Transcript
Body language. Body language is how people communicate without speaking.
Since the dawn of human time,
people have
always communicate without speaking, and a man's role-- and I'm assuming you're a man, because I doubt a female would've bought this.
A man's role is very, very specific in his body language.
In this course, you're going to see a video where I kind of do an overview on body language, and I basically say,
being combative
But I'm going to go into that into more detail in this video.
The reason I say being combative is because being combative is the most important body language which exists
which you can portray to other men and to women.
Because this is the only body language which was important for
millennia,
For human existence, the only important body language was the body language that you were not an easy target. It attracted women.
And it made men respect you.
So we're going to talk about the broad basics of body language and we're going to do some little tips and tricks and
overall.
So the first thing I want you to understand is
Combative does not mean walking around, swaying your shoulders like this.
Combative means looking alert.
I think Jordan Peterson said something about this.
But I don't think his body language is particularly alpha. In fact, I don't think the world has many alpha role models. If you name the right wing role models, like Milo and Jordan Peterson, all these people are just weirdos. None of them are particularly overtly alpha, besides Trump himself.
But Trump is a great guy to study body language-wise.
You want a body language lesson? Watch Trump.
People that play games.
Anyway.
You have to look combative. So to look combative, it's basic things.
It means be ready for a fight. That does not mean project aggression.
It means be ready for a fight. So if you were walking down the road,
You're walking down the road.
Are you more ready for a fight with your hands in your pockets?
or your hands outside of your pockets.
Or you're more ready for a fight if you're staring at your phone with your head down.
Or with your head up.
with your shoulders back, with your posture correct.
What I'm going to teach you in this course is not just going to be do this, do this, do this. It's how to think about body language so that you're overtly aware of how you're acting.
You need to be aware of how you act.
So you need to have a correct posture. You need to sit up straight, sit properly.
You need to have your hands out of your pockets. You need to look where you're going and not look down.
Not be distracted.
not look like a victim.
This is extremely important when projecting to men, and it's also important when projecting to women. So we're going to go into that in detail in this course.
So, I know I just mentioned Trump, but we also can't forget about Putin, because Putin, he was KGB trained.
He knows exactly how to act.
So when someone's talking to him,
and he wants to make it clear he doesn't give a fuck what they say.
He will, for example, lean back in his chair.
So Putin will sit there and you'll start talking to him and he'll sit.
This is Putin's I don't give a fuck. This is Putin's I'm not listening.
Many traditional body language courses will teach you, I'll have you cross your arms,
"you're not receptive, this is true,
You know, like this shows you're not open, you're not receptive, you're crossing your arms, etc. But it's much more subtle moves like leaning back in your chair.
Leaning back in your chair is a great one.
I use it all the time. So they'll sit there, they'll start talking to me. But I don't like why they have to sell it back.
I'll still look at them. I'll lean back to my trip. I'll look directly at them.
Thank you.
And they'll know I'll fuck you.
So I've upset him somehow.
So I'll make that clear.
So we're going to go over a few things. The first thing we're talking about is being trusted and listened to.
Now, if you've bought my other courses, you know that my brain is a mega hive
of
unlimited potential.
Petrabytes of... Is Petrabyte even a thing?
No, okay. We'll go back then. If you've bought my other courses, you'll know that my brain is unrivaled by anyone else on this planet.
terabytes upon terabytes.
information from fuck knows where. I'm just a genius.
So like all my other videos, I'm just going to be talking. Bang, information's just going to be coming at you. You need to sit there, slow it down, watch it over and over again, decipher it.
and put some things in action. 'Cause I guarantee there's a lot you're doing wrong already.
right now.
Don't move.
Your posture right now, where are your hands? Are you sitting up straight?
Do you even look? Are you sitting correctly? Or are you all like in your chair? Maybe you're already making mistakes. You don't know.
So the first thing we're gonna talk about is how to be listened to and trustworthy.
I have been to court six times, and every time I've walked. And I've never used a lawyer, and I've represented myself. And the reason for that is because I, one, I speak very clearly, very precisely.
and I know exactly how to use the human language.
But secondly is my body language.
So sometimes in court,
You need to look
Believable.
You need to look innocent.
And to do this, you make yourself appear less aggressive.
Big men have this problem.
Small men are very concerned about looking big, whereas a big man, in many situations, you need to look less intimidating.
If my car breaks down and I want to knock on someone's
door to use the phone. I know that's super old school.
And I know that's how people get murdered in every single movie. That's just an example.
But if I knock on the door, people don't answer the door to me.
When me and Tristan knock on doors, they look outside and go, "What the fuck?"
Who the fuck is two 6'5 dudes at the door? No chick is opening that door. Me and my brother used to have a job where we used to do door-to-door sales a long time ago.
and we had to quit the job, because no one would answer the door to us.
These two massive guys just... people are like, "What the fuck?" No one has to... out the window, "What?"
Can I sell you? Nah. Get the fuck away from my house.
So you have to try and change your word language to appear less aggressive.
So we'd actively slunk or hold a clipboard or something to just make yourself seem smaller.
So when I was in court, and they were accusing me of things I didn't fucking do, but even though I was innocent, of course, you have to look innocent.
So you don't look innocent by looking aggressive.
You look at a sin by looking smaller.
You make yourself seem smaller.
you'd add in stammering to your language. So I never say um and ah, ever.
Probably like, "Uh, yeah, well, I don't think it's fair." Uh, uh, uh. And you'd almost, in many ways, see yourself appear less intelligent.
Not less intelligent in a stupid, he's dumb, he did it way. In a very like,
I couldn't hurt anyone. Women are experts at this. Women do this the best. Watch a female get pulled over by the police.
Watch her just start going, "Oh, really? Playing stupid is a great way to play innocent."
And it's very, very effective.
What you'll find in body language sometimes the biggest result is when you can juxtapose them against each other.
So while I was in court, they'd ask me questions.
Like, oh no, I don't even really know how that works, to be honest. I don't.
Don't really know.
I've added in these little delays. I deliberately slow my speech down.
But then when I had to make a point, I'd completely flip it.
and I'd be very adamant and direct with my words. Even now, and even in all my paid speech videos, you'll notice how I use my hands.
If I have a point to make, I use my hands to make the point.
I direct the point with my hands. You're going to notice me doing all the time now. Something I do on accident.
But if I want to make a point, I'll say something like, "And the reason for this, the reason your mom has a big ass
It's because she eats too much.
I'll do things like this. I'll explain the reason. I'll get your attention in my hands. And then I'll directly give you the reason. I'll put it into your brain.
I'll put it in with my hands.
This is something I do completely by natural. I don't even have to think about it anymore, but it's something I did learn.
And it's amazing with women.
It's great when you're arguing with them. And they sit there and be like, blah, blah, blah, blah. I didn't fucking fuck her.
Be quiet.
I haven't hit her, but the physical action makes them sit there and go, okay. Just be very aware and very avert with your hands.
Like I said, this course is just going to be knowledge flying at you.
So when you talk, where are your hands?
Where are they? How do you use them?
Your hands, you should be extremely expressive with your hands, especially if you're a man.
Before I was a Kickboxing World Champion, I worked in sales.
And I had the best sales record in the fucking...
company, obviously.
And a lot of that was down to body language.
I would sit there in front of somebody. I sold TV advertising.
I'll sit there and say, you need TV advertising. You go to sit, yeah, you do good now, but in the future, you're going to need TV advertising.
is the future of advertising.
You're going to need it.
I'll tell people you ain't got a choice. You better buy it today. You need this.
I sit there and go, "Okay, well, let me look at your current strategy and then maybe I can improve it." Nah, fuck that garbage.
If you're a salesman and you're watching this now, you better start telling people they need it.
You can't live without this. You need this today.
I understand my industry. No disrespect, you're a diaper company, or you're a fucking water company. You understand water, you know more about water than me. I understand advertising.
See what I've done there.
You understand war, that's your thing. Advertising is my thing.
Don't tell me about your advertising strategy, 'cause I don't fucking care. Advertising is my thing. It's mine. I own it.
And if I say you need something, you better buy it.
So you understand war, war is your industry. Advertising is my industry, I've been in this industry for a long time, and I'm telling you, with your current strategy, you're having success now, but you won't have success in the future, and you're gonna need a different form of advertising.
That's exactly how I'd be. People would be sitting there going, oh, OK, sorry.
So be very, very careful with your hands and how you use things. I am very good at that. You, me,
this
If all these things are learned, you have to adapt your own style. But you need to sit there and think consciously when you speak, what are you doing with your hands?
If you're going to sit there and talk with your hands in your pockets,
You're not going to be nearly as convincing.
If I want to sit there and I want to come across as...
There's the old mafia boss, you know, you can sit and be like, with your hands.
in one place.
and just use your eyes instead.
That works.
But that's a far more, that's the kind of body language you use when you don't really want to talk anymore.
If I'm about to have someone shot,
And they come in to apologize to me.
before I have them shot in the head.
I won't be moving my hands. I'll be listening to them like this.
Because I don't want to listen to them and I don't want to talk. This is, I don't really give a fuck anymore. Like this, same.
Parents of Caution don't really care.
When I met Donald Trump Jr. in Trump Tower, I was super aware of his body language. What Trump did is something I've never seen before, Trump Jr.
We sat down and we started talking. He sat like this.
with his hands open on the table.
I don't know where he learned that from, but I'm sure he was tall.
We were having a normal conversation. We had coffees. We sat down at the table. It was a round table, not like this. And he sat down and he said like this.
which I thought was quite interesting.
I've actually never seen anyone else do that before. So it kind of threw me a bit. I thought maybe the reason he was taught that is because it's so unusual.
Because I read people's body language in every other position. This-- that you've seen it all. I've never seen this.
really ever. So that was interesting.
So first thing you do is be very overtly aware of how you use your hands when you speak.
If you want to direct something, if you want to be believed, if you want to be convincing, your hands have to be involved in that process.
When I was in my police interviews, once again, I would use my hands.
overtly.
And I would sit there and say, I actually said in some of my police tapes, and when I get them back, when I'm finally...
cleared of all charges, even though it's been on for four years.
I get the tapes back. I'm going to release them on Twitter. It's going to be the best thing ever. Because I made these police look like fucking fools.
But I would say to them,
In the tape, I would say,
very hard. I said it the same. I said,
Do you have a camera in here?
And they'd be like, oh yeah, we do. I'd say, okay, I want this for the camera. I don't want this for the tape. I want this for the camera. I am innocent. I am innocent. Me, I've done nothing wrong.
Say innocent with your hands off.
I'm innocent. I'm innocent. They're different things. I'm innocent. I want this on camera. For the tape, reference the time. What time is it?
Point at someone when you need something.
5:15? 5:15! Look at the day, 5:15, 24th of November. Look, I've done nothing wrong.
I send this shit directly to the camera.
I've referenced it off the tape.
Body language makes a huge, huge difference.
And basically, if you want to be believed or trusted, in my experience, which is fucking vast, you need to use your hands effectively.
I've given you some tips on how I do it. You have to adapt your own style. Like everything in the world, if you completely replicate someone else's style, it comes across as unnatural and it doesn't work. You need your own style.
You can't be exactly the same as me and I can't be exactly the same as you.
Same as boxing or fighting. I could teach you how to do jab cross, but everyone does it a little bit different. Everyone has a slightly different style.
So you have to adapt your own style. What you need to do is be overtly aware of,
If you're aware
of things, you'll pick up on things and you'll change things.
So the first thing is you use your hands more effectively, especially to be trusted and listened to.
Right next.
Thank you.
How to speak convincingly.
Just be convincing the law if you probably already know these things.
You have to talk loud, you have to talk clear. And this is another thing you need to learn. I'm actually tempted,
to do a course specifically on oration,
But you need to learn to speak effectively.
The way you interact with the world outside of your little digital keyboard and your Twitter bullshit is with your voice.
I know you're paying attention to my hands now.
is with your voice.
If your voice is meek,
Lord, if your words aren't clear,
Or if you don't say what you mean effectively, then you're not going to be taken seriously.
People take me seriously because when I speak, I speak with a conviction. They sit there and go, this motherfucker knows.
The way he's talking, he knows what he's talking about.
And I do.
Let's sit here and go, oh, okay, well, um...
So for um, fuck that. Um and ah is something that you need to forget instantly. I don't care if you have to train yourself, I don't care if you have to look in the mirror.
Get rid of um, get rid of ah, get rid of gaps.
It just completely destroys your entire image. That shit needs to go. And it's something that can be learned. And when I sit there and listen to people, oh, well, yeah...
Well, yesterday we went out and then um, it's like, what the fuck do you mean um? I went out and then um, well you don't remember what you did yesterday? How slow is your fucking brain? You look like a moron. 99% of people look like idiots because they don't pay attention to how they speak.
So the oration is extremely important. You get rid of ums, you get rid of ahs, you get rid of this bullshit.
It's one of the first things you have to do to speak convincingly. Second thing is with the hands, the body language.
The third thing is you have to be, if you're standing or you're sitting, regardless, you have to have a presence as a person.
Nobody believes in nobody.
So if you're sitting in a room, you need to be overtly taking up space as a man, especially. They call it mansplaining. That's what all the feminists call it.
He's mansplaining. He's taking up space. I'm a man. I'm a fucking man. I've got space. My space. It's mine.
I have something to say and you're gonna listen.
You want to be believed it's a combination of things. But a lot of people just want to sit in their little chair. Well, I was thinking that for the progress report, maybe-- it's garbage.
Also, there's nothing wrong with talking too loud. Outside of shouting, fucking talk loud.
Conquer the room. You're gonna piss some people off, but guess who you're gonna piss off? You're gonna piss off the betas.
Never going to piss off the boss.
Like I said, when I used to have a job, boss loved me.
I'd sit in a meeting and just be like, look, here's how I sell.
I was half yelling. I don't know about what the other guys are doing, but what I do is I tell them they better buy it today.
The boss is sitting there and go, this fucking guy.
But I had the best sales record. If I sat down and go, well, I don't know how you do it, but what I sometimes do is,
This is bullshit.
fucking scream at people sitting there going, no, this, that, bank, direct.
Don't be afraid of the attention you're going to get. If you have alpha body language, if you have serious body language and you project, you're going to attract a whole bunch of attention.
If you're shy, you're not going to want the attention. It's going to impact your psyche. It's going to impact how you portray yourself.
Forget the attention.
Don't worry about it. It's coming. There's no other way to project yourself. Project yourself in a way where you attract attention. Be loud.
Fuck all wrong with it. Be loud.
It's exactly the same with lion.
Learning how to be convincing and how to be believable is the same when you lie.
Now, people say when you lie, people look away from the eyes. In my experience, what happens?
when people lie, is they actually know this, that everyone's been told they look away, and they look at you more,
trying to prove they're not lying.
The easiest way to lie is to not change your body language in any way from when you're telling the truth. A polygraph test... how does a polygraph test work?
You can't just plug yourself in and say lie or true. It only knows by comparing you to a baseline.
First they ask you your name.
They ask you questions you tell the truth to, and then they compare it when you lie, and they see the difference.
Well, body language is no fucking different. If you know you're going to have to lie to somebody,
You need to sit there before the conversation even starts, and talk about something which is easy for you to talk about, and be smart enough to be speaking with one side of your brain, and with the other side of your brain, measuring, "Where are my eyes? Where are my hands? How am I standing? How am I sitting?"
And then when it starts coming to lie, you don't alter shit.
If you're already looking them in the eyes, continue to look them in the eyes. If you're not looking at them, don't.
If your hands are a certain way, keep them there.
You only get detected on lies when you alter your body language. It doesn't matter what body language you have. You can be like I am now, alpha, projecting,
Try to make a point ultra convincing. Or you can sit there like a meek little, it doesn't matter. If that is the default and you retain the default when you're telling the lie, then you have nothing to lose.
So when you tell a lie, it's not about, well, how do I act when I tell a lie? It's not changing how you acted before.
This is the most important thing.
But most of you guys are so unaware of your body language, or so unaware of where your hands go, unaware of where you're looking,
Think of your last conversation with someone. Where were you looking?
Think about it.
Uh, uh, at them, I guess. I guess, I don't know. You're going to be like ignorant. You don't fucking know.
If you learn your own shit, and you adapt your own shit to have a style which is favorable to you and favorable to your outcomes, then it's going to be very, very easy for you to lie because you can replicate your own style.
So that's how you fucking lie. I will pass any lie detector test there is. In fact,
Thank you.
I'm writing that down for a tape speech. We're gonna lie detector company in here. I'm gonna fucking do it. I'm gonna pass it. And the reason I'm gonna pass it is 'cause I don't give a fuck.
Ask me a question. Take me to the greatest man of life. Yes. True.
That's the baseline question because everyone knows it's fucking true.
Tate, do you give a shit about these hoes?
No!
True.
Don't ask me a lie.
Like, is Meghan Markle a good princess?
I'm gonna say yes.
Just obviously a fucking lie.
Still gonna come up as true. Hope that bitch doesn't get hold of that piece of paper and uses it as proof. Daddy Tate validated me. Fucking hate that.
When we're talking about--
the correct way to be. When I talk about things like hands, seat positioning, etc.
This is universal across sexes.
The same way you can make a man like you, and you can sell products at a business meeting, it's the same way you can make a girl fuck you. It's no different.
All of it is based around primary evolutionary human instincts, around confidence, confidence, trustworthiness. These are things that, this is the dawn of time.
They look at dude and go, this is a competent guy.
If a man looks at you and thinks this is a competent guy, they want to be your friend. In a business relationship, if they look at you and think this is a competent guy, they want to give you money. And if a girl looks at you and thinks this is a competent guy, she wants to suck your dick. It's the same.
There's no difference in your body language for a woman or for a man or for business or for anything else. It's projecting competence and confidence.
and combat ability in all of the situations
You need to learn to walk into a room.
Like I am the baddest motherfucker in the room.
You're the baddest motherfucker on earth.
You're going to walk in like that.
Just walk in like a fucking G.
Doesn't matter what you're doing. Doesn't matter if you're about to fuck a bitch or fucking sell a fucking window. Who gives a shit? You walk in like, I'm the shit. Yeah, sit down. Yeah, coffee, please. Thanks.
The fucking man's here. The fuck? The man's here.
You sucking dick? Well, obviously.
You're going to be like that.
So I know a lot of you guys are gonna come back to me and go, "Okay, thanks for the course, but what do I do with this girl?" You do with the girl the same shit you do with the guys. It's the same thing.
Because it's the same general attributes which are seen as attractive.
Keep that in mind. How to intimidate? Well,
I don't really like
The idea of intimidating unless I mean why, say.
The easiest way to intimidate someone is to mean what you say.
But just like lying,
in most of my
personal experiences.
You intimidate by changing your body language.
Humans are amazing at detecting change.
If something stays still,
It's not nearly as attractive to the human eye as if something moves.
Something's like a corner of your eye and still, it's fine. But when it moves, you're like, what the fuck?
Humans detect changes in velocities, changes in speeds,
So how the human eye works is detecting changes.
And it's very similar with body language.
So let's say I'm out.
And let's say three guys are gonna attack me.
And I don't want to fight the guys because I might lose. So I want to intimidate them.
So let's say at first I'm like, hey, get the fuck off. And then we go outside and they go, you know, you know, you can do it. And I go, I've been overtly, I've been aggressive. I've been the big man. I'm like, look, get the fuck away from me. And they come out and they want to fight me anyway.
I'll change my word and language completely.
I'll say it.
Okay.
Okay, we're gonna find out.
And then they'll be like, oh, we're in a fight now. I've tried to tell you not to and you want to fight, so I've tried to be reasonable.
It's done, so we're going to fight now. So let's go. And I'll start walking towards them.
And that sudden change in body language is what makes people think, "Whoa, the fuck?"
You have to change a body language. Typically people intimidate by screaming, because they start low, and then they go high.
to intimidate.
So they'll start trying to be sensible and reasonable, and the person doesn't listen, and they'll go, you know what? Fucking did it. And they'll change it.
But it's not the shouting which is intimidating, it's the change in body language. But everyone's accustomed to that.
I do it the other way around.
The other right round for me is far more effective.
Let's say you're arguing with your girl.
You're a stupid bitch. I'm tired of your shit. You're always fucking these hoes. Yeah, fuck hoes. Shut the fuck up. Cook.
Well, arguing, arguing, arguing.
Eventually she won't shut up, you get to the point and go, you know what? You know what?
We've argued enough.
You've already done that.
And you get your keys. She goes, where are you going? Oh, no, I'm just going to go out. Don't worry. No, I don't want to argue with you. I'm just going to go out. I'm just going to go out. I take your keys. She's going to be more worried about you being sensible and calm and nice.
than if you're shouting anymore. Because it's the change in body language.
You have to understand, border language isn't about do this to be this way. It's about being able to flip it.
And it's having that sudden deceleration, that massive change suddenly is what makes people think.
When I've been attacked before, that story I just told you is a completely true story. This was only one guy.
I had a guy who was talking shit from the other side of the fucking room. I said, bro, stay the fuck over there.
He was talking shit. And he goes, oh, oh, oh, you ain't nothing. You ain't nothing. I said, bro, I'm not trying to fight you. But you come around, I'm going to fucking hurt you.
Talking shit, da da da da. Anyway, he gets up.
Carl starts walking over and I stand up and say, "Okay, we're gonna fight. Let's at least do it outside." He goes, "Yeah, we're outside." I say, "No problem. Okay, let's go."
I walked down the stairs, like, you know what? I'd fucking do it. He's trying to get me to argue again, because that's how he felt comfortable.
Because, Tate, you know, I'm just sick of your shit, Tate, da, da, da. Say, no, it's fine. You're sick. We're going outside.
I'm done shouting. I'm not a girl. I don't shout. Ain't my thing. I don't shout like females. We spoke. I told you to stay away from me. You didn't want to listen, so let's go.
I wasn't being intimidating in any way. I wasn't acting intimidating. It's the change in body language that made me think, what the fuck is this guy?
He didn't want to fight anymore.
Because I became nicer.
All of a sudden he was like, this guy's too calm.
Motherfuckers are shooting me or some shit.
This guy's crazy.
So it's not about being a certain way. It's about being overtly aware of your body language in a way that allows you to switch it on people.
Most of you are so unaware of your own body language, you can't effectively change it. Okay, you can go from happy to angry.
or from normal to showering. Those are basic things. A kid can do that.
But you can't do it on a very conscious level, with tiny details. You can't flip, reverse it, and go from angry to nice. You can't mix it up.
Nobody in this world has dealt with someone, a full grown man going from crazy screaming
to nice inside of two seconds.
That comes across as psychopath.
That scares people.
When you come across as you fucking did it, fuck! You know what?
It's okay.
It's okay, I agree. We should hurry each other.
That's what makes people think, what the fuck, this guy's fucking nuts.
That's how you intimidate someone. The sudden fucking change. Everyone's dealt with it from happy to angry. Normal to angry.
No one's done with the other way fucking around.
I'll reverse on people. I start shouting.
You come near my car, I fucking start shouting.
Once I know it's violence time, I drop the whole shouting act.
I'll go straight into the nicest man in the world. I'll smash his fucking face in it.
So you have to be aware of your body language and able to change it. This is extremely important.
A lot of people talk about mirrored body language. I don't like this shit.
People go, oh, you mirror someone's body language, they like you more. Now, fuck that.
That's pussy shit
Oh, someone crosses their arms. Oh, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
What's this? Simon Says?
It's a little fucking punk. I say how I want to say it. I commandeer the room.
I sit like this.
Whoa.
I sit like this.
If everyone changed the word language, I don't fucking care.
This is how I sit, because I'm in charge. Alphas don't change their body language. Look at orangutans.
Look at fucking apes. We've got a closest relative we've got. The alpha doesn't change for shit. Everyone else changes when he's around.
So don't believe that mirroring crap.
Well, if you go out with a girl and you mirror her body language, shut the fuck up, man.
I'm gonna sit there with a girl. She crossed her arms and I crossed my arms and then she sucked my dick. Never! Never!
I sat down and I was the fucking man. That's why I should suck this dick. Nothing to do with fucking me cross-mimes when she did. Fuck that shit.
It's garbage, forget that mirroring.
Now, we're going to move on.
Smile.
Smiling is effective, but it's only effective if it's used selectively.
People tell me, "Take me, never smile." That's not true.
I do smile. I smile selectively.
My smile has a value.
If you guys are watching this, I'm trusting you've seen the PhD course. How do you give your attention a value?
by making it rare. Why is gold valuable? Because it's scarce.
My smile has a value because I rarely smile.
If you walk through life,
One you look like a fucking moron.
One. And two, who gives a fuck if you're smiling at all?
If I smile, my smile has value, has weight, has currency.
I've had a girl, my girl, I've been six years.
Shills, message me. I made you smile today.
She's happy that she made me smile, because it's hard to do. There's achievement in it. Oh my god, I made him smile.
He woke up and I'd already cooked dinner. He woke up and I'd cooked him breakfast and I had coffee in his favorite mug and I brought it to him and I told him I loved him, and he smiled a little bit.
She got her reward, which is my smile.
If she woke up and I was like, "Hey baby, hey, hey, hey," what the fuck, she didn't give a fuck if I smile or not.
I smile when it's deserved.
And you're a fucking full grown man. You should be walking through life smiling.
You need to smile at people when something of merit happens. I'm not saying come across as a miserable fuck. I'm not saying that.
I'm not saying sitting there looking like you're gonna fucking kill yourself. You're not Eeyore.
I'm saying you just smile selectively.
Once again, you need to adapt your own body language style.
You need to decide when you're going to use your smile and when you're not.
Don't say try to hold it in. I'm saying you've probably learned to smile instinctively.
You're smiling at things that don't really make you smile, and you're smiling at things that you don't find funny, to be polite.
But let me tell you what smiling is. Smiling is a sign of submission.
Look at apes, our closest relative.
Apes smile to submit.
When the alpha appears,
The beta males, they show their teeth.
It's like, don't hurt me.
This is important. This is natural. You can study this today. Google it. YouTube right now.
They show their teeth in a sign of submission. That's what smiling is. If you're going through life and every person you meet, you're like, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey. You're basically saying to the world, no one hurt me. Please, please, hey, I'm a nice guy.
Bye.
How are you? Fine. You? Yeah, good, yeah.
Does Trump smile at every motherfucker he sees? No! It's Trump! Fuck it. Yeah.
Yeah, alright, okay. Yeah.
Fuck, and then someone who acts like a real G turns up, someone who's done a fantastic job that week, he'll give them a little bit of a smile and go,
Smile and the way public trips me out.
Why does Trump smile matter? Because he doesn't walk through life looking like a fucking happy clown. And neither should you.
Your smile is a selective tool.
It must be rare. It must be used effectively.
You smile at that girl, she doesn't fucking deserve that shit.
You smile at a guy, he needs to deserve that shit. You can walk through life fucking smiling. Life's not all about just being as happy as possible. This is the bullshit the media's trying to sell you.
They're purporting this idea. If you're happy, smile, be nice. Everyone who's happy all the time, smile all the time, nice all the time is a fucking loser.
You know it and I know it.
So you don't want to be that guy. You don't want to be fucking smiling. Use your smile selectively.
I use my smile selectively, especially in dates with girls.
If I'm sitting there, it's a little bit frosty, whatever, whatever. I don't allow awkward silences because I'm too efficient for those things. I've got a PhD.
Pimpinhoe's degree.
But if we're talking and the talk's just very general, I'm very neutral. I'm like this. Oh, yeah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
When she starts to flirt with me a little bit, or if she starts to be a little bit more open, or I know for sure she's going to get dick,
Then I might smile a little bit.
I'll be back.
Bitchy crazy.
I'll smile.
She'll say something and I'll smile before I answer her.
"Oh, I didn't expect you to be like this. I thought you'd be more arrogant." I'm like, "Why?"
I'll smile.
But she says that at the beginning. I didn't expect to be more arrogant. I'm like, why?
I'm very different, I decide to smile when she's receptive to me.
You're receptive to me, and you're going to fucking do what I want. You can have a smile in return. Smile is a weapon.
Like your attention is a weapon. Like everything you have is a weapon. You're a walking bag of weapons.
So most of you men don't understand. Your attention has a value.
Your smile has value.
You're replying to someone. It all has value. And you guys are just running through life, throwing it away. Every single chick giving them attention for no reason, even though they don't suck dick. Messaging girls all the time. Friend zoning yourself. Smiling at everyone. Just throwing your weapons away.
then how the fuck are you going to do something exclusive?
How do you show me I've made you happy if you're already smiling at every dickhead you've ever met?
It's stupid.
Now you don't have to come across as a horrible person.
I don't smile often at all.
But let's say I'm in a store and I'm buying something, and the guy goes, "No, no." I say, "Yeah, this much." I'm like, "Thank you, thanks." I'll nod a lot. If I'm walking past a security guard, he looks at me, I won't smile, I'll nod.
A nod is a...
You and I both know who the bad men in the room are. All the big men know the big men nod.
All the big men know. If you're not a big man and you're watching this show, what's he talking about? If you're a big guy right now, you know. When big men walk in the club and there's another big man in the club, you instantly, human instinct, you catch eyes like, okay, okay.
He's the only person in this club who can match me physically.
If there's going to be a fight, it's the only guy I have to worry about.
and you always link eyes.
And you always kind of do this
Thing. It's like, yeah, all right, cool. We've clucked each other. We've decided we're cool. It's done.
The big man nod.
It's a thing. Big men know it.
But a nod is far more effective than a smile. You want to be polite, nod at somebody.
Yeah, thank you. Cheers. Thanks.
Bye.
Thanks, thanks, thanks.
What the fuck are you happy about? You just bought fucking skills. You're happy over skills? Little bitch? You're fucking smiling over skills. What's wrong with you?
If I have to tell you to give a firm handshake,
then I don't know what the fuck you're doing here. Because you should know that already.
If I have to tell you that fidgeting
makes you appear bored, you should know that already.
If you want to look bored,
This is obvious shit. You know this one.
If a girl, if you're sitting with a girl and she crosses her legs, she's basically saying, you're going nowhere near my position.
That's like an anti-rape.
fucking instant reaction.
You know how to read these things. You know these things because you know how to read them instinctively. If you sit with a girl and she does this, and she does this, you know you ain't bad. You know it, and I know it.
All those pickup art students, they teach what they call a keynote or something.
fucking gay shit.
I hate pickup artists.
I hate pickup artists because I know I'm the baddest. I'm the best. That's what annoys me. There's all these guys, Red Pill, Mr. Lucario, Bad Boy the Dating Game, all these dudes. And every time I see the girls start fucking, I'm like, what the fuck is this, bro?
These guys are fucking girls. I wouldn't even fuck. I wouldn't even touch their girls. And they're bragging about them. Like, yeah, I went out and I gamed this chick. She's a fucking five. Your nine is my five. You call her a nine, she's a fucking five.
My girls look like fucking Playboy bunnies. My girls got 2 million followers on Insta. My girls have billionaire exes. My girls are actually hot. Your girls are basic.
I hate pickup bars. Anyway, they're all fucking idiots. All of them. None of them are good with me.
But they talk about this keynote thing where you need to do some touching on the girl.
And I agree that I do that myself. That can help.
I have two things I do. One is when I first meet, it depends. I don't really do the hug and kiss, kiss thing when I first meet a girl. I don't really do that unless I know her quite well.
But once we're talking shit, one of the things I get to do is I say I'm a kickboxer.
"All your key books are good?" I said, "Yeah, I'm going to teach you. I'm going to train you. I'm going to make you a little ninja."
because you're beautiful and they're not going to expect you to kill them.
And I give that compliment there. And they're like, oh, heh, heh, heh. Like, yeah, you're going to work for me. So really, who do I have to kill? I say, well, are you strong enough? And they'll always go, yeah. I say, go and let me see.
And then they'll tense their shit muscles. I'll go...
But work to do.
That's how I first do my, the keynote, break the ice, touch them thing.
I do the feeling their arms thing.
But that only works with my huge arms.
If I did that and she looked at my skinny ass arms back and goes, well, where's your fucking muscle? It doesn't work. That doesn't it.
So you have to choose your own style.
But yeah, if they're all crossing off and they don't want you to touch them, whatever, whatever, then that's obviously a bad sign. You know these things already.
I don't have to tell you super fucking obvious stuff.
If you've watched it to this point and you haven't taken any notes, I doubt it. I've definitely told you some shit you should fucking, you probably don't know yet. Especially.
changing it from from angry to calm i know none of you do that because i've never seen anyone else
Lines.
Eye contact.
A lot of you are very unaware of where you're looking, especially when you're talking to somebody.
I look
In people's eyes.
I do that very, very specifically.
Not in a creepy way. I don't want none of you fuckers to take my videos.
Sometimes I say things which are so nuanced.
And I'm worried that people are gonna be like, "Okay, Tate said this, so I have to do this." And then we're gonna go sit there with a girl and be like,
You're a fucking psycho.
You have to keep things into perspective.
But especially if you want to drive a point home.
You look in someone's eyes.
Like I said before,
The biggest theme behind this bug language course is the ability to change your language. It's the change of language that people perceive.
more than the language itself.
So if I'm talking to a girl and I'm like,
Blah, blah, blah. Doesn't matter what I'm saying. Let me think of a sentence. Doesn't matter what I'm saying. But when I want to drive the point home, only then will I look in her eyes.
Yeah, actually, I'm really glad I met you because you are beautiful.
I'll say the beautiful part and look in her eyes. Before I say that, I'm looking away.
And that's what makes it more effective.
It's more effective because I've gone from looking away to looking at her.
If I just looked at her and said, I'm glad I met you because I really think you're beautiful. It's not, for me, it's far more effective for me to say, yeah, well, I'm glad I met you because I really think you're beautiful.
I'll look away and I'll look at them when I say something I mean.
And that change in body language is what they perceive, and that makes you far more convincing.
Do you see where I'm coming from? You want to tell a girl she's beautiful? Well, make sure you're not looking at her, and then look her in the eyes directly as you say it, like a fucking man.
Eye contact. Eye contact needs to be used as punctuation.
This is punctuation.
Everything is punctuation to make them understand a point.
That's how your eye contact should be used.
I'm not saying you have to lock eyes at every motherfucker you meet.
but needs to be used as punctuation. Same with men.
Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. Dude, get the fuck away from me. Get the fuck away from me.
When I look in his eyes, it's when I mean it.
When you're saying it, you're not looking at his eyes, you don't mean it. Say I live in his eyes, I mean it.
And if you guys have watched any of my other videos, you understand how important it is to never say something you don't mean.
If you've not watched my,
Video on tape speech, it's completely free. Trips on depression, it's about 25 minutes long. Watch that one. I talk about how important it is to say what you mean and mean what you say.
Don't tell somebody to knock them out and she's going to do it.
Don't be one of those people who walks through the earth talking shit.
Wesley, look bro, you've got my face to death. I'm going to knock you the fuck out.
The first time I look in his eyes, I say I'm gonna knock him out. It's the first time I've looked at him. He knows I'm gonna mean it.
That's not why context should be used.
Power poses.
is a thing.
I had a lot of people send me lots of emails about this course asking me questions. I got asked about power poses. They say like if you sit there and you do the Superman pose,
you start to get more, you naturally release more testosterone, you start to feel stronger. I believe that's true, I do think that works, that is definitely a thing.
You know, that's certainly a thing. Do I walk through life with Superman pose? No. Should you? No. The fuck.
When you look in the mirror, you look in the mirror like, yeah, I'm a fucking man.
You need to do that.
Of course.
But that's more here than a power pose. So I'm only answering this thing now, so I know some of the fuckers are going to come back and go, "What about my power pose?"
If you want to walk through life doing this, it makes you feel a little bit stronger, go for it. How about you just get strong as fuck anyway and you don't worry about walking around.
Look like a fucking superhero. Like a dork.
So that's that shit.
I've told you a lot about
be domineering and conquering.
However, a lot of you guys will know
One of the 48 rules of power is never to outshine the master.
So a lot of you may have a boss,
and you can't act that way because it's going to piss your boss off too much if you're too overpowering.
I managed to be overpowering my sales meetings, because I was such a fucking fantastic salesman, the boss wouldn't say shit to me, because I made him so much fucking money.
But if you're middle of the road or something, you can't come across that way. You're going to annoy people too much if you haven't got the results to back it up.
So one of the key things you can do if you want to make people like you
Two things you want to make people like you. One's a body language trick, one's not a body language trick.
One is, if you want to make people like you, ask them lots of questions.
Because everyone loves to talk about themselves.
If I'm meeting someone extremely important, which happens all the fucking time,
from Trump Jr. to anyone else.
I think, okay, I need this person to like me.
I don't sit there and try and impress them. I don't sit there and go, okay, Andrew Tate, something with chess grandmaster, genius IQ, four time kickboxing world champion, I've got lots of girls, lots of pussy and money and a galambo. They don't care.
Nobody cares.
I sit there and go, "Yeah, okay, it's really good to meet you." "Yeah, I've always been interested in,
Ask them things.
Because if you ask people questions, then they have to answer them. And they have to answer them by talking about themselves. And everyone loves themselves.
So if you sit there with someone and they only talk about themselves for an hour, they're going to love the conversation.
Yeah, it was really good to talk to you because I got to brag for an hour.
This is especially effective with women. Women love this shit.
If you sit there and try and make a woman impress her,
I'm this, I'm that, blah, blah. Now, sit there and go, you're different than I expected. So what do you do? I'm a hairdresser.
Don't you get bored of talking to people all the time?
"Well no, actually I don't mind because some of the people are really nice and some of the people are my best customer." "Oh really? Okay, yeah. Well I don't even go to hairdresser as you can tell."
I'm already beautiful.
So how long have you been hairdresser for? I've been hairdresser for this long, I went to college and da da da.
Add in little bits of your own dialogue, but basically just ask them questions.
I took one guy on...
Pickup coaching. I don't normally do this, but I had one guy who paid me money to go out with him for a weekend, pick up girls.
And he said to me, "I'm really nervous, I'm really nervous."
Ask them questions.
Say hello, here's how you introduce yourself, here's how you say hello, ask them questions.
And if you do that, you're 75% there.
Because they're just going to talk about themselves.
It doesn't matter what they reply. Who gives a fuck? You're a hairdresser. You're a nurse. You're a stripper. It's all the same shit. Who cares?
Oh really? That's interesting.
Same answer to them all.
Ask them, let them talk shit about themselves.
This is super effective to make people like you.
Super effective.
because everyone loves talking about themselves, so keep that in mind. And then the body language trick is to really look like you're listening.
Most people don't look like they're listening. If I want someone to like me, I really look like I'm listening.
So if I need a boss to like me or a girl to like me, I'll make sure it's clear I'm paying attention.
- So if you've ever been in a group
of people and there's one girl you want to fuck. And everyone's kind of talking amongst themselves.
But when that girl's talking, people are half listening. But when that girl's talking, nuance. Don't look like a fucking creep.
But make it clear you're listening.
If other people are all talking to you and she starts talking to you, you go, okay, yeah.
Look out.
I'm listening to you.
Because then, oh, he thinks I'm important. He thinks what I say matters.
And the boss is the same. He listens when I talk to him.
He thinks I'm important. He thinks what I say matters.
In a corporate situation,
What I used to do
I say this all the time, bosses love this shit.
I used to walk around with a little notepad and pen.
So I got called to the boss's office.
I'd go in with a notepad and pen and sit there.
And when they were talking to me, I just randomly write things down.
And a few of them said, why you got that? She said, I don't want to miss any key points.
And they sit down and go, this motherfucker takes everything. But they like that shit.
Like I'm talking and he's writing it down to not miss my key points. Yeah, well, Mr. Andrew, you are the best salesman. You have sold three times more than everybody else, but I'm a greedy CEO. Come. So I want you to sell more. So I was just wondering if you could possibly do this or if you try doing this because you're my cash cow and I want to milk you for all your worth.
Yeah, you're right. I did try that actually. I did try that, but I'm going to find the email. I'm going to send it to you.
Okay, yeah.
You sit there and you, I'm listening to you, sir. Well, you have to say matters. I'm writing it down. They're going to fucking love you.
I love you. Who the fuck is this guy? And then they call the fucking jackass salesman in. Hi. Where's your sales? Yeah, I've tried.
That's how you be liked.
Making it clear you listen to people. Most of you don't make it clear you're listening to someone.
Make it clear you are listening to them.
The notepad and pen example is fantastic with a boss.
They fucking love that shit.
They'll be sitting there going, this dude is fucking, this takes his shit seriously.
Because a boss hires you to make them money. They're always going to pay you less than they make out of you. Otherwise, they wouldn't have a business.
So if you're sitting there taking them seriously, you're taking their money seriously.
Wouldn't you love it if you had someone who came into your house with a pen and paper and goes, how can I make you more money? Tell me what to do.
You'd be like, I fucking like this guy.
Who wouldn't?
So you have to make it clear you're listening to people.
and ask lots of questions.
all the time.
Especially once again with the boss, they love to ask questions.
So even if I knew the correct answer,
I ask them a question.
So I'd say something like, I have my pen and my paper, I'm sitting there.
I'm almost tempted to get a job again because it's so easy. You know, I never failed a job interview ever.
I'd go for jobs that required a degree. I didn't even have a degree.
I was walking there.
Oh, so Mr. Tate, your degree? I haven't got a degree. Didn't need one. I didn't need one because I'm the best. I'm prepared to prove I'm the best. I'll work for a week for free, and I guarantee within six months, I'm going to smash any sales target you set me. I don't have time to go to university and sit there for four years. I'm here to get paid. I'm here to get you rich. I'm here to make me rich. I'm the best there's ever been.
Listen, I'm going, what the fuck is this dude? Well, he's going to work for free, so at least try him out.
I never failed a job interview. Ever. Ever. Ever. I got every fucking job.
Time for it to go back, 'cause it's so fun.
Let's sit here with my pen and paper.
and I'd ask him questions knowing the answers already.
I'll be like, okay, sir, well, I've been trying two different types of proposal emails. One of them is getting about 20% more responses than the other. So it's the one I think is the best. But I want to send both to you so if you have time, I know you're busy, if you could just read them and just confirm that's the process I should be going, that's the path I should be going down.
That's the process of the emails I'm going to be sending.
He'd be like, "Okay, yeah, send him across to me." As if he's gonna say no, the other one, where it's not as effective.
Of course he's going to choose the effective one. If he's a clever cat, which he probably is because he's the CEO, he's going to come back with the odd amendment to try and make it look like he knows something.
So come back and go, yeah, that's really good. That's good, Andrew. Try and add this and this, and I think you'll be about there.
And I'll pretend I didn't think of that.
Good idea. I didn't think I could add it right away. We'll update you shortly. I'll pretend I didn't fucking know.
Pretend it's important even though it doesn't matter. He'll think he tricked me. Ah, Andrew, he's a fucking smart fucker, but I'm still the smartest. I'm the boss.
BAM!
That's how they like you. Then when you walk in there and go, excuse me, sir, I've been working really, really hard for you, and I do my very, very best for this company, this corporation, and I respect you absolutely,
But I'm unfortunately in a situation where I need to get paid more money.
*thud*
What's it gonna be? That's what I used to do. I used to smash sales records and then they're sitting there like
This tank guy's gonna make the company rich. I'd walk in there three months later and say, unfortunately, I'm in a situation where I need more money.
Not, could you please consider, not, duh, duh, duh, duh, duh, duh, no.
I'm in a situation where I need more money.
And their answer would be, okay, well, we have a quarterly review coming up, and we need to make sure your sales stay on track. They try and delay it.
I'd say, okay, I'll wait for the quarterly review, no problem. I'm very, very excited about smashing records. I'm no longer interested in sales targets. I'm interested in beating the company's sales records. I know they're already mine, but I'm going to beat them again.
I say that. And the reason I say all that,
Knowing that the quarterly review is two or three weeks away,
It's because basically I've said...
You better give me a pay rise in that review.
Or I'm leaving.
And the CEO's sitting there going, fuck this fucker.
Can't let him go, he's the best we got.
I have to put his money out.
And when the quarterly review comes, say, oh yeah, hi sir, obviously we did fantastic, da da da da da.
Sometimes I had a couple of them try it.
Unfortunately, we're not going to increase your pay at this time. I'd say, okay, no problem. I appreciate that. I just want to make it clear with you. I'm going to do my utmost. I'm going to continue doing my job effectively. I believe that if I'm going to do something, I'm going to do it properly. But I am in a position where I, unfortunately, do require more money. So I'm going to start looking for another fund.
term of employment.
I'm going to leave then.
Every time I got emailed in two days.
Some fucking offer.
Even if I didn't need the money, take the money. Who the fuck? Even if it's only a little bit of money, who cares? Take it. Thanks.
It's a principle thing. You're gonna fucking reward me, motherfucker.
What is earth?
I got a company car that exact same way.
Okay, and I said, "Now, I'm gonna say,
Excuse me, sir. Unfortunately, I'm in a position where I can no longer use my own personal vehicle.
He said, "We don't do company cars." I said, "I understand that. "And I know you're paying me 20 cents per mile
But the car I have is putting damage on the car. Also, my brother needs to use the car. I am a very good salesman. I intend to continue to sale effectively. I guarantee I will continue to break every single company record, but I can no longer do it in my vehicle. I need to be provided with a vehicle.
or I can no longer work for this guy.
Boom! Give me a car!
Most of your fuckers are afraid to say shit.
Walk in there. Give me a car.
Block hard.
Literally, me and my brother were sitting in our apartment one day. He said, I need the car tomorrow. I was like, I need it. I'm going to go to a meeting. And I thought, fuck this. They can give me a fucking car.
Next day, had a car. We don't do company cars. Yeah, you do renting a fucking car because your number one salesman makes you all your money fucking said so.
I guarantee you do that, don't you?
Went down to Hertz and picked me up a fucking nice car. Of course you did. BMW's 3 Series. Thanks. Let's put coffee all over the fucking seats. Ain't mine. I don't give a fuck.
So you got a B.
Mean your shit
But with CEOs, sometimes you have to pretend you're listening, but pretend you're listening to people. They like that shit.
Give you a little notepad.
Get your shit together.
This could also work with women.
Sometimes with one of my girlfriends,
I say one of.
Because all you real cheese know how else real cheese live.
They're like, "Oh, I've really got a problem. I need your time." They're complaining. I say, "Look, listen, I'm busy right now.
I'm gonna come around later and we'll sort it out.
If I say, okay, tell me what's the matter, and I have to say, no, no, I'm coming around, I'm starting to turn up later, okay, you have all my attention, what's the problem?
Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. Okay, all right. Okay. I'm going to do something about it.
Yeah, but do what? Listen, I'm a fucking man. I know what to do. Just shh. Go.
Then you do nothing and then they forget about it because they're women.
No big deal.
Just giving someone your undivided attention.
in a short burst.
can be extremely effective.
Extremely effective.
Leaning forward implies you're paying attention.
Keep that in mind, as opposed to leaning back. We've already discussed this already.
I've got a long list of questions from you motherfuckers. Leaning forward implies you're paying attention to them. Someone goes, how do I make it clear that I'm paying attention to them? Well, make it clear you're listening to them. We just discussed all this. But also lean forward. You can lean forward sometimes.
Yes, tell me.
It matters so much.
I don't actually recommend this for women.
but there is something you can do.
Also, we're talking about women, there's a lot of body language with pictures of women
Talk about.
Like don't lean in towards the girl.
We just talked about leaning in. Leaning in shows you're listening, shows you're attentive.
They have every single picture is of you leaning into your girlfriend
then it shows that basically she's in charge because you listen to her.
as opposed to her leaning into you.
So it is a sign of submission. For the same reason it's a sign of listening,
It's a sign of submission.
So keep that in mind. If you want a picture of you and your girl, you want to put it on Instagram, whatever, whatever.
It needs to be a picture of you. I'm the man.
I am the oak tree.
She's hugging the oak tree. The oak tree doesn't bend over to the people who hug's in. I'm the fucking G.
She enters your world, you don't enter hers.
Most of you guys already know this stuff.
So it's not that complicated.
But you're like, you know, it hasn't got to be conscious.
The reason pointy language is so effective is because it's unconscious.
That's why it's affected, that's why people read it, because it happens by accident.
So you have to consciously alter yours, but when you're going through life, you can't be sitting there going, how do I do this, how do I do that? You gotta just start thinking about it, and practice a little bit, and it become natural.
your hands, et cetera.
So body language for women is never appear submissive.
Women don't want to fuck a man they don't respect.
Women don't have to like you to fuck you.
They have to respect you.
Do you know how many times I've retweeted, check my Twitter, I've retweeted a girl saying, I can't stand this Tate speech guy, but something about him, I have to follow him.
or on my YouTube video. I hate you. You're such a dickhead. I almost want to meet you.
I retweeted a girl today. I almost want to slap. I kind of want to slap him. Kind of want to fuck him.
And that's because they don't like me.
But they respect me.
So like, this fucking asshole...
Yeah, I guess that's true. Yeah, I guess that's true. They respect me.
Women don't gotta like you, they gotta respect you.
I fuck loads of girls who hate me.
In fact, every day some girl's telling me she hates me. Every fucking day, I fucking hate you.
Dick comes along and she's happy to take it.
So you have to act in a way that's respected. And women don't respect men who are submissive to them.
You have to respect men who
are in control.
That's what happens.
Women try to take control.
because it's natural for them to attempt it.
And if you let them succeed,
They'll just become worse and worse, down a spiral of just becoming a bigger and bigger dickhead.
Because they're waiting for you to take control back.
That's what happens.
So it's the same with your body language.
So if you're always leaning in, she's the boss.
she's not going to be happy with those photos.
She wants a photo where you look in control and basically uninterested in her.
If you look at photos, I recommend go to atcobratape.com.
We'll put a few examples in this video, but go to @Coprotate and find pictures of me with girls.
It was one of me with a cigar to curl either side.
Am I staring at the girls?
Do I give a fuck they even exist? I'm having a cigar, bro.
I'm busy, I'm smoking.
These are just...
Some hoes. Well, natural hoes.
'Cause I don't care about the girls. Who's in control there? Me.
by not showing them attention. The number of the most important body language for a picture with a girl is basically to come across like
I don't give a fuck.
Someone goes, "You're about to take a picture with a girl. "How do you come across as an alpha?"
You don't give a shit about the girl.
Simple. You don't care about the girl. That's the person. I'll take the picture that you take it. She wasn't even fucking there.
Bang, smoke it. Oh, there's a hoe there, there's a hoe there.
Take life, whatever.
That's one. There's another one of me with sunglasses on with two blondes either side. And in this one, I'm smiling.
Why am I smiling?
I'm smiling because the one I'm looking at just agreed to get fucked with the other one.
Two seconds before that said you both staying with me tonight.
She goes, "Oh, I don't know. I'm nervous." I said, "Look, we're gonna go drinking." She goes, "Oh, maybe." I smiled. I said, "Alright, good. We're gonna go out."
I was smiling because she agreed, like I said earlier. Positive reinforcement. I'm miserable. You said what I wanted you to say. Now I'll smile.
I just smiled at her because I knew she was about to be licking the other one's pussy in about four hours time.
That's what that one was.
But in general, I'm sitting there. If I wasn't looking at her and smiling and I was looking forward, I'd go, fuck.
I'm a dude who doesn't care. Women are always attracted to assholes. People go, why do girls like assholes? They don't like assholes.
They like men who overt-- who display overtly masculine qualities.
Men who don't succumb to their wishes. Men who don't bend to their will. Men who are in charge. Men who retain control. Men who can't be influenced or complain at or nag at. And those kind of men are assholes.
It's not about the fact that he's an asshole. It's about the fact that they can't control him. It's about the fact that they try and take a picture with him. He doesn't give a fuck if she's there or not.
And those are overtly masculine, overtly attractive qualities to a woman.
Even she doesn't understand why, but that's the reality of it. So if you're sitting there going, how do I take a picture of a girl? Take a picture of a girl like she doesn't exist.
I'll pop another picture here of me and my girlfriend in Thailand, the last picture of me taken.
There, you've just seen it.
Do I look like I give a fuck that she's there? Now I am looking at her. A lot of body language people, every pill guys go, "Don't even look at the girl, don't look at the girl, "that's bad body language."
Come on, you're a human, you look at things, it's normal.
fuck on dude. I look away all the time, you idiot.
But you can tell by my body language, I don't give a fuck. Her hand's on my knee.
She's smiling. I'm not.
You can tell by that body language who the fucking boss is.
So a lot of the Red Pill stuff is super specific.
Like I've told you guys when I'm teaching in the PhD course, there's no such thing as an exact formula. There's no such thing as an exact specific thing. It's understanding general rules, general themes, and implementing them.
That's why everything I teach is quite generalized. I'm waiting for you guys to see it, ingest it, understand it, and implement it in your own unique style. Because then it comes across as authentic.
If I say, do this with your hands exactly, do this,
You look like little fucking robots.
No, I'm telling you to be aware of certain things.
Like chess, you know the rules and you make your own moves based on the rules to win.
You have to develop your own style.
But in general, the key for women is to just make it clear you don't give a shit.
Because women like that.
And also, what's actually super beneficial is if you genuinely don't give a shit, then it's super easy.
Why do you have to act like you don't give a shit if you actually don't give a shit? I actually don't care.
I've been around so many chicks. That picture of me with a cigar and these two girls hanging off me. When I was smoking a cigar, you can look carefully and you'll see my eyes. My eyes are looking down. I'm looking at some guy and the guy's face was literally...
He was literally like his world was blown.
because he saw me with two tens.
Not these other pickup artist versions of 10s.
actual tens.
two smoking hot, big booty, big titty, hot ass, young 20 year old chicks.
And he was their disciple.
Who the fuck is this guy?
Mr. Cigar just walked up and his chits are hanging all over him.
Is he a pimp? Is he famous? Who is he?
He was just blown away.
I didn't give a fuck. He gave a fuck.
That's the difference.
Don't give a shit.
FDB. We talked about smiling a little bit. When we talked about smiling, we said how it's a sign of submission.
Also, you guys will know on Twitter, soyface.
That's a sign of submission as well.
If you're not comfortable within your own skin, you see a lot of people, they take pictures and they pull stupid faces.
Look, I'll like...
Four.
Or when they're with someone in the back. All that shit is submission. All that shit is...
evolutionary primate submissional
You're just broadcasting to the world that you're a fucking loser. Don't do that.
You either smile in a picture because you're happy
Or you just,
Look at the camera.
God.
Uh...
You're not a fucking clown and you're not fucking 15. You're gonna be making stupid ass fucking faces. It's dumb. Don't do that.
Ever.
Especially not with a chick. Sometimes chicks do that a lot.
and you're next door I guarantee you're not fucking ready to do that shit.
I've had girls do that next to me. Eh, eh. And I'm just like, looking at them like the moron they are.
Because I don't give a fuck.
What the fuck are you making stupid ass faces for?
Fuck off.
Suck this.
So don't do that shit. So if you're pulling weird faces and photographs, that's because you're insecure. And you're trying to broadcast to the world that you're a little liberal
Coward and you're hoping that no one destroys you.
You're hoping Big Daddy Tate doesn't come along and squash you in the palm of his awesomely huge hand.
Don't be like that shit. I fucking hate that shit.
I don't hang around with people who do that shit. Don't do that.
Ever.
I'm going to put a picture of my brother now with his girl.
Bang, you just saw it. That girl there is called Bianca Dragosano. She has a million followers, or near a million, on Instagram. Look her up. You can Google her. She's the most famous girl in Romania.
She's like, oh, she had her own TV show. Legitimately A-list in Romania.
very rich as well.
Most men would be intimidated by a famous woman.
Who's that hot? Who's rich?
Tristan went up to her in a fucking petrol station.
went up to her.
Start talking shit.
Just the way me and him do it.
Call her number, progression.
PhD guys, tower of power, introduced himself, blah blah blah, confident, bang, bang, bang. He didn't get her number, he got her Instagram.
Messaged her there on the spot so she saw it, even amongst a million messages.
Ended up getting her number. Anyway, he ends up fucking this chick. She's married.
She's fucking married.
Whole thing comes out in the papers. Me and Tristan end up A-list stars in Romania because we're the guys who fucked Bianca. I'm the brother, but he's the guy who fucked Bianca when...
She's married, everything. Complete craziness. Anyway, the point of this picture is this.
Most men when they get a girl like that, we're all over.
She's famous, she's rich, she's important, she's special. Ah, ah, ah. Look at Tristan's body language in that picture.
Does he look like he gives one fuck about that chick?
He doesn't give a fuck about that, huh? He doesn't care.
It doesn't care. Somehow. Hmm.
How many hoes have I fucked? Who cares? You dudes are out here caring too damn much.
It's garbage. Like all of my courses,
What I'm going to do is I'm going to update them.
forever, for free.
So if you've bought the PhD course, you bought the webcam course, you bought this course,
Your money has been well spent because you're going to be getting new videos every couple of weeks for free.
Forever.
So this is the basis of my theory on body language.
If I've missed anything or there's anything you want me to talk about, send me an email. Because guess what? Another video will come out and I'll answer your questions specifically.
So if you've watched this,
and you feel like you haven't learned anything, you're fucking lying.
'Cause I guarantee you don't have, everything I've said to you, I guarantee you don't have under control, understood, analyzed, and implemented. You haven't. So fucking go away and do that shit.
Get your things together. Put your hands in the right fucking place. Look like a G.
Get your shit wet.
Learn how to go from fucking crazy to calm. Not from calm to crazy. Put your shit together.
If you have any further questions, email them to me because there'll be another body language video in the next week or so and I'll answer some more.