Transcript
Welcome to the Tate PhD course. If you've bought this course, which you obviously have, congratulations, you're going to change your life for the better.
I know exactly what I'm talking about.
I'm fucking certified.
I know I don't look like a pimp right now, I look like a tramp.
But I just finished training.
I don't owe you motherfuckers nice clothes.
So whatever. I actually went out of my way and bought a whiteboard
That's some genuine effort.
But the only pen I have is green, which is going to be difficult
for you to see.
So we're not going to use the whiteboard.
We're gonna put graphics in the video instead, which is more effort.
Should've charged double for this shit.
Anyway.
So,
Me...
I'm going to teach you from the ground up how to get it done.
I was thinking if I was going to do like modular videos, like little modules on each thing of how to do it or just do one long video. It's actually quite difficult. It's almost like...
Imagine you're the best baker in the world. Someone comes to you and says,
Teach me how to bake.
Well, the first thing you're going to do is, okay, well, bake what? Bake a cake, bake bread in an oven or on a fire? Or how long do I have? What are the ingredients? Like the first thing,
the master banker is going to do.
"Master Baker, Master Baker."
is going to ask you loads of questions because baking is such an all-encompassing art.
It's very difficult to just explain everything.
And pimping is very much the same.
It's very difficult for me to just explain absolutely everything, the whole 360 degrees.
but I'm gonna try anyway.
And for that reason, I'm not going to do modules.
I'm not going to break it down to little videos. What I'm just going to do is I'm just going to fucking...
lay down some knowledge
for the next
long time.
And your ass needs to get a pen and a fucking paper.
and pay attention.
If you have to watch this video over and over and over again, fine.
If you have to watch this video and understand that there's certain parts of it that you need to tweak,
to fit your particular style,
Fine.
I'm not saying that this is gonna be absolutely, not really rigid, but it is gonna be a fail-proof system.
That's what it's absolutely gonna be, 'cause there are some rules which are ironclad, can't be broken,
And some rules there are exceptions too.
So there's gonna be a whole bunch of talking here. So if you haven't gone piss, go piss.
Get some fucking popcorn.
Buckle up. This is lesson one in your pimpin' host.
Right, let's start with the basics.
The basics are as follows.
And like I said,
When you're watching this video, there's gonna be some rules which are telling you which are ironclad and can't be broken.
And sometimes there's exceptions to the rules.
I've read a lot of
A lot of the Manosphere bullshit.
And sometimes they say, "If you fuck her on the first date, she ain't worth shit."
That's not true.
I've had girls who I fucked on the first date who weren't worth shit.
I've had girls who I fucked on the first date I was with for two or three years and they were fiercely loyal to me and they were fantastic girlfriends.
So,
That is a rule which has exceptions.
But there are some rules.
with no exceptions.
Like.
"Oh, my girl has male friends. They're just her friend." No, not allowed.
That is a rule that can never, ever, ever, that cannot be broken.
If you got your chick on lock and she's in love with you, she ain't interested in talking to no other fucking dude about Game of Thrones or some dumb shit.
She's interested in talking to you and you only.
So, like I said, I'm gonna do a lot of talking here, and what I want you to do is pay a lot of attention
and especially pause this video. If I'm giving you examples, I'm talking about things, try to apply them to your own life, or where you've tried things in your own life, or your own current situation.
and see how they fit. I'm very open for questions, comments,
If you have any particular questions or comments you want to come at me with, drop me an email.
There's no problem at all.
So we're gonna start at the very, very beginning.
which is the overview of the sexual marketplace that we currently live in.
We currently live in a sexual marketplace which is extremely difficult for men.
and it is getting harder and harder.
It is not getting easier.
It's getting harder and harder.
"because women
biologically,
are programmed
to share an alpha male.
Now I say this, and this is what's actually interesting to me. A lot of the Manistere stuff, the 21 Convention stuff, all this shit is talking about how women are wrong and women need to be fixed.
I don't necessarily think that's the case.
If you can position yourself in the correct place,
you'll have more than enough women.
So by the way the sexual marketplace works is,
If you're in the wrong place, you don't have enough women, but if you're in the right place, you have too many women.
"I have more women than I can see."
By the time I've fucked all the girls I need to fuck to keep my normal rotation going, I don't have time to go on a date.
Every night is planned.
Every night I'm looking at my phone and I've got four choices and I'm like, where am I going to stay?
And that's not just because I've got money, because it's been like this before I had money. I've had money for six, seven years.
It was exactly the same before I had money.
I've always had too many women.
because I understand where to position myself. So the first thing I want you guys to do
is a lot of this red pill stuff is anti-women,
the way that women are hypergamous,
and they don't like the way the world works, and women only want this, and it's really negative.
You are not going to be successful with girls if you hate girls.
You need to get that shit out your head and you've got to change your mindset where you don't like how women think.
"I don't like how women think, women do this, women do that." Women think a particular way.
And that's fine.
If you know the rules to the game,
if you can bend the rules or you can put yourself in the right position so that the rules of the game
favor you.
then you should be very happy women think a particular way.
So like I said, a lot of this red pill stuff is trying to change the way women think. Trying to say that women think a certain way and this is wrong.
Like there's a new convention coming out, 22 convention, make women great again, about how to make women great. If women were completely fair, like men, and every woman just got one guy, da, da, da.
then where's the fun in being a G?
Where's the fun in having all these chicks? Well, how come I have so many?
I only have so many because there's a whole bunch of dudes out there with none. That's the way the world works.
So I'm gonna teach you to be in my position.
So you need to get rid of any hate or resentment you have towards women.
Get rid of that shit. That's the first thing you're going to do.
When you understand women better, you'll understand why they do what they do. And you'll understand how to position yourself so it suits you.
So the sexual marketplace is very difficult for men. And the reason it's difficult for men is because men have one weapon.
in the battle for sex.
And that is...
attention.
All you can give a female
is attention.
Right.
I'm gonna take my jacket off quickly.
Before I take my jack off, let me just remind you, this watch costs 30 grand.
that upsets you.
Um...
So all you have is your attention.
So the basics of the central marketplace are as follows.
You give your attention to a woman...
to get sex.
And the woman
gives you her sex,
to keep getting your attention.
Attention into sex, sex into attention. That's how it works. Men give their attention to get sex.
"Women give sex to get attention."
That's how it should work.
But the reason the sexual marketplace is so fucked
because there's too many women out there,
who get attention
without giving sex.
So previously, not too long ago,
Men didn't give a fuck about a girl they weren't banging.
They didn't care.
Why would you care about a girl you don't fuck? She ain't nothing to you. You don't see her.
But now with Instagram, you got girls with millions of followers, millions of men.
are giving her validation.
Millions of men are liking her comments and comment and liking her posts and commenting on her shit and telling her she's beautiful.
and she fucks
Zero of them.
So that skewed up the whole thing. Now it's all fucked. Because you've got chicks getting unlimited male attention
without having to give it their sex out. And that's why the sexual marketplace is getting difficult
Because the whole fucking...
The whole fucking game, the fair equation has been completely skewed.
Male attention is suffering from hyperinflation.
Whereas male attention isn't worth shit anymore.
50, 60 years ago, if you were talking to a girl or you took her on a date or you bought her flowers, it meant something.
Buy a bitch flowers now? She doesn't give a fuck. Why the fuck does she care?
She gets unlimited inboxes in her fucking Instagram. She can get flowers anytime she wants. She doesn't fucking care. None of that means anything.
So that's the sexual marketplace. So the number one game as a man is
You need to attach some value to your attention.
your attention has to become more valuable.
Because you have two choices.
I'm assuming you motherfuckers are smart. I don't know all of you who've bought this. I know some of you who've bought this. Some of you might be dumb.
But if something hyperinflates,
The choices are as follows. Imagine a currency. If a currency hyperinflates,
You either do something to restore the value of that currency
or you give a lot more currency to get what you want.
So my question to you is, if male attention is in hyperinflation,
Do you want to give loads, loads, loads, loads more attention to try and get laid?
Or do you want to attach a value to your attention?
so that you don't have to give very much at all, but you get what you want.
The problem with giving loads, loads, loads, loads more is you might not get laid.
And then guess where you end up?
The fucking friends of them.
I took her here, I drove her there, I took her to the movies. Every time she called me, I was there. Every time she felt sad, I was there. And this bitch is sitting there going, well, he's there anytime I want him and I don't have to fuck him, so why would I fuck him?
And Jan's a fucking some guy who doesn't give a shit about her. And you're sitting there going,
Why...
Would she fuck the guy who doesn't like her? Because the guy who doesn't like her, his attention has a value because she can't get it very easily.
Just like a currency, the only attention, anything only has a value,
through scarcity,
So when you want to attach a value to your attention, you have to limit the attention you give a female.
You cannot be running through the earth
Throw in attention everywhere for fucking free.
and expect a girl to give a shit.
that she's getting any.
If she knows you give attention to every hoe that walks, she doesn't give a fuck about your attention.
That's the reality.
This is why girls like bad boys.
It's not because bad boys are assholes.
Well, partially it is because bad boys are assholes, but it's not actually the fact they're assholes. It's the fact that they'll tell the girl to fuck off.
Or they'll say to a girl, "I don't want to talk to you anymore."
Well, they know that getting attention from this particular man isn't free and easy.
This guy will get rid of, he's giving me attention, and he told that he got rid of that other girl, or he ignores that girl, but he talks to me.
That is valid.
So the number one thing you want to do in the current sexual marketplace
is attach value to your attention.
So,
How do you do that?
Now...
This is where we're going to get into
internal factors, factors you can do as a person,
and external factors. There are a lot of factors you can't control.
I don't want to fucking...
What's this shitty expression?
teach grandmother to suck eggs or some dumb shit.
I don't want to state the obvious.
But obviously, if you have a profile as a high value male, your attention is
is instinctively more valuable.
So we're talking about attaching value to your attention. And we're going to do that by limiting your attention.
But you can also attach value to your attention with the obvious things you already know.
Go to the gym, get in shape.
dress well
Have money. All these basic things. But I'm not here to tell you that because that doesn't help you. You bought this course on how to get girls. I can't sit here and go get a Lambo because that ain't a fucking answer. That's stupid.
But I'm saying if you do those things,
it will absolutely help you because it makes you a higher value person,
It means, and a girl's more interested in you, because you're saying, well,
A lot of the time it just sparks their curiosity.
My experience with money is that girls don't care about money, but they care about how you've made it.
Girls don't care about money, but they're like,
Where does he get this money from? They're curious about it.
So some intrigue there. And with intrigue, your attention once again increases. So those are all the things you already know. If you don't know to go to the gym, get some money, well, then you're an idiot. You know all these things. We're not going to talk about them.
We're gonna talk about the things you can do without increasing your bank balance.
So,
increasing the value of your attention.
So as follows.
I don't know your current situation, but I guarantee there's a bunch of girls in your phone who you're talking to or attempting to talk to.
who you've never fucked,
and you never stand a chance of fucking.
Why are you talking to her?
Why are you giving your attention away for free?
Why are you devaluing yourself?
And that's a mistake.
So for this reason,
Anytime we're giving our attention to a woman, we need to aim for progression.
"progression towards the end goal."
If you find a woman sexually attractive,
I know the fucking modern world tells you that's a bad thing, but it's not a bad thing.
There's nothing wrong with finding a woman attractive, and there's nothing wrong with wanting to sleep with a woman. There's nothing wrong with that.
That is your end goal.
and every move you make, every bit of attention you give,
has to be progressing towards that goal. You cannot just flounder to see you giving out your attention. You end up in the fucking friend zone.
So,
Like I said,
Just like with the bakery example, there's a million things I need to teach you guys. I need to teach you guys
approaching bitches on the street.
and teach you guys how to do things in the club.
And teaching these things without experience is extremely difficult.
So to keep this easy,
What I'm gonna do is, I'm gonna give you some ironclad steps that you can do in the next two weeks so you can fuck a bitch. Brand new girl, you never fucked.
So you know that I know what I'm talking about.
Because a lot of this stuff I need to show you in person. There's a lot of other modules, etc. We're going to keep this very simple.
We live in the world of the internet.
So,
First thing you can do the stocking laid today.
is.
Your number one tool to get laid
is Instagramming.
Instagram is the new dating.
fucking app.
Fuck Tinder, I mean Tinder's okay.
The problem with Tinder is, if you're gonna do Tinder enough, you'll swipe, you'll get some girls.
But every girl on Tinder has fucked someone else. Tinder's been around for four years now.
They fucked dudes from Tinder before.
You know, only real ratchet assholes are left on there really. Maybe if they're newly single or something.
You might find something good on Tinder. I've done it. I found good girls on Tinder. But in general, what you want is Instagram.
The reason Instagram is so fantastic is because women sit on Instagram
all fucking day.
The only problem with Instagram is that they get unlimited inboxes from guys.
saying bullshit.
So how do you make your inbox
more appealing than anyone else's inbox.
So we're gonna talk about some inbox game, if that's the thing.
First thing you need to do is start your Instagram page.
You can see on my Instagram, I have my particular angle.
And that is money, obviously,
I play the fighter thing.
And also what I try and do with every single post,
is a degree of intrigue.
Intrigue is super important in the sexual marketplace because intrigue
It attaches a value to your attention because you instantly become interesting.
So imagine you work in Starbucks.
Your job is your Starbucks.
If a girl says, "What do you do?" You can say, "I work at Starbucks."
Or you can say,
Well, I was high level at Starbucks, I was high level management and now they put me in as a mystery worker.
I'm making this shit up off the top of my fucking head. I'm telling you what I'd do if I worked at Starbucks.
The girl will be like, "What do you mean?" It's like, "Oh, well, I was high level management." And then what they do is they send me around to different Starbucks stores
to just work as a normal person, but what I do is report back to the high level management about how the store is being run, and if the manager's competent and then, all of a sudden you sound like a fucking spy. You're now James Bond of Starbucks.
You were a barista loser.
Now you're James Bond.
That's how you got a spin on things. Really, I've never heard of that. So, of course,
If you heard of it, then it wouldn't work. No one knows about it.
So I moved from store to store.
Now all of a sudden you're an interesting person. Bam.
You've got to put a spin on things.
Then you're sitting there thinking, "Well, if I say that, maybe she's going to expect me to have money." No, she doesn't.
Oh, so you get paid a lot. Oh yeah, I get paid good money, but you know, I'm looking after my cousin. She had a
car crash or
I'm putting my cousin through college. Make up some bullshit.
Look!
We live in a world where you cannot play fair anymore.
When you walk down the streets nowadays and someone wants to mug you, it can't be, all right, let's have a fair duel one-on-one. If you win, there's no more fair. People are going to run up from behind and stab you.
You can't play fair anymore.
and with violence,
or in the sexual marketplace, you can't play fair.
If you work in Starbucks and you are broke,
You now are high level management on a secret Starbucks mission to find the worst Starbucks employees as a spy. And the reason you have no money is because you're putting your sick cousin through college.
That is how you have to play the game.
All of a sudden, you're an interesting person.
from a barista to James Bond, the philanthropist.
That's how you'll be doing things. So whatever your job is now,
It may be a little bit interesting.
but I guarantee you can put a spin on it.
And one of the most important things you can do is never give away all the information.
Because there is nothing as interesting that you can say
as what she can think of herself.
So girls ask me all the time, well I do.
I do loads of different things.
I don't tell them.
I say, oh yeah, I'm just working.
Why work you doing lots? I was just making money.
That's the answer. They sit there thinking, is he an assassin?
Is he a spy? Is he this? How come he has this car? Let them go through all the crazy ideas in their head because they'll settle on the one they like the most.
No matter what I make up,
or what lie I tell, it's not going to be as interesting as what they can imagine it could be.
So you need to have some intrigue there.
Don't be afraid to put spit on your shit. That's the first thing.
and your Instagram page needs to reflect that.
My Instagram page very clearly makes me look like
Russian mob, millionaire,
Pure gangster.
Is that true?
Yeah.
But still, it's done in a very particular way so that when girls look at my page, they go, who the fuck is this dude?
Like, where's he getting all these, where's he getting this? Why is he there? I'm tagging all these weird locations. What's he doing?
and also
There's a very
fine line here, you gotta be careful.
but I have girls on my Instagram page.
Because I'm telling you this,
No girl wants to fuck the guy that doesn't get girls.
They all want to fuck the guy that other girls want to fuck.
Because women are purely fucking evil when it comes to taking a guy off other dudes.
a guy off of the chicks they love that shit
So you don't want to do too much. You don't want to try and be like a budget Dan Bilzerian.
But you do want to make it clear that you roll with chicks.
especially hot ones.
Even if she's your friend or some shit.
Put a picture on there. Ain't going to hurt you.
Who's she? Oh, someone I know.
Once again, entry.
Your girlfriend, I didn't say she's my girlfriend, I said someone I know.
Oh, okay.
Lay it down.
Let them know.
Like I said, this is a lot of talking, so you better have a pen and paper and make some fucking notes.
Find a girl, take a picture, get that shit done.
Your Instagram page has to be interesting.
you have maybe half a second
Send an inbox to a girl. She's going to look at your page. You have maybe half a second to impress her.
For me it's easy now about cars and shit.
But you know what? Girls don't even care about cars, bro.
Girls don't give a fuck.
They don't care about Lambos and shit. The number of times I've had girls go, "Lambo's uncomfortable, come get me the BMW."
They don't care.
I mean, yeah, it's good for an Instagram page, but in general, they don't care.
So you need to put together an Instagram.
which is appealing to females.
You're a full grown fucking man.
If you're a full grown man, you don't care about likes.
And you don't care about keeping your Instagram updated.
So if you only have your five or six best pictures,
and that's all you have there,
Do that. Don't keep updating every day with new pictures of you and your friend drunk.
Because no one gives a fuck, bro. No one cares. And it's making you look like a dick.
and is damaging your fucking potential.
construct an Instagram front page because you ain't going to scroll down.
The first five or six pictures
that make a girl be interested in you.
one way or another.
I don't care if you have to get a professional photographer. I don't care if you have to rent a car. I don't care if you have to fuck. I don't care what lie you have to tell. I don't give a fuck.
You should know. Look at my Instagram.
Put something together that is interesting.
I've used the money angle. If you haven't got the money angle,
You know what chicks love? Travel.
Do the travel angle.
Fucking right now, book something, go on holiday, spend two days taking loads of photos next to rocks and oceans and bullshit.
and do the travel angle.
That's cheap.
And then bang.
You're a traveling guy. Girls like travel. It's interesting to them because they all want to fucking travel.
for free because they're all scams
So,
Put an Instagram page together that's interesting.
and don't update it all the time with shitty photos. Do not update your Instagram very often, if you haven't got amazing things to put on there.
That is your fucking shop window. That's your portal to the chicks. You can inbox a chick, that's the first thing you're gonna look at. That's all you've got.
Do not give a shit about keeping people up-date with your life because no one fucking cares about your shit life.
Anyway.
This is the absolute hard reality.
Another thing you don't want to do,
If you look on my Instagram, there's a picture of me with four guys sitting with leather jackets before we did some work in London.
We're clearly Russian mob, so that's allowed.
If you're clearly mafia or you're looking like a G, you're allowed.
but in general, groups of pictures of men
I'm telling you some solid no-no's for Instagram.
Because...
Living in the animal kingdom, it's always little, shitty, weak animals that are in huge groups.
Pray.
like fucking buffalo or whatever, even though they're strong, the prey, the things that get hunted are always in big groups. The hunters are like one or two.
Hunters are like lone soldiers.
You don't see fucking 20 hundreds together.
If you think you and all your 20 friends are cool with your beers, 20 guys in a picture,
No one gives a fuck. And if a girl looks at it, she's not going to know which one is you.
And instinctively, she's going to think, beta, loser.
You on your own, or you and someone else. Two guys, three guys max, bang, I'm a G. You don't need to be having fucking big groups of things. Next thing, do not put any pictures of you with your mouth open.
That soy face shit is taking over the world. You know when guys are uncomfortable in their skin, so they take a picture and they go like,
or some shit.
That's been scientifically proven in primates, monkeys,
They open their mouth as a sign of submission.
Primates, which are our closest cousin,
When the alpha male monkey turns up, he's got pissed off face.
And the other monkeys, when they see him, they kind of go,
and show their teacher as saying, like, it's a submission thing, like, don't hurt me.
And nowadays, if you look at fucking a Democrat or a liberal or someone who doesn't support Trump,
all of their pictures, they've got their fucking mouth open. The reason they do that
instinctually, it's a submissive sign.
Like, please, the world don't hurt me. And women detect that shit. It's not closed.
is not attractive in any way.
Get rid of that shit. Look about your business. You're a full grown fucking man. You haven't gone look pissed off. You gotta look about your business. Look like you know what you're doing. Like you know where you're going. Like you're doing something worthwhile.
Nobody is doing anything worthwhile going like this.
It's bullshit. Girls don't want to see you fucking happy having a great time laughing. You're not five years old. You're a fucking full-grown man.
Looking for a man who's going to take care of her. Looking for a fucking serious G.
So put that shit together, build an Instagram page,
Even if you can only get five good folks, that's enough. Never update again.
Because girls don't check when the photo was posted. You think a girl sees a good picture and goes...
Oh, that was posted six months ago. They don't give a fuck!
They look on your fucking page and go, oh, okay, I'll reply to him.
Done.
Get a couple good pictures.
That's that.
Next stage, what do you inbox the woman that makes you different from everyone else?
Now everyone watching this, I'm sure you've already inboxed loads of girls on Instagram.
I don't know what you particularly say.
I'll tell you what I would say and I'll give you a screenshot example.
So,
A lot of men say, "Hey, how are you?"
"Hey, how are you?" Bitch, she doesn't even know who the fuck you are. Why would she give a shit about telling you how she is? She knows you don't care.
You don't care.
And she gets that 30 times a day.
So she doesn't care. That's a bad idea.
Your beautiful isn't bad.
but it leaves you open for loads of shit testing.
leaves you open for I know or
LOL or some kind of sarcastic shit that they reply to you that makes you look like a dick and you got instantly fight.
to prove your manhood.
If I message you go, "You're beautiful." I just go, "I've had it before."
LOL.
As in laughing.
And they're like, what's funny? And then they can ignore you.
Then you look like a dickhead. You're a beautiful lol. What's what? And then you get blanked.
You got to be careful how you set this shit up. Because women are looking to shit test you as soon as they can.
Women are looking to turn on you and give you some shit.
to see how you react to them straight away.
So in my experience, what I find,
raises intrigue,
It inspires them to respond.
and also makes it extremely difficult for them to shit test me is
I ask where they are.
So what I do, and you're going to see a screenshot in a second,
I live in Bucharest, Romania. It doesn't matter if I'm in London, Bucharest, Moscow, anywhere I am.
I just say,
Book arrest question mark.
or Moscow, question mark, or London, question mark.
Sometimes,
Because like I said, intrigue,
I'll put a completely pointless emoji on the end.
some cherries.
or an orange or a strawberry.
Because it doesn't mean anything.
So the girl's sitting there, she's scrolling through, how are you? You're sexy. How are you? You're sexy. How are you sexy?
Bucharest, strawberry.
Yeah, I am in Bucharest.
Then they start to think,
Why does he want to know where I am?
Does he want to fuck me? Has he seen me? Does he have something of interest for me?
And they usually reply, "Yeah, why?" or "Yeah."
Because they're interested. They're like, well, what the fuck? What does he want to know for him?
So that's how you get the instant response. In my experience, I've done a lot of them, like I said about PhD,
You bought this course for a fucking reason.
I know what to do.
In my experience, that's the best message to send. Of course not every girl is going to reply.
But the ones who do, you've already, from the first question,
raise some kind of intrigue because they want to know why you want to talk to them.
They're a bit like, "Hmm, that's interesting."
So we're going to play through an example here of a girl. I'm going to look at it on my phone. We're going to put the graphics up in the video because we're fucking professionals. Me and my boy, James.
So
Here's a very perfect example.
Check.
A nine, hawk.
Bucharest.
Hey, yes.
Then my reply.
Why do I never see you? Where are you hiding?
That's my reply.
Because once again,
It's some intrigue. It's an easy, women like easy conversation. What women don't wanna do,
for a guy they don't know.
and I've never met is think.
If a woman has to sit there and go, what do I reply?
They ain't gonna reply. If a woman looks at her phone and she hasn't got something instantly she wants to say, she ain't gonna say anything.
Because she has so many messages a day as a woman that if you don't get inspired to instantly type something back, you're not going to type anything.
So if you just say something boring, they'll look at it and leave you on read.
You go and write something that makes them instantly reply.
So I said, "Why do I never see you? Where are you hiding?"
And the reason I say that in a very particular way is because it's extremely easy for them, 99% of them say,
I'm not hiding. That's what nearly every one of them says.
I'm not hiding.
All of them.
What did this bitch say? Let me check.
I'm not hiding. Oh, no. She actually, this bitch said she was hiding. So there we go. Make myself look stupid.
I'm hiding in work right now.
Don't have much free time.
Also notice I put cherries on there when I said, why? Where are you hiding?
Why did I put cherries?
Who the fuck knows? Your guess is as good as mine, friend. It just makes my messages different. Because no one gets messages with cherries.
If you motherfuckers start putting cherries in your messages, I'm going to come over and I'll beat the fuck out of you.
It's my thing.
Choose a different food.
Anyway.
They don't get messages with cherries. So it's like, fuck cherries.
When girls say to me, "Why do you put cherries on the messages?" I always say,
Who doesn't like cherries?
and they're like, "LOL true."
So that's how you get out of the cherry thing. So if you choose strawberries and a bitch gets fresh out of the strawberries, you can say, well, who doesn't like strawberries? Fucking what the fuck? Strawberries are good.
Calm yourself down.
So that's what that is.
I'm hiding in work right now, I don't have much time.
I said, what work do you do?
Break hearts. Look how fucking smooth I am.
Let's move that. So what I'm doing there, I need a sharpening front.
He's giving her a compliment. There ain't no ugly bitches out there who are breaking hearts. Only hot girls break hearts.
So I'm basically saying it's your home.
But I'm saying it in a smooth operator kind of way because I'm a fucking G.
So what do you do for work? Break hearts. I say that because it's a compliment.
She replies, I do that in my free time.
smiley face.
And I could.
for fun.
And I would say, good thing I'm strong, I'm not afraid.
So once again, I'm establishing some dominance there. I've given her a compliment.
But I'm also letting them know
I'm the fucking G.
Like I said, everyone has to have their own unique style. I'm not saying to say exactly what I say.
What I'm trying to explain to you is why I do it. I put the cherries 'cause it makes my messages unique.
I ask where they are. That's the one thing I would recommend everyone start with.
If you want to fuck a girl and you're in fucking Grand Rapids, Michigan, go on Instagram, type in Grand Rapids, Michigan, see some dickhead hoes who have tagged themselves, and message them and say Grand Rapids question mark.
And go, why? Just say, oh, I never see you around, where are you hiding?
It's a good opener. That's the opener you can take, but the rest of it has to be you.
You can't pretend to be anyone other than yourself.
impersonating someone else is not going to work in the long term.
However,
You gotta be yourself, you gotta be yourself in the right way. You can't just, you gotta put things in the right angle. So I'm explaining why I do what I do, and you need to listen to that,
understand why I'm doing what I do, and apply it to your own style.
Don't copy me word for fucking word.
She says, "Good thing I'm strong, I'm not afraid."
She goes, "I'm just kidding, I'm not that bad to break hearts."
Then what did I say?
Then, then I asked her how old she was.
I always ask how old they are.
I don't know why, it's something they always seem to reply to.
no matter what they say,
whether it's 30 or fucking, unless they're really young. If they're above 20,
Between the age of 20 and 30, if they're a teenager, I usually say, oh, you're young. I'm an old man.
But if they're like whatever her age was,
I don't think I've screenshoted this properly.
I say,
That's a good age. You're old enough to have fun, yet young enough to be smart. Sorry, young enough to have fun, but old enough to be smart.
I always say that. Girls like that line.
It makes them sound like, "Oh yeah, I'm 23. I'm old enough to be smart, but young enough to have fun." You ain't smart, bitch, you're dumb.
still I say that
They like that shit.
And I say, "I'm a very old man, I'm 30."
He goes, "Yes, I would like to stay forever at this age,
Now remember what I said earlier about 20 minutes ago in this video. We are always aiming for
progression.
This girl is now getting my attention.
So far, this exchange has happened to be just about a minute, minute and a half long.
Because once again with women, they get bored quick.
If I don't reply to her quickly, if I leave her for a couple hours and then try and message her again,
She's going to, oh, she's forgot about me. She looked at my Instagram an hour and a half ago. She was a little bit intrigued.
Now she's had six messages since from new guys and she's forgotten all about me.
So progression.
What am I aiming to do?
from
the Instagram conversation, what's the progression?
The progression is, because we're always giving our attention in exchange to progress up the ladder. I'm going to use my fucking whiteboard. Even though I only have a green marker, you can barely see I'm going to use it.
We're progressing.
We're starting here with all the other shit munchers. I don't know if you can see that.
Here's where we want to be, at the top.
Because with the shit munchers, there's lots of people.
at the top with her T's,
There should be only one man.
You.
So you want to get higher up. As you get higher up, there's less and less shit munchers.
Hope that makes sense.
So on her Instagram,
Anyone can message her.
There's loads and loads and loads of guys.
So what we're aiming to do out of the Instagram conversation is get her WhatsApp or get her phone number.
Now you're thinking, what's the difference between messaging on Instagram
and messaging on our phone.
The big difference is,
Everyone can message on Instagram.
Whereas only a few people can message her on her phone.
Because not everyone has their fucking phone number, you dumb cunt.
So by getting her phone number, we are progressing up and slowly limiting it to the number one dude at the top, which is you.
So when you move from Instagram to phone number, you cut it down from the entire world being able to message her,
down to about 100 people perhaps.
That's a big jump.
That is the aim of the Instagram conversation.
progression.
From the phone number we go on to the next stage, to the next stage, till eventually you end up with titties.
That's how it works. So that's what we're trying to do in this conversation here is get her phone number.
So where were we?
That's a good age.
Old enough to be smart and young enough to have fun.
I said, I'm a very old man, I'm 30.
Women like age.
Women like you to be older than them. So do not be afraid to say your age.
She goes, yes, I'd like to stay forever at this age.
Time to make a joke because I'm so funny. I said, I can make you immortal.
Jesus is my friend. I'll WhatsApp him.
She put lots of laughing faces.
She goes, if he doesn't respond, I'll give you his Instagram because he likes all my posts.
And I put, I bet he does because you're beautiful and he's a pervert.
Tongue face.
So that's the second compliment I've given her.
So she already thinks I'm funny, she's had a couple compliments, she's scrolled through my Instagram page by now, she's talking to me, this is about two minutes in.
Two minutes, that's all we, I've spent two minutes of time on this girl.
And what do I do? She goes, after I said, she's beautiful. She goes, well, thank you.
Next thing I say, WhatsApp question mark.
Straight to the point. Hello, this is who I am. You've seen my Instagram. You're beautiful. Ha ha ha. I'm funny. Give me your number.
We ain't fucking around. We ain't playing no three days of messaging. Can I have your number? Please. Like some fucking pussy.
Two minutes.
two minutes of talk you've seen me you're replying to me you know the big g is give me your number
If at this point she goes,
"Oh, I prefer to talk on Instagram."
Do you know what you do?
I'll tell you what you do. And you're going to hear this a lot. This is a very important pimping term.
You can write this down on my board.
In fact, I'm going to write this piece of paper so you understand how important it is. We're going to use this a lot.
F, D,
B.
which means
Fuck that bitch. FDB. If she wants to give you bullshit, FDB.
What you do, if she goes, I don't want to talk to you on WhatsApp, I'd rather talk to her on Instagram.
You don't reply, you leave her ass on scene.
Ignore her. FDB.
I've shown you who I am. I've spoken to you. I've proved I'm fucking funny. If you're going to give me your fucking phone number, I'll talk to someone else.
FDB.
Message a different girl.
because
By not giving you her phone number, she's shit testing you.
She's saying, yeah, I'll talk to you, but you don't deserve my number.
And what you're doing by not replying is saying, I'll talk to someone else and fuck you.
You can't say that to her because if you say it, then it shows you're emotionally upset. And if you get upset, then she wins because she's emotionally affected you. Men cannot be emotionally affected. Men are...
Iron. Can't affect us.
You just don't reply because you don't care. You want to give me your number? Okay, I don't care.
Do not apply.
And about 70% of the time, they'll message you or say, "Oh, so you don't want to talk to me if you don't get my number," or some shit.
They'll come back at you.
and then you can play the game again.
Just say, well, anyone can message you on Instagram. I'm special, so I want to WhatsApp you.
to be clear with your intention,
She can give you the number.
FDB.
Because you're doing it, remember, when you're talking to girls like this,
You're not messaging one girl at a time.
You can say Bucharest or Grand Rapids or Houston or whatever,
100 girls. You can go on Instagram right now and message 100 girls.
So you're going to be doing loads of conversations at once.
So you're only interested in the ones who are gonna play ball. They ain't gonna play ball and give you their number. FDB. So, in this particular case,
We all know what happened.
I'm going to work for 10 minutes.
Fucking G.I. Ph.D.
Whatsapp? Yep. Smiley face.
What's your number? I'll put some cherries on there because I'm a G.
Bang, I've locked out the phone number, so now you motherfuckers are going to be thinking about messaging my hub.
Bang, there's the number. Progression, we've moved from here.
to hear.
This can happen
Many, many different ways.
I'll give you another example. There's another screenshot example. Because this is what I do. Listen, I have too many girls.
But if I want some chicks,
I go on Instagram.
I may, because I got quite a few followers, I got about 30,000.
I'll scroll through girls who've already liked my pictures, because it's easier then, because then I know they definitely want this.
Ben, book arrest question mark.
I'll message 10 girls.
I'll get five WhatsApps.
I'll fuck two girls.
That's the average math.
So any Monday morning I can wake up and go, you know what?
I want two new pussies this week.
Booker S, copy and paste, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom. Da da da, WhatsApp, da da da, WhatsApp da da da.
Me and Tristan call it Paul Cicero. We call it Cicero-ing.
It'd be interesting, especially when our girlfriend's around. We say, I've got to go Cicero.
And we do that because I think it's in Goodfellas. I can't remember what message. I can't even remember what movie it is. It's one of the gangster movies. It's a guy called Paul Cicero.
And he said he doesn't move very fast because Paulie doesn't have to move from no one.
because he used to sit there and people used to come and deal with him and then leave.
So, if you're just going to call it Cicero-ing,
So me and Dresdenville were going to Cicero today. We'll go to a coffee shop at 3 o'clock.
We'll have a date at 3.30, a date at 4.30, and a date at 5.30.
We'll bring the girl in at 3:30 and then go, "Oh yeah, I've got to go now. I'm going to go in a minute. I'll just pay the bill. Okay, nice to see you. Send her away. Next, next, next. I'll do three dates in a fucking day."
narrow down the one I want,
And then that's the one I take to the club at the weekend, bang, it's game over.
So,
You can get on that level if you get as professional as me. When you have a PhD, you literally just...
10 questions on a Monday, Cicero on a Wednesday, fucking by Friday.
Game over.
But that's just letting you know where you're going to end up if you're studying Arlenau.
So, next bitch, I'll give you a different example. Bucharest, question mark. This girl tried to play a bit harder with the G.
Trying to play harder with the fucking...
I should walk around, I should let these bitches know, I should put on my Instagram profile,
PhD, so they know not to get too fresh.
Book her ass. Her reply was a lot less friendly than the last girl.
Yes.
Yes, like I said.
She probably read it.
She probably has a fucking boyfriend. Or she's...
Even if she hasn't got a boyfriend, there is no female on this planet who's truly single.
This is something that's one of the unbreakable rules.
Put Unbreakable Rule in flashing red across the top.
Unbreakable rule.
There is no attractive woman on the planet
who was completely single,
They are always at least talking to someone.
They're always at least messaging someone or still kind of talking to their ex or fucking their ex. There's no single woman. So making a woman like you is not about making them like you. It's about making them like you more than the other people they're already talking to.
Keep this in mind.
So the reason this girl gave me attitude and the reason a lot of girls give you attitude is because they're already fucking someone else or they're already talking to someone else.
So they're thinking, well, I already, if you're already full, you've been for dinner and you're full. Someone goes, do you want dessert? Oh, I'm already full.
So that dessert has to look good for you to want to take a bite from it.
So you have to look good for them to be interested in you because they're already full. They're full already.
All the women are walking around with full stomachs.
You're going to look fucking amazing and don't want to take a bite. Keep that shit in mind.
So this bitch, I found out a later date, does have a boyfriend.
fucked her anyway.
But this is why she started off so fresh.
Book arrest.
Yes.
Same thing.
"Why do I never see you?"
Where are you hiding?
That's what I said.
She said, "I don't go out too much."
I don't like the men here.
I was living in other countries or between travels.
So no time or wish to be popular here.
This is remaining.
Oh, right. Okay. I'm going to give you another example. This bitch knows me.
She goes, "I just followed you, "'cause I saw you were very funny in an interview."
and you have some funny things on Insta.
What did I say about having your page on point?
So we've been messaging for 30 seconds and she's messaged me saying I had some funny things on Insta. I messaged her, she looked at my Instagram and she saw something that made her laugh or something that intrigued her.
That's why it's important. Your 5 or 6 photos are interesting.
because that's your chance.
If my photos were shit, I never would have got that message from her.
Never would have come.
It would have been game over right then and there.
But she saw something she liked.
So I said, "Where are you living now?" She talked about how she didn't want to be in Bucharest. She goes to Bucharest at the moment. I said, "Good, it's the best city."
I'm here also, which is important so we can meet and take over the world.
I say that because women, it's authoritarian.
It's authoritarian. You-- hi, yeah. You barely know me, but me and you are going to take over the world.
It makes them think, who the fuck's this dude? He thinks he can conquer the world? Who is this guy? What do you mean? To conquer the world, what?
It's better for a woman, it doesn't matter what emotion you evoke, as long as you evoke something.
Even if they're a bit like...
curious or a bit like
Well, angry can work if you don't push it too far.
as long as they don't read it and think it's boring. Like I said, if they read it and they don't feel instantly compelled to reply, they won't reply.
This is your only shot. So when you say like we're gonna take over the world, they're like,
They're either going to be like, what do you mean take over the world? Or why take over the world? Or,
They just want to reply. You've got to be careful with what you say.
Ha ha.
I was thinking you already took over the world without me. There's something left, question mark.
And the reason she said that is because my Instagram page is so fucking G with all these cars and shit.
Once again, Instagram page.
I said, "There's a tiny, tiny bit that I need you for."
There is one place I cannot go.
And she said, what place?
And I said, the girls' bathroom.
How old are you?
Always ask them how old they are. They like that shit.
Childish joke.
She put with a laughing face, but I didn't like that. That pissed me off a little bit.
22, you?
22 is probably a little bit too young to do the old enough to be smart, but you could probably get away with it.
I just said, I'm an old man, 30.
Now, when she said childish joke with the laughing face, that was the beginning of her trying to get a little bit fresh and I could detect it. And that's why I didn't reply with, uh,
Old enough to be smart.
you're young enough to have fun because I thought,
I've been pretty funny to this girl. I made some jokes and I didn't like it. Now to you, you're sitting there going, well, she just said childish joke, that's the problem.
I have a PhD. I can detect instantly how a woman's thinking.
So she looked, she thought I was interesting, da da da. And the main reason she's probably being this way is because she's insecure. She knows I have shit loads of chicks.
She's seen my Instagram. She knows who the G is. And she's thinking, I got to give this guy a bit of shit because he thinks he can get any girl he wants. I have this problem below.
So then she tries to belittle me.
Still a lot to learn and live for you.
A real life for a man starts after 30, you'll see.
So just try and tell me that I'm young and stupid.
I was trying to say.
I replied.
I know this
WhatsApp.
I ain't fucking around with you, hoe. Tell me about man life after 30. You're a 22 year old chick. The fuck you know about a man's life after 30?
I know this.
WhatsApp.
Because we are trying to progress. I ain't sitting here handing out attention.
You've already shit tested me to a degree twice in your stupid ass answers.
Telling me that I don't know anything about the world. I'm telling them my jokes are childish.
Give me your fucking number or FDB. Because I'm perfectly prepared to never talk to you ever again. I don't know you. I don't give a fuck.
It's a numbers game.
It's a loss, it's a waste of time for you to talk to me.
But then she gave me her number.
Here's my number.
Text me when you're 35.
So she wanted to give me her number because she wants me, but she's trying to fucking give me shit, saying that's a waste of time, dude.
I said, you think 30 is too young?
She goes,
I think you're into games and I don't like drama and complicate.
complications.
So she's saying, you can see now where I detected her bullshit way back at the childish joke. And I started to reply...
Less.
Nicely.
The reason I did that because
If she gave me a little bit of shit and I still replied super nice, old enough to have fun, young enough to be smart, all this bullshit and cherries and was a nice guy all the time.
she would have instinctively thought, well, I've given him some shit and he's still being nice about it. He's a pussy.
When she gave me a bit of shit and I cut my replies down...
I know this, what's that? And start being a bit of a dickhead back.
Then she thought, okay, I can't push him too tough.
Because she saw.
Listen to me carefully. Watch this part of the video again. This is important dynamics. She tried to give me a bit of shit.
I limited my attention. That's the weapon we have. That's what we do. We give attention to get sex. We fuck with us. We take our attention away.
She got fresh. I limited my attention down. I still replied but I removed the friendliness.
straight to the point,
teach her a lesson not to get too fresh. And then when I said, "What's your WhatsApp?" Even though she gave me shit, she still gave me her number.
Because she knew if she didn't, I would.
She knew that would be the end of it, but she still wants me. Of course she does. Who doesn't?
So she's like, okay, well, I better give him my number, but I want to give him some sarcastic bullshit at the same time.
She goes, you losers, it's a waste of time you talk to me. Here's my number, but text me when you're 35. So she gave me the number, but she fucking attached a bunch of shit to it.
I said, "You think 30 is too young?" She said, "I think you're into games, "I don't like drama complications."
So I said,
So you want to judge someone
who you've not even gotten to know.
One second.
So you want to judge someone who you've not even gotten to know.
I can tell we're only 22.
So she said, "I'm young and stupid."
But I said, oh, you're judging somebody you don't even know. I can tell you're 22.
I'm calling her young and stupid.
Flip on the hook.
You think I'm young and stupid? You're the one making judgments. I ain't judged you, bitch. I don't know you.
She replied, I don't judge you.
I said, "Well then, you don't know if I'm drama or games.
Be nice.
I'll WhatsApp you.
And she replied, OK, smiley.
That's the game. She tried to get fresh to me two or three times.
I ended up with the WhatsApp.
The bitch has been put in place.
She sent me a little smiley face at the end.
She now knows that she can't judge me, even though I've got girls on my Instagram and I'm clearly a player. She ain't allowed to say it anymore. I put that bitch in her fucking place.
because I didn't take her shit.
When she called me childish and I would have been like, "Yeah, I am childish. Hello, you're so pretty. Here's a heart." Game would have been over.
You fuck with me, I'll reduce my attention. Give me a pen.
This is the Tower of Power.
Attention!
This is a girl behaving.
I know you love my graphics.
This is a girl being a dickhead.
Dick.
This is the attention meter.
If they are a dickhead, you reduce your attention. If they behave well, you increase your attention.
If they reply nice things to you, you message them lots of nice things.
If they reply bullshit dickhead stuff to you, you cut your attention right down. But remember,
Stay emotionless.
Never insult a woman.
Never get angry because if you get angry or insult them, it shows they've emotionally affected you and then they win.
It's just an attention scale. There is no emotion. There's no anger. There's no resentment. There's nothing. Even if a girl says you're fucking ugly, I can never give you my number. You're too ugly.
You just reduce your attention.
Simple as that, attention scale.
They reply like dickheads, you give them dickhead answers.
They reply nicely, you give them nice answers.
Keep the shit in line to keep the bitch in check.
That's how it goes.
So I can show you 200 examples of this.
In fact...
I could go on forever because this is basically all I do. But this is just a couple examples
of how you can, right here and now, after this PhD course, start talking to new girls you never spoke to before.
Fix your fucking Instagram.
I start messaging.
the city you live in,
and a girl. Now if you've got a level of gain like I've got you can do other cities
So if I know I'm going to be in Kiev next week, I'll do Kiev in advance.
I can do that.
Because I'm a fucking G.
For you amateurs, I'd recommend just wherever you are, stick in your own seat.
message, ask them where they are available. I'll start with there.
Until next thing, I have to take a piss.
Right, congratulations, you got the girl's phone number. You've progressed from every shitmuncher in the world, the exclusive club of people who have her phone number.
Everything we are doing is for progression.
You give attention for progression.
Getting her phone number is just one step closer.
We are now aiming for the next goal, which is a date with the girl.
You are not getting her phone number to give the bitch unlimited attention for no reason.
You're not giving her, getting her phone number, just to text and text away for fucking weeks on end and get nowhere.
You're not doing that shit. You're aiming.
to take on a date.
That's the next stage on the Tower of Power.
Day.
So,
Texting a chick.
You have to be yourself. You can't be me. There's only one me.
But there's only one you.
some motivational tricks.
So you go be yourself.
But,
Do basic rules still apply?
You don't take shit.
You're a nice guy.
but you're not a fucking pushover little piece of shit wimp.
in general,
generalization
In fact, it's not generalization, it's absolute truth.
Everybody loves to talk about themselves.
Everybody loves to talk about themselves.
So although you need to get some intrigue, remember you work for Starbucks, you're a fucking Starbucks spy who's putting your fucking...
cousin through fucking college or some shit.
You need to ask her about herself.
What do you do? Do you work or study?
Oh, so work or study is what I use a lot. Do you work or study?
Oh, I'm studying economics. Ah, you like money. Who doesn't?
more.
Oh, I'm studying law. Perfect. You can get me out of jail.
Whatever they say, add a little thing on it.
"Oh yeah, I can get you out of jail." Shut up.
can do shit.
Still,
ask them a lot about themselves.
Whatever you do, every single thing has to come from a position of dominance.
So for example, the "I'm putting my cousin through college" thing. You can't message a girl and go, "Oh, I don't have much money right now because I'm putting a girl, my cousin, through college."
That's not dominant, that's bullshit pussy.
If she were to mention something about money, you could say,
or let's go here and say, oh, that's too expensive for me. I'm putting my cousin through college. Wait for her to mention something first.
Or say, I'd rather put my cousin to college. It ain't easy, but I'd rather help family than spend money at the moment.
Put it from a position of dominance. Like, yeah.
Own it.
You're the fucking man.
Everything you do, you're the fucking man.
Do girls say to me, I see your Instagram page. You have all these girls. Yeah. I'm a fucking man. Yeah.
I'm the man. Doesn't matter what it is, I'm the man. "You work at Starbucks?" "Yeah, I'm the head of Starbucks spy operation, MI6. I'm James fucking Bond of Starbucks."
So, of course, I'm the best.
I'm a fucking, I'm like basically an undercover agent.
You gotta own that shit.
There's a fine line between arrogance and owning it. Don't be too arrogant.
You gotta own that shit. Most people think girls like arrogance. They don't. They just like men who own their things. You can actually own who you are and be confident in who you are without being arrogant.
That's how you get laid.
not being arrogant. Arrogant pisses them off.
It's just being confident with who you are and what you do.
without being arrogant. So keep that shit in mind.
You're texting her. Rules to texting her.
Do not double text her.
If she ignores you want to...
leave it maybe a day
Day and a half.
Then try again. Hey, how you been? If she ignores you again, game over.
Forget about it.
In fact,
I wanna mention something quickly, we're just gonna mention it later, but I'm gonna mention it now.
The whole fucking time you're starting with Instagram, texting, the whole way through, there's something you have to keep in mind.
There's something called external factors that you cannot control.
Sometimes,
You just can't win. I've had girls who have...
I've tried something on and it completely ignored me. And then six months later, I tried the same thing and it worked flawlessly.
Why is that?
Because the first time it didn't work has nothing to do with me and my system.
It's because there's external factors you cannot control.
Every girl you're messaging has a life.
If that girl is completely head over heels in love with someone else,
She's not going to reply to you.
If her granddad's just died,
She ain't interested in going on a date with you.
If her dog's just died or she's just fucking, or she's failing her homework, maybe she's suicidal, maybe she's overdrawn, who the fuck knows? There's a whole bunch of external shit you cannot control.
So you have to keep in mind the reason it's a numbers game is because there's too many external factors
that can influence to end result. Thank you.
I'm talking about fucking girls.
Great, exactly.
Just
Too many external factors that you cannot control that have an influence.
So when I say something like don't double text or text or once,
If she doesn't reply again, don't text her again. If she doesn't reply, don't be one of those guys, "Oh, you gave me your number." Don't get upset. Don't be a fucking little bitch. Don't start messaging her, "Why'd you give me your number if you're not gonna talk?" Don't be a little fucking pussy. Don't sit there and be like, "Ooh, I'm upset."
Emotionality is not how men act.
You do not care if she replies or not. Do not be a bitch because it could be an external factor.
Maybe your game is flawless and on point. Maybe her granddad just died, bro. You don't know and I don't know. Nobody knows. If she doesn't want to text you, it's fine.
start again with someone else
Do not be start messaging her, why'd you give me your number if you're not gonna reply? And being a little fucking loser. Because then she definitely ain't gonna fuck you.
Then she'll reply and call you a dickhead, and then the game's over. What's the point in that? Don't be a fucking idiot.
So don't do that shit.
So,
Rules to text in girls. Don't double text. I've told you to double text in rules.
Next.
Only message women at night.
Do not message during the day.
During the day they're busy,
They're working.
and they're certainly not thinking about a relationship. Women are one tracked.
Women cannot do. Women can multitask.
No, they fucking can't.
That's a lie. Men won't do.
So if a woman's at work or she's busy or she's at it, she ain't sitting there thinking, I really want a boyfriend. She's thinking, I really want a boyfriend at night.
at home, on the couch, in bed.
Unless she's with some other dude, which she might be. It's very often that she might with another guy.
I guarantee right now you're texting a girl who you really like and she's still banging someone else.
It's normal. That's the world we live in now.
"Ooh, she's texting me back." Yeah, she's probably fucking some other dude, so...
That's the world we live in. Anyway.
Text girls at night. They are more susceptible to flirtatious
notions at night because they're fucking sitting around thinking about our relationship and
or they're more at home, they're comfy, they're watching bullshit on TV, they're more susceptible to the kind of conversation you want to be having.
Do not message girls during the day.
It just doesn't work as well. Unless you know the girl really well or you've already met her before or she's your girlfriend or some shit.
In general, with the new girls, you want to message them at night.
I know you're thinking, "Well, if I get her number, and then I don't message her all the way till the night,
Don't be a little pussy.
When you first get your number, say, "Hey, it's me."
cherries, strawberry, whatever. Oh, hey, how are you? So yeah, I'm really good. I'm just about to drive. I'm gonna message you in a bit.
Say something like that, Ben. Don't explain yourself. Don't say, "Oh, I'm just about to do this and this and this and this." No, I'm about to drive.
Or God bad work to do.
or I'm gonna go shoot someone in the head. I'll be right back.
Keep it vague.
And just look in here up at night.
That's when you text girls.
When you're texting the bitch, you should be texting her for maximum two days.
before you arrange a date.
Maximum two days. If you're texting a girl for fucking a week and a half,
and she still won't meet you,
FDB.
We do not have time to waste, gentlemen.
We have PhDs.
We ain't out here giving away our attention for girls who won't even meet us.
for a fucking coffee.
Because if you're texting her for a week and she won't meet you, she's getting attention and she ain't giving you anything back. She's not allowing you to progress on the tower of power and she's taking all your attention for no reason, which devalues your attention. You're hyperinflating yourself. And the girl is sitting there thinking...
Well, he'll text me all the time whether I fucking meet him or not.
My super lovely brother.
Hello?
Hello?
Filming.
Yeah.
No idea.
I'm filming my PhD course.
Bye.
Leave that in there.
I like it. Anyway.
So, you ain't giving your attention for no reason, because here's why.
Let me tell you a fucking amazing, mind-boggling fact to most of you motherfuckers.
If you call a girl's number,
and you play it right, even if she ain't replying.
Sooner or later, you might fuck her anyway.
It's like... Have any of you ever worked in sales? I used to work in sales.
You build up leads and people go, "Nah, maybe next year, maybe next year." And then eventually you have all these old leads you've been talking to for ages and ages and you start just landing sales easily.
Girls are the same.
But that won't happen if you fuck it up.
So,
If you're giving out all your attention too easily,
The girl, you're hyper-reflecting your attention, and the girl will lose respect for you, and she'll never fuck you.
Even if she continues to text you, you think you're getting somewhere.
We've been texting for three weeks. And she's replying to me every time I text. We were texting for three weeks.
During those three weeks, she's fucked someone else, bro.
Or she's definitely been on a date with someone else. She hasn't been at home. She ain't that busy. Oh, I'm just busy. No one's that fucking busy. Don't believe that shit for a second. She's probably met me, sucked in my big balls, and replies to you when I don't text her because she's upset.
That's what's happening.
Don't fucking fall for the tricks.
She's losing respect for you.
What you need to do is keep the value on your attention because
Even if you're texting her and she doesn't want to meet you, fine.
you can text her again in a few months.
Oh hey, how you been?
She'll go, oh yeah, this is the guy. I remember this guy. Yeah, yeah. But he wouldn't just text me for a whole bunch of time for no reason. He wouldn't just text me for no reason because I wouldn't meet him.
Then when you say, let's go for coffee, she'll remember the last time I said no, he stopped texting.
Okay, let's get coffee.
Because she knows you cannot have your attention for free.
Keep your attention valuable. Do not devalue yourself for any female.
because you will definitely not get them.
You stand a better chance getting them, keeping your attention valuable and being patient
Patience, gentlemen, is how you get a lot of these girls.
And if you're talking to enough girls,
You don't care. I'm happy to wait six months to fuck a girl because I've got something to fuck today and tomorrow and the day after and first in my fucking life. So I don't care if I bang you now or in six months. It doesn't matter.
Who cares?
Patience.
So,
Text her at night, you're aiming for the day.
one or two days
than you say. Now,
You do not ask girls to go on dates.
You tell girls.
to go all day.
If you've ever asked a woman anything, you'll know that they're pretty shit at deciding.
Would you like to maybe go have some time, some...
What a pussy ass are you?
Would you like to maybe?
Fucking losers. Listen.
Thank you.
Who gives a fuck if she wants to or not?
And if you say sometime, sometime opens up the fucking window for the friend zone. Like sometime is a fucking ticket to the friend zone.
"Yeah, we'll go out sometime."
What, fucking 2019? 2025? Sometime? Sometime can be where we're all dead. Sometime can be the end of the fucking planet Earth. There is no sometime.
You tell her.
Thank you.
So you can either say, "When we having coffee," which is a forceful ask, or you can say, "We're going for coffee soon." That's what I always say.
Talk, talk, talk, talk, talk, talk. Yeah, yeah, blah, blah, blah, blah, how you been? Da, da, da. Like I said, don't text me the other day. I text them one evening, talk to them a bit, da, da, da, da.
Say goodnight. Don't overtext them either. Don't overtext them.
Fucking if you text him a little bit, 20 minutes, 30 minutes, it's enough. Okay, yeah, all right, I've got something to do.
Never say you're going to bed.
Another thing. Like I told you, with the bakery thing, I've got so much fucking knowledge in my brilliant brain, it's actually difficult for me to put it linearly. So you have to watch this video over and over again, whatever.
Never say go into bed. Going to bed is...
and masculine.
Cowards need sleep. Oh, I'm texting you, you beautiful girl, but I'm tired.
"So I'm tired, I'm gonna go to bed."
You know what I like to say at fucking quarter past one in the morning? I'm going to work.
work at this time
Money never sleeps, baby.
I'm going to fucking work.
Then I go to bed.
fight.
But the point is, she's sitting there going, "Word?"
What do you do?
I'll tell you in person.
That's why I say.
just another little thing to add towards the day.
So don't say you're going to sleep.
So never over text a hoe. Text her for 30 minutes or so, da da da. And then you've got something to do. I've got to go to work.
You work night shift? I work 24, 25 hours a day, eight days a week, bitch.
I'm getting paid.
So you've got to say things, like a G.
So keep the intrigue there. That's back to the intrigue.
So two nights I've been texting a girl. I'll say, we're going for coffee soon.
They'll usually reply,
99% of the time. Yeah, sure. Or yeah, we are.
If they reply some dumb shit like, "Are we?" and try and shit test you,
You know what you say?
because you're a full grown man with clear intentions,
You say, "Yes, we are."
And she goes, what if I don't want to?
You know your reply to that?
Nothing.
*gunshot*
You wanna play games?
We've been talking for two days. You don't want to meet me for coffee? The attention drops to zero.
Fuck you.
Let her sit there and look.
Waiting for that reply.
Doesn't come.
Most of these hot bitches don't get ignored.
Hot girls.
Do not get ignored. It fucks with their brain. No one ignores hot girls because hot girls are too so valuable. They've never been ignored.
Let them sit there and go to sleep and go, oh, he'll text me tomorrow. Next day.
Fuck.
He still ain't texting me.
Then you'll start to notice...
They start to like your Instagram pictures.
Like your pictures, like every picture.
Why should I get pictures? To try and get your attention again. 'Cause your attention is now valuable.
Your attention's gone down to zero. It's scarce. It's like gold. It's hard to find. Where's the attention gone?
Start liking your Instagram pictures.
Then maybe if they start, if they make that first move, like liking your Instagram pictures or they ask how you are or something, then you can talk to them again, of course. You'll be like, oh, hey, yeah, sorry.
Been working.
Or say, hey, sorry, I've been busy. I was out at coffee. I like to say that one.
Because they're like, well, you invite me for coffee. Did you invite another girl for coffee? Then they'll say, what, with another girl? Say, of course not, dear.
Sarcastic.
Which means yes, but I also said no so they can't complain about it.
Careful with your language.
So fucking flip it on the bench. Sorry I was out of coffee.
talk to her again, da da da, another couple days, invite her. If she doesn't come the second time,
*thud*
That's the basic rules of the game.
Progression. You are not texting her to be your fucking friend or to make sure her phone fucking works.
Some dumb shit.
Aggression.
Day.
Now you're on the dating stage.
Dating is hard for me to coach.
Because really in reality, this is something that has to happen in person. If any of you guys out there have any kind of serious income...
"Message me, I wanna put together a three-day thing "where I bring you to me,
or I can do, probably bring you to me.
We hit the streets.
We do the Instagram thing. We get some dates.
We organize those dates and you can see how I do it and you can see in real life. Then you're gonna learn a next level game. If you're interested in that,
Email me.
But in general, not a date.
These are all things you would have heard before.
Be confident.
Not overconfident, be confident.
Let her talk about herself, pretend to give a fuck.
Keep the intrigue there.
Don't overstay.
This is the most important thing.
the last thing you can do to a woman is bore her.
It's better to cut a date short.
and her at the most interesting point
than bore her.
Imagine you have a movie and the end of the movie is shit. Okay, imagine you have a movie. It's an okay movie, but it's five hours long.
But after an hour and a half, it's super interesting. What's gonna happen?
If you cut the movie off there,
The person really, really wants to see the end of that movie.
If you let the movie play to the end,
Okay, it was an okay movie, but they know what happens.
No.
The first date should be short. And for that reason, that's why I always organize a coffee date.
Because coffee is short.
Coffee's 15, 20 minutes max.
All you're trying to do with the first date is prove you're a real person,
You look like your pictures.
You're not a fucking psycho. You're not going to stab her.
and to break the wall
of real person
from Guy Online.
That's the only real goal of the first date. You're not trying to bang on the first date. You can bang on the first date.
But that's a different kind of day.
That's like,
If I have loads of girls and I've got to the texting stage, and me and Tristan are going to the club one night,
I'll text all of them.
Hey, I'm in the club tonight. I know we've not met, but come. It's going to be really fun. There's lots of people here. I say there's lots of people so they don't feel like it's creepy.
And then you bring them to the table and get them drunk. You can bang them first date that way.
I'm interested in having a little saying called, "The only thing better than double booking."
is triple booking.
And the reason we have that saying is because one time,
Tristan texted all those girls and two of them turned up.
But we have PhDs, so he fucked them both. He fucked one and a couple weeks later fucked the other one anyway.
So there's two girls who even texting turned up.
And I text all my girls and three turned up.
When I was drunk, I turned to Tristan and said, the only thing better than double booking...
is triple booking. And we both laughed and we both fucked because we're changing.
So...
That's the club game. But if you're just doing a coffee thing,
You just want a short date to introduce yourself.
short, snappy,
I'm an interesting person. I'm a real person.
I'm not a creep.
And another thing you need to do is,
especially in the modern world is,
You need to fucking check for these catfish, bro.
There's girls I'm talking to on Instagram who are tens, and I turn up and they're sevens.
Now, I know that doesn't bother you because all you do is fuck sevens.
I fuck tennis.
So if I'm putting energy into a 10 and I turn up and she's a fucking seven, I get pissed off.
You guys are probably fucking happy as hell to have a Senate.
I am.
So you also got to check that the girl, the girl's got to fucking prove herself too. These girls live in catfish land.
Sometimes you're sitting there texting away with your hard dick,
thinking she's something special and she turns up and she's basic anyway.
Most of you guys are getting upset and worried about basic ass hoes. These chicks are basic.
So the first date is good because sometimes they might be below your standard. You might want to get rid of them quickly.
I've had dates before where I've just turned up and go, I don't want to hang out.
Coffee. Oh yeah, coffee. Oh yeah. What do you do? Yeah. Work study. Okay. Yeah. Yeah. We'll see each other again. Okay. Bye. If you organize a big thing, we'll go for dinner and coffee and then we'll go for,
dinner and movies and all this bullshit. How do you get rid of her?
Maybe you want to get rid of her. Maybe she's annoying. Maybe she's a vegan.
Who knows?
Coffee. It's quick. It's to the point.
You can get rid of her quick within 15 minutes. You can stay 45 minutes if you want, make her interested in you,
Build her intrigue, make her want to see you again. Do not overplay it. Do not sit there and talk for hours about your job and your pets. She doesn't fucking care.
She only cares about herself because she's a woman.
ask her questions by herself,
Don't give her any real answers on you. Keep your shit vague, but be interesting. Be a little bit funny, a little bit smart. Be confident. 45 minutes, da-da-da. Okay, yeah, we'll see you again soon. Bang, bang, bye.
That's the goal of the first date.
After the first date,
Thank you.
Then the texting game.
goes into next level.
Now I'm not saying you can message her, "I'm gonna fuck you in your ass." Obviously you can't do that.
But at this point,
She's met you. She knows what you look like. She knows you're a real person.
If she's replying to you,
You can be quite
When I say direct, I don't want you fucking losers being creepy.
Don't be creepy.
But
You're adults.
There's now no reason for you to be texting unless you're going to fuck.
Why are you texting? She knows who you are, she's met you.
If she's applying to you, she likes you.
So it has to be going, you're progressing, done the date.
Now you're basically talking about adult things.
And there's no reason to be texting otherwise.
If you text her and she doesn't want to talk about adult things,
Then what the fuck you talking to her for?
She's met you, she knows what you look like, and she doesn't want to talk about adult things, and she doesn't want to fuck you, so...
Simple.
You're at that point now.
So I'll say things like, after the first date, I'll say things like,
"Hey, what you up to? I'm just in bed, da da da da."
Yeah, I've just finished work, da-da-da.
Some bullshit.
But you have to be careful
I'm saying this because most of you motherfuckers aren't as smooth as me.
Don't be creepy. You got to be to the point with like why you're texting.
You should know where I'm coming from with that.
So don't say anything creepy and weird, but just be to the point. Just say, yeah, I'm out working. I'm going to work all night tonight probably. Are you going to work all night? Yeah, I'm not going to sleep until you're with me.
Some bullshit like that, but just kind of smooth with it.
"LOL, might be a long time then. I'm Superman, I don't need to sleep."
I don't give a fuck, I'll wait.
That can just be cool with it, but just make it clear.
Start talking about adult themes.
If she's still replying,
Everything's good.
From there, couple days, organize second date,
And from there, it's game over.
You should know what to do from there. Then you organize a proper day at night,
Dinner's a bit formal.
Movies is always a no because you can't talk.
Movies are an easy one because you don't have to talk to the girl, but then also you don't get to really get anywhere because you don't talk to the girl.
So movies are bad.
Dinners, I don't really like dinners.
I like drinks.
And I actually like to keep it super informal.
So I'm lucky I have my brother.
But...
Formal situations make things awkward.
So if I'm going to bring a girl out for drinks, I'll say, Oh, yeah, we need some drinks. My brother and some people are there. Just come along.
If there's other people around,
they feel it's less like you and me and sitting down and we're drinking or talking.
You don't need that intimate shit. You talk one-on-one on WhatsApp all the time.
You can just bring her into a fun environment.
Now, of all your friends are dickheads,
You can't do that.
Because...
Your friends need to know the game as well. Your friends have to make sure they never hit on your girl. They never interrupt or try and talk to your girl when it's your job to be talking to her. Your friends need to participate towards getting you laid. If you have good quality friends, it's easier.
So I'll give you a very quick example.
Like me and Tristan are fucking smooth.
So if I have a girl I want to bang, say I have a 10. I'm married, she's a 10. Bang, 10. I say, come for some drinks. I say, Tristan,
I want to close this one tonight. All right, cool.
Tristan will bring one of his girls so he's already fucking.
And his girl knows the game.
So not only do I have Tristan,
As a wingman, I've got a female wingman.
So like, for example, we go out, girl turns up, the girl's saying, "Oh yeah, I've known Andrew ages. Yeah, these brothers are so fun. She, they took me here, they took me there. My girls listened to this girl going,
What, she gets to fuck with these guys and she went there and
Well, her life's great. I want to be like, I want these things. And then was drinking, drinking, drinking. And if I say, oh, come back to my place, it's creepy.
If the girl goes, "Let's go back to your house. Your house is fun."
Then the other girl will be like, "Oh, okay. The girls want to go back there." It's so easy if you have a fucking chick. So this is what I'm saying. If your friends are dickheads, it's hard.
I've got a fucking support team which are ironclad.
I know if I bring Tristan and one of his female soldiers,
I do not fail.
Getting back to the house is going to be guaranteed by the girl. The girl is going to say I'll break her life. It's just so fucking, I don't even do anything.
I don't even do. I sit there on Twitter calling you all idiots.
I don't do shit and I still get laid.
So if you have a good group of friends who aren't fucking pricks,
And what you have to understand is that most of you,
watching this
are pricks yourselves, losers yourselves, which means your friends are losers.
But if you're gonna bring a girl around,
You gotta be clear with your friends.
They can't be like banter.
For example, if my boy were to bring his friend, a girl, I would never like jokingly insult him or something.
"Oh, well he fuckin', he do..." You know, like all the dumb guy shit you do, calling a guy a loser or calling a guy this or that.
You can't do that.
If a guy's bringing a girl, he's trying to get laid, your friends shouldn't be insulting you even as a joke.
Your friend shouldn't be trying to talk to your girl. Your friend should just be there to make some noise.
to break down the monotony of a formal situation. Say hi, be polite, offer a drink or whatever, and that's it.
So if your friends aren't dickheads, I'd actually recommend on the last day,
to make it a group kind of thing.
if your friends aren't dickheads if your friends are dickheads
They'll be detrimental. So you have to sit here and look and think, do I have good friends or idiot friends?
Because if you were to come out with your girl and me and my girl, you'd be getting laid.
So if your friends are good, do that. If not, it's just you and her, it's fine.
But if you've got friends around, make it informal. Yeah, we'll have some drinks. Come out, have some drinks. Have a laugh.
Never kiss at the end of the day.
on the second day.
Don't kiss her at the end.
Because kissing at the end, then you want to fuck her, but it's the end of the day. We've just kissed. It's a bit weird.
Kiss her early on, don't be a pussy.
The date, let's say she turns up 8 o'clock for drinks.
by 8:45.
Should have at least kissed her.
That's what I do.
turns up at eight, drink gin, tonic, whatever, blah, talking shit, Tristan's there, blah, talking shit, everyone's laughing, having fun, da da da da, give her a kiss, 8:45.
Then she's got her hand on your leg by fucking 9.30. Then by the time it's fucking 12.30, she wants dick.
because she's been comfortable with you. She's kissed you. She's hung out with you a few hours since.
She's been touching you a bit. Now she's comfortable enough to fuck. If you try and kiss her at 12:30, we're about to go home now, kiss.
want to come to my place? It's too
romantic model movie, PS, I love you bullshit. It ain't real, it's too formal.
Don't do that. Kiss her in 45 minutes. Have a lap. Keep drinking. Have a joke. Hold her hand or put her hand on your leg. Talk some shit. Kiss her again. Blah, blah, blah. By the time it's time to go, she'll want to fuck.
and you don't ask her, you just take her.
Just take her. Don't ask her if she wants to come to yours. Ask her if she wants to go home.
So when the taxi turns up, I go, we're going to mine.
And unless she goes...
No, I want to go home.
She goes, OK, you want to go home? No problem. Cool.
If you want to go home, all right, cool, we'll get you a taxi.
Never take her in the same taxi.
She doesn't get, you don't ride with me if you're not coming to my house. I ain't getting in my taxi or out of my way to drop you off today. And I was like, okay, cool, I'll get you a car.
Uber, bang. Yeah, kiss. Alright, yeah, see you next time, bang. Nothing wrong with that. Maybe I'll fuck on the day after. Some girls are like that. It's no problem.
If you get in my car, come into my house.
We're going to mine.
Really? Yeah, we're going to make it. Get in.
Okay.
Women like to be led. They don't like to be asked.
If you ask the woman what she wants to eat, she doesn't know. "Oh, I don't know." They want to be told what to do.
Come with me. If she says no, that's perfectly fine. Remember, you're not fucking psycho.
I don't want any of you motherfuckers getting rape charges and the police finding this video and coming after me for it.
'cause I ain't done nothing fucking wrong with anybody.
Just saying.
You're clear. We're all going to mine. Or I'm going to mine. You're coming with me.
"Oh no, I really want to go home." No problem.
You do not ask twice.
"Oh, I really think you should come to mine!" That's submissive and pathetic.
No, you're not pathetic. You're a fucking full-grown man.
I want to go to mine, no problem.
And in fact, a lot of the time, they don't like that.
Because sometimes women are trying to play hard to get.
"Oh, maybe I should go home." "Okay, you wanna go home, no problem. We'll get you a car." "We'll get you a car." "We'll get you a taxi."
"Oh, well I was just thinking I need my things." Then they'll try and back out of it with the "I was just thinking."
So, all right, well, we're going to mine. You don't need your things. You want to come?
Okay.
God.
But as soon as they say they want to go, go, yeah, give them what they want. It's the takeaway. Trump said.
Know when to walk away from the table, the art of the deal. Walk away from the deal. Deal is go to my house. Oh, you want to play games? All right, you're not allowed to come. Okay, we'll take you home. We'll take you home. We're going to go party. We're going to take you home.
They don't want to miss out.
"Oh, okay. I was just thinking I don't have a phone charger." "I have a phone charger. What phone do you got?"
Samsung? I've got a Samsung charger. No you don't. No one has a Samsung charger. Who cares?
Yeah, I've got one in the house somewhere. Come on.
Bye.
Done.
If she was Noah, I really want to go home. Cool.
circle car bang all right maybe see you again bang kiss bye
Do another day. Maybe it takes three or four days. You motherfuckers aren't smooth as me.
By date two, I'm fucking...
I'm a G.
You guys aren't smooth, so you need some more time. If she wants to go home, it's no problem.
You have not FDB.
It's all good. See her again. Keep texting her. Keep working it. You'll get there in the end. When you're as smooth as me, date two, game over.
I don't have girls saying nothing about coming to my house. So I've had girls come to my house and not fuck. That happens.
but they always come to the house.
So that's the basic progression.
So I told you in this video, I'm not going to tell you anything about getting a Lambo and getting in shape because you know all that shit.
I'm telling you about things you can do right here, right now to improve your game.
So,
Instagram.
progress.
Do a graphic.
Instagram, progress WhatsApp, progress coffee date.
More texting, serious day aiming to close.
That is the system.
Now...
tower of power here.
Wipe on my King Cobra t-shirt. Fuck it. Right, now we're gonna talk about
Thank you.
Thank you.
Next.
Talked about how you're going to get dates.
Thank you.
We'll talk about
Cold hard truth.
Thank you.
of these females.
Thank you.
Truth is this.
There's no such thing as a perfect woman.
If you want a woman who's perfect for you, you must build her to be perfect for you.
A woman who is understanding and kind and who respects you does not exist.
unless you force her to be that way.
And when I say forced, I don't mean that in a horrible way. I mean in a simple...
There's no other option. Like Walter always takes the easiest path through the rocks. The woman must learn that her man is fucking an iron mountain and the easiest path is to obey.
any other kind of resistance simply doesn't work.
That's how you have to be.
But some women are more moldable than others.
You have... I call it blueprints.
You have good blueprints and bad blueprints.
So you have I with my skill level,
can make any female do as I say.
And I say that with absolute conviction.
I've never met a woman.
who will not do the basics of what I say, bring me coffee.
"Turn up where I tell her to listen to me."
not talk to other men. Basic things.
But,
Some are better blueprints than others.
So when you read these books, these red pill books, all this bullshit, talking about BPD and all that bollocks.
Firstly, let's do a very side subject on BPD. Like I said...
Talk about bakery masterclass. My brain's full of information.
BPD.
Ain't fucking real.
And the reason it ain't real is because all these red blood-the-pill guys talk about borderline personality disorder. If the girl doesn't listen to you or the girl acts this way, she's got borderline personality disorder.
Every single hot chick in the world
has BPD.
"How can you be 16 years old,
with 100,000 followers on Instagram.
had full grown men giving you unlimited attention for no reason
All the way up until you're 25 for nearly 10 years, men going out of their way, breaking down, crying in voice notes, being complete little pussies, doing anything you tell them to do. How can you live that life and not have an ego or a borderline personality disorder?
Every single hot chick, and trust me, I've fucked more than you.
to a degree, has something fucked up in their head. Because the attention they're getting is off the fucking scale.
Men have made women have BPD.
Luckily there's men like me out here who puts them back in fucking check.
So BPD ain't real.
So get that shit out of your head. If a girl ain't listening to you, it's either because you're game shit or because of external factors. Maybe her granddad just died. She doesn't listen to you right now.
Doesn't mean she has BPD.
Get that whole excuse out of your head. It ain't a real thing.
So,
You have good blueprints and bad blueprints. Some women are more susceptible to being molded,
Some women have better values than others.
I do agree with what the Red Pill books say that if a woman's fucked lots of men,
she's not as good a mold as a woman who's fucked less men. That's true. And the reason for that is because if a woman's fucked lots and lots and lots of guys,
they don't have a stigma attached to getting a new dick. So when times get hard, or you tell them to do something they don't want to do, they think, "I'll just fuck someone else then."
They're more, they're less loyal.
They're more likely to run off and leave if they've slept with lots of men.
than they've done a step with a few men. If you're their second guy or first guy ever, they don't want to give up on you that easy.
So if you say,
Stop texting this dude.
they're more likely to do that. And then a girl's up with 20 guys. She'll all just text this dude and find a new guy to fuck.
So that is true.
So you have good blueprints and bad blueprints.
Now I can tell you just like I did with the, "How many men they're sick with?"
I can tell you a hundred different reasons. What makes a good blueprint? What makes a bad blueprint? I could waste loads of time. Or I could just give you the fucking instant, easy to tell, iron breakable test.
This test
tells you
concrete of a woman's good quality
or back quality.
Here's how.
Thank you.
Test happens after you sleep with her.
Now, if you're sitting here thinking,
Why do I have to sleep with a woman first to see if she's good or not?
Because that's how it really goes. Because that's when you really know a girl.
Until you sleep with a girl
It's all just front.
The games, it's all just bullshit. It's just who they want to be.
It's then pretending.
It's after you sleep with them, you see the real then.
So you're going to have to fuck a whole bunch of girls to get a good one.
If you're...
Let's say it's your job to find the best apple in the world.
and you have three apples.
And you say, this apple is the best apple in the world.
and another guy has a thousand apples.
And he says, this apple is the best apple in the world.
Who knows more about apples?
Who's more likely to have chosen an exceptional apple?
The man who has more apples, the thousand apple guy knows more about apples than the three apples.
If you want to understand women,
I know what I know, 'cause I fucked.
So
many
Women.
I've had smart ones, stupid ones, hot ones.
Hot ones.
No, at least.
I've had them all.
So, I know I move through experience.
So if you're sitting there going, oh, I have to fuck a whole bunch of girls to find a good one, and you're worried about that, then you're a pussy.
Yeah, you're going to fuck. In the modern world, for every five girls you fuck, one will be a good quality.
Sell a lot. Go fuck five girls and get one.
What's the problem? You're afraid to use your dick, you little pussy?
Get it done. So that's the reality. Sometimes you get lucky. You can fuck one girl and you can tell she's a good girl right away. It happens.
But sometimes I fuck.
three, four girls in a row and they've all just been trash hoes.
That's how it goes.
It's how it goes. Sometimes you fuck three girls in a row and they're all fucking nice.
And I know that from this ironclad test.
Ironclad test tells me.
So I'm telling you, you cannot tell. I don't care when you're texting some girl, and you're sitting there with your little fucking penis twitching like a little bitch, sitting there late at night, WhatsApp you away. This girl, oh, she's so beautiful. You're looking at her Instagram. You're texting her. She seems so nice and so sweet.
She ain't shit.
She ain't shit and you don't know if she's quality or not until you slept with her. So don't get emotionally attached to some girl you haven't followed because you don't know anything about her until you sleep with her.
And here is how you tell.
After you sleep with a girl.
your attention,
Goals.
two,
Nearly zero.
Attention!
goes right down.
Here's why.
Thank you.
We give attention to
to get the sex.
Like, I'm a perfect drawing.
We've had the sex now.
We've had it.
We've had what we wanted.
So the attention has to drop instantly
to set a standard
for the relationship.
And the relationship standard is
as follows.
You better be nice to me.
You better fuck me when I want you to.
You better do as you're told.
to get my attention.
Otherwise, it's staying
down here.
You have now won the game.
Until you sleep with a woman, she's in charge.
She's the gate.
She's the lock you're trying to break.
Once you've slept with her,
You are now in charge.
And what most men do after they fuck a girl is instantly give away their position of power. You are finally, for the first time since you've messaged this girl on Instagram,
in the
Position of power. You're above her now.
Because you fucked her.
And if you fuck her and never talk to her again, then she's a stupid slut.
And she doesn't want that.
She wants you to want her.
So she wants to keep you.
For the first, up until now, you wanted to fuck her. You wanted to get her. This is the first time she wants to get you.
And most men
Fuck that up, straight away.
by either saying something, "Oh, I really like you, oh, can I see you again?" and just fucking being submissive to the woman's whims.
straight away.
and giving them attention.
You can't do that.
You have to drop your attention down to absolute zero, and here's why.
One
It sets a standard for the relationship.
I fucked you now, I'm in charge.
Oh, you want to see me again? Do you?
"All right, cool. "Yeah, I'm waiting for a new bank card. "Let's go for coffee, but you know, my money's low. "You'll have to buy it, I'll pay you back."
I ain't buying you coffee.
STB.
I'll fuck you now. I don't care. You don't buy me coffee? I'll fuck you. I'll buy some other coffee. I don't care.
"All right, cool, well, I'm busy."
You have banged her.
You've won.
You ain't got nothing to worry about. Who cares if you never talk to her again?
Who cares? Keep that in mind.
Okay, yeah, no problem. I don't mind paying this time. Turn up and get yourself some fucking carrot cake and shit.
carrot cake.
You want to fucking...
I'm a millionaire, I still do this.
Get one of them fucking yogurts from Starbucks with two cappuccinos, a sparkling water. I made the bitch spend like fucking 20 fucking euro on me.
Buy it for me.
Set the standard. Your man told you to buy him a coffee. Buy me a fucking coffee.
Because...
You fucked the girl fine.
But if you want a relationship, a happy relationship,
You need to be in control of that relationship.
If you fuck it up at the beginning, it's extremely difficult to recover.
But if you set the standard right in the beginning,
It's much easier.
So the standard from the second you fuck her... Now, I'm not saying you become rude.
I'm not saying you become an asshole. Don't do that.
I'm just saying your attention drops. You're still nice.
but your attention isn't there.
So we're used to text her
every night.
You barely text her. Or you text her one or two times and then you don't.
Make it clear. She has to clearly see.
Here's the fine line.
She has to clearly see that your attention's dropped.
but not enough for her to call you out on it.
Not enough where she can go, oh, you fucked me. You don't want to talk anymore.
She can't say that. "What do you mean? I'm texting you. I'm just busy."
So it's got to be that fine line where she feels uncomfortable because she knows something's up.
but she can't say anything about it.
That's how you gotta do it.
Make her buy you some fucking coffee. You fucked her now. You are in charge.
And this is the test.
A quality woman, after you sleep with her,
When your attention drops,
will do anything it takes.
to get your attention back up.
to retain you as a man.
So you've slept with her. You've had sex with this girl.
The next day you barely text her.
then you're too busy to meet her.
Then when you say, yeah, okay, yeah, you have to pay,
problem with my back garden, whatever excuse.
or whatever.
A quality woman will go, "Oh, okay, no problem, no problem." 'Cause they know that fucking a guy's a big deal,
And they don't want to fuck you for no reason. And they don't want to be a hoe. They don't want to be another random number on your fucking book. They want to get a relationship out of it.
They want to build it into something.
So a quality woman will bend her normal rules.
A girl who would perhaps never buy you coffee.
is now prepared to do something for you, will bend her normal rules
to get your attention back.
post sex.
That's what a quality woman will do.
a shit quality woman, a crap woman,
When you say these things, you'll be like, oh, fuck this guy.
and she'll go fuck someone else.
A girl who will rather go have a new dick
than buy you a coffee.
is not the kind of girl you need a relationship with, guys.
'cause that's only gonna end bad sooner or later.
one way or another,
there's gonna be an argument or something, we're gonna ask her to do something she doesn't wanna do,
and she's gonna end up fucking someone else.
This is the test.
That proves good woman against bad woman.
after you sleep with them, literally the next day, you conduct this test. You drop your attention,
If they work hard, if they double text you, if they text you first, if they ask to see you,
All of these are positive things. Hey, maybe we can go out to the
That's what you want to see.
That's a woman who wants to work hard to keep her man interested.
You're not going to be able to conduct this test if after you fuck her, you're like, "Oh, I love her so much. Oh, can I see you?" Because you're too busy flooding her with attention.
So there's no test involved.
If you fuck her and then you drop your attention and she doesn't really care,
or she doesn't really try to see you again,
then she's trash. Do not fall into the trap of going, okay, I'll just give her attention again, fuck her more because I want to fuck her.
That is gonna end bad.
Don't waste your time.
Tell you, man. I was with Cab Club, Christian fucking McQueen.
three months ago, walked in the club.
was fucking in the zone, walked to the club. Two girls at the bar, said yeah, table, bang. Or got table, Christian, big money Christian.
start paying for the table, whatever.
Before I even sat at the table, I went up to the bar, went to this girl, "Hey, you're beautiful." That's why I say in person. I do different person. I say, "Excuse me.
And in person, I make them pay attention.
What most people do, they fuck up in person, is that they talk to girls when they're not paying attention. You go up to a girl and go, "Hey, you're beautiful." They're like,
What?
I go, "Excuse me, excuse me." And I make him...
Yeah? I make them pay attention to what I'm saying. I'm a fucking full grown man talking to you. Pay attention.
So you're absolutely beautiful. You're staying with me tonight.
Ha ha ha. Straight, bah bah bah bah bah bah. Anyway.
Fucked her same night. Even Christian, who's a G, goes, "That was smooth." "Of course, how do I entertain?"
So bangers same night, she's a fucking 10.
A 10.
All you motherfuckers, if you fuck this girl, would fall head over heels in love with her.
because of how she looks.
I fucked her.
Next day, I didn't text her, she didn't text me.
Next day, didn't text her, shouldn't text me.
Third day, she likes one of my Instagram pages.
some basic pathetic attempt and i thought there you just bang some dude you barely know
and you're not even gonna humble yourself to text me first,
you think you're so special, you're not even gonna reduce yourself to text me first. If you're not gonna humble yourself to text me first after you got fucked in one night,
then you're never going to humble yourself for me.
You're always going to have this ego.
You're always gonna be, so I don't want you.
I never spoke to that girl again.
No, it's not true. I saw her three weeks later at different events. She ran up to me.
"Oh my God, oh, how you been?" And I spoke for a little bit, but I could just see, and she talked to me a little bit, then she walked off and tried to talk to another guy in front of me, to make me jealous.
Where is the proof?
There, that's the proof in my lesson that she's a trash hoe. What kind of girl does that?
He talks to another guy in front of a guy, trying to make him jealous. Whores! That's horror shit!
She was a fucking hoe and I spotted it instantly because she didn't humble herself when she was supposed to. And I'm glad I didn't waste any more time on her because she's never going to be doing like my other girls do. Living in my house, letting me fuck other women, remaining loyal and fucking bringing me coffees and doing as I say.
That's what you're looking for, gentlemen. You're not looking for sex. Sex is easy. You're looking for a woman who is loyal to you fiercely.
You need a woman that you can sit and say, I'm going to jail for two years, see you in two years.
And you're not worried about her cheating while you're in the cell.
Now this girl,
The hoe who ran, tried to make me jealous, and who wouldn't text me, could I trust her for two years?
Or could I trust the girl who next day was like, I don't know how to do that. I really want to see you again. I hope you don't think bad of me. Please can I see you again? That kind of humbling bullshit. That's what you want.
That's what you want.
I hope you understand the difference between those two women. Because there's a huge difference between those two females.
I do not waste my time, even with my PhD.
trying to convert a hoe into a housewife.
There's a reason that old saying exists.
Don't waste your time with that shit.
Now, I fucked girls on the first night.
And the next day, they were so desperate for my attention,
that they were quality women. It doesn't matter if you fuck them the first day. A lot of these red pill books go, "You fuck her first day, she's trash." Not true. I've had amazing women who have fucked first day.
Amazing.
because the next day they passed this test.
This test is extremely important.
This is why you cannot get feelings for a girl before you fuck her. Because you guys are going to end up liking a chick...
and she's going to fail this test.
You end up staying with her anyway because she's hot and you like her. You end up in a fucking bullshit relationship.
Reality of the world is this gentlemen. You're walking down the street with your woman.
A man comes up and decides to rape her.
You punch the guy in the face. He falls over, hits his head, and dies.
Very possible.
You go to jail for four years.
You're in a fucking jail.
to protect her.
And she's fucking someone else.
That's what women will do. They'll do that to you. They'll go fuck someone. "Well, I'm lonely."
I'm lonely. I'm in jail. Yeah, but I'm lonely. Because they're selfish cunts.
So do you want to be walking down the street with a girl who will do that to you?
Or do you only want to walk down the street with a girl who you know will be crying her fucking eyes out?
writing you letters day after day.
at every single visitation.
uninterested in every inbox she gets on Instagram while you do that jail time.
And the only way you're gonna know that is with this fucking test.
Do not waste your time with trash hoes. It only ends up in one place.
I fucked a whole bunch of women.
and I've fought some beautiful women, but if they fail this test,
I will not talk to them again.
Because I do not have time and energy to waste on a woman who will not be loyal to me.
That is the most, number one, most important thing.
The most important thing is this test.
People often say to me, how...
"How do you, why does your girlfriend let you fuck other girls?"
She lets me fuck other girls because she cannot possibly leave me.
She leaves me because she loves me and I love her.
and she loves me with all her heart, and she cannot imagine her world without me.
If I died, she would commit suicide.
I am her everything.
It doesn't matter if I fuck someone else.
because I am her everything. She has nowhere else
to go.
Because...
This test was implemented and she passed it. And years have passed where I haven't taken her shit. And I've kept a position of authority. And I've just become her idol in life.
It's like trying to take God away from a Christian.
They're like, "Well, if God doesn't exist,
Have you ever argued with a religious person?
Look, after you prove them wrong a bunch of times, you go, "Well, if God doesn't exist, then what's the point?"
They'll eventually say, what's the point in being alive? What's the point in doing good? What's the point in doing bad? Without God, that's how your woman has to think of you. Without him,
"What's the point in doing anything?"
When you get to that point, you can do whatever the fuck you want.
I can fuck who I want because she's going to leave.
She ain't gonna leave.
She doesn't even cry about it anymore. She's like, I know you're going to do what you do as long as you only love me. Of course I only love you.
They're just stupid hoes.
Okay.
done. It ain't unachievable gentlemen, it's very achievable
if you keep your shit in order.
Remember,
All these lessons about when we're talking about getting the girls, the attention scale. It's the same when you're in a relationship.
If your chick's getting fresh,
Told you, man.
This is the mistake, the biggest mistake I ever made in my PhD life.
So when I was young and I was grinding, I was trying to make money, trying to make money,
And I'd text her, oh, I'm really busy today, love you.
And then I wouldn't text her because I was busy working.
And then she'd reply to me some fucking rude shit. And I ended up texting her all day arguing. And I realized,
She gets the most attention from me when she's misbehaving.
She gets constant messages when she misbehaves.
When she acts good,
I barely text her because I'm busy making money.
So you're training her because females want the attention.
It's what they want. It's all they want.
You're training her to misbehave for your attention.
Reverse it.
When you girls being nice, flutter.
Jessica Dick, cut that shit off.
Only way to do it.
So it's important that even the lessons we learned about how to get girls, it's the same in a relationship.
keep your attention rare, even in a relationship.
Tell you something, man. I say this to people that don't believe it.
Your girl should want sex more than you give it.
I say this all the time, I have never, ever, ever wanted sex with my girlfriend and not had it in six years.
Ever.
She's wanted sex with me and not had it.
Unlimited times.
Unlimited times. Your girl should want sex more than you give it.
Because you have to do all the fucking work.
Then you've got a bunch of other side hoes anyway.
fucking so often on the side. Somebody should just give me a massage, I'm tired.
Your girl, that is a sign of a healthy relationship when your girl wants sex and you don't really want.
That's a healthy relationship. Shouldn't be the other way around.
'Cause that's putting her in a position of power. You cannot let these women ever be in a position of power because women are not evolutionarily designed for power.
and they don't
want power
They think they want it.
But when they get it, they just lose respect for you.
And then they get harder and harder on you because they start to secretly resent you.
That's what happens when a female is in a position of power.
You gotta fucking lay it down.
And the biggest weapon you have as a man is
I don't care if you're with a girl for six months and everything's going well, but she gets too fresh.
You've got to just get back on Instagram and get messaging new ones.
It's how it's got to be.
So I have a guy who I coach on girls.
He said, "I've been with a girl, I've been with her for five months, but
She has male friends and she talks to these guys and da da da.
It's like, "Look, it's not acceptable."
He goes, "Well, how do I stop her?"
You cannot have your woman talking to other men. Those men are trying to fuck your girl.
If you had a car,
Those men are trying to fuck your girl. Let's cut the bullshit. They're friends. No, they're not.
If your girl was fat with no legs in a wheelchair, would they be her friend? Would they text her?
No, they fucking wouldn't.
So let's cut the fucking bullshit right here, right now.
Try to fuck your chick.
If you had a fucking car, would you let car thieves attempt to break into your car? No matter how good the locks are.
Would you let them sit there and just try and break in and just watch them do it?
We should be like, get the fuck away from my car.
It's the same with a chick, bro.
You can't be letting these people attempt.
Because no matter how good the locks are, maybe one day they'll find a weakness and they'll get it. Maybe you're arguing with your girl, you had an argument, this guy's in a particularly fucking generous mood, he decides to take her somewhere or some shit, blah blah blah. Problems.
You don't need it.
Men should not be texting your woman's phone.
Ever.
So he's like, "Well, I agree with you, but how do I stop it?"
So there's only one thing you can do, man.
Tell her to fucking stop texting them. Make her choose.
It's like, oh yeah, but what if she chooses them?
You have to be prepared.
to walk away.
from a bad relationship and from a bad chick.
Trump said it.
The art of the deal, how to be prepared to walk away from the table.
Here's some math for you.
If you tell the girl to choose between you and her friends,
and she chooses her friends.
She's gonna fuck one of them eventually anyway.
Don't you see how eventually she's going to end up banging one if she already chooses them above you?
So why would you allow that dynamic to continue instead of walking away with honor and reducing your attention to zero?
putting a super high value on your attention. And then maybe after a couple days of not hearing from you, she might think, "Okay,
Now your attention's high, your attention's high value, she might reverse her decision and go, okay, I'll stop. You're right. I've thought about it. Then you stand a chance.
If you allow her to continue, if she says she wants to choose them, you go, "Okay," and stay with her anyway. It's only going to end with her fucking one, now or later.
Are you such a big a pussy? It's like ripping off a band-aid. Rip it off!
You gonna do it slowly? She's gonna fuck one.
She's going to do it.
So you want to be with her those extra few months and get cheated on or let wait for her to message you. It just isn't working.
Some bullshit because she wants to fuck someone else?
You know where it's going to end. So why are you allowing it to happen instead of walking away at a point where you can make a difference?
by attaching super value to your attention and laying it down like a fucking man.
You can't have that shit.
As a man, we have one weapon: attention reduction.
An FTB.
And you have to prepare to do that in a relationship for important issues. I'm not saying if a girl won't make you a coffee,
you know, never talk to her again. That's maybe a bit too much.
But with things like talking to other dudes or things that are red lines, you have to be prepared to walk away.
If you've been with a girl for three months,
And she won't do as you say, FDB.
Now, obviously, if you just get with a girl, she ain't a girl of all her friends, she just met you.
Use your brain.
But you've been with her a while, she should fucking know the score.
And if she doesn't like it, get back on Instagram and start sending those messages again.
It's as simple as that.
I've told you how to get laid.
That's what this course was about. It's how to get girls.
I've told you how to retain girls.
The most important thing is this test.
and post-test, if they pass the test,
Always make sure that your attention is within the correct parameters. Her behavior and your attention have to be explicitly linked.
You cannot fuck that up in any way.
You have to make sure there's no other men or outside influences fucking with her too much.
You don't want other men musting your girl.
Forget the modern world, they're just friends bullshit. That is only gonna lead to a bad relationship.
Good relationships are one man, one woman. No, sorry.
One man, 10 women. That's my relationship.
It's not a chick with a bunch of dudes messing around. It's not acceptable.
It's not acceptable in any way. And if she chooses them over you, then find someone else because it's only going to end one way or another anyway.
I've tried to be all encompassing. I know I've actually missed it.
a whole bunch of things.
Because like I said, I know so much shit
There's a whole bunch more I need to say. So what I'm going to do is this is the first video I'm going to release for all you guys who purchased the video.
I want you.
to go out there
Start your Instagram messaging.
Start your WhatsAppping.
Go on some dates.
Do what you need to do.
In a week from now, I'm absolutely not only welcoming all your questions,
any questions you have.
a specific conversation, a screenshot,
or a scenario...
or any questions or anything I've missed.
Email them all to me.
And I'm going to do another video in a week, completely free for you guys.
answering all your specific questions be another hour and a half of knowledge
And between this video, which is the absolute fundamental basics, how attention works,
Easiest way to speak to girls.
how to progression, tower of power, how to always progress, progress, progress.
how to test a girl after you slept with her.
and how to retain the control with your attention post-sleep monitor.
With this one video, your game will be 10 times what it was before.
Plus, you're gonna send me a whole bunch of questions. I'm gonna do another video with specifics, another hour and a half.
And with these two videos,
plus a shitload of experience.
Because that's what life is. It doesn't matter how long you read about learning to play piano. Until you get on that piano and start to play.
You don't know how to play piano.
is extremely important.
With these three hours...
of videos.
plus experience.
You should have everything you need.
to begin the long journey to a PhD.
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