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Money isn't real.

If you know what you have, you don't have much.

And once you reach a certain level of money, you don't even know what you have. And you certainly don't own what you have.

outside entities which you may have a stake in, own what you have, people who have a lot of money understand.

It's very difficult for me to even say how much money I have, but I can have anything I want anytime I want.

Hi, I'm Shine Reynolds and I'm still on the lookout. I've had some good dates. I'm liking my views, like, you know what I'm saying? It's all good right now. Charmer, ain't ya? And I've had some bad dates. How do you think you've done?

On the date. I don't really give a shit, I'm not gonna lie, bruv. Where are all the decent men? Not in my DMs, that's for sure. You get me? I feel like I'm rolling with the man then. What's going on? About your fives? It seems like a lot of men don't know how to treat a lady. I'll just manhandle everything. This guy's putting a chest and chest and in the nap like, jeez. Will I have better luck this season? What would you do if my ex was after you? He can have you. Let's find out. This is...

is

grilling. I'm Randy Tate III. I'm here because I was invited. Is that a good answer? I was invited. So I thought I'd come along. Why not? There's already love in the universe. I've already found love. I found love with reality, my friend. I'm already in love. I'm in love with waking up every day. You know, there's people who are trying to stop me breathing and they've yet to succeed. I'm already in love. Life's great. I used to think that it was the man and I was actually accurate thinking that it was the man who was selling himself to the woman. But once you reach a certain level of achievement as a

a man is to a woman who's trying to sell herself to you. I've handled a bunch of difficult situations in my life. I'm not intimidated. We'll just leave it at that. We'll see how it goes. I would say I'm pretty confident, yeah, overall. Yeah, I think confidence is born from adversity, right? Everything that doesn't kill you makes you stronger. - Can Cheyenne ask you whatever she likes? - Anything she likes, find the most difficult question on the planet, tell her to throw her question card away, write a new one.

I'm ready. I better be good. I better struggle, which is obviously impossible. So she should at least try to make me struggle. I spent my life fighting in the cage. I'm not scared of her. I think relationships are a beautiful thing. I think that the synergy between men and women are a beautiful thing if they are correctly collaborated. I think that that's what makes society function. I think that's what makes the world function. I think that men and women falling in love and having children and having families are very, very beautiful things as long as it's done correctly, as long as a woman obeys like she's supposed to. And I think the world can be a good thing.

beautiful place as long as gender roles are not misconstrued and misunderstood.

So if Sean doesn't understand that, I'll correct her quickly and we'll fix the world and we can move on.

Oh.

Thank you.

Very nice to meet you. Hello. Hi. You look really nice. Thank you. Let's do two kisses. One.

- Very nice to meet you. What's your name? - Very nice to meet you. Andrew Tate, what's your name? - Andrew, nice to meet you. Cheyenne. Or Cheyenne Reynolds if you're doing this. - Cheyenne Reynolds. We're gonna do official. - Yeah. - Nice to meet you. - Cheers.

*thinks*

I think she's an attractive woman. She's good looking.

Friendly demeanor.

Um,

I can tell she thinks she knows things, so I look forward to correcting her.

But that's usually how life works.

Finally, see, a man that makes an effort. How are you? - I'm good, thank you. - Yeah? Okay, where are you from? - I'm American.

But I lived in England for a long time. I lived in a very prestigious part of the UK. I don't know if you've ever heard of Luton.

Very prestigious. Yeah. Yeah, number one.

Luton, okay.

Was not expecting that.

So I was in Luton for a while and now I live in Europe. So I've just come in. Yeah. Okay, because your accent, it's like really different, isn't it? It's pretty mixed up. I'm like a street dog, my dear. I've been here, I've been there. Half American, half English, half Luton, half everything else. A bit of a mix? A bit of a mix. That's cool. So how did you get here today?

I flew in this morning. Flew in. It's different, something different. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Jump on the jet.

Who flew in on a jet?

Who is this guy?

What about you? You have a mix, no? Yeah, my family, we're Caribbean and English. So the Caribbean side's the crazy side? Or the English side's the crazy side? I'd say the Caribbean's the fun side. The fun side? So you're fun and crazy?

Not crazy.

It's the beginning of the day, you can't lie. Do I look like I'd lie to you? Yes. I'm not a liar, actually. You're not a liar. Everything you tell me for the rest of this episode is going to be a complete truth.

Promise me.

Saffronis.

I promise. I really promise.

We'll see. Honest thoughts and opinions. We'll see. Alright, alright, we'll see. Yeah. So what do you do?

Let me think of a lie. Give me a second.

No, you can't learn.

You have to tell the truth. I don't have to tell the truth. Why? This we already agreed. You're telling the truth. There's only one of us can tell the truth. One of us can lie. That's not good stuff. I'm a shoe salesman.

I sell shoes, socks, shoe accessories, polish, etc, etc. Yeah, I sell shoes.

I'm doing all right. Surviving. Sold two pairs of shoes yesterday. Life's good.

Okay, that's good.

He's a liar.

So tell me a bit about you, Andrew. I'm not comfortable opening up too much. Oh, really? Yeah, because you know you might work for

John Law.

and the government.

9.

I have to be careful what I say. - Oh, so it's not commitment issues. - It's not, no, it's not commitment issues. It's more just like,

legality issues.

Oh, okay.

I like to go to church, I'm a man of God, play Scrabble.

Do you have faith? Okay, this is good. This is an interesting conversation that we can have on camera, which is... I'd say my personal journey with God is between me and God.

So I'm not one of those people that like, is like, yes, I go to church or yes, I do this. - Don't you think that's a bit like lazy Christianity? - No, not really because for me, I believe in love and I believe in faith and I don't think it's just one

religion that you need to follow. You know, I've got friends that are Muslim. I've got friends that are Christian. You know, I've got friends that are spiritual. So I don't

put myself in one category. - I understand and I respect that completely, but don't you think out of respect for God himself, whether you're in Dubai and you go to the mosque, or you're in England and you go to the church, you should get up early on a Sunday, despite all the booze, and get up and take an hour out of your life and just show some respect, don't you agree? - No, because everyone's journey with God is personal.

You can be a lazy spiritualist, a lazy Christian, you can be a lazy kickboxer, right? I'm a kickboxer, but I don't train.

Okay, bro.

I understand. You're lazy. It's okay. I'm not lazy. Do you have time for God? Absolutely. That's good. Do you get up early on a Sunday? Completely. That's good. Every single Sunday. Of course. That's amazing. And I think that being religious is a beautiful thing and I think that a lot of people try and say they're spiritual or they're religious in a way.

Copping out on the one hour a week, it just feels a bit lazy to me. I think you can always find an hour a week. Yeah. No, you definitely could. So maybe God sent me here to make you go to church. Maybe. Maybe you're here to enlighten me. Maybe that's why, yeah. Yeah? What kind of man are you?

What's the spectrum? I need you to quantify it for me. Who's at the bottom and who's at the top? - For me, I'd just say top like a high value man. - What would you say constitutes a high value man? - A high value man is someone that is successful. - Okay. - Financially.

I'd say it's someone that's got a lot of integrity and good morals.

that is very well respected, is very sure of himself but also is a very

family-orientated man.

That's for me a high value man. Okay, that's fine. I'm a high value man.

He's very sure of himself.

Yeah, so what's a high value man for you? Pretty much basically what you said. I think a high value man is a capable man. I think capability can be judged in many different ways. And capability is something which varies depending on the situation.

you need a man who is capable of doing lots of different things that he doesn't do very often.

You need a man who's capable of being violent when the time appears. Of course, you need a man who's capable of making money.

You need a man who can kill somebody and hold a baby in the same day?

you're a man with a very broad spectrum of

qualities and assets and capabilities.

And this is actually what the most difficult thing about being a man is. Most people, when I say most people, let me change that, most females don't.

respect how difficult it is to become a high-value man because to become a high-value man you need to have a

so many different qualities and so many different capabilities is a very difficult thing to do. You need to be funny and smart and charismatic and interesting.

with stories.

and strong.

and rich with a nice car and a nice apartment. Whereas to be a high value female,

You need to be hot.

If you're nice, it's a bonus, but it's not even that necessary.

If you're a pretty female,

even if you're a piece of shit person.

You're going to get messages on Instagram.

Yeah. Whereas if you're a good looking man who lives with his mother, you ain't getting any messages.

Not winning. I think so. I think that if you're a good looking man, that's all you have going for you. I don't think you're going to succeed very well in life.

I know there's very, very pretty girls who have nothing else going for them that manage to do very, very well.

Do you play chess? I'm okay, I am. But if you look at the chess board, right, the queen gets to jump all over the board, and the king has to move one square at a time, and I think that's done very purposefully.

If you go to Monaco and you see a yacht and you see a man on that yacht, he had to work his entire life and network his entire life and get up early and deal with stress and tax problems and police problems and work his ass off to buy that boat.

What did the girl have to do?

The girl who's on that boat, the 19-year-old Ukrainian.

Should get a message on Instagram.

So the man moves one square at a time and the queen just jumps on board. This is the point. Female beauty is extremely valuable. The thing is there's a difference between a high-value man and a high-value woman. For me a high-value woman is what kind of mother is she? What kind of like compassion has she got? You know, has she got integrity? Has she got morals? Is she loyal? I know all these other qualities, but I feel like men base it on like just an aesthetic and

I agree with you. If I meet a female, I would like her to be all those things, especially loyal. It's the most important thing for a female to be. Are you loyal?

Mr. Loyal, man of God, we already talked about church. But...

But the point is that to initially attract a mate, females, the most important thing for them is their looks. Whereas a man, I think, is his status. And status is a far more varied spectrum.

than looks alone. Being good looking alone does not make you a high status male. To be a high status male you need to have a bunch of things. Initially if you're just pretty you're gonna get attention. Whereas a man you need to have a bunch of things to just get attention.

Do you understand? Do you agree with my point? Not always. Listen, there's men that are funny.

that aren't that attractive, that can get attention. It's like an energy thing.

I disagree. I disagree. I disagree. I know what you're saying. They can get attention, but I don't think anyone would look at a funny guy who lives with his mom and call him a high-value male.

Whereas if you get a really, really beautiful girl, even if she has nothing else going for her, she'd be considered high value. I wouldn't say high value, no. Yeah, we can disagree.

That's fine. Are you a good partner? The best. The best. What makes you the best?

besides you

and the police.

I don't often answer questions.

Okay.

Definitely had a police interview in the past. I don't like to answer open-ended questions because I feel like they're a trap. I

Why? Because when you speak a lot--

it's how you end up getting trapped, right? It doesn't matter if it's a police interview or anything else. The more you talk,

the worse.

So I want you to be very, very specific with your parameters within the questioning, because that allows me to answer them in a way which makes me look the best. I don't know, I feel like a very confident man that was very sure of himself would just answer.

Do you think so? - Mm-hmm. - If-- - 'Cause I feel like it's just being calculated. - Okay, a very innocent man, would he just answer the police? - Yeah.

If he's innocent. Then you've never dealt with the police, my dear. That's not how it works. No? No, of course not. But he's innocent. It doesn't mean anything. Innocent and guilty in and of itself is a false paradigm.

You have to understand that the world we live in, there is no black and white.

There's no such thing. It's all a sliding scale. If they want to find you guilty, they'll find you guilty. I guarantee you

sold something to a mate on eBay seven years ago, didn't pay tax. Boom, you're going to jail. I'm enjoying this conversation and I understand every point she's making and I'm being deliberately abrasive.

However, the truth is about the masculine-feminine dynamic is that females like men who are completely in charge and run their life exactly how they want,

and they comply and bend to the man's wills and lifestyle. To come along to a woman and say, "How do you want me to be so that you like me?" is a death

is a death sentence for the relationship, so

That's how it works.

What kind of man do you want to be?

I want to be a man who lives true to himself and a man who goes to sleep easy at night and a man who knows that

He's living true to his biological necessities and instincts.

and tries his best not to hurt anybody.

and leaves a positive impact on the world.

Are your actions congruent with your words?

Yeah, what else would they be? I don't know. I don't know you. So I don't know you know, we're here to know each other Of course they are. Yeah, I'm a positive man. I'm a positively a

inspirational and motivating person. Okay, what do you do that's motivating?

I inspire people to tell the truth, I think. Okay. And I think a lot of men live in a world now today where they have to lie. You think? In fact, I would basically guarantee that 99% of men are lying at least 80% of the time.

Really? This is a bit of a load.

I think it's true because I think that

So men are liars. Men are liars.

Women are correct, men are liars. Women wear makeup because men fall in love with what they see.

And men lie because women fall in love with

what they hear.

Men are liars because men are in constant competition with other men.

and they have to find a way to be competitive, and the easiest way to be competitive is to lie.

If you can sit there and convince a woman that you're rich because you bought her a $100

or 100 pound meal,

that's what you're going to do. It's a lot easier than becoming rich.

And women believe it. And as long as women are stupid enough to believe it,

Men are dishonest enough to lie.

For me personally, I'm the type of woman that is actions out of words. I don't get phased by... Actions can be a lie.

You think flowers can't be a lie? You think flowers, 25 pounds on a phone call to some dickhead delivery dude can't be a lie? No, but there's some good men that wouldn't even enter their head that that's a lie.

So I feel like everything you're doing is just very...

calculated. Life is calculated. All men lie. It's really not. Men lie because, yeah, life at the upper echelons, at the highest echelons of life is absolutely not really calculated.

Every single man at the top echelon of life is a calculated man. You don't get there by accident.

Okay, so do you want to get to the top?

I'm already at the top echelon of man. And when you're at the top echelon of man,

It's a very, very calculated process. You don't get there by accident. Nothing good in life happens on accident.

When you say men don't lie because you believe in actions, I'm saying a lot of actions are lies. Am I high value women in your eyes?

You're very good looking.

I would say, yeah, absolutely, you're beautiful. You seem like you're a good person. You seem intelligent. You're not stupid.

So I'd say you're a high-value woman, but your actions dictate that, right? The most important actions a woman can undertake is loyalty. Every man out here knows that

Disloyalty is the most disgusting thing a female could ever

due to her man. But are you loyal?

Let's not pretend that male loyalty and female loyalty are the same thing. But loyalty is loyalty.

No, they're not the same thing, are they? Why is it not? Because men and women are not the same. We are not the same. You are correct there. Okay, so we agree.

No, but I'm not agreeing to people being dishonest, cheaters...

Liars. He's deluded.

Why do you think men and women are different?

We carry children. Correct. We nurture. We're compassionate people.

Emotional beings men are very different. I agree. However, I don't think it's very fair for men to sit with the opinion that it's acceptable for men to cheat I didn't even say that but I think if we as intelligent logical beings if

as you are and as I am, if we agree that men and women are not the same, then our paradigms on how we enact

in certain

regards cannot be seen as the same. So if I'm with you,

and I then cheat. That's disgusting. I can't believe you even said that on YouTube.

You see what you just said on YouTube. I'm sorry to the world. Please don't listen to this. The bit happens. No, it doesn't happen. No, no, no, no. Please don't say this on YouTube. You're going to corrupt the youth.

"I'm sorry for her, I'll pray for her." These things can't be said. Women can't do that. Women can't do that, so it's a double standard. It's a double standard. But life is full of double standards. Yeah, but it doesn't mean any, like, listen, regardless, with your philosophies and everything that you keep... It's not my philosophies. No, but I'm saying, okay, life is full of double standards. I understand that.

But in a relationship, it's a partnership. You and me, we're together.

Since when?

You know what I'm saying. When you're trying to build a partnership and a life with someone, the end goal is you two together.

Agreed.

So why cheat? - I know, I understand where you're coming from. My point is that relationships and life is full of double standards as a whole.

A man's going to pay for everything, everywhere you go, right? It's his duty as a man.

Do you agree?

No, I do like traditional. Okay, so you agree. So you're traditional, right? So if you want to talk about traditional, let's talk about tradition.

Every single man since the dawn of human time had more than one woman.

Every single king, every single emperor, every single sultan, every single conqueror since the dawn of human time had more than one woman. All of them.

Every single one. Read a history book. Read the Bible. It's all in there. The Quran. All of it. You want to talk about tradition, it's all there. The only reason your mind is different, the only reason you believe differently is because of society. Society's come along and told you something. Yeah, but society, we can change. Like, the world evolves, things change. The world evolves, yeah, that's right. Now men cut their dicks off and they're chicks. You believe in this shit? You got the , you believe in any of this crap? It's all a lie. I feel like life's about choices. Life is about choices, correct. My point is this. If I had a woman, I would decide not to cheat because I decide.

However, I would not see my infidelity as nearly anywhere near even 1% as disgusting as female infidelity, because female infidelity involves emotion.

You will not sleep with a man you don't like.

I can sleep with a woman I don't like. It's completely a different thing. I can be head over heels in love with a woman, ready to die for her, ready to take a bullet for her, protect her, give her all the money in the world, make sure she has a beautiful family, a nice big house, all of it. And I'll still f*** that bitch. Watch me. A woman won't do that. So don't lie to me and pretend. No, you won't. Any woman who will sit here and say, "I can f*** dudes and not care about them," is fundamentally broken. Her soul is broken. Well, she's broken then, but she's still doing it. Well, if she's broken, she ain't anywhere near me. I don't want no broken bitch near me. I'm definitely sure women would cheat on you. You think so?

Well, those are the kind of women I will not associate with. Females shouldn't even want to cheat.

And the reason women can't cheat is because there's no way to ensure paternity of a female's cheating. Modern science in and of itself, just because you can now find out who the dad is, doesn't undo 5,000 years of human evolution in which a female had to be loyal to one man so we knew exactly who the father was.

If a man has multiple partners, you know who the mother is, you know who the father is. If a woman has multiple partners, nobody knows who the dad is, nobody wants to look after the kid, and a woman with a child without a father or without a man around in the ancient

was toast.

He talks a lot of nothing.

I would never ever be with a girl who cheats on me and I would never ever... You can't, you can't... Yes I can, yes I can, yes I can. No you can't. Of course I can. No you can't. Because the thing is, like, this is just an assumption. I'm assuming, you know, you have a nice life. This is haram.

No, but I'm saying you have a nice life, you live a good lifestyle.

women will just see you as an opportunity.

If I was a dumbass, yeah, correct. Yeah, but this one said, but your attitude is what keeps a woman also. Like, do you think a high-value woman is going to sit there and tolerate a man condescending and talking to her and being like, "We're different and we're this, we're that," because we're not. A woman that knows her worth is not going to tolerate that. As professionals, we discussed the infidelity of females, and I said that female infidelity is more disgusting than male infidelity. And I think that the world agrees with me.

History agrees with me, the Bible agrees with me, the Quran agrees with me. Every single book you can read from history says that females who are promiscuous

should either be stoned to death,

or at least cast out from society. Female promiscuity is a brand new concept, and this is brand new amongst society. The idea that women can sleep with a bunch of dudes and it doesn't matter is a brand new idea. 30, 40 years old, maybe. Even today, nobody respects it, deep down. When a girl shoots a girl she doesn't like, you know the first thing she does? She says, Jesus,

You know why? Because they know deep down that female promiscuity is disgusting, it's revolting. So the whole idea of a female wanting to sleep with more than one man at a time is haram.

And they know it inside of their souls, inside of their hearts. I don't think so. As, yes, they do. As does a man. Whereas a man, if he sleeps with a bunch of chicks, doesn't matter. Who cares?

So would you be with me if I had slept with over 50 men?

I'm a high value Roman, right?

You said it yourself. How can you be high value?

You're 50 minutes.

I've just been single for a long time. Oh, unacceptable. Why is it unacceptable? Hurrah. A body count is probably the number one most easiest way to judge the value of a female. I actually think...

That 19-- no, no, no, no, no. I'm going to say this.

I think 99% of the world's problems

And no one's gonna understand this, but if you can extrapolate, if you can listen to this statement and extrapolate it out towards society at large,

I think 99% of the world's problems would be solved.

if females walked through life with their body count on their forehead.

Because it would prevent because it would prevent

All of the

disintegration of morals,

It would prevent so many things about the world. But you know what, there's like a little... And women would be like,

To be with me as a man,

I don't want to put another number on my forehead, you have to be a good man. They wouldn't stop f*cking these idiots and stop being idiots. And all the idiocy would disappear, all the degeneracy would disappear. Families would return, virgins meeting their first man, staying with him her whole life and being proud of it.

Couldn't we go back to such a beautiful age? All we have to do is start putting numbers on girls' foreheads. We could fix everything.

That attitude is disgusting. It's not about women's

body count that would not like minimize any problems.

Men like you are the problem, Andrew.

women

I myself am sick of men that have this really disgusting outlook on policing women's bodies.

Listen, if I want to sleep with this many people, I can and I will.

Yeah, but what you're not getting is there's this whole hyper toxic independent

movement or women, right? We are doing things because it's kind of, now it's our choice, but it's kind of like by force in the sense of

It's like we're so liberated because we're literally exhausted with men

on their power trip, on their this. So it's like, oh, if you can do it, we can do it. But this is what I was saying, but you,

You men that think the way you think have created that. - I understand your point.

However you're wrong.

She thinks I'm arrogant.

I'm being arrogant on purpose. I must admit, annoying her is kind of fun.

I think that, you know what, I'm being so nice. I'm being so nice to you. I say I think instead of I know. This is him being nice.

The answer is I know, I know. Females who sleep with lots of men, first things first, I don't think that women naturally, intrinsically want to do that. I think that's societal programming.

I think that women... No, I agree. This is what I'm saying to you. There's things that you're saying, like, I don't disagree with certain things you're

Going back to my point,

it's like by force, like, it's to prove a point. It's like this power struggle. Like, I personally don't want to sit and sleep with loads of men. I don't care. - Good. We're getting somewhere. You see, God, Jesus, I'm getting her. Please, little by little, got two hours left.

Give me some time, I'll fix it.

No, but if I want to, then I'm going to. Sorry, I'm getting there. A little by little. A little by little. No, but genuinely, that's what you need to understand. No, you will not. God will frown upon you. You can't do that. And you. And you. What do you mean, and me? It doesn't say in the Bible I can't do that. Read the book. I can do whatever I want. I'm a man. Women can't do those things. It's disgusting.

I can't believe you're poisoning the youth on YouTube.

Why is he shouting? The idea that a woman can sleep with as many people as she wants just because she wants to is wrong. It's absolutely wrong. Every man knows it and every woman knows it.

Women should not do that. And the whole idea and the whole concept that females can adopt the promiscuity of males, because males have always been promiscuous. But there's actually a lot of men that are like good loyal men.

Just so you know.

Do you think so? Absolutely.

Absolutely. I know very good people

men. Would you deem them high value men? Oh absolutely. Successful

everything I listed earlier, 100%.

-And they don't cheat, right? -Yeah.

It's possible.

Why is it funny? This, no seriously this guy is so toxic and the only kind of people that listen to his kind of advice are broke men or heartbroken men that are insecure.

I think that if a man has options over a long enough time frame, he's going to eventually probably explore one of them options. Now, I'm not saying he's going to love another woman. I'm saying that a man who, when a man's in love, he only loves one girl.

I agree with that. I believe in love. I believe a man cares about a chick. I believe a man should take care of a woman. I believe he should come home to the same place every day. I believe all those things. However, I think if a man truly has options, truly,

that both the man and the woman understand.

that at some point he's going to explore the lockdown. No, listen, if I'm with you, do you think I'm going to allow you to

explore other options, decide if you're with me or you're not, go be single then. Cool. Like what, but realistically, what self-respecting woman is going to sit there and tolerate

you going out. - I don't cheat. I'm a good man. I don't cheat. - What woman is going to, if you have all these other options... - No, no, no. - I'll tell you what's more powerful, what's more alpha, what's more attractive, and what's more high value is a man that can respect his woman

Yeah, love her, not cheat on her, not disregard her, not see himself above her, not see him as, you know, she's his slave or anything like that. See her as an equal, treat her with respect and put on that, that's more powerful, a partnership, two people. Not, "I'm a man, I have options, I'm going to explore them." Listen, if you're a cheater, you're a cheater. If you're a loyal person, you're a loyal person.

That's it.

First things first, men and women are not equal. We'll talk about that in a second. Secondly, is that if a woman sees Chris Brown in the club, do you think she's like, wow, he'll be loyal? Fuck no. She doesn't care. Like, at high enough status as a man, women don't even care about loyalty. Women don't even care about loyalty at high enough status. And I don't cheat.

Listen, I'm a man of God. I go to church. I don't cheat. I'm talking about in general. I'm talking about society. Okay, but what I'm trying to explain to you though, because maybe your perception of what a high-value woman is, is what?

Because I'm a high value woman, I make my own money, I possess all the qualities that I listed earlier. Right. I believe I'm not going to be with a man that's going to cheat. I'm not going to look at a man like Chris Brown and be like, oh my God, like he's loyal. You see it as face value. You know he's a cheat and maybe he'd just be a one night guy. Just like you men do it to women. Would you sleep with him for one night?

I don't think I would. I hope not because that would not make you a one-value woman. No, this is what I'm saying because it's like when you hold yourself in high regard, you don't need to do those things. So the kind of calibre of women that go for men like that and these opportunities don't have that much self-worth because it's what you're going to go with a man that only values you for one night.

So it says a lot about the quality of a woman. - So we agree on something. - But I'm saying so when you generalize about women, don't do that.

because there are many high-value women

Who would refuse him? - That will not tolerate that. - Completely. I'm not saying that. My point is you completely misunderstand me. I'm saying at a certain point, females aren't even interested in loyalty.

Do you think all the girls with Dan Bilzerian think he's loyal? I'm not saying every girl will go with him. I'm saying there are certain girls at a certain level of male achievement who are not interested in loyalty. You think it's that attractive? Like for me personally, that's not attractive to sit there and see a man that thinks it's cool to have loads of fun

Women around him be like oh my god they're bitches this is that I have all this money that doesn't impress me that doesn't impress a lot of women. It's about raising a family. It's about unity. Everything that you were saying that it's not that. Talking about all these celebrities xyz high enough value when they have options they will explore them that's what I'm saying and I'm also saying that if a man did decide to explore his options it would not be as

disgusting as if a female decided to explore options. - Okay, wouldn't it just be disgusting then?

No, it's different if a woman does it. It's different if a woman does it. Everyone watching this knows it's different if a woman cheats. It's different.

Honestly, men with these sexist views, like, it's so outdated. What kind of relationship do you have with your mother? A good one. A good one? Yeah, I take care of her.

And also that paradigm, the whole idea that if you find a man who's good with his mom, then he's good with girls, that's bullshit. No, no, it was just more because I find that your faults,

towards women are quite disrespectful. You think so?

Why? This arrogance that you've got. Don't tell me what-- I'd actually like to know what I've said so far. No, I'm just saying it. It's not-- you don't have to say anything. It's like energy.

speaks volumes, because you're not actually listening to what I'm saying. I'm listening to everything you're saying. I don't think you're listening to what I'm saying. I'm saying women shouldn't sleep with lots of men, and they should fall in love with one man and stay with that man. And if that man takes care of them and ends up across 20 years sleeping with one chick once, you shouldn't leave him. That's all I'm saying.

That's all I'm saying. And the point I'm making is completely valid. And if a woman sleeps with one man once, that's unacceptable. If a man does that, it's acceptable.

-What's the point I'm making? -Do you just want women to be submissive to you?

I think in a healthy relationship, there's always

a leader, whether it's the man or the woman,

And I think that

in the happiest relationships the man's in charge. I don't think women should be submissive to an idiot. I don't think women should be submissive to any man they meet. And I don't think women should be submissive when they're not rewarded.

If a captain is in charge of a ship,

he's responsible for the ship, right? If he's responsible for the ship, he has authority over the ship. - Okay, but it's a, I'm a woman, I'm not a ship. - Yeah, we're a relationship, okay. The ship is a relationship.

I know exactly what this guy's doing. He's just like talking in riddles. Like none of it actually makes sense if you actually listen to what he's saying. So I think if a man has responsibility and he takes care of the woman and improves her life and makes sure that every single facet of her life, whether spiritual, physical, financial, etc. is taken care of, then he should have some degree of authority. I don't see why a man would take care of a woman and have no authority over her while accepting all of the responsibility that's getting played.

You're an independent woman. Maybe you make your own money. You want to do all those own things. That's fine. Fantastic.

But if I had a woman,

I would say look,

I like that you do your own things, I like that you do your jobs.

But let's keep it part time. I want you to come with me. We got to go here. We got to go there. I'm taking you around the world.

"You're with me, I'm taking care of you," et cetera, and I'd expect her to listen to me in return. Why wouldn't she? I'm not gonna tell her to do anything wrong or bad, but if I were to say,

I don't like that dude, stop talking to him.

I'm her man, not that dude. It shouldn't even be a competition. It should be alright, cool.

Why wouldn't it be? But then if I said I didn't like that woman,

I don't know about that. This is what I'm saying. It's just a double standard and it's just like a power struggle. Like it's about balance.

- Life is different. - And this is the thing, like I feel a lot of women

could give you that life and be like, you know what? He can have a girlfriend. He can, there's so many people that are into that. - I'm not even saying, no, I'm not a cheater. - No, but I'm saying there's people that are into that. - Correct, but I'm not a cheater. I don't want anyone to think this is about me. I'm talking about in general. - But do you think women want to sit here and look stupid? Like I might think, do you know what?

Actually, I'm listening to everything you're saying. I'm agreeing and I'm liking it. But then if you've got me out here looking stupid because you might be in clubs with all these women around you making me look like a friend.

- Idiot. Do you think I'm gonna tolerate that? No. When you have men like you have explained, it's as if you're trying to prove a point to the world, that you're this great man that has all these options, and you're so successful. - No, I agree. - I agree with you. - It doesn't work like that. - I agree with you. If there was a man, which is not me, because,

I'm a one-woman man.

But if there was a man who decided to have multiple girlfriends, his approach certainly wouldn't be sitting down and saying it the way I'm saying it.

The point I'm trying to make is, I think that the idea of a man having a girlfriend who he loves

and maybe sometimes stepping out.

is not nearly as offensive as the idea of a woman having a man she loves and sometimes stepping out.

You know, I watched American Pie the other week.

And I thought that would have been the best time to be alive. You know, like 2003. Like you can still call the people you care about if it's a real emergency, but no one's glued to their phone. No one's scrolling social media. No one's trying to take an Instagram picture. Everyone's just at the crappy party, enjoying the crappy party. Like if you go to Dubai and you look around the bar,

half the people aren't having fun. They're just purely trying to get Insta stories to look like they're having fun. So it's pure like, "Hahaha, okay, so I think that a lot of people now are doing things, not because they enjoy them, because other people will think they're having fun, and it's more about creating envy as opposed to actually enjoying yourself."

If you go on a really fun night out, you don't take your phone out. So when I see someone who went on a night out and took 20 stories dancing and laughing and having a great time, I know they're bored. Yeah, they're not in the moment. Do you know what I mean? Because if you really have a great night out, you don't take any stories and you forget to check your phone. Social media has completely and utterly changed the world.

It's changed the way that we function, it's changed the way that we go out, it's changed even the places we go.

Social media now runs the world. We live in an attention society and people will do anything for attention because attention is a currency and you can turn attention into money.

Jake Paul is not rich because he's a boxer. He's rich because he used the attention he gets and monetized it via boxing. So in the attention economy we now live in, you have to understand that your attention is valuable, especially as a man. And women are out here today

trying to extract your attention from you without returning anything.

That's what the male-female friendship is. In the old days, man would give attention in return for sex.

But nowadays, men just give attention and don't get any sex back.

and that's what you have to be very, very careful of. Your attention is extremely valuable. So for all the men out there, if you're following a woman,

and you have zero chance of f***ing her and she ain't replying to your DMs, stop following her.

Like when's the last time you truly truly lived in the moment? I think I personally live in the moment a lot. No, no, but that's a good thing, right? That's a beautiful thing and that's a that's actually an asset like my brother is very similar to that. I

But the problem is if you live very, very much in the moment and you're not on your phone, I feel like

and I can only talk from the masculine perspective. You're not competitive.

because

As a man, you need to be doing things, talking to people, making money, moving things, except you're going to be on your phone all the time. I really like how you just delivered what you said.

But I just find it crazy how we've just sat and said about people need to live in the moment and that, but then like you've sold courses trying to explain to people how to be like that. It's just aspire for this, this, this. I understand what you mean, but unfortunately, and it's an unfortunate reality of the world.

is that it's player versus player.

Like if you go to a video game, if you play Call of Duty, right?

There's 20 people in there, and we're all trying to kill each other.

and the world is very, very similar financially. I'm not saying we should be out here killing each other, but I'm trying to explain that there's a certain amount of resource, and everyone's trying to get it.

And I understand your perspective.

but your perspective is feminine, as it should be because you're a woman.

But the masculine imperative and the masculine perspective is you have to understand that life is war.

It's a war for the female you want. It's a competition. Every man is trying to get her.

It's a war for the car you want. It's a war for the money you want. It's a war for the status.

It's a war. Masculine life is war. If you're a man who doesn't view life as war, you're going to lose. So as a man, you have to wake up and think, OK, everything I want

Other men won. I have to outcompete every other man to get it.

So how am I going to do that? Am I going to do that by living in the moment, ignoring my phone, having a fun picnic? Do you believe in men's mental health? You are kind of like the problem in society in a sense of... Thank you. ...fast car, women, lifestyle. But it is. This is the problem. It's not my problem.

I'm not saying it's your problem directly, but I'm saying this is the problem. Yes, all men probably want to aspire for that. But do you see the pressure there is on men? Completely. It is much harder to be a man than be a woman. Okay, so what's your thoughts on men's mental health? I agree. It's much harder to be a man than be a woman, which is basically what you just said. Society's expectations of men is much higher than the societal expectations of females. I agree.

much more is expected of us. I agree, it's a harder game. Just like

every other video game on Earth. It's a harder game, but if you complete it, you get a higher score. I think that being a top-tier male is the best human experience that any human can have. I think that being a female would not compare in any way to being a top-level man. - Mm, no, no, no, reason why.

there's experiences, right? Like women, we can literally carry lives.

inside of us

I agree with you and I'm actually glad you chose that experience because that's the most important thing a female can do. And I agree with you and I understand it's a beautiful thing.

because there's no society and there's no world without life. I agree with you. However, I think that as a man,

you can build an empire. There's conquest as a man. And I think as a female, it's not quite the same.

And I'm not saying this in any kind of way that disrespects females. I don't want people to look at this and think I'm disrespecting females. I'm not. I'm saying we have different roles.

We do different things, and women give life. Women have a very, very important role, probably the most important role in society. Women are beautiful creatures that do something separate that men cannot do. I think a top-tier male is more unique than a beautiful woman. I think that you get to build an empire. I think that you get to be respected and feared in a way that women never are. I understand that that's a very, very unique

It's human experience, right? Most men never ever get there. The reality of life for most men is absolutely depressing.

I completely understand when you talk about male mental health. So have you suffered from mental health?

No. Absolutely not.

Because I understood that as a man, you must build yourself. As a female, you can be born. But did you not like, we need to stop going into philosophies and just stuff. Because I'm actually trying to...

I want to understand you.

So have you or have you not experienced mental health? No. Zero. Okay. So how do you cope with stress?

and situations? Express your emotions when you're frustrated and when you're stressed. Good question.

And

If I'm stressed or I'm frustrated, then I understand it's my time to perform.

and I agree that society puts huge pressure on men, and it's time for men to perform. As a man, you either perform or you don't. There's no safety net like there is for females. Females can wake up and say,

I don't feel like it. But there is for men. No, there isn't. But there is. The men who say, I can't feel like it,

cannot compete with the men who do not say that. And it is player versus player.

The man who goes to the gym every single day, regardless of how he feels, will always beat the man who goes to the gym when he feels like going to the gym. And it's player versus player. And let me tell you something.

As much as you want to sit here and disagree with me,

It's women who decide who the winner is.

You will choose the man who's in fantastic shape.

You'll choose to bang with all his money right. I like a dad bod, personally. Okay, well then maybe you're an exception because you're an angel.

But in general, we're talking in generalizations, because exceptions do not disprove the rule. Females will choose the man who's in fantastic shape. Females will choose the man who's got his money right. Females will choose the man who can fix any problem. Females will choose the man when they can go to him and say everything's fine.

Can you fix this? And he says yes without panicking. That's who women want. Women decide who the winner is. Women don't want the man when you come to him with your problems and he goes, "I'm too stressed today. Tell me tomorrow." Women don't want that. But women also don't want a dickhead. Having your life in order doesn't make you a dickhead. You can have all those things.

But then there's that fine line where your ego gets a bit too much. For example, like, you could be very successful, you can have

good looking women that are attracted to you. You can just have all those qualities, but then once you possess that,

you then suddenly can go past that line, your ego, then you start to become an asshole. I agree with you, but I'm not talking about that. I think that's a separate conversation. No, I'm just saying, no, I agree with everything you're saying, but what I'm trying to argue is that men get successful, they become even more narcissistic and they just,

are not nice people to be around.

You're very, very smart. Thank you. You are. But you're doing what most females do, and you're conflating issues.

So when you conflate, what you do is you mix two issues together to try and prove your point. No, I'm actually, I've just been asking you personal questions and every time you give me a philosophy around it. No, it's not a philosophy. No, but I'm saying in general, when I'm asking you, I'm trying to get to know you. On a level, how does a woman like me get to know a gentleman like you? Here at this beautiful, nice civil dinner we're having here with no animosity at all. You asked me about men's mental health. My answer was explaining that as a man, you don't have the luxury.

"Oops, I don't feel like it." You can do it if-- - But you can. But I'm sorry, I keep cutting you, but I'm just like, 'cause this is the part that gets really frustrating for me, like, men with this mindset that you have, like, I get it, okay, great, you are alpha, you've achieved all these things. - It's not about alpha. - No, but I'm saying, like, you possess all these, it's great, but you are the problem, you're creating this pressure on men and society. - I'm not creating a problem. - No, I'm not creating a pressure. - Like, it's so impressive. - But men can actually, successful men can actually be like, "Oh, okay, I don't actually feel like it today." Like, they actually can take a break and rest at that moment. - I understand. - I understand. My point is that it's player versus player. And if you're a man,

who's going to constantly give in to mental health problems or mental health trouble

you're not going to be able to compete with the men who don't. Okay, but can we validate men that have...

Completely. If you have mental health-- - That's amazing. So we're not, we can't go play a play, just validate men that have mental health issues. Absolutely. Men who have mental health issues, I hope them, I wish them the best in the world. But when they come to me and say, and I get this all the time, "Andrew, I have this problem. I'm depressed and I can't go to the gym." I say, "No, I disagree. You're depressed because you don't go to the gym. If you go to the gym, you might start to feel better." Right? I'm saying you can't sit as a man and afford the luxury of saying, "I have a mental health issue today. I'm sad today. I'm stressed today. I'm emotional today. I can't work." Because

you will lose against the men who don't do that. And male, the male world is more competitive than you could possibly imagine. And it's the women who pick the winners. So I find it very interesting that a woman sits here to me and says, "No, men are allowed to sit around and do fuck all and feel sad." And those are the men they ignore when they DM! Those are the men they ignore them all! No, actually, can I just chime in here?

So for example, everything you've said you've possessed, you've proved your point.

But as a high value woman, if I respect and love my partner, I'm not putting that pressure. I would say, "Babe, do you know what? You can have a little rest." There are women that actually enable men to process that emotion. Agreed. But yeah, so we'll still go back to tomorrow. Okay.

- Agreed. - Let's go back to work, work, work. But there are good women out there that don't put that pressure. I feel like your reality on women is warped, because of a certain caliber of women. Yes, it is. - I agree, you're right. But you need to, you're missing a very,

vital point of that story.

You're right, but as a high value woman,

before you say to that man you can have a day off and you're allowed to be sad today.

You will only even get with him.

We change that. You will only even acknowledge he exists

if he's ignored how he feels 99% of the time before that. Because if he was sad most of the time before that, he never would have got to a place where he could attract a woman like you.

the man who works in Starbucks, who's sad all the time, you won't reply to him.

Neither will any other female. So for women to come along and pretend they give a fuck about the fact that most men are basically invisible. There is not a female on the planet who's invisible today. You can be a four, overweight, fat, you'll still go to the club and get attention. 99% of the men go to the club and nobody even fucking talks to them. If they try and talk to a girl, they get blanked and ignored and told to fuck.

Most men are absolutely not really invisible. This is the truth about masculinity, right? It's very easy for women to sit here and complain about the top 2% of men because I dealt with this guy, he's arrogant, blah, blah, blah, blah. Most men don't even f***ing exist. They send 10,000 DMs and never even get read, let alone replied to. So if you just sit here and say, I'll get a G, a big G, a boss, a millionaire and let him have a day off, very nice of you. I'm sure you would. But if you got, if a guy who wanted to have days off all the time, he never would have got important enough in the first place to attract a woman like you.

And that is the reality.

As a man, it's player versus player.

It's ultimately competitive. And as a man, you have to out-compete the other men who are prepared to get up and do it anyway.

There's no such thing as saying, I'm sad, I need two weeks off. Not as a man if you want to be important. Maybe as a chick, you can always put more foundation on and be hot again. Great. Not as a man. If you want to be important as a man, you have shit to do.

You have duties.

This is how it exists, this is how it's always been.

- Why are you wearing glasses?

Sunglasses. Yeah, we're inside.

We are inside.

very perspicacious of you.

I have bad eyes.

You have bad eyes. I have bad eyes because

After so many fights in the ring, I had a retina detachment, and there's a lot of bright lights here.

and it makes my eyes very uncomfortable. I don't want to squint.

On camera so I'm wearing sunglasses. So if you want to continue to make fun of my medical condition. Why don't I make fun of it? You just tried. I know you just tried. No, it's fine. No, no, it's fine. It was a genuine question. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I just tried to make it mock me. It's fine. First it's mental health but if you've got a retina detachment it's fine. Ha ha ha. It's funny now. Actually I was asking you because

eye contact is important to gauge conversation. - Is it? Do you wanna look at my eyes? - I wanna know, like how we're enjoying, yeah.

Let me see. We give it a few minutes. It's, you know, etiquette, isn't it? It is. You're right. It's polite. You're right. It's polite. Perfect. We need to reach the glasses off.

Cheers. To detach retinas.

Cheers.

Are you happy?

I think that money bites freedom and freedom bites happiness.

I think that the rich people of the world, the number one most intelligent thing they did was convince poor people that money isn't happiness. And I think they did that to prevent revolts. I'm not saying money is the only thing that can make someone happy. I'm not saying money alone will make you happy.

but money is certainly a factor to happiness. - Yeah. - It's kind of, you agree, right? It's like water, right? Water won't make you happy, but if you have no water,

After a week, you need water. It's all you think about, right? It's the same deal. You can't go without it. So the rich people always say, money doesn't buy happiness. But do they ever give their money away? Yeah, exactly. You know what I'm saying? So you give your money away. I have a charity, which I own, which takes care of street dogs in Romania.

So I rescue dogs. That's really lovely. Thank you. See we're getting along now. That's really nice. See that it's much better. Do charity work, glasses are off. I'm actually connecting with a real human. I'm a real human. You look really nice.

And you smell nice. Thank you. I'm... yeah.

dressed up for you of course. Yeah it's nice, it's nice to see some

Make the effort, you know? Where I'm from.

in Eastern Europe, I always wear a suit because we can carry weapons over there.

Here in London, it's a little bit different. We have to take security with us. But where I'm from, you have to jack it because you have to strap. It's a different game.

So do you walk around with a weapon?

No. Wait, wait, wait.

- Yes. - Enemies are watching. Listen, I'm ready.

Let's leave it at that.

But I'm very security conscious now, and I think that

There's a difference between fighting and violence. And even though I'm a professional fighter, if you want to be a professional in violence, you need a weapon

level.

That's my answer.

- Interesting.

Just imagine in these scenarios we are together.

- Okay. - Okay. What would you do if I wanted to start an OnlyFans? - I don't think there's anything intrinsically wrong with women doing OnlyFans.

as long as I had influence and control over it.

Good morning.

Do you want to be the photographer and get the angles, yeah? No, no, no, no. Not doing any real work, but just taking all the money.

If my chick said I want to do OnlyFans, I'm like, "Alright, then cool, go do it. How much you made? 10 grand. Alright, give me 8. Alright, cool." Why would... What woman is gonna give you 8 grand? 'Cause she's just my... You're my woman, you're doing OnlyFans. You're selling my product. What the fuck? Your product. Yes, correct. Next question. No.

products

Like, do you own me? No, no, sorry. Like, your ego is a bit twig. You don't own me. I'm not a product. I'm not an object.

Okay, Mr. Tate?

I'm just answering it. I don't know if you're being serious. I'm totally serious. How am I going to let my chick do OnlyFans and keep all the money? That's disrespectful.

What woman is ever going to give you that? Then she better not do OnlyFans. Duh. Oh my God. That upset her, didn't it? It upset her to say that you're mine and if you're mine and men want to pay for it, then the money is mine.

But that's the basic dynamic of a relationship.

You're mine, so if you want to sell what is mine, that's fine, but I need to get paid.

What would you do if I couldn't cook?

That's fine. We eat out every day.

No problem. I haven't had a home-cooked meal in years anyway. No way. No, I eat out nearly every day three times a day.

- Oh my God. - Always traveling, always moving, even when I'm home, it's the same restaurants, so. - Do you ever wanna just settle down? I feel like your life just seems like it's just really fast paced. You don't want just a nice woman,

If she cooked for me, that would be beautiful, but it's not a deal breaker.

Okay, I like that.

What if I earned more money than you?

Impossible.

Never mind. No, no, no. Impossible. Really? Literally impossible. Is it impossible? Literally impossible. Numbers don't go that high. Next question.

*laughs*

It's impossible for her to earn more money than me simply because of her ethos towards life.

Her ethos towards life is about moments and memories. My ethos towards life is about conquest. And those are very, very different things. I completely understand...

that she enjoys things which are not...

congruent with trying to conquer Earth.

She wants time off, she wants holidays, she wants to enjoy time with friends, she wants to do a bunch of things that don't make money. I want to make money. It's impossible she could ever earn more than me because we have completely different life philosophies.

What would you do if I didn't like your lifestyle? What aspect of my lifestyle?

Maybe it was too flashy for me. Flying around too much. Maybe I just want you to just slow down. It's a bit too fast playing.

I understand.

And I would respect the point of view. So what are you doing? I don't think I listen.

my lifestyle got me to where I am and I'm a sovereign individual who lives

in the way he believes true.

I would listen and I would understand it and I would do my best to accommodate, but I don't think I would change.

If you were to say, look, you can't do this anymore, I'd say, oh, I'm going to do it anyway. Sorry. I'll try to make you feel better about it, but it's going to happen.

What if your family didn't like me?

That's no big deal.

Not a big deal? Nah. The only person I'm super close with is my brother. Okay. And my brother wouldn't dislike you unless he had a reason, like a genuine reason.

And if he disliked you, I'd dislike you, so then...

The game over anyway. Not because he dislikes you, but because we have the same standards of life.

There's no way he could dislike you without me disliking you. So there's literally like two of you that have these mad views. My views are not mad. What have I said so far? What have I said so far? Women shouldn't be hoes. Man should have some authority because he should take care of his chick.

Chicks shouldn't talk to a bunch of dudes. Why are you shouting? It's important to the mic. No, it's not because Joe-- And that's it. That's all I've said. And you're saying I got crazy views.

They say the loudest person in the room is the weakest.

on my week now.

No, but I'm just saying, don't people say that. I'm not doing an arm wrestle. Come on. I want to see it. Come on.

No. You look strong. Look, I'm a nice feminine lady. You're doing a lot of ourselves. Who doesn't like to do these activities, okay? What is it if I wanted to invite other people into our sex life?

Obviously I'm gonna ask if it's boys or girls. But even then, even if it was girls, it'd be weird.

I think it'd be a bit strange. If I had a girlfriend, she said, I really want you to fuck this chick, I'd be like, hmm, this is not the normal feminine mindset. Must not like me. It would just seem odd to me. Something would be up. I'm really surprised by that answer. I don't know why. I feel like you'd be the type of person that would...

I want loads of threesomes and stuff and feel like, yes, this lifestyle, I'm the man. Sex in and of itself is boring.

Any man who sits and says that sex is great or sex is fun

She just clearly hasn't had enough sex, because sex is boring.

Sex is a chore.

Sex is like food.

You don't really care unless you're really hungry, and then you eat and you don't care again.

And it's one of those things you do every once in a while because it's an urge.

But it's not a real big deal. Every person needs food and every person likes food. Have you ever been in love? Completely. But... You're talking about having sex and making love different? Yeah. No, no, no. If you're in love, you might want sex more often. You might be hungry more often.

My point is that if you're someone who goes through life and only, only, only talks about and cares about food, it's a bit weird. Same thing with sex. Sex is something that happens, and it happens between people who love each other, and it's a great thing, but it's not the be-all and end-all of life. It's really not that great. I don't think sex is the most stimulating and interesting thing in the world. It doesn't matter who the girl is. It doesn't matter if you love her or not. I don't think it's the greatest, best thing in the world. Any dude who's out here is like, wow, wow, two pairs of tits.

Just hasn't fucked very much. Who gives a shit? Do you think you've over achieved so much already? This is why you're kind of Latin. Jaded?

No.

I just think that men who are super, super interested in sex or sexual fantasies of these things are men who are semi-deprived. You have an abundance of food. If you have a fridge full of food all the time, you don't eat all the time. Sometimes you just don't want to.

It's always there, right? But if you're starving, as soon as food appears, you're all over it. It's the same with sex. Any dude who's like, wow, threesome, okay, I need it, I need it, is a guy who's deprived. A guy who has as much as he wants all the time ain't going to be really that interested in it.

- So you're comparing women to food, okay. - Correct.

What would you do if I was going on girls holidays every other month?

I'd have to shut that down. I think it's disrespectful.

Do you go on a lot of holidays? I can do whatever I want.

We're not actually gonna go there with this bullshit. - What do you mean bullshit? - Double standard shit. This man has so many double standards, like it actually doesn't make sense. I think he honestly believes like,

of his own rubbish.

It's not double standards. Yes, it is. There's different standards. But I'm saying, if you're out every month doing this, doing that, I'm going to do the same to keep myself entertained and occupied. No, no, no. Yes, you think I'm going to wait at home for you. Yes.

and just wait there and look like an idiot, then probably see you up on Instagram, here's this lifestyle, and see you with loads of women around you. You don't look like an idiot, you look like a loyal woman, as you should.

There's no way I would allow you to go on all these girls' holidays. That's very disrespectful. I'm a territorial man. That does not mean jealous or insecure. It means I care about you. Anything I care about, I want to protect and love.

It doesn't matter how much you love me back. It doesn't matter if no man on earth could tuck you into bed. It's not about that. It's about the disrespect.

It's okay for you to disrespect me. It's not disrespectful for me to go on holidays or go work with my boys. What if my holidays are work trips? No, no, no. That's impossible. You're not running the world like I am.

That's bullshit. - How do you know? - I know these things, don't lie to me. - This is the sound of being put in. - Don't lie to me.

It's absolutely disrespectful for a woman to be with a man and then want to run around with her girls and pretend she's still single. She shouldn't even want to. The fact she even asked to go in and of itself is disrespectful. I shouldn't have to tell her not to do that. Listen, I will call all of my girls and go on a girls holiday just to piss you off, mate. What if I run on holiday twice a year with the girls? You wouldn't want to.

I definitely would. No you wouldn't, no you're with me, you don't want to. We go on holidays together, we go places together. When I have to go places with just the boys, you stay home, you do not go on girls holidays, it's disrespectful. I find it disrespectful, it's like a slap in the face. How is it? Because why would you want to do that if you're with a man you love? You wouldn't want to do that, I shouldn't even have to tell you not to do that. So you're gonna have me just at home looking stupid whilst you're doing that lifestyle? How do you look stupid? If you're just gonna go up and do like a girl. You're obsessed with people thinking you look stupid. No, people will look at you and go wow, she is a loyal wife. But that's for you.

- You're doing your ego. - Obeys. - But this is for your, it's not about obeying. - Yeah, it is. She loves her man. She doesn't need to go on one of these girls' holidays to Ibiza, run around being a hoe. She's over all that shit. - How about being a hoe? It could just be like women just go on holiday to have fun. - And men will try and sleep with you. - So?

- So does it mean the women are? - Correct. - That's just what I'm saying. - Agree. No, no, agreed. - No, but you're like a warped reality. - It's not a warped reality, 'cause we agree. - Yes, you do. - We agree. - Okay. - No, you're not moving on to the next question. - Yes, we are moving on. - No, we agree. We agree. You're right. They're gonna try, and you're not gonna let them. I agree. If I walk out to the car park, it doesn't matter how good the locks are on my car, if someone's trying to break into my car, am I gonna let them keep trying? No.

No, it's disrespectful, it's mine, and no one comes near it because it's mine. No one's gonna try and steal it. For me to put it in a place where people are gonna try and steal it is nothing less than irresponsible. My female is taken care of and has a fantastic life. She does not need to go on holidays to f***ing Mykonos and be a hoe on some random table. Some random table because her friend met some dude on f***ing Tinder.

No, stay home. Stay home. But it's not, but this is like, I feel like you're enabling this whole controlling and manipulating... It's not controlling! Yes, it is! To say to a... To say to a... Yeah, but the way you just said it...

Yeah, with that kind of like... Tenacity. Yeah, like for me it's just, yeah. It's not controlling to say to your woman, if you are holding, we'll go... Yeah, the way I said it angered you because everything I say is deliberately designed to anger you.

It's you have this power and control issue and I feel like it's just mad. It's not power and control. Like girls going on holiday with their friends is not an unreasonable thing. It's a normal thing. Women should be able to do it. In some relationships. Okay. But in my relationship. Okay, just not in this one.

Yeah, correct. What would you do if we just met and we've had a one night stand and I've got pregnant

The baby's innocent, right? I'd look after the child. It depends on a lot of scenarios afterwards. I'd make sure the child's financially taken care of. If you were prepared to be a loyal woman, I'd make sure you were taken care of.

If you're gonna start sleeping with other dudes, whatever, whatever, then it's your problem. Baby's your problem, it's all your problem. But if you're gonna be loyal to me still, then I'd take care of you.

But if you're going to start saying, oh, no, I've got a new man now, cool, he can pay the bills, and it's not my problem.

No, when you have a child that's your responsibility. No, but if you want to stop sleeping with other dudes then it's his problem.

It's an accident, right? So you shouldn't be punished in life and the child's absolutely not innocent. I would take care of you completely.

and I'd take care of the child completely. I'd always want to see the child. But if you were to say now, after let's say a year or two years, whatever, I have a new man now, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. I'm like, all right, cool. Kids with me twice, two days a week, whatever it is. I'll make sure the kids looked after. But I'm not financing you in another man's lifestyle. I'm not just sending money to your bank at random and just making sure that you and this dude, whoever he is, are going on holiday and whatever, whatever. I'll take care of the child while he or she is with me. And I'll always see the child. But if you have a new man, you have a new man. You ain't my problem anymore. You got to pay your own rent. You ain't my problem.

of

responsibility there. It's not asking you to pay my whole rent, I'm just saying. - Okay, some sort, yeah, but some sort is a reasonable balance. - I agree with what you're saying. - But they're gonna come along and say, oh, you're rich, you can be 10 G's a month, and you're fucking some next dude. And the answer's no. - Okay, but with that scenario, how do you know women?

aren't going to try and trap you. I'm not a fool.

Not full? No.

Good question. All right.

Yeah, I do.

You don't? Do you like receiving it? Absolutely.

Not another one.

Yeah.

Don't, my dear, listen. It's been a long evening and it's been very enjoyable.

Let's not start talking about how men and women are different again.

You know, you're yes, I'm no, it's fine.

We're opposites, okay, it's how it should be.

women are supposed to do certain things that men can't do. Women are very talented, beautiful creatures. You can give life, we can't do that. It's fine. You can give head, we can't do that. This is not

for the G's. I don't know who's out here doing this.

But it ain't me.

Like, I'm sure there's plenty of men out there who will do it. Do you not want to please a woman, though? There's plenty of ways to please a woman without doing that.

That's a big factor. That's a good one, essentially. Maybe for you.

I think that it's possible to please a woman without it. Yeah, it can be. Okay, so I don't think it's something that is conducive to a healthy relationship. It's not something I'm very interested in.

Personally, maybe I'm crazy.

fun. I go crazy. Yes.

No.

You wouldn't.

- Hello. - Why? - Why the would I? - You might have maintained like a good relationship. - What? What is this? These lies in my... - How's it a lie? It could be like a good woman.

Let's talk about masculine and feminine friendship.

I understand why you'd be friends with an ex, because you can gain things.

Right? You're friends with that man. He might, I don't know, occasionally buy you some dinner, or he might pick you up, or he might help you. Because he's my friend. Yeah, because he's your friend. Correct.

- Yeah, no things, just a friend. - Yeah, he's just a friend, he'll do some things for you.

As a woman, what things will you do for him? I'm here. I'm a really good friend, actually. Chat shit on fucking WhatsApp. Anything else?

No, I saw them, checking on them. Like the things that I feel like men need.

like we do as women. - Men will do real things for you. A female friend won't do shit for you, besides try and get attention out of you, that's it. It's a waste of time to have female friends as a man. Complete waste of time. They don't give you anything.

Being friends with an ex, I completely understand why she would do it. The man's going to get horny, the man's going to want to message her now and again, the man's going to want to bang her now and again, the man might do favors for her, x, y, z, but she ain't going to do nothing for him. So any man who is friends with a woman is giving his attention without retrieving and receiving what he wants from a female.

which is sex. So it's a mistake. It's a mistake to make. If you give something away for free, it has no value. My attention has value. I don't give my attention to people who don't give me what I want in return.

It's a waste of time, what you gonna give me?

Advice? Do you think I need advice from some ex?

The f***? What are your advice? She's gonna do nothing but sit there and go, "Hey babe, send me the old f***ing selfie trying to get attention again." I see her as a liability. I see her as something for me to pay money for, for someone to pick up, someone to defend if we randomly get an attack on the street, someone to give a s*** about without any exchange. What did she give me? Exchange. Advice. Advice? What the f***? What dude is getting advice from chicks? What dude is getting advice from girls? Any man who sits there and goes, "My life ain't going right. Let me text some chick."

He's a dumbass. He's a dumbass. How is he dumbass? Because you should go to your boys, your team. No, because boys do this weird toxic alpha. It ain't toxic alpha.

It really isn't, my dear. It really is. It really is. No. If a man has a serious issue in his life,

He can't go to a woman.

If a man goes to a woman with his issue, it's not a serious issue. I feel sad my ex left me some dumb shit. But women can give a... They're trying to kill me. I need a gun now. You don't text some chick in your phone.

You text your boys because only your men who can help you. I'm in Ukraine. The Russians have invaded. I need a way out. Who's got a car?

"Oh, Cheyenne's coming. Do-do-do-do-do. Peugeot 206." Get fucked. Don't lie to me. Women can't help you. Women cannot help you. That's an extreme situation. Life's extreme.

As a man on the edge, life is extreme, my dear. Life is extreme. Yes. Life is extreme. That was no. That was yes. Don't lie to me.

Thank you.

Alright, okay.

It's not about just advice. My point is that when a man and women are... a woman are friends, I think the woman extracts a lot from the friendship and she gains a lot of things. And I don't think the man gains things to an equal value. But can I just explain, there's actually a lot of women that don't want anything from men.

Why are you his friend then? Because sometimes there's men that possess

Amazing qualities and you just want to make them greater. That's what women do. We add value to anything we do But maybe just the women that you're surrounded by no probably give me that warped perception. Maybe they're shit women wrong But the women that I know are good women that add value to everyone's life. I'm women women add value completely I agree my point is that if you're a man whose life is in order and many men who many men don't have a life in order right? If you're a man and your life's not in order then maybe you can get advice from a chick right because there's these guys

or their chick to tell them to stop playing video games, or they need their chick to say, "Maybe you should go to the gym." Like a jackass, right? They need mothers. But if you're a G and your life's in order, right? You're a G.

if you are a G.

and your life is in order, I'm not saying I am. If your life's in order, everything's going well, you're making your money, you're in good shape, you got a good network, everything's on track, you did it all before you met some chick, it's all on track. The train is on the track, it's heading towards success.

You don't need female advice, right? Most of the time when a man and a woman are friends, the female is extracting attention from the friendship, which I don't blame her for, but females love attention.

I don't know, but why wouldn't they, right? They're extracting attention from the friendship. They might get picked up, they might get rides, they might get bought dinner.

And on top of that, the man still has certain masculine responsibilities, right? If someone comes up and snatches her purse, he has to run after the dude, risk his life now, risk getting stabbed for some chick who doesn't suck dick.

blah blah, whereas what does the man get from the woman? Advice, is that it? A woman can't give the man anything outside of a romantic relationship. Inside of a romantic relationship she can give him

She can give him love, she can give him care, she can give him, protect his spirit, she can add peace to his life. Yeah. That's what we can add. As a romantic partner. No, but women can just do that as a friend. No, they can't. Okay.

That is a lie. You lied to me. A woman who is not romantic with a man cannot add genuine peace to that man's life. Yes they can! Yes they can! Fucking lie! Yes they can! Who are you lying to? Okay, but this is what I'm saying, but you just think women are only good for like,

just if they're there sexually. - It's not about being there sexually. - Yeah, but it is because they've just, like you've just said-- - A woman's job is to spiritually protect her man.

I mean you can do it with a friend, you can also do that. Listen, I pray for all of my friends.

perception of women is messed up because maybe it's just the certain women that you know. Stop trying to pretend I know bad women. No, but I'm saying that's clearly what it is.

That's clearly what it is. No, it's not. Because there's plenty of other good women. And this is why for me it's exhausting explaining this to you because there's so many good women. I can't.

obtain anything I'm interested in from a friendship with a female.

It's no hard feelings to girls. I don't have any female friends, not one. So it's just more because men would want to fuck their friends?

Men do want to fuck their friends. That's a separate... Okay, so that's what it is really. No, that's a separate argument.

That's a completely separate argument that we can go into if you want. Every single man wants to fuck his female friend because if all these girls go, "He's just my friend." Yeah, put on 20 stones, see if he wants to talk to you. Fuck no. Oh yeah, protect your spirit when you're fat. Oh, you can't do it anymore. You lost your spiritual powers, now you're ugly. Isn't that funny? How'd that work out? It's bullshit, man. The man's trying to get laid and the chick's enjoying attention. And I'm telling you that as a man, you obtain nothing from a female friendship.

You obtain nothing but responsibility without authority. You're gonna sit there and say, I'm her friend, I'm gonna take care of her, I'm gonna hang out with her, I'm gonna take her to the cinema and buy her a ticket, and she's gonna go home and fuck some other dude. Stupid. I'm not saying I won't be polite to be, hi, nice to meet you, good to see you, bye. I'm never gonna be like, hey, let's go for dinner.

We're just friends.

Why? But friend dates is a thing. This is something... No, because this is... My brain! No, but this is what I'm saying to you because it needs to be normalized. Because if you don't have any female friends, you're just basing all your philosophies on just women that you don't even talk to. Men who pretend to be friends with girls are just trying to get laid because there's nothing else to do with a friendship with a girl but trying to get laid. It's just some beta male bullshit trying to pretend to get laid. If they were G, they'd just try, she'd say no and then move on with their life. No, they wouldn't. Yes, they would. Okay, I've got a long list of good male friends.

- I disagree to disagree on this. - Put on 10 stone and text them, good luck.

Andrew, what's the war room?

The War Room is an organization I run.

for individuals who are trying to escape the matrix.

So can women join it? Women love the Matrix.

So what's your matrix?

No, the Matrix.

Explain that. I don't understand. Have you seen the movie?

Yeah. So we're living inside of a simulation, right? We're all slaves on some level.

And I have an organization which helps people achieve the independence from the systems which are designed to constrain us. So I can join it. No, women love control.

Women love control and women love systemization. But so do you. I love control? What aspects of my life do I enjoy having control? Well, the way I've been analyzing this date,

OK, analyze it, yeah, go on. I'm interested. I'm just saying it's a very power dynamic control thing. I like having sovereignty. I like having control of my own life. I don't like anyone having control over me.

And that's what The Matrix does. Whereas females, I don't think, have that same...

mindset towards the world. I don't think women wake up and realize that they live inside of a large penal colony and need to find a way to escape. I don't think they do that. Yeah, we do. Do you? Yeah.

What enslaves humanity? There's a lot of people that

are very conscious to life in situations and stuff. So I feel like it's very small minded for you to just think that women can't join your matrix. - Well it's not small minded because it's mine. So firstly, I'm allowed to do whatever I want. And secondly, I think that

"My organization runs best without female participants." And it's not saying that the female in and of herself will be a bad person or an unworthy participant. I just think the organization is better if it's purely male. For the same reason you don't have women on the front line. Like, when it's all men,

you focus on the task. When there's a chick around,

There's some showing off, there's some trying to impress the chick. It just dilutes the efficiency. But I feel like you would attract entitled women. Maybe to a degree, but I also think that like everything in life there's balance. I would completely understand a woman who said "I won't date broke men." But a woman who would sit here and say "I want X money" I'd already get fucked.

So it's a balance, right? I understand why a woman wouldn't want to date a man with no money, but I also would never allow a girl to treat me like a sugar daddy. What is your type physically? There's all types of beautiful women. Okay, your type. Beautiful's beautiful. Beautiful's beautiful. Blonde is beautiful. Brunette is beautiful. There's hot brunettes. There's hot blondes. I don't have a type.

to say that I only

like one particular type of woman is small minded. I don't think any man thinks that way anyway.

Maybe we have a preference, but I don't believe in a particular type.

Do you believe your own bullshit?

I don't think anything I've said to you so far is bullshit. Maybe the shoe thing. That's about it. The rest of it's completely true.

Some of your views are very extreme, a bit misogynistic. - Are they? - And there's a little bit of an ego. - So if you had a boyfriend, would you have male friends? - I would.

But you've just got to know how to have boundaries with friends.

I'm not going to be calling that friend.

past 8 o'clock. If your man said I'm uncomfortable you having male friends and you love me and we're together forever and we're about to have a child about to get married whatever,

Stop talking to them all, would you stop? No.

I believe in compromise but not that because now it's a control issue.

any day, as long as I make you feel like you're my man, you're my king and everything else like that, that's not on me if you're insecure that I have male friends. That's a you problem. Do you think that's insecurity? Yes, it is. It's a you problem. I don't think that's insecurity.

Territorial maybe, but not insecurity.

- Andrew, how do you think you've done on the date?

I think that I've

pissed you off at least four times.

At least.

And I think that I could have said everything in a far nicer way. In terms of purely attracting you, I don't think I've done that well. But it's been an interesting conversation.

And I think that us both having an interesting conversation, and you've made me think a few times. I hope I've said things that made you think a few times. And I think that's more important than just purely the attraction.

So I've enjoyed myself.

Me too.

Good. That was hard work. We actually agree on everything. I was trying my best to say things in a way that she couldn't allow herself to agree with them, but we actually agree on everything. I think she's smart enough to want a man who's in charge of his life and by extension would be in charge of the relationship and by extension would be in charge of her. But if you say it in that way, it upsets her. I don't even know. My mind's a bit like he was just draining, exhausting, like men like that that actually think like that and actually believe what they're saying. Like it's

There was a point when I wanted to say sniper out now on all digital platforms. I didn't say that yet. I wanted to bring that one out and I didn't.

But besides that, we did good. That's the only answer I missed. No.

I would not see Andrew again. Do I look like I'm going to see him again? No. Yeah, exactly. I'm a busy man. I'm a busy man. Actually, no, I will. Do you know what? I will see him again because I'm going to prove my point that men need women as friends. How about that? I said some things she agrees with and some things that deep down she knows are true, but I send them in a way which were deliberately abrasive and offended her, so I think she's going to give me a six and a half or a seven. Right, so this guy, he's egotistical.

And he thinks he's a bit too nice. However, I feel like he did have a good conversation. He is a man that knows what he wants, he obviously gets what he wants, so you can't knock it. And he looks nice, so I'm going to give him a six.

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