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I have a PhD, which means I have a pimp and hose degree.
So basically,
I work with lots of women in my job.
I've always had lots of women
experienced every type of woman. I've experienced, I know the game. I can sit down with a girl and after the first date, I'll tell you,
inside out issues.
girlfriend material. She's a ho.
I can just read it. I just know. I've had every kind.
So I understand the game.
All women do the same thing.
There's a couple of universal traits amongst females, and one of them is how they argue.
And women have a very, very
It's an obvious argument tactic, but they all do it exactly the same. And the tactic is subversion.
So with a female, if you have a point to discuss,
Her aim is not to prove her point right.
Because she can't.
because 99% of the time she's wrong.
So her aim is to muddle the point
or switch points
or fuck up the argument so that it's very difficult for you to lay out a logical answer.
If you say two plus two is four,
that she loses the argument.
She goes, "Yeah, but what if?"
What if the plus-- what if we turn to the side and it's the times?
or what if it's minus four, and just starts adding in irrelevant bullshit. You're like, no.
2 plus 2 is 4. In this particular circumstance, 2 plus 2 is 4.
Well, her main aim is to subvert
is to just completely and utterly
Fuck with the argument so it's no longer straightforward.
So I said this to someone the other day, I saw making a video about it. When I argue with women,
which I try not to do because it's a waste of time because
Unlike men, women are not interested in the truth.
When you argue with a man, you're looking for truth. Women don't care about the truth.
Most of the time they're arguing you for attention.
or for some other fucking emotional bullshit. They don't give a fuck if they're right or wrong.
A man is embarrassed to argue a point if he's wrong.
Women are happy to argue if they're wrong.
They don't have any shame. They don't have any honors. They don't give a fuck. I just want to argue. I don't care if I'm wrong.
I don't care if I look stupid. I just want to argue.
So when I argue with females, I said,
I only ask yes or no questions.
What do you mean? What do you mean what I mean?
"Yes or no questions."
because they can't subvert the argument and they can't dilute the argument.
and they can't add to the argument and they can't change subject
with yes or no questions.
So when a bitch wants to get fresh, I say, cool, you want to talk about this? We're going to talk about this.
But if you really believe you have a point,
I'm going to ask you yes or no questions. You can answer yes or no. If you're right,
It should be very easy for you to prove yourself right, answering yes or no questions.
And when they either refuse to do that or by the third question, sit there and don't want to answer you.
I'll...
Well, I didn't. So talk about some other shit.
That's how you just break it down. So look, you can't answer yes or no questions because you're completely and utterly wrong.
With females, you have to find a way to keep them on one track. Because it doesn't matter how many times you're going to start using language and talking, they're just going to fucking mix it all up.
and talk about some other dumb shit.
If the woman won't answer yes or no questions, you've only got one tool as a man. And I say this a lot. There's a couple guys who I'm talking to.
a couple of dudes who I coach on how to get girls on this shit.
as a man, you only have
one weapon
You only have one currency. This is not the olden days. You can't keep the fuck out of the hole anymore
You can't fucking even shout at a girl.
You only have one weapon.
And that weapon
is that females like attention.
And if she likes you, she wants your attention because your attention is high value.
The only thing you can do is shut that shit off.
All you've got a woman starts getting fresh. Okay. I'm gonna be stupid. I
This X, Y, Z, true or false?
Well, true. XYZ, yes or no?
Well, yeah, so then you're wrong.
and they either sit there and go, okay,
or they don't reply and calm down.
Or if they get too fresh, yeah, but you know what? Blah, blah, blah, blah. They start getting too fresh. The only thing you can do is just not reply.
- Stop answering.
Just cut the attention off completely.
because what they really want is the attention.
It's too easy to get in a trap with women, and I've seen it a million times where
especially if you're a busy man.
I'm telling you, I'm a busy dude.
So if you're out there, you're hustling, you're making money, you're busy,
you don't often text your girl that much because you're busy.
So when she wants attention, she knows
She starts to learn, "Well, if we have an argument, he'll sit here and text me for two hours arguing with me."
But if we're not arguing, he's busy working.
So the only way she can get your attention...
is through a negative path.
And then what are you going to end up having is a girl who starts arguments all the fucking time.
'cause she wants attention.
What you need to do is train her.
And you gotta be, even when you're busy, it's a bit annoying.
When things are going good and smooth, you gotta give her lots of attention. Message her all the time, ask how she is, da da da da. But the second she becomes a dickhead, boom, cut it off.
And I don't mean, you can't tell her you're cutting off. You can't be like, I'm not going to message you until you calm down. No, none of that shit.
Just...
fucking ignore her.
Let her sit there on her own.
for two fucking days.
If you're worried about during those two days she's going to fuck someone else or some stupid shit, then you shouldn't be with her anyway.
So let her sit there for two days. And eventually when you decide to talk to her again, say, yeah, you were being rude. I don't, I don't have time for that in my life. I'm busy. I'm running a business. I'm busy.
And let her learn the hard way.
When I act nice, I get attention. When I act stupid, I don't get attention.
That's the simplest way to get a girlfriend to behave themselves.
I've had guys say to me, "I'm out here trying to find a good girl."
that ain't so i don't believe in the finding of a girl you can find a good blueprint of a girl
You can find a girl who's susceptible
to your
way of life and your thinking.
But in general, as a man, if you want a woman to be a particular way, you ain't going to find it.
You got to make it.
You're not going to find a woman who's a certain way. You're going to make a woman be a certain way.
So I've seen a million times before where dudes give their girl the most attention during arguments.
And the rest of the time when everything's cool, they're like, OK, love you. I'm busy.
That ain't the way to do it. You gotta flip reverse it. It's a bit annoying.
I'll flip reverse it because she has to know when she gets fresh, that tension shuts off.
Literally, when my girl wants to step to me, the first thing she says is,
Look.
Please don't ignore me, bot.
Because she knows she has to ask at the beginning with a please.
Because she knows if I don't like what she's going to say, I wouldn't even just fuck her reply to her. Fuck you. I don't have to talk to you. I don't have to explain myself to you.
four-time kickboxing world champion self-made millionaire.
six foot three sexy as a motherfucker. I don't have to explain
shit to you.
I don't give a fuck what you found out.
But please don't ignore me. Please don't ignore me. But you fucked this girl. Yeah.
I did.
and I don't know why it's anything to do with you,
because you're still my main chick.
That's a bit on the side, whatever, whatever. If you want to talk about it, we'll talk about it in my own time. And if you ask me really nicely and politely,
I'll explain to you how good her titties were.
If you're going to come to me getting fresh...
You're gonna get nothing but fucking
Blanked.
That's how you have to run your shit.
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