
Ain't going to get a dude.
She ain't going to get a guy. So the reason they break up less, the reason the women stick by the men, the reason women are more loyal is because by the time she has that man's kid, her chance of leaving and dating somebody else is fucking zero. So unless her if her man still basically paying the bills, all right, he cheats. He does what he does. But he's home twice a week and the bills paid. She ain't got nowhere else to fucking go. Because the idea of being a single mother and getting a man in a place like Russia is zero. You come here to America and it's just like, oh, yeah, you're right. You should take him to school. I don't owe that motherfucker nothing.
He ain't mine. Yo, yo, I don't know if you know this person. She's a cool person, like, just dealing with. But there's a woman named Brittany Renner. She has a kid by a basketball player, right? The basketball player, I think everyone was kind of clowning him. He wants no parts to do with that, right? She made a video, and she says, listen to this. She says, it's step daddy season.
she's looking for dudes to be a father for the kids she had with the basketball player he doesn't want to part stuff and she's even saying oh he should go get a girl to take care of
our kid when when our kids with you so now what's happening in america is like
These baby daddy facilitated families are popular. So you're with a girl. She's a baby mama. Of course, she's not with a daddy. But now you're the daddy. So we're going to look to Andrew to take care of the child. Andrew, you've got to show up to the parent-teacher conference. Andrew, you've got to drop off the kid all the time. You've got to buy him ice cream. And you know what? This actually ties into a greater point. We're talking about the gorillas before. But what makes the alpha gorilla the alpha gorilla? In most cases, amongst the gorillas, it's testosterone levels. So...
You look this up, look this up, put it on the screen. Look up testosterone levels and interest in babies. And they find that really high testosterone level men,
We love our children.
yes but we can't be around them all day like we gotta be like yeah baby all right see safe to see you next week you know what i'm saying because we're about that life we got to do we ain't sitting there playing we ain't saying we ain't gonna be a second mother right so on top of that if you're picking up some dude's kid and look after you all know that the big testosterone brother did to go get new and you're sitting there changing diapers that's that's a serious ego shock
testosterone levels link testosterone levels and time with children fathers with super high testosterone levels didn't want to be around their kids as much as the soy boys they want to be another mother right it doesn't mean you don't love your kid it means you go other shit to do it yo Andrew keep it on honey with me I need you to be very very oh like this is hey I want you to be honest with me okay yeah
are you like did would you look at someone who is playing the stepdaddy role
A little bit. Like, he doesn't have kids yet. Yep. So there's dude A, doesn't have kids yet. But he gets with this beautiful woman. Yep. She has a kid. Let's say Russell Wilson. Okay. Okay.
Of course, now he has kids with her. But at the time when he got with her, he didn't have kids. And then he started like hanging around a little. The kid's daddy was future, like little baby future. It was like, hey, I'm going to teach you how to throw football. I'm going to bring you here and just enter. I'm the stepdad.
I always looked at me like, yo, man,
That's a guy who's just so...
He's so selfless, like...
It's not me. I couldn't be that. Me neither. But I guess I respect it because maybe he's so...
Not maybe I'm selfish. Yeah, is that selfish? I know you're saying maybe because he's so selfless He doesn't have an ego that he can do this great amazing because you know what women are gonna say? I
You're a misogynist because you're just fucking selfish. Well, it's all... Okay, I know you're right about what they're going to say, but...
I'm not going to comment on him in particular. You're right. I couldn't do it. I wouldn't do it. And it's down to what your dream life is. So I know exactly what my dream life would be. What is it? So I'm not even saying I'd pull this off, right? But this is what my actual genuine dream life would be.
I think the idea of being tied to one female forever exclusively would be basically torturous. Now, I'm not saying I don't want a woman who loves me. I want a woman to be exclusive to me. Yo, yo, French. Bro. This is a go. Bro, I want a wife. I want a wife in regards to her being a wife to me, but I always want my freedom. I value my freedom, and I've worked too hard to have it taken away from me. I value sexual independence. 100%.
right i i i believe i could be with one woman to hold down one woman sexually i don't know yeah exactly you need you need your bro pimping you need your bottom the one you trust and then you need the hose that's the game i want my cake i want to do this before man yeah there has to be some type
When I listen to your fucking, like, you know, about like casinos and shit, I'm like, this thing was a fucking pimp.
Even with the webcam, I'm like, yo, the webcam, I'm like, yo, this thing's a fucking pimp. I guess. He understands.
The necessity of these women, but don't ever...
overextend to make it up the core business bro look look let's take an example right if you're logical about this this is what i don't understand with someone let's say
Will Smith.
Thank you.
Oh, my God. All right. So, Will Smith, man. Will Smith, he did what the female imperative world wanted him to do. Why did he do that? And he got fucking wrecked. No, no, no. Hold on. Let me ask you a question. Like, seriously, because I've been trying to figure this out.
Why is Will Smith saying all these things that is essentially emasculating it? Because even if that was the reality, we didn't know.
Because he has a bunch of men. If we're in the room.
if you're like if you like whatever people might think that's not masculine if you like your toes or foot tickled yeah you're not shouting out i want you yeah yeah this is what he's doing yeah because he's doing it because why he's at such a level of cock he's at such a level where he thinks that it's pleasing jada to broadcast his absolute subservience no way yeah he's so you think so he's so subservient to her the only and she still hates his ass the only way he can try to make her like him is to say well i'll tell the world i'm your does that make does that make you love me now
allowed another dude to fuck his girl. Haram. How? Bro, it's insanity. And, man, we can talk about the Will Smith thing forever. But he is just... That's what happens when you stick to the imperative. Because you have to understand something about the... I think it's mental abuse. I think she...
I think it's so deeper. I hear what you're saying. It's no way he's just a natural cuck. It is. That is the end result. This is what I just said about the idea of being sexually exclusive with one female is torturous. Because the end result of the situation they try to... Is Will Smith? Yes. No way. Bro, if you're... Listen, if I get some pussy, if I get a girl and I say, look...
I will never, ever, ever leave because I love you and you're my girl and I'm never going to leave you. I'm never going to fuck nobody else. How in 10 years from now am I going to still be in a position of power?
If I ain't going to ever leave, bro, if a girl came to you and said, I'll never leave no matter what, within two weeks, she'd be fucking slapping her in the face, R. Kelly pissing her mouth, everything. Shit, I'd be fucking kidding.
But you're actually piggybacking on something that's very real, and I've even preached the same thing. You know, a relationship, I always say, is a seesaw. And he who...
has like there's always a power structure 100 the person who cares the least has the most power 100 person seems like they were more willing to leave as most power yep if you secure your partner and say
Oh, you're fucked. I'll never leave.
It's that's the masculine or in the opposite when it comes to women.
It's taking off your power. If you tell a dude that no matter what the fuck he does, you will never leave.
Okay, great. We're always going to push that bounty. We're fucking humans. 100%. That's human nature. And also, I still feel like
People don't realize like, you know, even sex and things of the sort.
We get...
numb to.
like,
It becomes women don't respect men with no hoes.
Bro, look a girl in the eyes and you fuck her Tell her you're going to cheat on her She loves it
Bro, man, they don't respect a man. They don't respect a man with no hoes. She goes out. She was like, yeah, I ain't gonna lie. You don't got no hoes. I don't want that nigga anyway. No hoes, no me. No woman wants... She's like, no hoes, no me. No woman wants the man.
That no other woman wants. So women try this idea of, well, I want a man that I know all the women want, but then he doesn't want them back. That ain't real, right? So the guys, that ain't real. So what I'm saying is what Will Smith did, if he put himself in the position where he had no power and he got abused. And my point is this, when I said that the idea of being with one woman forever is going to be torturous, I'm not even talking about the fact that I don't get sexual variety. I'm talking about the fact that I cannot see myself five years down the line being in a position of power within my own life and household. I want a position of power.
Bro, if I'm walking down the street with my chick and someone pulls a weapon and I have to fucking deal with him and I end up getting a fucking manslaughter charge, for example, I don't want her fucking, she's going to jump on a new dick and I'm in a cell. No, I need to have a position of power and control and I need to know she's loyal to me for life. That's what I want. That's what I enjoy. I want to walk in the house and say dinner.
Bitch, where is it? Not in a horrible way. In a, I love you so much, I call you bitch. Where the fuck's my food? I enjoy that position of power. You're not going to have that if you ain't got hoes.
I don't know how much you keep up with like, you know, pop culture when it comes to hip hop. So there's this rapper named DaBaby. He had this girl. Her name is Danny Lee. And recently, hopped on live. She just had a baby by it. And he said to her,
I'm all live right now because she's trying to be all violent or whatever, but really I want her to get the fuck out of my house.
And her response was, oh, you want me to leave? But I just had your baby a couple weeks ago. You want to go fuck other women, this and third? And I was talking to a friend of mine who...
Essentially, I'm telling women, like, if you're with a guy who owns his place, I own my house. If a woman comes over for a month, two months, at some point you're squatting. You're intruding on my space. And...
It's very normal, at least for me, to be like, hey, I've enjoyed your time to send third, but you need to go. Yeah.
And women somehow seem like they believe it's...
it's it's not a a um feasible demand to say you have to go when you don't necessarily you're living with that guy bro it's their bile we have to understand night there's so much human nature which is biologically driven that's their biological imperative
X guy fucked me. Even if I'm not pregnant, I could be pregnant. And biologically, right before birth control, if you get fucked, you might get pregnant. I could be pregnant.
I'm not going to be able to survive out here in the world without a man to take care of me as a pregnant woman. He has this little house. I want to nest my ass in this house, keep the other chicks out. It's their biological imperative. It's number one, the thing they want to do. Of course it is. You have to recognize what they're doing. I've been having so many arguments with women that say, hey.
Why would you go to a guy's house? He owns the house.
I like living alone.
a woman a guy i don't care alien right i don't even got animals they might piss me off you have to go the only person guaranteed is me yeah and women come up with these well why would she say that she why would he say that he loves her if if he didn't want her to be around all the time why would he have a kid with her and i'm like are we do we have to distinguish between all these things
It's.
If you go to stay at a man's place, you know,
I know for me, you know,
the time period of me know myself it's about three weeks after three weeks i'm aggravated with you because i'm used to being by myself i am self-sufficient and other than that other than you providing sex i'm good yep yep which also these days sex is available everywhere yeah that's right
So now I don't need you. Yep. And at a certain point, I feel like you are imposing your stay upon me. No, women impose all the time. I'll tell you another thing women do to impose. How? How?
You know the number one thing women do that men don't identify?
You know when bitches are starting arguments with you for no reason. Do you know why they do that? Have you ever seen a miserable, unhappy motherfucker get laid?
I'm asking you They're like oh you're going out Now you're in a bad mood You're at the club a little bit tired And this bitch pissed me off You ain't getting pussy that way I'm happy dude to get pussy because you're part of the game You're having fun
So they'll detract you from your life. They have a lot of strategies they'll do to make sure you don't get into the pussy. Wait, you think women are fucking just like, just bogging down on dudes? 100%. They're trying to fucking get the claws in.
Why wouldn't they? That's their biological imperative. I need this man to survive if I get pregnant or I'm literally going to die on the street. No other man is going to accept me. I need him. I can't have him run around the club talking to a bunch of other sexy girls. I need to piss his ass off, ruin his time, text him, distract him, be in his house so he can't bring the bitches back. They'll try anything. That's their biological imperative. That last part.
it
when talking about that particular situation that's what i really think yeah the dude wanted to bring back to his house of course he did
The bitches are probably saying, well, you told me you're not with your baby mama. Why can't we go back to your crib? Correct. She's squatting. Correct. She doesn't want to leave. Now, he has no relationship with her, but she's using these other things. Well, I just had your kid. You want me to leave? Well, if you want me to leave, I'm going to make you seem like a horrible father because you want me to leave with your newborn child. It's like.
she's unwilling to accept the fact that
Yeah, he might fuck with you and love you, whatever the case is, but right now he wants his crib to go fuck with the new host. But it sounds bad. You can't say that. It's true. It's true. It sounds horrible. I think if you were to honestly sit most men down.
and they were honest and they weren't worried about what society would think of them right let's say it was a double blind trial they could tick a box and they'd say look traditional family life one woman for the rest of your life you stay at home you're home every day at five o'clock you play with the kids though you're a good husband or
10 sons, 10 baby mamas. You see them all when you want. You're pretty, you're cordial with the women. You get along with them. You get to see your children when you decide the rest of the time you're a free agent and you fucking want your fucking young pussy. I think a lot of men would be ticking that baby mama box. You wouldn't believe it. I think nearly most men. I think most men who are truly honest with themselves go, look, I get more kids.
I want more, you know, I get more of them. I get more love in my life because one oven's slow, right? I want 10 boys, right? I want 10 boys. I get them for a bunch of women. And then even truthfully, if you were to tell me now to make that choice and never say, well, if you get these 10 baby mamas,
Three of them are going to stay loyal to you, but seven of them are going to get some new boyfriend. Some other guys will be driving Johnny to school, but I ain't doing it.
Someone's got to do it. So you want to go fucking, you want to go drive little Tate to school?
Like, have fun, my G. I have no beef with you. I'm not going to be like, hey, man, stay away. I'm like, hey, yeah, bro. Keep being a good dad. I'm in Miami. I don't give a fuck. So, bro, this is the nature of the game. Male men, if we're true to our biological imperative, if we're true to it, what we want to do is have a bunch of children with a bunch of women and not be told what the fuck can do. That's what we want to do. That's what we actually want.
What we want to do is impregnate-- - Society says you're toxic because of that thought. - I'm sure they do, right? But I'll tell you now. - How do you balance happiness with a person?
having a business,
being quote unquote toxic and everything because like i could imagine like yo
I listen to a lot of shit you're saying. I'm like, yo, this guy's been facts. But I'm like, man, this guy might be radioactive, though. Bro, all right, let me ask you a question, right? Let's say you meet a beautiful young 19-year-old woman. She's beautiful. She's 19. She's got low body count. You're the second man she's ever going to have slept with in her life. Oh, by the way. She's...
Here's the funny thing. So there's a new thing that they're even starting to say, even though as the older you get, the age gap between relationships, especially marriage happens to be about 10 years.
If you are like 30 and you get with a 19 year old, they're saying that.
you have, there's some issue wrong with you. Yeah. You know why? Because women who are older, who are 25 and 26, who you're looking beyond they're saying,
Wait, wait, you're not contemplating us. You're looking to younger. You're...
They can't call you pedophiles.
There's something wrong with you. You know what I mean? And that really is a good example of how when you travel the world, that's pure Western bullshit, bro. Really? Bro, you go to Moscow, you walk in the club, there's a 60-year-old mafia boss surrounded by 18-year-old girls.
Really? Oh yeah, all day. It's completely normal.
Completely wait the six-year-old. He's not with 30 year old chicks. No fuck. No, he's rich
- What does the thing, think he's picking up some used up pussy? He's rich! No bro, used up pussies for the broke boys. He ain't playing those games, he wants it fresh. And this is the thing about youth. The thing about youth is this. The thing about youth is this though, it's not just the fact that it's a breeding age. But you know what I'm gonna tell you about younger girls. - Yo, how do you get bitches saying this shit now? - Yo, I'm gonna tell you this, you know the most sensitive thing about women?
Agent.
You started mentioning age? Oh, it hurts him.
hurts him you meant yo if if there was
15 chicks in here and you you say hey the the mob boss who's 60 he wants to the who's 19 years old you know what everybody who's even 22 they start tightening up they're like because women are so they're always playing the clock game even though even if they don't acknowledge it they're always thinking
I'm not...
Am I over the hill or-- - Yeah, yeah, yeah. Am I still okay? - Exactly. - I've got time. And when you started saying that,
That's when I've heard women say, right?
They're like, yo, it's disgusting.
If a guy who's 28,
wants to fuck with the girl who's 20. Cope.
cope cope cope bro the reason you know that you know that you know me personally right so i won't date a girl who's older than 25 and that's not even about i won't i won't bro i'm 30 i'm 35 and i got more millions of my age i'm playing games right so i get to choose what i want and the reason and the y'all take me to the reason why won't you do it because people will say oh you you're a pervert let me tell you the actual reason it's nothing to do with the fact that she's
more fertile and i could easily knock her up it's nothing to do with the fact that even she's better looking because there's some beautiful girls who are older yeah but the younger a girl is the less she's been through with men and the softer she is as a person the problem is when you get a girl who's 30 how many dicks have been through her and i'm not even worried about things but through her how many times has her heart been broken how many times she had arguments that she's jaded it's hard to get some genuine feminine softness out of a woman who's 30 and single she's been yeah she's been through too much we talk about bro we talk about a man's been through trauma any
love she's been cheated on she got fucking eloped dude disappeared she probably thought she was gonna have a kid and be married by 28 yeah so now she's two years past that she's frustrated the guy she thought it was gonna be with her sister she's upset at life and when she gets with you you're just another one you're a man too they're a bit angry yeah the young one
Well, she had her heart broken once. I was like, yeah, that's because he's a boy. You ain't even a man yet. Oh, good, good, good. Yeah, I love you. It's a happier experience. It's not even about how they look. My point is, this is why I like younger women, because they're not jaded. All right, okay. So let me ask you this question. I got to ask you this question. Sure.
So,
I'm so sorry to interrupt you. What's going to happen is when people see this, there's always going to be some old hoe going. When I say old, I mean like 28. Should be sitting there going, you're not a real man because you're a real man. You can handle a strong woman. You know what? I don't even talk to old hoes. So don't even fucking tell me because I don't care what you think because I don't want you. So just think what you want over there. Yo, but here's the thing. And I think this is why.
So,
I think women...
are looking if they're listening to this and they're hearing what you're saying they're like if you're saying that like at 28 if we haven't gotten some already locked down we might be a little up you're basically saying we lost the dna lottery because like so now this is why they're gonna say misogynistic right they're like because we weren't born a male
we just we're so we're so disadvantaged we can't win we just have to basically go lay down the sword and be someone's bitch
So the question I would have to use, how the fuck do you win as a woman? That's a very good question. I'm going to say something now because there's a lot of men out here who complain about women. And when I hear men really complain about women, it almost has a tinge of,
The men who are complaining don't see it. But what I identify is a slight tinge of jealousy when they're like, well, you know what, you women, you get to do this and this and this and I can't do that and that and that. And I'm like.
You almost sound like you're jealous of the bitch, right? I can do anything a girl can do anyway. I really think being born as a woman would be a tragedy.
I can't imagine life. It would fucking suck. Because everything I enjoy about life... What would you tell a daughter, though? I would tell my daughter, look...
There's balance in the universe. You don't want somebody like daddy.
But you don't want no bitch. You're going to get a guy who's like 50-50. And you're going to tie his ass down with a kid around 22-23. So you would tell her to trap him? No, I'd tell her that family is the most important thing in the world. And as a woman, you're imperative. You should be trying to find a man who can provide for a family. At 22. Bro, at 22. What the fuck is a female career? I don't know. I don't know. But suppose that guy leaves her.
correct that's that's a possibility right and that's what i'm talking about the balance but i really do believe there's nothing maybe you can correct me on i don't think men leave women very often unless the woman is really pushing for it if you if you had a woman and she was basically pleasant all the time even if you off and all the and came back 13 days so she has to tolerate she has to talk that life as a woman is about tolerance
You need to get a guy. And this once again comes from my world travels, right? This is where they get tight at you. Tolerance. Yo, they're getting mad. But listen, I know girls in, listen, I was in Russia. The friend of the girl I was dating, she was married to a billionaire, a B, B, billionaire. A fucking B. And she came out with us for lunch, but she had to go home because she had to be home by six because her security wanted her home by six. She had rules because the billionaire, right? And she said, I see my man once a month.
But you know what?
I love him and my bills are paid and I have a nice car and have a nice life. And I just have to accept that this is the life I'm taking care of. And that's and she was just this is what I signed up for. And my life is good. I got no stress. Where's she from? She's Russian.
In America, it says you could have all that.
Plus, you could do what the fuck you want. Yeah, and that's what they're trying to convince these women. And then they run around and be hosed. They end up with none of it. And they end up depressed. And then they end up on Xanax to go to sleep. And that's why. Because it's true, bro. Nah, I'll be honest. You know, it's true. They're like, oh, I get to have a fucking rich man. I get to go out with my girls whenever I want. And no one tell me what to do. And I get to fuck everyone. And I get to have this best guy. And dream world bullshit. You need to accept the reality. You need to some degree make an exchange. You have to accept and say, okay, there's pros and cons to each situation.
from if i had a daughter i would much rather here be in the situation of that that russian woman with a billionaire taken care of with family at home safe than out here on the streets so so you would tell your daughter like yo
If she says, hey, I'm with this guy, he's a billionaire.
But he's fucking four to five girls.
A week. I would say...
Of course, he's a billionaire. But she has a kid by it. And she lives in the castle. And she has access to everything she wants. But she's now starting to say, well, I don't know if I feel appreciated because he's fucking four to five chicks a week. I would genuinely tell my daughter. I would genuinely tell the realities of the world and say, look, he takes care of you.
It's your job as a woman. You don't leave your man. Stick by him. As long as he takes care of you, he hits you or some shit is different. Right. But he's taking care of you financially. A man needs his freedom to be happy. If you want his ass home, it's your job to convince him home, not to nag him home. And that's what I would say. And I really don't think that men leave women unless the woman's really trying to restrict their freedom. If I had a woman and she let me do whatever I wanted and I was home now and again and she was always pleasant, why the fuck would I leave?
Order lift.
Men only leave women when the woman becomes intolerable.
right that that's what happens if a woman plays her role and she's smart enough and goes you know what with this g stallions can't be tamed but i'm just gonna play my role right you'll keep him keeping a man ain't hard well well you got to remember
Every woman wants to believe there's a 50-50. So...
At least in this country. Yeah. It's a 50-50, so...
Well, I...
It's not about just tolerating you. It's about...
whatever you do i could do or whatever i could tolerate with you it's the absolute it's the path to unhappiness
The degeneracy that women are signing up to today leads to one place, and it's misery.
The woman who's 32 and single and ankle kids was degenerate. If she was a good woman in her 20s, she wouldn't be in that position.
And that's the reality of the game. Degeneracy is only going to lead to unhappiness for females. And most of them have to learn the hard way. But like I said, women are programmed by one of two things, the man, their fucking, or society. And you'll often find if, as a man,
If you're fucking a girl right and she loves you,
Very soon, all your opinions are hers.
whether it's political, whether it's music, whatever it is. If you ask her who's your favorite music artist, she'll say the same artist as you.
Or do you like Trump? Well, he likes Trump. Yeah, I like Trump. They just agree. They're biologically designed to fit in with the tribe.
Right. This is what they're designed to do. If you look up at the end of World War Two, after all the French lost and the German soldiers occupied Paris, within a year, all the French girls were fucking German soldiers. The men who literally killed their husbands, they were sucking their dicks. Why? Because they're the victors.
Bro, they assimilate. They assimilate themselves in with the dominant force, right? So either you're a man who is strong enough to be a more dominating force than society, or society's programming your bitch. But everything society tells a woman is negative. They only tell her to do that sex in the shitty, hot girl sick fucking summer bullshit. They don't tell her to be a mother anymore. Society used to do exactly that. Be a mother, stay home, be respectable. They flipped it now. Society is now your enemy as a man.
society is your enemy so you have to out program society you have to sit your down every once in a while and say literally i'll watch a movie with a woman if i'm sitting there watching moving the woman and some faltering takes place i'll pause the movie i'll say look at it wait you pause the movie no no but this example i'll talk i'll say look at this would you ever do that well no yeah because it's disgusting remind her ass because it's going in her mind right and the same thing you do with a kid the the world the world is like i'm wondering how effective that is the world
They're listening to Meg Thee Stallion.
and city girls more than you could pause the movie no so now they're looking at you like
I'm just looking at you as a rich figure, eight figure dude who's got a credit card. I don't give a fuck about what you're talking about. Some girls are completely and utterly broken. But I also do believe if a woman respects you and she enjoys her time with you and you remind her of the fact that this shit is garbage.
that if she's not a completely broken individual, she'll pay attention to your words.
I'll tell you something, man, women are loyal to basically
The one only thing women are truly loyal to on the planet is the dick they want to suck.
And I'm telling you that. And I'm telling you that, for example. I'll give you an example, right? So when I was running my webcam business. Not sure. She's not. She's like. Right. When I was running my webcam business, right? So I had girls who. Oh, man. This is a really long story. If people don't know about the webcam business, it's a really long story. I've heard of them. Sum it up. Yeah, cut it short. I like it. Cut it short. I had a bunch of women about. This was about 10 years ago before OnlyFans, before this shit. I had a bunch of women sitting on computers over in Romania talking to a bunch of fucking dudes in Pennsylvania sending their paychecks, right? Promising them the world. So I had this webcam company.
What would happen with the girls who I worked for, I'd end up sleeping with a lot of them. Not because I was really out for sex. In fact, I will actually state this now here publicly.
I fucking hated fucking bitches by that point because I because, bro, because women, you're the boss, right?
And women are in love with you and you're fucking a couple of the other girls. So they're like in a competition for status. And how they get status is to get more sexual activity out of you. And sex is fun and all, but eight times a day, nine times, it's boring. It takes you got shit to do. Dick hurts. Fuck, leave me alone. Right? They're fucking wearing you out. Bro, they're just wasting my time. I'm halfway through fucking a bitch. My phone goes off. I'm like, oh, shit. Yo, you're fucking sitting here like, yo, bitch, could you stop jumping on my dick? I got shit to do. Right? So...
women are trying to compete sexually. That's how they try and compete, right? So I was tired of this shit. But what would happen is,
my best earning girls, I'd have to sleep with them. Because if I didn't, they'd end up getting some boyfriend. And no matter how much money they made for me, no matter how professional we kept it, no matter how nice the situation was, even if I was paying a bitch 20, 30, 40 grand a month, her man obviously doesn't want her naked at my house doing his job. And always, if she had to choose, she'd end up choosing the man. Because women are loyal to the dick that's fucking them. That's what they're loyal to at the time. If I wasn't fucking them, someone else would fuck them. And whoever else was fucking them, they'd have run off with him. That's just the way it is.
That's the way. Look at the Germans turned up in Paris.
I'm getting dicked by fucking Hans now, so I guess Pierre, he's long gone. He took a bullet a year ago. So that's the game. Women are evolved to fit in with the tribe because from caveman days,
How did most women even get pregnant?
Me, you and Fresh, with our fucking clubs, walk up, bro, walk up to the next tribe, bus Aikido, take them out the game, and take the bitches! And they had a choice! You either get Fresh to us, and you get a club with your man, or you start to agree with our worldview! Do you now agree that the Ooga Boogas are the best? Shibby's sitting there going, "I love the Ooga Boogas!"
I know you do, bitch. That's the game. So women are evolved to naturally adapt to the dominant force in their life. So if you're a man, you have to be a larger force. You have to be more dominant than societal programming. And I'm not saying it's easy. I'm saying, but that's what you have to do to get a good woman.
My last attempt for you to be like, yo, he's just anti-woman. This is my last attempt to make y'all feel like I've asked enough questions that has whatever. If you were born a woman, what would you do? How would you navigate this world? You got to tell me. If I was born a woman. How do you get the win? All right.
If I was born a woman, I do actually believe that the biggest win you can possibly get is a family with a man who takes care of you and loves you. I do believe that's the win. I don't believe that all of the status signals that men chase...
mean anything for women.
For example,
If you took a beautiful 19-year-old on a date and she was broke and you took the same day out and she was rich, you wouldn't give a fuck.
You don't care either way. So what's she working her ass off for? Because you don't fucking care. What's she going to buy bags? Who cares? Do you care about bags? I don't give a fuck about bags. You know what I'm saying? As a man, you need that. We need to pick her up in a nice car. She cares. I don't care about her bag.
So it's a complete waste of time. The career path, Myron talks about this all the time, but that path often it masculinizes them anyway. It's the only way to survive in the corporate world, et cetera, et cetera. So I'd actually say it's a detriment. So there's no point chasing money.
No real point chasing clout or status, because if you're beautiful and you start an Instagram, you get enough followers. You've got status by design. You're born with value, right? So the only end goal for a female is a loving family from a man who takes care of her.
Now, you don't want a total bitch because if you get a total bitch simp, this is what, no, but this is what women don't understand. They say, I want a man who's home every day to help me raise this baby. What do they do with the men who are doing that? They leave them. They divorce him and the guy's on Twitter crying his eyes out. I was a good dad. She's fucking Joe Schmo. So you don't even want that shit, right?
The best thing you can do as a woman is go out there, find yourself a high status male, be the one that provides him the most peace and happiness to outcompete the other hoes. When his life really gets out of control and really gets stressful, let him go out with a hose, let him hit the club, let him be crazy. Let him cheat. Let him do it. But when the craziness gets too much, he goes, you know what I want? I want a cup of coffee and that warm bitch in bed. I'll go there for four days. Let B be his peace and happiness.
have his family, make sure you're financially taken care of,
and just fucking live your life, have your beautiful little kids, and don't fucking complain looking for some dream you ain't going to get. Because the alternative is just to run around here being a fucking hoe. The reason these hoes are hoes is because they're just trying. Bro, it's like trying out new cars, trying to find the perfect car.
And it doesn't fucking exist. There's jumping on dick after dick after dick. Trying to find something that does not fucking exist. I will cheat on you, bitch. I'm going to cheat on you. That's what's going to happen. I will take care of you. I will take care of you. We're going to have a beautiful baby boy. You're going to have your rent paid. You're going to live in a nice house. You're going to have a nice car. But I'm going to fucking cheat on you. That's what's going to happen. So let's cut the bullshit. All right. So let me mirror the...
independent woman of 2021's response i don't often talk to these kind of women i could cheat on okay if you're cheating i'm cheating too
I don't know if you've heard that before. That's the new thing everyone's saying. Of course. Oh, if you're cheating, okay. Well, you could do you as long as I'm cheating too. Completely. And they say all that. And I very politely explain to them.
then you are not a female I would ever be interested in.
That's the truth. You can be like that and I will still fuck you, but I'm just going to deem you as ho.
Everyone has, we all have our places in life.
These are hoes. Wives are wives. Put them in the right box. I was like, all right, cool. Boom. Ho box. Bang. I'll call you up every once in a while. Every second Saturday, bitch. But it is what it is, right? So you just have to, the only problem, the only mistake men make is they get confused on what the woman is.
Women will tell you they're a home.
You just said it.
They'll tell you to your fucking face. Yeah. They're a hoe. And a man will still be sitting there falling for the trap.
She just told you what it is. If I had a woman, not if I had, if I cheat on my girl, not if I cheat, when I cheat on my girl,
when I cheat on my girl, she's allowed to get a bit upset. She's allowed to get jealous. She's allowed to complain. She is absolutely. As a man, she's not allowed.
That's a good question. She is not allowed on any level to be disloyal to me. That's not allowed. She can't cheat back. There's no cheat back. That's hurrah. These days, they've been calling it a get back.
oh, well, you did this, I got to get my get back. Okay, you can do your get back, and then you can get packed and get the fuck out the house. Because I'm not taking it. Because I'll forgive a woman going crazy over me cheating. I'll forgive her being upset. I'll forgive her crying. Yeah, whatever, normal.
But the second you're actually disloyal to me, it's disgusting. That is unforgivable because what I've done isn't disloyalty because I'm still taking care of you.
I'm going to take care of some other bitch. I haven't been disloyal. That's just exercise. It's not a big deal, right? You're being disloyal now. Disloyalty is not acceptable. Men and women are not the same. She's spitting. I'm about to clip this and throw it at the center of every girl I talk to. Men and women are not the same. And any woman of true moral fiber...
And I'm not saying all women have moral fiber, but any woman of true moral fiber, when she's heartbroken, the answer shouldn't be new dick.
There shouldn't be the answer. The answer shouldn't be New Day. What did New York first say?
Thank you.
It's what Sean tell him.
It shouldn't like her her default response if her default response is new dick she's a broken person her default response Yeah, she can be upset that I'll actually tell you in my experience when you break the heart of a really good girl She ain't gonna touch dudes for fucking months
She can be genuinely upset at home. She ain't going to go for dates for a long time. She's going to be actually hurt. If she can be heartbroken and in the club getting fucked same day,
then you don't even want her. Yeah. Do you believe in the theory? Like, for example, let's talk about like what these female rappers are not promoting. Hot girl, summer,
Real like.
What's City Girls say? We don't give a fuck about a dude. We're just here to just like play their pockets. Could women disassociate
having sex with men and only see for monetary gain. We know do that.
right they're obviously
in a whole different ecosphere where they get and it's
a compensation thing but could regular women
Look at dudes and say, hey, you're nothing but a dick.
that's going to like play into whatever but i don't need to be loyal to any guy no no no female can have
unlimited sex without any kind of emotional attachment without taking psychological damage.
Because it's just against her biology. It's against her biology. The more men she fucks, the more psychologically damaged she's going to be.
It's literally against her biological imperative. The female biological imperative is effectively. How else do you assure paternity besides virginity?
Like, you have to remember, we're living in the world now where we have paternity testing, we have birth control. Before this shit, the only way you knew you were the dad.
was if she was a virgin. There was no other fucking way to even know.
Right. This is why we coveted Virginia. That's why most of the world today, most of Africa, most of the Middle East,
They still covet Virginia, right? So a female's biological imperative is to be a virgin, fuck one guy, get pregnant, and be attached to that guy. And they're attached to that guy with their mind, body, and soul.
You can't make the same attachments like Velcro. You can't do it over and over and over and over again and it stays sticky. It gets to a point where you just get fucked up. So if you keep peeling on and off with all these dicks, when you finally find a guy you even kind of want, you can't stick to him properly. You're just thinking, oh, you know what?
Man, that other guy who fucked me two years ago was a bit better. And you just end up doing dumb shit, right? So women cannot remain psychologically intact if they keep fucking all these dudes. And men are the opposite. I can very healthily love a female with all my heart.
and Chi Honor.
and I can fuck a bunch of other women and still come home and take a bullet for that same girl. I can take a bullet for you 10 minutes after I finish fucking that bitch. Doesn't mean I don't love you. And anyone who's sitting here disagreeing with it is fucking lying. Society's lied to them.
And society is saying that I don't love her because I have sex with somebody else. That's not true. And all the real G's out here know.
Let me present this to any women who are watching.
You'll say, my man cheated on me and I don't know why he did it because he keeps crying now and telling me he loves me.
Because he does love you.
He's not lying. He does love you. He just fucked that bitch. They're not mutually exclusive for a man. They're only mutually exclusive for a female. And that's why the woman thinks that the man doesn't love her because she's applying a female mindset on the masculine imperative. There are different things.
Should every woman allow their guy to
to "Kwong Khochi".
No.
I don't think that all men deserve it.
What do you mean? I think that
I think that society basically already decides.
that.
I think that a lot of men who don't cheat can't cheat.
Personally.
I think the most men who can cheat do cheat. And I also try and explain this to people all the time. I talk to girls all the time. I actually have a lot of women who reach out to me, a lot, and I'll talk to them. I'll say, my man's not being loyal. And I say, you have to reframe loyalty. Let me give you an example, right? Most of these simp loser dudes, they get a girl. But they get a girl, and they fall in love with that girl, and they describe themselves as loyal. But the truth is, they can't really get pussy very easily. So it's basically the only choice on the table at the time.
Whereas another G who can get pussy endlessly has his main girl and cheats on her. Right? So let me give you an analogy. If I walk into this grocery store.
And I pick up an apple.
But the grocery store only sells apples. And I just keep buying an apple every day. And I say, I love apples. I'm loyal to apples. But it's the only thing they fucking sell.
Am I loyal or am I without choices? As opposed to the man who goes to the grocery store, he picks up an apple five days a week.
Sometimes it's a banana.
sometimes the big fat pineapple,
You know, he strays a little, but he always comes back to apples. And he says, you know, apples are my favorite.
Who's actually genuinely more interested in apples? Who's more loyal to the fruit as a whole? The guy who has no choice at all and picks up his only thing on the fucking table? Or the guy who can have anything and keeps coming back to it? And I genuinely believe the loyalty is the guy who has all those choices and still comes home to the same choice, the same woman over and over and over again. That's a loyal, that's a loyal man. I'll tell you something else.
If you had a man who could cheat or occasionally cheats and always comes home to you, he's more loyal than a man who has no options, waits for you to go to sleep late at night, and is jerking off the porn hub, dreaming of some shit he can't even get.
Because if he had the ability to get that, he'd go get it. We just told to watch you, didn't you?
So loyalty, the female idea of where did his dick go, that defines loyal, is completely wrong, right? Loyalty is in the mind.
So if a man loves his woman, he strays, but he always comes home, I consider that a loyal man. Now, if he strays and starts fucking leaving his woman for fucking months and shit, that's different, right? But if he always comes home, I consider that a loyal man. As opposed to a man with no choices, or a man who's dreaming of things he can't have, or a man, and I'll know this from experience because of my business, will wait for his wife to go asleep and spend the life savings on webcam talking to some bitch in fucking Moscow, crying about how he fucked his life up.
Like who's actually loyal, right? These men who don't cheat aren't even loyal. All the men who watch this are going to hate on me in the comments, I would never do it to my wife, aren't even loyal because they just have no fucking choice. If they had true sexual access, they wouldn't be married to that fat bitch anyway.
so bro it's a it's a lie it's a lie i thought you went crazy this guy
yeah but it's the truth and this this is what i this is what i don't understand
but but i don't know wait is it a religion thing that like i have massive respect for for islam
if they're a good muslim act as good women and men if they're a good muslim act as good men you know like christian men and women don't mean nothing anymore you can go to the church and the bitches will come from the night before well i'm not that close to like the religion who who
Explains me. All right. So if a girl were to say to you, oh, I'm Christian, would that make you think I ain't going to fuck her? No.
Right. If a girl were to say to you, I'm a strict Muslim, would you think it was going to be a bit harder? Yeah. All right. So there you go. That's that's the basis of the argument. Islam still means something. OK. Christianity doesn't mean it. So and then I go into the people who are now like super suspect about religion. It's religion here to control people, to fit those gender roles, because a lot of these new age whores, they're saying we should torch them. Let's torch this torch all these gender roles. Yeah, of course. They don't exist no more.
Instagram and OnlyFans. They're like, yo, let's recreate new rules. Yep. New Age hoes want to throw away all traditions. They do. They want to throw away all traditions because traditions don't let them live in that way, right? But some traditions, you have to understand, where does tradition come from? Some traditions are simply the optimal way for humans to succeed and survive.
I'll give you an example.
Since the dawn of human time, every society on the face of the planet was ruled by men.
All.
Why is that? Is that coincidence? I mean, you 5050 coin flip, if you do that thousand, what's the odds of that, right? Well, I'm sure the reason it happens is because occasionally there were societies that were ran by women.
And after about two weeks, they got fucking annihilated by the ones that are run by men. They don't even have history for us to find. We don't even discuss them. They don't exist. They never created anything. And the reason is because when men are in charge, it's a more optimal situation for survival as a whole. It's evolution, right? So survival of the fittest. And the fittest society is a society with men in charge.
That's the fittest society. I think a lot of feminists... They're going to talk shit. They can talk as much shit as they want. I feel like they would say, well...
No matter what you say about what men have provided to the fittest society, if us women weren't holding down and having kids, the society wouldn't exist. Completely agree. I'm not saying women didn't have a role to play. I'm saying the women's role was actually super important. I'm saying that the leading overall as a whole and charge was done by men. That's the optimal way for a society to be run. Traditions, in most cases, where they come from, it's just the fact that if you didn't exist within those traditions as a society,
wouldn't survive.
Imagine, imagine all this new age bullshit.
Back when all the societies of the world would roam in Greece and everyone was fighting each other. Imagine a man couldn't have a wife stay loyal when he went to war. Imagine nobody knew who the fucking father was. Imagine women were out partying and acting fucking stupid instead of home cooking and cleaning. Back in those days when life was far more violent, right? How long would that society survive?
They'd get annihilated.
it's not they get annihilated so my point is that traditions stem from the fact that it's the optimal
situations to optimal society.
for humans to thrive under and in a highly competitive environment you have to be at your optimum to survive and that's why in all these societies across the planet they've all adopted similar thinking
We want virgins. Men are in charge. Women raise the kids and look after the men. The men are warriors. All these things are universal across the planet. So you're going to come along and say gender roles aren't real. Then why has it been the same everywhere forever? This new think bullshit.
is based on the fact that we're now living in a society that men have built, strong men have built, based on the back of those traditions. Like 50 years ago, in the 1950s, 1960s, none of this shit was real, right? So men stuck to those traditions to get us all the way here. We've added in some new technology that makes it easy for girls to fuck, easy for girls to not get pregnant, easy for girls to find out who the dad is. And now we're in a brand new period of history, which is less than one or two generations old. And we're going to sit here and say, this is the future. You don't fucking know the future.
used to be because this is untested.
The way it used to be gave us the pyramids and we went to the moon, we built this brand new society. I don't know where we're going now.
They think it's going to be better. I'm not really sure. I don't see this ended up any better than it used to be. But this is new thing. It's untested new thing. So any woman's going to sit here and try and say you what's the right thing to do, I'm going to say you don't know what's right because it has no testing. I'm discussing 5,000 years of human history. You're discussing 40 years of being a hoe.
So I don't believe what you're trying to say to me. I don't believe it. You understand what I'm saying? I believe, I believe, and I want to make one more thing clear. It's easy in these conversations to me to constantly say how women should act. By the same merit, men have huge responsibilities. And we have huge responsibilities. And as a man, I believe we need to stick to our responsibilities. I want to make something very, very clear. If someone breaks into my house, I will die defending the women in my house. And it won't cross my mind.
in love with it won't cross my mind i will i'll make sure i'm financially secure enough to have children i'm not going to just have children leave her to fucking starve i'm gonna do my jobs as a man but if i do my jobs as a man i expect her to do her jobs as a female and and and a female's job really ain't that complicated if she gets a big g add a little bit peace and happiness give them some beautiful children
And just shut the fuck up.
That's it.
Thank you.
Hey, listen, ladies and gentlemen, my man, Andrew Tate, he just preached a fucking sermon.
I got to give it to all the women because they give me a lot of lip, man. It's like we live in this new world where it's just everyone. They're recreating this new reality of what equality necessarily is. Right. And again, I'm down with the equality thing. Yeah.
But I'm just not down with what people are just trying to create these things that...
It doesn't seem feasible. It's not realistic. And the biggest problem women face today is they need to be more honest about what they're actually hoping to get.
So when a woman comes to you, goes, I want this, a hot girl somewhere, I was like, what are you hoping for? Well, these days, and if they come at you with some dumb shit, then they're broken.
Well, these days, women are saying they want to have their own bag. They want to be making more than the men. They want to be able to date whoever they want to date, fuck whoever they want to fuck, have...
loyalty at their own discretion. And by the way, anything you would expect of someone who would be a wife
because they definitely want to be a wife too yeah they want a big wedding they want big wedding yeah of course um they don't believe in being doing anything domesticated they don't believe in taking care of the household holding down a man and if anything
I believe, and listen, I know you speak broadly. I can tell you this, like, especially in the black community these days, where women are getting educated at a higher rate than the dudes, a lot of times they look at the dudes like, yeah,
I have more earning potential than you. I make more than you. I do this more than you.
You're my bitch. And then it becomes to, I see a lot of women, there's a girl I know, she's
lawyer and, you know, makes a good amount of money, but she says she's having a problem with finding some dude to be with her. So I said, I said, how is that the case? Like, you look pretty decent. You know, you got to go. She says,
Well, nobody...
Who is of her stature and above wants it. It's all the dudes that work at Walmart. Yep.
And she's like, well,
some of them look attractive, but it's not of what I believe my stature is. Yeah. And I'm like, yeah, you're kind of abrasive. Yeah. You love to argue. Yeah. Yeah. You claim you don't cook. Yeah. You don't do anything that's domesticated. Yep. You are just this boss queen bitch that requires men to be subservient to you. And, um,
if a dude is even remotely close,
Not even equal.
yeah within one tenth of what you are they don't want to do 100 this least attractive thing a man could possibly find is all this boss bitch and i think i do think that society's gone this way but i think it's very new and i maybe i have a little bit of too much faith but i think there's going to be a revival i think there's going to be a revival i think there might be a revival in traditionalism because the only way i see revival is is when the tradition of people
Thank you.
you know, leaping on like, I'm not saying it's necessarily Twitter, but like,
this mantra of
Oh.
women need these like women aren't represented enough. They need more support, blah, blah. And and
it's essentially turned having a penis as being a terrorist oh completely yeah no no oh you're a male yeah oh we don't really want to yeah no the world's completely in our here you know again
It's one of those things where they've turned men into...
They don't even believe in allies. Yep. You're the fucking enemy. You know, because they've, they've, it's amazing how they've reframed things. They've reframed it that like,
Men earn more money and that means men have all the power.
No, men are out here working to support the women who they love.
Like, why are you trying to pretend like we have all the power because we'll go out and we'll work? You're telling me a garbage man who goes out at fucking four in the morning in the rain.
Is doing that to earn more money to have control over you, bitch? Or is it because you can pay the bills so you can stay in bed?
Like they reframe it like we're the enemy. And you're right. We are allies. And everything I say here, they can easily misconstrue it and make it sound like I dislike women. I don't at all. I love women. I love women so much. Trust me. They're about to reframe this whole thing and be like, this guy hates women. We hate him. I love women so much that I believe that they should stick to their natural imperative and end up happy as I believe I should stick to mine and be happy.
I believe that I should stick to doing what I truly feel is good for me and I should be a happy individual. And I think a woman should do the same thing. And I don't believe these women who say hot girl summer and all this shit. I don't think they really believe it. I think they're regurgitating videos they watched. I don't think they truly mean it. I said this on the last Russian fit. When two girls argue, the first thing a girl calls another girl is you're a slut.
Because they know intrinsically that being a slot is a negative.
Why would a hoe call a hoe a hoe if being a hoe wasn't a bad thing? Why? Why don't you say, you have a low body count.
as an insult she won't will she she can call her a hoe because because all hoes know being hoes aren't bad it's coke it's coke man it's hard coke and and in western societies especially america and england and these western countries they can find enough pope culture to to use as of reference for their cope yeah in the majority of the world there's not a single female alive who thinks being a hoe is a is a good thing and she's not going to pretend it is right she's going to at least lie about being a hoe or deny being a hoe yeah at least you know we're here they're gonna be like
And when a girl does that to me, I'm not here trying to fix them. I'm not going to give them the same sermon I've given here on this podcast. I'm going to say, oh, you're a hoe. That's nice. I'm a fucker I never talked to again.
Exactly. Hey, listen, yo, Andrew, I'm hoping they don't cancel you after this, man. Listen, let me make one more thing. I can't be canceled. They've tried. I live out. Bro, bro. So I live in Romania. I got Romania on lock. I'm living far away. Is cancer culture existing in like Romania? Like, could they scare the government and be like, hey, this guy don't approve any of his permits for anything he wants to do. Stay away from him. Don't take his money. He's evil.
I am the government.
So I live in Romania. I'm extremely well-connected out there. It's actually funny. When I said a bunch of stuff about depression not being real, I talked about depression not being real. People tried to cancel me, and I commentate for RXF, which is the UFC of Romania. When I came in to commentate, the owner of the show came over to me with a bunch of emails. Don't tell me they fire you. No, no, no. You get a bunch of emails right now. He goes, what's this? There's a bunch of people saying, Andrew Tate, he works for an organization. He said depression is not real. It's dangerous, and people commit suicide.
up and he looked at it and just laughed and goes fucking you guys are fucking idiots and just threw it away and i carried on working like no one gives a fuck about pc over there it's zero percent this is what i'm saying all these ideas they're so it's a bubble america's a bubble if you were to walk around ukraine romania russia moldova bulgaria slovakia hungary poland any of these countries and say do you think it's good for women to fuck a bunch of men every single female would be like what no it's disgusting
Like this whole idea, this is Americanized. It's garbage. This Meg Thee Stallion, all this shit that is all Americanized. It's not real.
In the actual world, it's not real. Nobody can cancel me. You can cancel me. I don't know how they possibly cancel me, right? I'm hard to kill. You've got to come to Romania. You've got to get past the ARs, the attack dogs, the gate, and then you've got to try and get to the gold, bro, and I'm well locked up. So I'm not worried about anyone canceling me. I just say what I genuinely think and feel.
and I convinced them
that my view was right. And I've had women message me a year later going, you know what? I am so glad I didn't leave my man over that one stupid bitch. We are so happy now. I thought I had to leave him. All my girls would tell me I had to leave him. And you know what? Now we're so happy and I want to say thank you.
I was like, yeah, because you would have left the man you love.
To get with some other man who you don't love, who's going to do the same shit. Same shit. Stupid.
Yo. - Stupid.
Hey, listen, man, you guys have been entered into and you were witnessing the church of Andrew Tate, man, this guy. And let me tell you this, man.
The reason why you probably have noticed I was a little bit more quiet than normal is because my man could shoot from the hip. Well, I do all right. And he shoots from the hip very confidently. Okay? Listen.
I'm still based in the United States and I'm based on the West. I got to just be like duck and be like, I don't know what he said. Okay. But let me say this.
you're in a very liberating place where you could actually be yourself and speak your truth. Completely. And also, like, I'm going to be honest with you, just outside of independent, all that, I don't think it's misogynistic at all. I think it's something that really...
Banks on and really leans on.
the ideals of tradition completely and and you know and these days people act like tradition is something that wasn't embraced for centuries and centuries and they're acting like when you then hearken upon those you're actually being like some evil whatever whatever completely and and if anyone who's watched this is offended by anything i've said i want to explain one more thing
This is not my views are not leaning upon female subservience. My views are not leaning upon female slavery. My views are actually leaning upon masculine excellence. And I believe that if a man truly does all of his jobs as a man and he truly provides as a man and is strict on himself as a man should be, and he is the man that he he is the archetype of a male. I really believe the fact that him having a little bit of pussy on the side is not a big deal. I'm not saying you should let Joe Schmo do whatever he wants. I'm not saying that. I'm not saying you should get.
fucking high value man but when you get the motherfucker don't be mad because he did a little thing on the side thinking that's the end of it if he's treating you well he's being a man he's protecting you he's worried about the financial freedom of you and your possible offsprings stop thinking in this westernized world that meg the stallion and and all these city girls have told you that you have a million options way more than dudes that you could just say fuck you and
And I hope that would be kind of more like amplified because I see so many fucking women who who basically they go off that mantra and they end up to be 34 and they're wondering why they're now trying to retract their steps on anything they could possibly do. That's right. Misery will teach them.
Exactly. Yo, listen, Andrew, bro, we have to have more conversations because let me say this. I feel like you could say the shit I can't say. And trust me, it's rare that I feel like
There's someone who could be as vocal.
as honest, as unfiltered,
Usually I'm that person where everybody I act. We won't let you do it. But man, you're living in a beautiful world where like you're not saying, oh, if I say this, everyone's going to hit my corporate sponsors to try to kill everything I have going on and have me go broke. So then I have to make the apology and backtrack on everything I have going on. That's the witch hunt that's going on right now. You can't have a complete original opinion. You can't even have a point of view.
cool.
a pen.
right so for example there's there's two big parties to make if you like one party
that didn't win and the other party won.
I live in the countryside. They ran cable.
Like cable TV.
There's only one road that passes right. Look at that. They will skip the town that didn't vote for them. Yeah. Yeah. There's ramifications. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. You don't agree with us. You don't fuck with us. Yeah. You get nothing. Yeah. Yeah. We live in the United States of America. Yeah.
You can have these opposing opinions to everything going on, and it's still now to the point where it's like it's scaring you of your livelihood. Well, this is actually into a much broader meta point, and I don't want to open up a whole new can of worms. But –
They're very, very organized and very
powerful systems in place that are designed to prevent us from saying and thinking certain things. And a lot of them are designed specifically to control us. And I think that a lot of the relationships between men and women now are designed in a way by the powers that be deliberately to reduce masculine power. How can you feel like a powerful man?
when you have no control over your own household.
How can you be a king in the world if you don't control your own house? How can you control your own house if a woman can call the police on you for basically nothing, can divorce you and take all your shit, can stop you seeing your own kids? In America, they could kick you out of your own house by calling the police on you. Correct. Because the police is always going to secure their safety. So how are you ever a king in your own household? If you don't feel like a king in your own house, you're not going to feel masculine enough out here on the street.
to represent
freedom against tyranny, right? You're not going to feel like kicking up for riot if you have too many problems at home. So let's say they were to, I don't know, for example, came up with some virus, destroyed your business, locked you in your house, blah, blah, blah. The reason the men aren't kicking off, the reason the men aren't getting together and say, whoa, whoa, whoa, you're not destroying my family's life work is because they're too busy arguing at home with some bitch over some dumb shit. And they deliberately try, they have been deliberately trying for a very long time to reduce the masculine essence. Let me tell you something, revolutions are nothing more than a
place. It's not women, it's men. If you put enough men on a city square pissed off, a revolution happens.
That's what the people in charge of the world are afraid of. So to make sure there's no revolution, what they do is they construct as many...
divisions amongst the peasants as possible. They make sure the blacks hate the whites, the men hate the women, the Republicans hate the Democrats, and we're all so busy fighting with each other they can laugh from the top because there's not very many of them and there's a bunch of us. I'm telling you, the reason in countries like America, the reason the law is so destructive against men is very, very purposeful. They don't want you to feel like a king. They don't want you to feel powerful. You wake up amongst three bitches, if you have fucking 10 sons from 10 baby mamas, you're going to wake up and feel like the man. You ain't taking shit easy. If you wake
your fucking third year of a sexless marriage, paying taxes, and your kids don't even listen to you, you don't really feel like rebellion. You don't have it inside of you. This is why there's so much fucking male suicide. This is why men are so depressed. This is why everyone's so unhappy, because the life they try and create for men, the things they try and purport, the ideas they try and make us subscribe to, are depressing. They want you as a tax slave. They want you as a tax slave. They want you in a sexless marriage with some old fat bitch who hates you. That's what they want. Afraid to leave because they'll take your house
work and now you want you to sit there and pay your taxes until you fucking die. This is all done on purpose. None of this is an accident.
It's all very purposeful. And in countries, in countries which are not like this, in countries where men still have that masculine essence, in countries where they're still in control of their own household, when the government tries to become tyrannical, it's far more difficult to do. Because the men get together and say, you know what, women, clean the house, I'll be back in two hours, I'm going to tell these guys to get fucked.
And that's the reality of it. This is a control mechanism along with everything else. Everything you see on TV, this is my final rant. Everything you see on TV is a control mechanism. All the shit they put on Netflix is a control mechanism. Telling you that you have mental problems you don't have is a control mechanism. Telling you, oh, yeah, you can't focus on anything for two minutes because you have ADHD. Or you're depressed and you can never fix it. They're trying to control you. They're trying to dampen your life force. Making sure your woman doesn't listen to you is a control mechanism. Making sure you can never leave her without being financially destroyed is a control mechanism.
all of it from head to toe. You have to resist the slave mind. You have to look at it all and understand they are trying to make a slave of you. And when I say slave, I do not mean slave likely. I mean the word slave. They are printing money from the sky and you're giving up your life for it. If they can create something in unlimited amounts,
anytime they want, and you'll give up your life and time for that said thing, you are their slave. They don't need to use power and control and whips anymore. They just have the money print button. It's slavery. And they need to make sure that even if you know that, you don't feel powerful enough to do anything about it. All of this, every single thing about the modern world was deliberately constructed to get us to a point where they can come along and lock you in your house for something with a 99.9% survival rate. And you're going to sit there and take it like
tell your own woman she's not allowed out with her friends to get fucking drunk with a bunch of dudes because you're not even allowed to do that if a wife comes home and goes i want to go out drinking tonight you're not fucking going nowhere oh i want to go out there for my friends from work you're not going out with them men that's coercive and controlling behavior
Bro, you can't even tell your bitch to go get fucking drunk with dudes. They'll call that abusive. You're an abusive misogynist.
You're Andrew Tate, cancel him. It's insanity and it's all done on purpose. I don't want anyone to sit here and think this is some accident we've arrived at or that we're here now and it's no big deal. This is very, very purposeful because when you destroy the warriors of a society, that's how you usher in slavery.
First thing the Romans did when they conquered the Greeks is kill all the warriors, all the fighting age males. You leave the soy boys and the bitches, and then you can conquer it. Done.
That's what they're doing to us. They're trying to destroy the warriors. So my Gs, the ones who are left...
Don't worry about fucking some pussy. We got bigger fights coming up. We got bigger wars coming ahead of us. So if you want to fuck some pussy, go fuck it. Because I really believe the next 10 years are going to be difficult for men of stature. I really believe that. So that's my final speech. Hey, listen, man. Yo, I just want to say, man, this has been a fabulous episode of Off the Record. Salute to my man, Andrew Tate. Came here, delivered the sermon. I'm telling you, it's very few. And by the way, I see Myron over there. He knows he ain't never seen me.
and just taken in game ever.
Mario, you know, you can say I dominate conversation.
Hey, yo, I fuck with his fearlessness in like he doesn't like these days. The higher I kind of get into like this entertainment shit. I'm double Dutch and I'm like, could I say this without having certain communities or whatever? Yo, I respect the fearlessness and I know it comes with a lot, man. I respect to salute my guy. Yo, by the way, I want to salute to my nigga fresh.
He put us definitely together. So, some sleuths when they come iron who made sure this happened, you know, Freshman Fit has been definitely a, you know, a crutch for me and helping me, you know, connect with people like you and hearing this message and putting it forward.
fuck with it thanks bro you know what i mean thank you listen hey i hope to be a platform that amplifies you know hey you don't you don't all have to like it and i know i'm on spotify and i know we're a little clean
But you don't all have to like it, but it's a point of view.
You know, and that's exactly where we're going to stand on it, because to be honest,
I listen to everything you're saying. It's a lot of it that's rational. And if you have issues or whatever about what he said, hey,
Hit him on his social media. Go debate with him. DM him. Send me the hate. Send me the hate. It's no problem. You can hit me up on Instagram. Send me hate all day long. No problem. Hey, listen, man. Thank you for watching another episode of Off the Record. I'm almost at Everyday Struggle again. God damn it. But I want to salute to my guy, Andrew Tate. Do you want him to check out anything lastly? Yeah. Lastly, I'll do a quick plug. So, um...
On...
Instagram, it's at Cobra Tate. I've also got CobraTate.com. I have created systems, which if you agreed, especially with the final things I said, I've created some systems which I believe will resist the global oppression of man. One of them is- How do you take that out?
not about the football it's about being with your boys right we've always been in armies we've always been in gangs some type of militia or something militia this is how many thrive this is how men keep each other in check and this is how men feel happiest i think if you don't have that brotherhood you're not going to feel it so the war room is exactly that it's a tribe of men who basically align with what i'm saying in regards to the world and how it's moving and we're doing our best to combat that and one of the easiest ways to combat that is to make a bunch of money so we also focus
is a lesser version of the war room which focuses purely on how to make some money online there's
18 modern wealth creation methods you can go in there you can sign up it's really cheap it's like 40 bucks a month and we teach you a bunch of things about how to make money online i've got that there the instagram corporate.com and uh my youtube at tate speech uh in the comments there's usually a bunch of soy boys because i get all the feminists and etc etc get upset i don't have time to please comments i live a good life but it's all it's all on takes so i'm on there as well so um yeah that's that's where i'm at yo thank you for for pulling up man yo my guy man yeah listen by
I got to afford you this platform, and we got to continue to have continued discussions because, you know, there's certain things that, you know, you've said, and, you know, I'm going to go and watch it. I'm going to watch this. I rarely watch my podcast back over, but I'm going to watch this back.
And.
come up with some questions and let's analyze it. Of course, because I like to even play devil's advocate, and I like to kind of debate. And a lot of things you said, like,
you had sound, logical perspective or some historical background that had some type of it's not like you're just shooting from the hip. That is that has zero merit, even though you do shoot from the hip in terms of being honest. You know, a lot of people, they double talk to watch your tongue. They put it in a you know, when I say what you say is palatable, it's not palatable in the way of, oh, I'm going to talk and pussy talk. It's like, hey, listen, I'm going to say in a way that I'm not just saying fuck you, fuck you, fuck you. Yeah.
But you'll be able to digest it. So thank you for that. Again, if you guys have watched this, make sure you watched our last or a couple last episodes of Off the Record. Make sure you guys check out my guy, Andrew Tate. We will be back in a couple days with another episode for you. It's your boy, D.J. Academics. It's Off the Record. I am.