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The Matrix attacked us, Tristan.
But I defend, listen, you were asleep in the corner. You were doing shit. When the agents appeared, I had to fight them single-handedly. Morpheus, as you escaped through the bathroom walls, I took the agent on one-on-one.
Not even though I knew I didn't stand a chance.
Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to Emergency Meeting Live episode 10. Let me introduce our first
Guest.
Sterling Cooper. So Sterling, how do we know each other? How do we meet? Why are you here in my house?
good question uh we're both we were both in the adult industry in some capacity i was a porn star you were a webcam editor so we got chatting
And then we became degenerate friends, I guess. Degenerate friends. I like that. You are my degenerate friend. I'll give you that.
And what about you, Justin Waller? How did we all meet and how did you end up in this esteemed, very professional podcast? Yeah, yeah. So I actually, I founded Jenny Shree myself. I was in Las Vegas. I met this Aussie, met you.
met andrew and then it's been e-haul ever since really yeehaw ever since so welcome to the emergency meeting podcast ladies and gentlemen
Buckle the fuck up. So we're going to keep this interesting. I'll kill your whole family. A quick update on what we've been up to. We've basically been living the peak masculine experience. I want to just quickly say that I'm extremely versed.
in all levels of life. I think we've all come from a level of poverty. We've all now made it to some level of elitism. And in my experience, what I find the best activity to do when you have a bit of money is to basically get a very, very fast car, jump in it with your boys, drive around Europe, stay in five-star hotels, and just being not a hooligan and not like breaking the law, but kind of just disregarding the laws. Like they don't really matter. I'm only in France for a day.
It was only a red light.
You know, I had to do is kiss a cop. Do the pictures of that. Oh, yeah. All I had to do was kiss a cop. Please stop dust and wallering up kissing the car. All right. So anyway, anyway, he loved it. Yeah, she loved it. Oh, no, no. I get it now. I was a bit slow on that one. So, um.
- Yeah, so we've been traveling around Europe, and I think that's one of the, I think I'd actually recommend that to every single man alive, because there's a degree of freedom to it, there's a degree of brotherhood, there's a degree of kind of like traveling into battle. There's slight danger with the fast cars, there's that degree of recklessness with the laws, and there's just something about it that makes you feel truly free.
So I have a few videos of us driving around Europe, busting around as the number one producer of the world. Of course, I have something I can show you guys. And then we're going to talk about how
- Justin Waller seduced a cop. - How Justin Waller seduced a cop who tried to give us all a ticket.
We'll talk about that in a second.
you
...these mountains that we got to drive through when we crossed in from France to Spain. And the fantastic part about all that was that the French cops were being completely...
dickheads to us the whole time, fining absolutely everybody on the run. And then the moment we got into Spain, the French cops had told the Spanish cops,
to wait for us to set up speed traps.
on the other side of the border immediately.
Are you sure that's not because you're Australian and they know you're a criminal? It's definitely nothing to do with me being of criminal descent.
But you were driving extremely fast.
- Yeah, we'll play an email. - In my defense, I was in the back of a luxury Mercedes V-Class van. - Not driving like somebody's broke. - Boozing the whole way. I'm sorry, you poor boys were driving your own cars, and your Lambos, and your Bentleys, and your Mercedes. I was in the back of a luxury Mercedes V-Class drinking booze like a real trillionaire. You millionaires are broke, just saying.
Listening to G-Country.
We did listen to G Country. Drinking beers. Drinking beers. So I'm going to read some of the super chats. Excuse me. This is a very professional podcast. I'm not happy with that. No, I'm going to do our first poll. Our first poll is.
um,
Oh, Justin thinks I set him up because we drank 10 beers in the back of the V class on the journey there. We got there. He was a little fucked up. But if you're European and you know what a Desperados beer is, it's beer mixed with tequila. Everyone knows that. It's a wonderful drink. So he was a bit fucked up, but he thinks I set him up. So did I set him up? Yes or no? Here's my vote. You absolutely said you're not allowed to vote. It was fucking bullshit. You give me 10 beers and we drank a beer every, what, 15 minutes? Yep. Before we got there. Yep.
there and all of a sudden this 10 beers feels not like Bud Light, bro. Who drinks Bud Light? Me, I'm American. I only drink Bud Light when I'm not drinking.
So, so I find out there's tequila in the beer and then, and then you come beat on my door and call me and tell me we have to go to another bar.
after 10 tequila beers obviously yeah it looks like people are siding with you it looks like they think they should side with me 61 setup you did you set me up but what happened i still turned up you did turn up i did turn up like a champion champion and now explain that scar on your head
so good good i'm glad i'm glad you brought this up because there i have a conspiracy theory
that Luke...
set me up. Luke may have set you up. We're in Spain. Ah,
save the day big G save the day so we got pulled over and all right yeah so let's talk about this here so I'll tell you the story because I was there so
these cops stopped i was driving for some reason
Where's me? That's Tristan Smokin. That's Justin Waller. That's Sterling.
uh okay it's fine anyway um i was speeding supposedly obviously i'm innocent
They accused me of speeding for some reason. I don't know why. Why they accuse us of speeding. Crazy, crazy. The French are out there mind. We're only three times. We're only three times the limit in the Pyrenees Mountains driving around the cowboy. And this cop stopped, said they're going to take our car, blah, blah, blah. Obviously, I kiddo it like don't take the car.
"I'll take your license." I'm like, "Which one?" I've got 11 licenses. I lost three of my driver's licenses on this drive. I'm banned in France. English Andrew was banned in France, but Romanian Andrew finished driving through France. And then Romanian Andrew was banned in Portugal, but English Andrew continued. So I have so many identities. So I lost all my licenses anyway. And this cop was running her mouth.
She asked me for the car papers. I went to go get the car papers. And by the time I came back,
This is what was going on. Justin Waller had got her on Instagram and they were all kissing.
so i i i don't know like what's that song the police it's what is it uh we need to put that as the new intro can i just say for the record because i i hang around with justin waller and and everyone knows that my blessing and my thumbs up is the truest sign of respect in the community of being a playboy that girl is below justin's standards i have to say he took one for the team to get us out of speeding i've never seen justin with a five before that was the first time ever
if you get smart.
and say that he could have kissed a better looking cop the other guy was a fat old man and sterling kissed him justin definitely got the hottest of the cops
but let's but let's let's actually talk about seriously i'm as the producer as the most professional person on this podcast because i am the producer i am genuinely interested in the feedback from our two esteemed guests on driving around europe what it looked like what it felt like what it's like to roll with your boys what it's like to feel the freedom of ignoring laws
All these kinds of things are kind of, it's the first thing you've ever done it.
It's kind of unique. Americans can't really run from country to country. You can't get caught speeding in one country, lose your license and just make it to the border.
I mean, you can make the Mexican border, ride like the wind. But what did you guys think of the whole experience overall? What was it different than you thought it was going to be? What was the highlights? Give us your feedback on my number one activity, the thing I enjoy doing the most. Well, I liked, like you just said, the lawlessness of it. Like the fact that we can go from one country to another, kind of act like dickheads.
and get away with it and leave. And then we're bound bang. We're in another country the next day.
that the laws don't really have to apply to us in that sense. And the other thing I really liked about it was,
All day, everyone's, you know,
having a blast and then we all meet up at the hotel
and we swap stories, what happened, who had a blowout, who got a fine, who did this, who did that. And then the night's degenerate. And the next morning we're talking about which
idiot passed out in the hallway. Yeah. Yeah. This is what I would say about it. I think that us being together as an amplifier, I always say that it doesn't matter where you are,
It's who is there. So I could have drove through France and Spain and Portugal and shitty ass England by myself. Okay. And I do hate fucking England. And and so
I could have done that alone and it would have been beautiful, but it would not have been a good time. Just like the first time I saw cocaine, we're in Five Guys. None of you were doing it, but it was craziness at Five Guys Burger. Yes. And that experience of the soccer rally would not have been the same. I look over, there's a guy on another table not sitting with us, literally does cocaine. Like the whole thing was crazy. Welcome to England, the shithole.
as much fun without the camaraderie, the shit talking, the jokes, the making fun of each other. It's just not the same without each other. So we're going to cover some of the stories that have happened here. Now the cop thing interrupted this. Everyone now knows what happened with the cop. So you were just about to say how you got that scar on your head. Why don't you tell our audience? So I have a conspiracy theory about the scar.
We're in Spain.
we trick Luke into coming to dinner Luke's mad because he left the metaverse right he's pissed he gets super pissed and he tries to like put his phone turn it up so he can like watch and see if his downloading and then we turn it upside down and he's mad and he's like you told me we're just coming to dinner and then we're like booze booze booze and then there's one person that didn't have booze that night in Spain what did he have Justin
I think he had water or he took the booze and walked away. But definitely what he had in his glass was a lemon. A lemon.
So what happened next? I'm going down the stairs in Spain.
And the next thing I know, boom, I slip, grab the rail.
Move forward.
Brick wall. I got to make a decision. Throw my elbow first.
it up took a little on the head but i think it was luke yeah so you're saying my cousin attempted to assassinate you because i made him leave the metaverse with a lemon
With a lemon. The lemon attack. All right. So it's a lemon attack. So now that that now that they agree that I did set you up, I got jumped by a lemon in a staircase. We're going to see if they believe Luke tried to assassinate you. Was it an assassinate? Was it Luke? He put a hit on me, bro.
Yes or no? We're going to ask the community. Because it sounds to me, I mean, personally, Luke is my family. He's Andrew's cousin. I like it very much. But it sounds suspect.
Personally, I think he may have been responsible for that scar on your head, Justin, and is lucky that you're so hard to kill that you survived this. So that's the next poll out. Was it a setup? Yes or no?
It's the eggs isn't it? It is the eggs. But not really.
I don't know that you can apply that.
Here we go. So yeah, it was a good time. And I mean, I was the one who was driving every day. I obviously had a hard time because every single day I was doing 10 hours driving. You guys were jumping in and out of that van. Oh yeah. You had a hard time driving your car. These guys had to booze with me in the back of a V class some of these days. Look, Andrew, in my defense, I was perfectly willing to drive the entire way.
But I was, look, I was driving with Rory. Rory. People might be familiar with who Rory is. You might be.
And after two, three days, I thought, you know what? I want to enjoy this scenery for a little bit. I'll let Rory.
I would have told you not to do that, but...
But you were in the back of the V-class boozing. Of course.
And then lo and behold, he blows up the turbo on the Mercedes. Surprise, surprise. But a lot of cars didn't make it, but it's the camaraderie that made it fun. First, we're going to get to the real entertainment value. So, you know, this is a good question.
Tips on raising daughters so they don't end up 304s, prostitutes, on the pole, OnlyFans, etc. Most men I know don't have daughters for these reasons. I'll chime in very quickly and I'll say...
One.
I have recruited, I think, although you've worked with a lot more girls into, I guess, the adult entertainment industry than anyone else. I really have.
And the one type of girl I couldn't recruit
were girls with rich parents oh do that for money i don't need money my family's rich so when i see these broke boys on twitter and on instagram be like oh my daughter i'm raising her right and she's like nine years old but he like works some crappy job he's a wagey i'm like ah she wants she's gonna get that louis vuitton purse one way or another so
You might want to level up your game and buy it for my G. The temptation is certainly there if they're not completely and utterly financially independent or financially secure. If they're completely financially secure, it's more difficult to try and move them into those kind of industries. I wouldn't say what we did was the same as moving them into something hardcore. It's not. But if a girl has unlimited money, it's hard to make her do anything for money. So that's certainly one aspect of it. Now, Sterling, you know more about this. What do you think? Yeah, because I'm actually very interested in this because I'm interested in Sterling's view.
And I don't know if this is going to come back to haunt him in any way, but I'm going to ask him anyway. Why? Why? And this is a genuine question. Why does a girl do porn?
I get why a dude would do it. I don't understand why a female would do porn. Why?
So they think there's a couple of different reasons that I've... Closer to the mic for me, Frank. Closer to the mic. There's a couple of different reasons I found. And it's one is I think it's...
a lot more lucrative than it actually is. Yes. Right. You guys obviously know that a webcam model,
or a girl who's doing OnlyFans who's not doing porn can make a ton of money. Yes. So they think it's a lot more lucrative than it actually is. That kind of seduces them into it. They think it's easy money.
It's not that easy. It's kind of, there's a bit of professionalism required, right? You have to work when you don't want to work.
Another thing I've seen a lot of is there's a lot of kind of payback
reasons like
getting back at the ex-boyfriend, getting back at dad,
these this kind of rebellion is a getting back at the church like be it mormonism it's important there's so many mormons and so many catholics it's ridiculous getting back at that kind of up so to answer the question we were just we were just asked you think that being like a super strict father won't really help you don't think because if they're rebelling against these kind of these kind of mechanisms do you think that it's a bad thing to be really strict and say you must live this way you must do this thing you know what i think it's fathers who are using
the church as a crutch.
for the and they're not strong enough.
The father himself isn't actually a strong father, setting a good, strong, masculine example. And he's using the framework of the church.
as a way of punishing her. To compensate for his own weakness as a father. Exactly, right? And so she's rebelling against like the weakness really.
That's what she's going after.
That's interesting. That's very interesting. Another super chat. You made a point previously saying that you can't be 5'8 and an alpha. I never said that and I don't think anyone here has said that because I'm going to give a quick shout out to a boy of mine in a second. I'm 5'9.
What do you think short guys should attain to be? Obviously not betas. Now, we were speaking 10 minutes ago about a very good friend of ours. Shout out to my boy Prince, my homeboy, who is a G. And he's what, 5'7"? Turbo G. Turbo G. We were literally discussing this an hour ago in our own private conversations. So, Justin, I know you're the second tallest here. You're the same height as Andrew. Yep.
So I actually have a really strong opinion about this because I think a lot of guys give up at like 5'8", 5'9", 5'10", all this bullshit.
Bro, listen, if I was 5'8", living in Indiana today, I would go to the gym, get a good job, handle my fashion, handle fitness, handle all these different things. And look, you will be, I like to say, happier than a dog with two dicks with your 3'7 girlfriend. You don't need a 10+. I'll tell you another thing about a 10. There's shit to be around.
more happy than if you had
three tens and three sevens is 21 anyway so that's better than most two to ten yeah with your king ranch ford quit crying do it bro because most men most any men would take three girls that were amazing to them want to be around them all the time and like dude being short is not a reason to quit at
all and prince is a great example of that yes because he's not tall but he has literally maxed out everything from fitness fashion style he does stuff for me yeah he's a war room guy he's truly legit he's he's a shining example of this short guy that's a he is screaming you by his actions yeah but he is not crying about it yeah correctly but another way to view the world it's just a wrong way to view the world we every man understands you shouldn't be
I can't be a cowboy.
Justin's a cowboy. I can't be an Australian. Sterling's an Australian. I can't be a dickhead. Tristan's a dickhead. You have to accept your role and you have to play it. To be born a certain height and then to sit there and go, what do I do? I'll tell you what you do. You become the best version of yourself, just like everyone else does. We're all born. Okay. Let's say we were all blessed with height at this table. We still had to become the best version of ourselves. If I was only six foot three and didn't achieve any of the other things I've achieved,
None of you would be watching this podcast right now. True. Nothing about the height is in and of itself enough value for me to be a valuable man. As a man, you build your value. You are born with the cards you're dealt. Sure, it'd be ideal. Look, I'd love to be seven foot tall. I'm not. So it's the same argument. You can only become the best version of yourself. And to sit there and constantly complain about it is a feminine frame. If you're five foot two, you need to become rich, strong, well-connected, and funny,
to become rich strong well connected it's the same game so to sit there and complain about it is asinine in fact asinine is the word of the day asinize the world of the day now now sterling this is the first time ever in romania a fan has come up to you and recognized you and what did you say
A guy after he left, a guy came up and spoke to you today. And this is on the height issue and maximizing your stats. But as soon as he left, he said- - Oh, yeah. About the fact he's handsome and tall. Yeah. He was a good looking dude. - Handsome. Tall, full head of hair.
like but he was if i'm being honest scrawny bad fashion bad haircut
He had, you said that he's given, been given, God's given him all these tools, advantages, and he hasn't taken advantage of. He's folding on a handful of aces. He's got four aces. He's folding them. But all of you, listen, ladies and gentlemen, and this is extremely important. All of you have a handful of aces.
I don't think you understand that bacteria could have stolen your eyesight at the age of fucking three. You could have been in a car crash at four years old and lost your legs. You don't, you have under, you have any understanding of how lucky you have been. This is pure luck. There's no re this only luck has kept you fully able bodied sitting there capable of learning and listening and becoming something. And they're going to sit there and pretend you don't have a pocket full of aces.
You have a pocket full of aces along with everybody else. Every single person here is about to tell you a story of hardship. I would actually guarantee that most of the people watching this podcast had a better start than most of us. 100%. And here we are. So you have this whole frame I don't like. It's a question I get a lot. What do I do if I'm not rich? What do I do if I'm not tall? What do I do if I'm not handsome? I'm uninterested. We're not females. If you come to me and say, I'm an ugly chick, what do I do? That's a genuine question because then you're fucked, right?
you can become scary. You don't need to be good looking. You can be scary as hell. You can just be a monster. That's fine. You don't have to be handsome if you're scary, right? You don't really need to be that tall if you're important and rich. And when you walk in the room, you think what fucking Mayweather walks in the room, people give a shit.
as Mayweather. He's 5'3 or something. He's tiny. People shut the fuck up. That's right. So this whole narrative, this whole frame, the fact you even ask that question shows that you're fundamentally broken. So fix that.
Fix that frame in your mind. You are viewing yourself as a short man. Stop it because then she's going to view you as a short man. Walk the fuck up and be the man.
That's the answer to the question. There's no other answer to give you. You can't change it. That's the answer. So speaking of hard starts, one of the reasons I think that we became friends
Despite the fact that actually there's a story I'll tell later. All of us had a similar upbringing.
We really, really did. I'm from a council estate. And for English people who know a council estate is America, the trailer park, I guess, is the version of our council estate. And Justin Waller is from the trailer park. Sterling, you're just from where? I'm from the Outback. The Outback, the council estate and the trailer park. I mean, sit here, four millionaires right in front of you. We weren't born with all the stats that we have today.
Nobody was. Nobody here was.
Thank you.
You know what? I say this a lot. I feel like that start is the best advantage you could ever have in life. Absolutely. I say it all the time. I said being born a rich kid with any kind of advantage is like being born in the zoo in captivity. And then they close the fucking zoo, kick you into the jungle and you can't hunt. Yep, it's true. It should be. And here's another thing. I've never watched a movie.
worth a damn where the hero didn't have a shitty beginning
and could not go and overcome anything because if you if you meet if you meet a guy who has all it looks like he has all the stuff together and then you found out he comes from a wealthy family
a little part of you lose respect for him a little bit yeah you like it like you should want the heat you should want the the struggle because if not your story you better find it and let me tell you the struggle sucks if you stay there yeah we sit around us four and laugh about poor stories you're telling me about how your car would stall every time you made a turn you had to restart it halfway through and almost kill yourself i told you about the time mine broke down on a hill i got out four
Stories are funny as long as you make it out. So if you're still there and you're struggling thinking this sucks, yeah, it does. But believe me, you'll laugh at it if you do the work.
Yeah, it's not the destination, it's the journey. So if you have no journey, you have no lessons and you have no stories.
And Justin absolutely nailed it. I know a lot of people who are born rich and they've stayed rich and they're not even happy. That's the worst possible existence you can hope for. You're born rich. You have nothing to strive for in your life. What are you striving for? Right? You're striving for status as a man and the status is going to come from money and money is only going to be interesting because you're going to talk about all the times you were poor. That's what it's about. All these brokey days are going to be the best days of your life once you're out. It's like getting out of jail and telling your jail stories. It's funny, right? But if you stay in jail, it ain't that funny.
this is, don't be complaining about it. Margaret Thatcher said it. She said the best
Life anyone can live is to be born with good parents and no money. And she absolutely not really nailed it. It was Margaret Thatcher, the OG. Yeah, she nailed it. So guys, don't be sitting here talking about, oh, I'm poor. I'm short, whatever, whatever. We discussed that. That whole frame is wrong. Change it. You're a fucking full grown man. Change it. I got super chat for Sterling. Is semen retention a real thing? Because in my opinion, it's just a rebranded. It's just a rebranding of can't get laid. So because I can't retain semen. I can't because I mean, I quit jerking off.
eight years ago. I don't consume adult entertainment.
No offense. But, but,
I can't do semen retention. There's too many beautiful women who want my time and want my attention. Is it a real thing? Does it do the in your industry? Do people do this shit? Tell me. Look, look, like not jerking off is a thing. Yes. Right.
if you've got a beautiful woman around you, you should be ejaculating onto her face, or she should be retaining your semen. Okay. Good point. If you're- Touche. Think about it this way. Think about it this way. Do you think Genghis Khan practiced semen retention? He was the biggest badass of all time. He was running around pumping loads into every girl. Test level 1 billion. Right. So if he can conquer half the- you think Alexander the Great
Was semen retaining? Yeah. No, I don't think he was. He wasn't jerking off all the time. Yeah. He was having sex. His boyfriends were though. You know what my argument to that is? I've never met a guy who looked like he could get a woman talk about that bullshit. Yeah. Ever. That's a good point. Have you ever seen a guy talking about semen retention and you were like, man, I bet that dude could get a lot of women though.
No, no, no, no, no, no. Oh, semen retention. So I look people in the eye, dude, I'll jacket right now. Shake you in the hand. No problem. Won't even wash them off. Yeah. You know, it's really like it kind of pisses me off a little bit because
It's stupid.
like, yeah, of course, you shouldn't be sitting in front of the computer where they call it fapping, right? Yeah. Yeah. But that's because it's a waste of fucking time. Yeah. So the difference, like the fapping thing,
I think is a good thing to cut out. Because if you're using like porn to like go to sleep, okay, you get you're exposing yourself to a ton of blue light. You're probably staying up later than you should, right? It's just it's a lazy way of getting off. But if there's a beautiful woman there, your body responds totally different to this. Yeah.
Yep. There's a reason they call it the poor man sleeping pill.
you
I've never heard. I've never heard. They call it the poor man sleeping pill. You rub one out before you go to sleep.
Yeah, that's why it's poor.
I like that. I've never heard that. I like that. But yeah, you nailed it. I think that a lot of people make up a lot of excuses for the fact that they just lack motivation and fire blood. Like I fucked I fucked girls at 10 a.m. and had a world title fight.
the same day i fought girls before fights i fought girls the entire training camp i never went completely without sex i understand there was some argument for that i never tried it personally and people like oh but how did you find motivation because i wanted to win
If your mind is so fragile,
that,
If ejaculating is going to make you not have the will to conquer or to be an important specimen, if you're just going to jerk off and then lay in bed all day, well, then you're a jackass. Your problems are beyond semen retention. They truly are, right? You either want it or you don't.
I'll fuck a bitch and jizz and I'll still get up and go to the gym instantly and hit the gym. You either want it or you don't want it. And a lot of people will make up a lot of excuses and a lot of reasons for why they don't feel like they want it. And semen retention just feels like that to me. Oh, maybe this will help me stop being a loser. No, sir. You're a loser because your mentality is loser-ish. Right, we have a good super chat here. Simping is the root of all evil. Masculinity is our God energy. No excuses. I actually...
I actually agree with what you're saying.
If you truly were to imagine
God.
Imagine God coming down on earth.
Is he simping?
Is he taking shit?
Awesome chick. God.
No, sir. No, he's not. God does not subscribe to OnlyFans. No, God does not subscribe to OnlyFans. God does not watch Sterling Cooper having sex with women on Pornhub. No, he doesn't. So that's a good energy. And I've already made a lot of tape speeches and talked about how simping can damage the world as a whole. But I think also when you're simping, part of your soul dies.
And that's really important as a man. We're all vessels to some form of another of God. And when you're living a life and you know you're simping or you're doing something wrong, even if you get what you want, even if you simp your way to that pussy, there's a degree of guilt to it.
You guys know what I'm saying? You know when you sit home all day and play video games? I haven't done this in years. But when I was like 15, I played video games all day. I may have completed the level, but there was that nagging feeling in the back of my mind. Like I shouldn't have done that. And that's the same thing with simping. It hurts you deep to your core. And that kind of thing adds up.
It's a shame is a acquired taste. It's something you have to get used to, to accept. And if you never allow yourself to get used to the taste, it's going to taste bitter. Like ash, it's going to annoy you. It's going to aggravate you the second you taste it.
And that's how you should be. And I want a lot of people to understand as well, because there's a whole bunch of negative feelings and a negative,
understandings and frames about what simping is loving a woman's not simping taking care of a woman's not saying it's not it's not at all but but what what she once she has zero interest in you and you just simply can't let that go
then yeah, you are simping. That's going to hurt you to your soul. Me and Justin nailed it before. It's an unfair value exchange. That's what it is. An unfair value exchange with a woman is what simping is.
If you're not getting what you deserve as a man in return for your attention and your hard work and the effort that you're putting in, that is simping.
So that's what I think it is.
Oh, right. Quick Sterling Cooper story before about how he really upset me. So...
I've got this rule and I think we all have this rule. And in fact, I know we have this rule because every time we go to the same city,
Every time we go to the same town and we're messing around messaging girls on Instagram or whatever, girls will hit us all up.
Because it turns out girls like six foot plus millionaires who aren't too ugly. So like we do okay. Everywhere we go, we're messaging the same women. And we'll literally show each other profiles. Bro, you had her. You spoke to her. She messaged you. All right, that's all yours. Now, I don't sleep.
with girls who my friends have slept with. So I don't know this motherfucker, Sterling. And I do his podcast for the first time. And he goes, oh, yeah, no, I'm in the adult entertainment industry. I know. I know. I know. He goes, ah, you know any of those actresses out in Romania? They produced a few good ones. So I start naming. I name off five or six girls.
And one of them! So...
It's not my thing because I'll fuck virgins, porn girls, celebrities, TV presenters. If she's hot and she lives in my city, she ends up on my radar.
But I had a few fuck buddies who were porn stars or former porn stars and starting to get no did a scene with her and then I thought okay fuck I can ignore this I haven't met this guy yet so I meet him in Vegas I come back home I'm bored one night I call one of my fuck buddies over.
This porn girl comes to my house and I start having a good time. And all I can imagine is Sterling Cooper's ugly face staring at me. I had to cut these women off.
I was banging them before I knew this guy. So he ruined some of my flexes for me. But also, y'all, you know, it's a fist bump. It's a handshake. But...
You snuck one in after that happened. Yes.
you then snuck one in not quite asking me first if i'd work with her yes and then found out i know but but i was in london cool she'd hit me up we were talking on instagram and she's uh i mean you know we had our we had our fun do we name drop i don't know no no no let's not i have a question for you and then once again i have a question for you what's the best and worst thing
about being a porn star because a lot of men imagine yeah every man has this dream of being a porn star at some point tell me tell us the best and worst thing about being a porn star the best and the worst thing about being a porn star is the same thing it's the women
That's the best and worst thing about life. Okay. Okay. But let me, let me elaborate a little bit. So the best, the best thing about being a porn star is when you get is when you get on set, and she's an absolute
nymphomaniac and you two just hit it off and you're wondering why the is this director paying me a penny because i would have done this for free yeah and then the worst thing is when you're on set with some girl who's like
a diva
every like she's got an ego up to here complete narcissist she's on her phone all day she's acting like a bitch to all the people on set and it's like so if you have those i've got to get hard for this girl i'm genuinely interested have you had those girls who were like on camera making all the noises and the second the camera cuts like it off absolutely
- Yeah? - Yep, absolutely.
the key determining factor between whether she's a diva or an infomaniac is
before the camera even starts rolling is she sucking my dick yeah yeah so the lymphos the lymphos are sucking the dick when we're still doing the dialogue when she's like in the makeup chair she's giving you a wristy
But then.
These divas, like...
or the moment that camera stops. And I'm going to say this here right in front of everyone, and maybe we should do a poll on this.
I think I would struggle to sleep with a girl who I knew didn't like me.
you're more man than me sterling like if she was like i'll get off me i'll be like you know what you then that's why i don't like strip clubs mike no i don't go you've got to you've got to go to a really dark place yeah i mean i can imagine that's why that's why the spy strip clubs because
there's something transactional about it i don't care they'll come sit in your lap oh why are you here you're so handsome i i hate a strip club i can't i don't like them at all i can't stand them and and just another thing on the sterling cooper thing you guys are fapping to certain cooper's videos i live with sterling he's a girl on the balcony right outside my room every other night and i don't go look okay remember look he brought one home the other night loud she was loud
It brings them home to my house. Literally, she goes past my window because I can see the city, so I can see Brickle. I'm looking towards Fresh and Fit in them. Shout out. Shout out Fresh and Fit. She comes, and I don't want her to see me. I'm Netflixing by myself. Must have been a loser that day, and I'm just like,
still and then the next thing i hear is you know what i hear and i didn't go look so if i don't go look then you shouldn't type it in your computer you're destroying my ad revenue boston let the man make a living so that's the best best and worst thing about is about porn it's about it's the females themselves and they give me the best and worst thing about life but how does it affect your personal life i'm curious well to be i hang around with you so i know your personal life is awesome because you have friends like me
But...
Don't look at me like that, Sterling. I know what you want to say. No, but how does it affect your dating life, your relationships with women in the real world? Do you ever have women say, ew, you're a porn star, get away from me? Oh, that's not cool. Does it scare people away? Does it turn women on? Talk about that. You know, it does scare some of them away, but oddly enough, it actually doesn't scare away the really good girls.
Mm.
Because you know who somebody goes up in with. I've been with girls who are practically virgins. Yeah, I've met them. And they know what I do, and they're totally okay with it. But you know what? I think that's down to...
Because,
I don't actually have a sterling reputation myself.
See what I did there. But I think is an element of that trying to change the bad boy? Do you think that's what it is?
Yeah, because I get the good girls too. It's that. Yeah, it's the bad boy thing. It's like the danger. It's the excitement like
Obviously this guy knows what he's doing.
right and then i don't have to risk like sleeping around
to get the good dick.
She knows she's going to get the good dick on the first try. Yeah, that's true.
Yeah. And that's a big thing for women because they don't want to put their notch count up. And sometimes I hear that all the time. I hear that all the time. It's a big thing. All right. So we talked about how porn, the best and worst thing is females and and.
That's an answer which I'm obviously I believe I understand and I believe because you know the industry. I think that translates to life as well. I think the best thing about life and the worst thing about life can be the female you're with.
if you have a good woman by your side who's truly down and understands who you are and who you need to be as a man and supports you the best she can sometimes she'll cry sometimes you get upset whatever but if she truly does that can make life a really beautiful thing and all four of us know that and all four of us know that having a woman who's the opposite
Ask any dude who had a divorce. Like it can be horrible. So as a man managing females and your relationship with females is always going to have a huge impact on how enjoyable life is, porn is, whatever, anything. So that's a really interesting point. Why don't you believe in traditional education?
It's a complete... No, this is important because this is one of the biggest proportions
This is one of the biggest proportions of people's lives and debt. And it's also one of the biggest lies just purported by society. This is a really big, important subject. So why, as someone who's been through the educational system, because I've never been through it, right? I have my views on it, but you've been through it. Why do you not firmly believe in the educational system? Well, first of all, university is just one big booze up.
For the most part, it's like a four year booze. That would be terrible. Losers.
But we booze with purpose.
Yeah, that's true. Yeah.
It's a booze up that you're paying for in debt. You're wasting all the most precious years of your life. These years where you've got so much vitality and inspiration and drive and hunger. And instead of actually channeling that into learning a monetizable skill, which...
you can get financial independence from and location independence with. Right. You're channeling it into rote learning something.
ending up in a career where you're going to be miserable working a nine to five job for the rest of your life, and maybe running around chasing after some pussy.
That's really what you're spending four years doing. That time will be much better spent learning practical, valuable skills like sales, marketing, etc. Things that in today's day and age, which you can leverage...
your time on,
So you can live a lifestyle you actually want to because
You talk about this all the time. The collapse is coming, man. And we're very fortunate that we kind of got out early enough. But some of these young kids who are... If you're a young kid right now in university, man, a traditional university, I feel sorry for you. That's scary. That was scary. Dark days are coming. Dark days are coming. Justin Waller, what would you tell a 17-year-old version of yourself?
What if I'm going to get flagged for racist racial discrimination? You should, you should. Hey, hey, hey, I used to live in Indiana. If I'd never moved to London, I'd be talking like you too. That's why I nail the accent so perfectly. That's a poll right there. All right, you talk, I'll do the poll.
What's the poll? Did I nail the accent? Yeah, you nailed it. You nailed it. Man, 17? I would tell you that if it hurts, you might be doing the right thing.
You know, that's good. Go find pain. Most of the time you're going to find a reason. If you think something is going to hurt or it's scary to you, that's probably what you should be doing. You know, whether it's going to the gym, if it's going to talk to that girl that nobody else will go talk to because she's too pretty. If it's if it's taking a fight or are trying to make a sale that's bigger than you thought it should be going after some big kind of revenue, asking for asking for a contract that's bigger than what you're used to or you think that is possible for you.
yourself playing american football like you did you got a badass scar by the way yes bad boy go do something that's painful
whether it be from physical pain or fear and most of the time if you can if you can find that and go towards it go looking for that pain especially at that young age when your testosterone so high then you're probably doing the right thing you're probably on the right path do that you know you know in your gut do that go after that 17 year old Andrew what would you tell yourself I think Justin actually nailed it he did I know you nailed it do hard things names names a single
attribute for masculinity which is going to come from a place other than trauma or pain i talk about this all the time people say i've had a traumatic life i say well then you're very very fortunate you had a traumatic life now you may have misused that trauma you may have misplaced it you may have accepted the matrix telling you that you now have an excuse to fail as opposed to using it to grow but every single man of value went through trauma and they went through pain
It's gonna be painful to get strong, painful to get rich, painful to become important. It's gonna be painful to become good with women. Your hearts can get broken a bunch of times. You have to be prepared for the pain. If you're not ready for pain,
You're never going to be anything that matters. So Justin just absolutely and utterly nailed it. My kickboxing coach used to say to me, I used to come in the gym, he'd say, what do you hate the most? And I said, I hate running. He'd say, okay, you're going running.
and say why he goes because whatever you hate is what you need you know
Whatever you hate is what you need. I want to spar, bad work, pads, no problem. Running, I didn't want to run, but that's what you need. And that's what life's about. You're not going to be able to go through life avoiding pain and also becoming a man of quality. You're going to have to be that guy who's been through so much shit.
that he can wake up and go, this ain't nothing.
This, this ain't nothing compared to back then. This ain't nothing compared to that time, you know? And if you're not going to be that guy, then you're going to always suffer the consequences of not being that guy. There's pain to become important and there's pain in not being important. So you have to make a choice. So I think Justin absolutely nailed it. I think his answer is even better than mine could be. You need to find something you're afraid of, find something that could hurt you and go do it. And that's one of the great things about being young, right? You're basically superhuman.
Yeah. All of us are a draw in our thirties. I remember when I was 21, bro, I could drink all night. I run 20 miles. I only hurt me like Wolverine like healing abilities. And this is actually one of the problems with the world today. I know it's the internet spot this up because we have all these youngsters who have a voice.
They all think they know something on Twitter and on the internet, these kids, right? When I was 23, 22, I didn't know shit. I'm 35 now. I'm on the smartest man on the planet. And when I was 23, I didn't know shit. When you're 35, you're definitely going to still be a dumbass. So when you're 23 like you are now, you don't know anything.
your only attribute is the fact you have wolverine like healing abilities you're not using it stop talking start listening get out there get hurt get the back up that and there's a there's a degree there's also something i want you to comment on from the football perspective but there is a degree of wisdom that comes from physical physicality i learned a whole bunch of about the world from just having my ass kicked it wasn't even conversations it was just getting
tweets people like that's so wise where'd you learn that oh kicked in the face that's how yeah
i don't learn in the classroom in college i learned everything on the field and what it what it does when you go find pain in the real world when it's emotionally hard you can go back to oh i physically have gone through way worse than this so i trust myself in a different way it's true and what i'd add to that about what andrew was saying is that you can tell the size of a man by
is in big problems. And then also, like you said, as you're able to take on bigger and bigger problems, those things get less and less painful. So a lot of people like that Facebook thing we're looking at the other day, guys like it's $80 for a half a tank of gas. That means he can't fill his tank up. I am so far past. I had that problem in high school, $5 at a time, bro. You know what I'm saying? I remember like gauging, okay, shit, I can go this much past E before I have to push this
Go find big problems because then those problems are pain.
And the more pain you can take and the more problems you can solve, the bigger those problems are, the bigger you'll be as a man. And it's my favorite quote. You can tell the size of a man by the size of his problems. Go get some. No, absolutely. And I think that is another thing that actually has a huge correlation to your ability to be successful.
If someone were to say to me and say, "How can you tell someone's gonna be successful?" I wouldn't say,
highest IQ and we've already proved this with studies, right? The highest IQ has nothing to do with how successful you are. It doesn't. I would say the number one thing that will tell me how successful a person will be, especially as a man, is their stress tolerance. Yes. You're not going to have a big life.
without big problems. You're not gonna be important without four girlfriends, 22 cars, three businesses. Fuck your phone ain't gonna stop. It's gonna be stressful. Banks are gonna get frozen. Money's gonna go missing. You're not gonna have a big life that's a calm ocean. You need to learn to just surf the waves and laugh.
because most people just collapse under the pressure. Stress tolerance is a massive indicator of how successful you're going to be. And no matter what happens in my life now, I can sit there and go, well, at least I'm not about to get in the cage and deal with that guy, you know? And you need to have, at least I can eat.
We've all been through stages where we can't eat. So stress, stress tolerance is something that can be learned. It's something that you can, you can, like you said, it's a muscle. It's a muscle. It's a muscle. When you're young, go out there and get, get stressed, get upset, have those sleepless nights. You should, at 17, 18, you should be panicking. Right. And that's going to give you a stress tolerance level that allows you to grow into an adult, which can handle a big life. You're not going to have a big life. You're not going to be here. Like all four of us are living the life like we're living, rolling around Europe and supercars with unlimited finance and have that big life.
I think that you're not going to have any kind of stress or problems to get there and maintain it. That's not real. I'll end this with a quotation I really like from a book I read. It says, happiness...
is a lot like the the castles and fairy tales that we used to read as the children
in the way that they're all guarded by dragons.
I like that. You gotta get through the dragon to reach that fucking castle. I'm telling you. Right. More booze.
No, we have a good super chat here. Justin absolutely nailed that question with the answer seeking pain and more so with the final statement of, you know, in your gut, lots of men instinctively know what they should be doing, but they don't do it. So what do you guys think about that? What do you think about when the guys come to you and say, I want to be in good shape, but I'm not in good shape. So how do I get in good shape? What's your answer to those kinds of questions, bro? Those, those are, it's absolute horseshit. What, what you're doing when you ask a question like that,
is you're validating that you tried without fucking doing anything. There's not a person that cannot go on Google right now
and find free information about how to get in shape. For God's sake, we've worked out this entire trip with nothing better than a hotel gym. Yeah, this entire trip, we did not miss one day of training, no matter how much we drank emergency meeting in the gym, which was a lot of sweat it off. Don't be a pussy. Turn up. Did any of us miss a lift? I don't remember missing a lift. No once. Did you miss? No, I didn't miss one. Did I need to ask one of you how to how to come to the gym and fucking do pull ups and push ups until until we're so tired that we had to go
to the next emergency meeting talk about making money so what is the problem just get up and go now one thing i would advise a guy like that to do is to change your atmosphere to an atmosphere where the men around you have the expectation that you're going to turn up and train
have the expectation that you're going to turn up and talk about money are banks locking the bank the bank's locking up your money or how to set up a corporation in dubai or how to you know do a 1031 exchange or whatever whatever it is that you change your atmosphere if you're in a atmosphere where people do not have the expectation of you to perform then you should look at doing that because it'll help
put a foot in your ass because if I don't show up to a lift, then I have to look all you guys in the face at lunch.
And we're going to call you horrible names. Right. And that ain't going to happen. Yeah. So if you already know what to do and you can't find it in yourself to do it, number one, you need to go see the man in the mirror.
and ask him what he doesn't trust about himself to be able to do that. And then secondly, you need to change or find a group of people in a scenario where it's not even acceptable not to turn up and do what you know you should do in your gut.
Nailed it. Absolutely nailed it. You're right. And that's another thing that's quite interesting to me. Most people understand the saying that you're the sum of the five people you spend the most time with.
And then they spend their time with losers.
Why do you think that happens? How do people end up sitting there going, yeah, I need to know rich people and then sitting around with jackasses. And I think it's just because it makes them feel better about their own decisions. But well, Sterling, before you met me, Andrew, Justin, etc, you described yourself as a lone wolf.
So, and I've never, I can't answer this question. I really can't because I don't know what it's like to be a lone wolf.
My life has always been at least a team effort. So you literally were. You said, Tristan, I was a lone wolf before I found you guys. What are the differences between being a man, trying to make it by yourself, and hanging out with a group of guys like us? Well, for a start, the difference is all the bullshit.
programming in the matrix, everyone else believes it.
and you're the only one who doesn't believe it. So you start to think, "Am I fucking crazy?"
am i the only yeah am i the only person who believes this and then you finally run into people
like these guys right here, who share the same worldview as you. Why do you think me and Justin moved in?
within what? A few months? A couple of months of knowing each other?
It's because we met at a warm event.
we clicked immediately we knew okay this guy's got the same values as me he's on the same path as me why wouldn't i
surround myself with this kind of guy.
And I've added that.
So either they believe it or I used to find myself getting very angry because I believed that they thought the same thing that I think, but they were too much of a coward or took too less of an action to do anything about it. So I felt very alone, particularly before I joined the war room, because slowly as I stayed in shape and I started to make more money and I stopped getting invited to gender reveal parties. Seriously.
Because their wives are like, bro, he's bad boy. I don't want him around my husband. You know what I'm saying? I was holding my breath angry. Like, fuck this. I'm not giving in because I know there was something in here. I knew there was somebody out there that was like me. I told you this, Andrew. First, I saw Andrew on Cooper, Richard Cooper. And then I watched about, I don't know, two hours worth of videos. I punched a dent. I still have this dent in my Ford F-150 laughing because he was saying shit that I've been telling people and watching them walk away from me.
even because they couldn't believe it because they knew they couldn't do it.
And so I just held my breath until I find. And that's what I think is so important is I always say fuck time and fuck blood.
I want to know, do our souls align? I need to find people that believe things that I believe, that want the same things that I want. And I think that any person, despite what they want, what they want is choice. And to get choice, you need to find a group of people that can support you inside a tribe that's strong enough to have your back all the way around. The first time I met Andrew, we were closer than we're sitting right now. I'm sitting there talking and I asked him directly to his face. I said, what is it that allows you to do that?
to be who you are so openly and so widely. And he said, no matter what happens in this world, I have Tristan.
And since then, we've all had each other.
And so I've never looked back because it was me against the world. I felt like, and I was just holding my breath waiting and here it is. So if you have any values, more than likely you have values with us watching the show. And that is the number one reason you should make the investment to join the war room.
Or to join HU or do anything of that nature find people whose souls line up with you and the next thing you know You're mixing and bringing everything in and then you align with those people and you'll have true happiness and you'll definitely have a true family and that's what we had in Europe That's what we've had ever since we met in Vegas
Amen. Amen. Sorry guys name something you couldn't live without.
Another super chat.
Thank you.
Good question. Let's rest. Oh, Sterling. Let's go. Yeah, something you couldn't live without. Like Brotherhood.
especially going back to not having this kind of thing
Yeah, especially as you get older. I cannot imagine...
being like a 40 plus, 50 plus, 60 plus year old man and not having...
a group of boys.
to still reminisce with and laugh. Like you say, the rocking chair test, right? To look back at all the stupid shit you've done together, the laughs you said together.
I could not imagine a life without that.
Well, just being alone and going like only being around like a woman. You know, that was such a good answer. We were all planning to stop talking to you after this show immediately. But you know what? That was such a sweet answer, Sterling. I think we're going to take that back. What do you think, guys? Should we cancel the plan and still hang out with this guy?
it's suspect you know what i would say about that is i mean one thing i could not live without is control of my own life
Yeah, we couldn't go on to Europe without control of my life. If I if I can't live a life where I live life on my terms, on my decision, doing what I feel in my own heart with the people that will accept me for it.
and anybody else can get fucked, then that's not life at all.
That's slavery. So for me,
It's control of my own life. I cannot live without that. And I would rather if I went bankrupt tomorrow, I would not take a good job working for somebody. I would work a shit job that I would get fired from in pursuit of the life that I wanted. Because the scariest thing that can happen to you is you take a good job or you take a situation where you get so far deep in it that you feel like you can't get out of it or you have something to lose. I would rather go at it broke until I have a life that I want with control of my situation. That's including losing a woman, by the way.
If you can't look a woman in the eyes and tell her what you really want, do you really love her?
No.
And do you really love yourself because you're going to lie to her so she'll sleep with you? It's called the golden handcuffs. You don't want to be in that situation where you don't want to lose them. You're still handcuffed, but you don't want to lose them because they're made of gold. You said this to me and Andrew the other day. We were eating dinner last night, and you said, well, we said, I said, let's all put our phones down, face down for the next two hours. You're like, don't you lose thousands of dollars every time you do that because you guys are always working? We're like, yeah, but sure, we're having dinner with our friends. But does it matter because you have control of your own situation? My boss isn't going to scream at me.
which is intrinsic, which is actually something that most men I don't believe have experienced because it comes with true success. People always talk about fuck you money, right? It's not just about being saying fuck you. It's about truly being able to express how you feel. And that comes with success. And I don't mean success financially. I mean, success in all realms. Most men.
can't raise their voice they can't raise their voice at their job they'll get fired they can't raise their voice in their house their woman's like who the fuck you yelling at
They can't raise their voice to anyone. They're not allowed to be angry and someone to give a shit, right? There's something amazing about living with true intention and just being happy when you're happy, being mad when you're mad, and people caring. If we get mad, people are like, shit, he's mad. You know what I'm saying? Imagine being a full-grown man and being furious and going, I better shut up. This 115-pound woman might leave. You know what I'm saying? And more? Absolutely. You can't go back from that.
like a true heart.
It's a beautiful thing. And most men, especially, you suppress yourself. You don't live that way. You're not allowed to. Society doesn't want to. Your circumstances don't allow you. And that's something once you've gone to, you can't go back to. I'm allowed to be miserable if I decide to be.
You understand?
it's a beautiful thing and that's why i was i used to get mad because i never believed that those men were living a life they wanted to live they simply would choose to suppress themselves into believing the and for that reason i would hold my breath
No, you nailed it. And that's where it comes with a degree of success. And when you're talking about what you couldn't live without, one of the greatest things about being rich is not having money. It's just about being able to say, you know what?
I could make a million dollars if I worked with that person.
but I don't like that person. Oh, that person is a big podcast. I don't like them. Oh, but Andrew, he could put you on. I don't like, I don't need money. I don't like you. It's just like, fuck you. I don't need you. Like it's, it's, it's being true to yourself and true to your intent. And once you're true to your intent, I also believe you're going to get spiritual. I believe you get closer to God. I believe you become a better person. You're a better person when you don't go through life lying. Most men are going through life, putting on a face. They don't want
repeating things they don't believe. And we all know that lies are a sin, gentlemen, and you are lying to yourself and everyone around you. People will come here and say, oh, Andrew's full of shit. Andrew's arrogant, whatever. I live with true intent. If I tell you, I like you, I like you. If you come up to me on the street and I'm like, oh, hey, gee, I wish the best for you. I wish the absolute best for you. If I dislike you and I'll punch you in the face, I meant it. I live with complete true intent. I have a pure heart and I believe that's more important. And that's something
and call your friends out on this because the mask will slip the mask will slip occasionally how many of you 8 000 people watching i refuse to believe that some of you aren't sitting drinking with their friend your friends sometimes and your friends are sitting there like oh man i hate my wife i don't want to go home tonight so awesome
Fucking tell your wife what she's doing wrong. Call him out.
Tell him to fucking man up and say his opinion because the mask slips off all of these people.
It really does. And you see it. I've seen it in hundreds of men myself. And that's why I would say that ethics happens before you need them. A lot of these guys, they let so many things slip in their life and they look up and they're like, I'm fat.
I can't get other women, so I'm a slave to my wife. I can't make money. So the gas going up double is hurting me. I can't help my friends if they get in a fight because I'm a fucking coward. You know, they've never they've never been through anything. They've never done the work. A lot of times, if you don't do the work before you need, for example, I made a YouTube video once about a buddy of mine. They got in a really bad situation. There was a flood in Louisiana. It cost me eight Gs. If I had not done the work before I
the flood the flood happened I would not have been in a position to help him when he needed me you have to do the work the the fight is coming the fat the fat wife that bitches at you is coming the job that you can't get out of where you're stuck in a cubicle or you're turning a wrench or whatever you're doing all day it's coming are you doing the work to do something about it before it gets there because if you can't walk away then you're trapped and then you're truly truly suppressed
the right place. You need to get water and buckets before the drought.
- Yep. - And so many people think that once the drought comes, it'll be okay. Oh, once I'm overweight, I'll fix it. - No, no, sir. That's far too-- - I'll wait till New Year's Eve to start working out because that's my resolution.
One more thing I want to talk about while you guys are on the show, because I think a lot of people don't understand about the world. And I get this a lot because my view on the world and the way I write things is I've been told many times my view on the world and the way I write things comes from a place of violence. And people see that as a bad thing, but I don't think it's from a place of violence. I think that my life and my worldviews are a place of competition. And I believe that the world is player versus player. I believe you need a winning team because I believe you're trying to beat the losing teams. I believe every single girl that any of us get, we took from some other dude who wanted her.
That's the truth. You're damn right. Every dollar you make, someone else wanted, right? To a degree, it's competition. It always has been. It's player versus player. So I don't really feel sorry for the people who don't put themselves in a winning position because people like us need them to beat. You can't have a winner without a loser. So, and I also, and this is another view of mine, if someone truly wants to be a winner, they don't really need that much help to get there. So who helped you guys in your early days? Like who was actually really telling you to not be a fat piece of shit besides yourself?
had our inspirations i had mine but was there anyone big in your life who was coming along saying no you gotta keep it together
Or was it just looking in the mirror and knowing what you're supposed to do and doing it anyway?
Thank you.
Yeah, I mean, go ahead, Sterling. Because Sterling, am I right? I mean, how many dudes dream of being a porn star? 20%, 30%, 40%? Every dude who's jerking it wishes he was in the videos. Didn't you cold email yourself into the porn industry? Like, please, please, tell us. Because I'm a fucking G, that's why. The response I got from the first director I ever pitched, he said,
This is okay. So the story was I used to be a swinger as well. Right. And so there was this couple that I used to fuck his wife.
and they're really cool friends with me and i was like can i film this because i want to apply to be in a porno yeah so i filmed it it was terrible like i bought all this camera it was terrible so you're not mr producer no i'm definitely not mr you're not mr producer but i dropped it into a
wrote this really well written email not how it happened this is this is the original clip this is the video this is the original clip enjoy ladies and gentlemen hey clearly this is not me but he replied back this is the most professional application i've ever received i'll give you a shot and the reason i thought that was honestly the answer to your question
is that my inspirations actually came from books, from authors, I should say, from people, mentors and stuff. Because I had no one from the Outback, man. Who am I going to find around me that knows how to make money?
that knows how to sign online business. Mick Dundee is broke. Exactly. He lives in the bush.
so i had to like ryan holiday was a really good inspiration for me tim ferris early on craig ballantyne simon black through these guys they they really
nailed down a few basic principles for me and i just went from there basically
Nice. What about you, Justin?
So I think a lot of times in life, people follow what they see. But for me, it was...
um i it my my upbringing gave me a great example of what i did not want to become so i was kind of running from that i used and i don't want to say running but i i knew that it's what i didn't want
So when I was a kid, I'd be really, really, really good at sports because I knew that the other kids' parents would let me stay at their house. So I'd get the fuck out of there. And so, like, I have photos of me and my brothers and sisters. They're all morbidly obese.
And my brother, too. Yeah. And your cousin. So it's like, for me, I just knew what I didn't want.
and and so i would try to put myself in different atmospheres and i think that's why i'm so big on atmospheres is if if you're in a position where you know there's shit food in the house there's shit going on that shouldn't be going on there's drugs there's alcohol there's people that are going to pull you down if you try to raise yourself up there's people going to try to tell you change and change atmospheres because if you don't do that then it you're creating a scenario where you're always going to be swimming against the current
So for me, it was really about what I didn't want to become because it was right in front of my face. And you know what? That's one of your favorite quotes. We're on a $6 million yacht in Dubai. We're at a castle in the middle of Transylvania. We're in the Mediterranean. You'll look at me and you just put your hands up and you'll be...
It's a long way from the trailer park. How many dudes from where you're from get to do what you've done? So it's very cool. Every time you say it, I'm happy for you. I really am. Knowing what you don't want is just as good as knowing what you do want. And I've lived off good examples and bad examples.
So absolutely. So we have another super chat here. I'm going to answer because while we all have all four of us here, let's try and do as many super chats as possible. I agree. My twin brother got a girlfriend. I forgot his purpose makes himself dependent on her and I don't know what to do. It hurts to watch. No, no, no. Let me answer this. Let me answer this.
I was once 18. I'm going to admit a mistake I made. I was 18 years old. I had no money.
I had no car.
I had nothing, but I had a girlfriend at the time, and I was cheating on her with one or two other girls. I've always had a few women around because I was young. I was strong. I was smart. I was kickboxing. I was flat broke. I wasn't dealt all the cards in life. And this girlfriend was giving me a hard time, but I think you cheat on me. I was like, baby, of course I don't cheat on you. I mean, I'm 18, but I've still got my moves right. So she's like, you know, to prove you don't cheat on me, change your profile picture on Facebook. It was before Instagram to a picture of us two, so I'll change it.
Andrew's 19 and a half. He comes to me. He says, what the fuck did you do that for?
I said, what do you mean? I still got, I mean, I just want to keep her happy enough. And I've got other girlfriends, blah, blah. He says, no, capitulation is the enemy. So are you the older brother or the younger brother?
Andrew stepped in right now. He was 100% right.
It was not really an argument, but I was like, bro,
You know, I once tried to work night shifts and I was missing kickboxing training. And you said, nope, nope, night shifts, more money, work day shift.
Gotta do your kickboxing. I was like, yeah, bro, but I need money. He was like, money?
What good's money if you get knocked the fuck out on the street?
And last week, if you want to take confidential, I still got these kickboxing skills. I saw a man sit in my car and knocked him. I knocked him the fuck out. So
the older brother if you are the older brother you have a massive role to play but the younger brother can do it too because i've held you in check a few times you've held me in check a few times it's it's exactly what justin was saying and what we all say about hanging around dudes you have a duty
to intervene here.
Because I can name times I've slipped up. He can name times he slipped up on a minor way, even though we've known each other a few years. We'll slip up ourselves and correct each other, you know,
Do your job, bro. It's your fucking brother. Who the fuck are you going to team up with? Not him. What now? He's her teammate.
fix it yep you know what i'd say about that in addition you know why you helped andrew or why andrew helped you is because if you really really love an individual you're willing to risk them being upset with you
If I love you so much, I will confront you and risk you being angry at me. I actually love you. Most people, fair weather friends mostly, oh no, it's fine, it's fine, it's fine. And then when you leave the altar, he's really fucking up because they don't give a fuck enough about you to get in your face and say, man, you're fucking up and you can get mad at me. You want, I love you that much. They're letting you learn the hard way. And why the fuck should you do that to anyone you care about?
Anyone.
So what about you, Sterling? You want to answer?
What was the question? His brother's simping out.
His brother's simping out. Oh, this guy. Yeah. I'll tell you what I would do.
I'll tell you what I would do. I would go to him and I'd have a man to man, a 10 or 15 minute conversation. I'd say, look,
You're capitulating and you're giving this woman what she wants. If you end up lasting forever, married with children, and you are going to capitulate and she's going to be happy and she's going to respect you and you live a happy life, then I have nothing to say. However, if she leaves you,
that I want me and you to agree that I'm in charge of repairing your heartbreak.
if she leaves you and you can't sleep at night, you're not going to sit there blowing up her phone while some other dude's fucking her. You're not going to sit there chasing some girl who doesn't want you. I'm in charge of what's going to happen to your life when you can't sleep. I'm the one who's going to turn that trauma and that heartache and build you into a better man. And if he agrees to that deal, then you have to let time take its toll. Maybe she is the perfect woman. Maybe his capitulation is going to all end happy. But perhaps she's going to run off with some other dude and he's going to be sitting there messaging her phone,
at 7 a.m. Full of heartbreak, not being able to concentrate on anything in his life. Jerking off. Angry all the time. Jerking off to Sterling Cooper videos. Yeah, following her on social medias, etc.
If that's the case,
then you need to come along with a battle plan for that. And I'll be honest with you, man. I will honestly contribute
one of the facts two of the facts that the reason i'm such an amazing kickboxer was to two things one i drunk so much tequila when i was 18 i quit alcohol for four years which was one of it and two when i was 20.
Me and my girlfriend broke up.
I was with her for four years.
I couldn't sleep.
I could and this is before social media. You couldn't just chase a bitch like that was it. She's gone now. She moved. I didn't know where she lived. That was it. And I couldn't sleep. Now, it wasn't like I was crying my eyes out, but I was just.
Where's my hoe at? I couldn't sleep. Need something else to do. Need something else to do. So I thought, fuck, I'll hit the gym at 6 a.m., hit the gym at 3 p.m., hit the gym at 8 p.m. I had nothing else to do but fight. So I took all that trauma, all that heartbreak, and I molded it into becoming a world-level combatant, right? So there's nothing. What did we talk earlier about how trauma can mold you? How trauma can be a fantastic thing? Heartbreak.
depression sadness these are all fantastic motivators
You're just I'm telling you why they're a fantastic motivator. You go to a guy who's heartbroken. He has all the motivation in the world to send 300 text messages. He has the motivation. He's putting it in the wrong place. That's 300 cold emails. You could be sending a lot of money you could have made. Yeah. I'll tell you right now. Some of the greatest accomplishments in my life have come after.
a heartbreak absolutely yeah
It's that fuck, I call it fuck you energy. Yeah. You take that and you're like,
Because some guys will get butthurt about that, and they'll sit there and they'll wallow in self-pity. I've always thought the correct...
application of that energy is okay.
prove that she made a shitty mistake. Go out and become...
a fucking millionaire. Go out and become a kickboxer. Go out and become a porn star, whatever. Go out and build two buildings. Right? And then she's going to look around when she's,
50 pounds heavier,
in a year's time, you're like, "Mother fuck, I left him. I let him go." And internally, my ego could be like, "I got you." Life's gonna hurt you and how you use that pain is completely and utterly up to you. You can use that pain to galvanize yourself as a man and become a better man you've ever been. I'm not saying that I'm only successful because of some chick. I'm saying that every single time that I was heartbroken, I never wasted a second. I was never wallowing. That's what I'm saying.
Especially as a young man. We talked about this on the show. You're going to get your heart broken as a young man. I've had it happen to me. We've all had it happen to us.
And it's not even about anger towards a girl. Me and Tristan talked about this on the podcast that we did together, Gentleman Game. It's...
seven years later because as a man you're gonna get your value later yes right so if you use that energy to put all that work in these girls they come back around and i love to see them come back not because i'm in love again just because it's like yeah you know i told you so no i said this like anybody who tries to get revenge on a woman oh on a woman it's a urine that's incel energy that's that's a wrong way of looking at it the only revenge you can get on a woman who breaks
best friend, just level up slowly. And when she messages you,
You got two choices. You're going to say, sorry, baby. You're not my type anymore. Boom, you win. Or you could fuck her again. One last spin on the Ferris wheel. Yeehaw. So that's the answer to the question. Put a plan together for the heartbreak if it comes and make sure that plan is constructive. Because everything we've been saying on this podcast is true. Trauma is going to come. Pain is going to come. You have to use it in a constructive way. I'm not telling you to tell him to avoid the pain. I'm saying that when it comes, make sure it's used in a constructive way. And still to this day, that's all I would ever do.
I would find the most constructive possible outlet. And that's a conscious decision. You have to have the emotional control to make a conscious decision in that direction.
- Right. - One more super chat, gentlemen, while we're here.
Shout out to Sterling because I said I would. There you go. This is a good one where I want to yell at someone. How do you deal with procrastination?
and laziness.
Why are you asking me that question?
Why are you on this podcast asking me how to stop procrastinating? Turn off YouTube. Go do something.
Jesus Christ, what's wrong with people?
This is exactly what you were talking about, about asking a question where you already know the answer to. You know the answer is to stop doing things that waste your time and apply yourself to something important. Now, this may not be a waste of your time, but let me tell you, you're a dumbass, clearly. It's like Googling how to get fit, like you just said. Everyone knows what a push-up is.
do 10 000 of them a day stop wasting your time you know i've never had to deal with procrastination i've never had to deal with not being motivated because what is the alternative literally be a loser forever i am sick of reading on the internet saying yeah you know some people are special and they take longer to bloom and your time will come let me tell you something 99.9 of people who are
and their it's all going to come to you at the right time bullshit is fucking a psyop.
to keep you down.
You already know the answer. You don't need me to tell you. Why the fuck are you asking four men who do not know you personally how to stop wasting your time? I don't even know what you do to waste your time. You already know the fucking answer. Can we ban this guy from our feed or do you guys want to hit him up first?
You nailed it.
Procrastination. I'm not going to try and change who you are as an individual. I don't know you. Have fun staying poor. Have fun staying poor. I don't know your genetic makeup. If you were a warrior, you wouldn't be asking that question. So you're either going to become a warrior or you need to adopt the ways of a warrior or you need to accept your position in life, which is just to suffer the pain of being a loser forever. Get a job at the car wash. Maybe I'll tip you one day. Correct. Enjoy. I agree with what they're both saying on a very, very practical level. Me and Andrew were talking about this on the day.
uh just this morning on the way to launch i guess or this afternoon is being perfect on purpose man like don't i always tell people like shoot the gun shoot shoot shoot shoot shoot and as long as you're aiming in the general direction you're supposed to no matter what you do the first time you shoot that gun you're going to have to adjust the scope so shoot the gun so you know how far you're off every business pivots every every workout plan is going to pivot everything is
then you start honing it in and then you actually have a little bit of positive momentum that'll get your ass up and going. So shoot the fucking gun, miss on purpose, be imperfect on purpose, take action over everything.
Because you're never going to do it perfect anyway. So just go, go, go, go.
I hope that what these two gentlemen said just now about you being a loser and me staying broke pisses you off.
Yeah. Because if it pisses you off, you might actually do something. Yeah. That is actually the blessing that these two just gave you is pissing you off. Or I'll see you in the car wash. Yeah. I don't I don't care if you turn your life around. I don't know you. I don't care. There's there's not many.
truly like if you put effort into the universe i think it's luton's it's newton's second law right equal and opposite force people always say oh i wish i had something to work on you could work hard on anything
It can be the most jackass thing. You can work hard on, I don't know, fucking whittling twigs.
But if you truly work your ass off, it's difficult for it to have a negative impact on your life.
Maybe you'll end up with an Instagram page, the best Instagram page on twig whittling.
and and who knows right my point is that it's very hard to find truly truly negative energy that's directed in a in a semi-positive direction it's hard to say i'm working my ass off at x and it's made my life worse you know you're not you're not doing anything and and you're asking the question hoping i'm going to give you some magical answer that's going to allow you to be motivated forever but motivation isn't real everyone says this motivation is not real discipline's real i do not feel like training but i still train because i'm a disciplined individual you don't
Do you know who gets to do that? Women. Beautiful women. Beautiful women get to do what they feel like doing. As a man, you have to do the things you're supposed to do, because what we said earlier is absolutely true. It's player versus player, my friend. Now, if I wake up, I've already got this massive head start over you in life and nearly every genetic gift,
plus all my finances, plus my network. And I wake up and I decide, even though I don't feel like working, I'm going to work my ass off. And you wake up way down there, a peon, and you can't be bothered to work. What chance do you have against men like us?
You don't stand a chance. You can't get the girl. We'll take the girl off you. We'll bankrupt your ass. We'll kick you out your house. You name it. You don't stand a chance. Now, if you're going to wake up and look in the mirror and understand that you're absolutely and utterly crushable.
that you're a rabbit and that lions exist, and that's not going to motivate you to do something about it, then you're a lost cause.
And there's no point in asking us a question. You know exactly what you need to do. If you want to stay killable,
then stay killable.
but i can't live that way i would refuse to live that way it's a disgrace to my bloodline it's a disgrace
to my parents who struggled to raise me, for me to be anything other than the best version of myself. That's honor. I have honor to my last name and to my ancestry. It would be disgusting for them all to fought saber tooth tigers, so I can wake my lazy ass up, jerk off all day and ask on YouTube how I can stop being a fucking loser.
You understand where I'm coming from? Oh, 100%. So this is down to you, my friend. And listen, you may feel fired up for 10 minutes after this little talk, but you're not going to feel fired up forever. You need to put systems in place. You need to get disciplined. And like Justin says, you need to get an atmosphere of people around you who are going to keep you accountable and not make it easy for you to continue to be a fucking nobody.
And then you're going to fix your life.
Otherwise, you're going to stay nobody.
That's your problem. It ain't my problem. It's your problem.
But also we need people at the car wash. When I go to McDonald's and I order a burger, someone has to make it. And I used to make them. I even hate it. If you're in McDonald's trying to better yourself, working your job away, good for you. Working on your side hustles, working yourself. I used to work at fast food, but we need people to make those burgers because sometimes men like us get hungry. Good question here. I got a good question. I know your general opinion on college, but in Germany, college is cheap.
It's very cheap. It's like 2,000 euro.
So you don't go into debt in any way. So would you say it is worth it?
Thank you.
I'd say it depends what you're studying. There's very, very few degrees that are actually worthy of a college degree.
Law Medicine...
engineering, it might be about it. Because then you can actually, if that's like how you want to contribute to the world and leave a legacy, okay, cool. I save lives. I build buildings.
whatever I mean, actually, scratch lawyer because lawyers are scumbags.
But for everything else, it's a waste of your time. It's like four fucking years. You've got, like I said before, all this energy. That is expensive. Four years is expensive. I wouldn't sell four years for ten billion dollars right now. Exactly.
Mm.
Candy's also cheap and I don't eat it. So I'd say no. Good point. Good point. Nailed it.
No, no, you're right. Candy's cheap and I don't eat it. Your time is valuable. And also the question is, it depends how you're going to use your time.
If we say don't go to college and you're going to play video games instead, then you should have gone to fucking college. Yeah, that's also true. If you're going to join Hustlers University or join the War Room, start paying attention, taking all those 10 hours a day, dedicating them towards trying to learn how to make money, listening to podcasts like this one, paying attention to what we're saying, actually getting up off your ass and working on something else, then absolutely don't go.
So it really depends how you're going to use that time. I don't want you to say, oh, I ain't going to college because Tate said so, so I'm going to play Super Smash Brothers. Well, that's not going to get you anywhere. If you're going to constructively allocate those seconds towards something else, then yeah, I think there's always something better else to do. I don't think the Matrix in and of itself is going to teach you how to escape the Matrix. And colleges and educational systems are all a tool of the Matrix. That's what they're for. They wouldn't exist if they could free you. They wouldn't exist if they could stop you from being a slave. They exist on purpose.
They exist to condition your mind for slavery.
Don't waste your time, but if you're going to sit there and you're trying to decide, then instead of allocating 1.5 or 2,000 euros to college and wasting four years, I'd allocate $49 to Hostos University and make a bunch more money. That's what I would do, but it's only if you're prepared to actually do some work. Right. There is one. Question. Justin, what do you think about...
the united states is it disappointing for you to see what's become of the country how do you think the south will uh hold out compose uh compared to the inner cities it's a good question do you see yourself ever leaving the united states good question very good question
Thank you.
Thank you.
Thanks.
I want to pull for America in every way. I grew up going to Veterans Day assemblies in school. It's really hard for me to pull for a country that will not fight for itself.
I'm disappointed. I genuinely was happy in 2016 when Trump won. I'd never felt more proud of my country because I felt like it was a stand against bullshit. One thing I hate most in my life is hypocrisy.
I think there's a lot of hypocrisy in America.
In regards to the South, I do think the South, although a bit ignorant in a lot of ways, are happier.
and and produce more than a lot of other especially big places like los angeles and miami to actually do the work that makes a lot of things go round you know there's a lot of industrial work in the south especially in louisiana the baffin the mississippi's there yeah there's farming my dad grew it was a cotton farmer my grandfather tail gunner world war ii there's a lot of hard working honest people in not only the south but all flyover states in general
to the
contractors, the farmers
The people that take still on a three day haul, you know, all those people, you know,
This world couldn't live without. And I think that the people that walk through malls and throw bricks through glass windows of buildings and things, they have no clue what it takes to make those buildings. What makes this world go round? That shit that happened up in Seattle where they tried to shut everything down. Look, if the people that got up and went to work every day to make that country run, my country run, if they quit, everybody there would be fucked.
Thank you.
It's true. And so in regards to leaving the country, I'll stay in America if and only if America will start taking up for itself.
get rid of the hypocrisy stand for what's actually right what has common sense what has value and what actually creates value in the world other than that
I'll get a passport somewhere else. And I think Ray Dalio nailed it is when the divide between the haves and the have not get so big that the haves don't see a winning side to staying. That's when they leave. And so for me, I think you guys already know. In fact, I know for a fact you already know what I'm doing to set myself up to not have to stay in a place that doesn't appreciate people that go across the country and build things that makes the fucking world go around. So if America can't get that right, then I will I will have to go somewhere.
else like anybody else same like having a friend who you're trying to set on the right path if he won't set you if you won't if you have a friend who won't stop taking crack no matter what you do and then start stealing your stuff you're like you know what you can't live with me anymore i don't want to associate with you anymore i think it's a same thing
Yeah, I think the idea of the old nation state, as in we understand it, the idea of America, England, Germany, et cetera, is failing. I think the internet, although it has some downfalls, one of the positives of it is you can create your own nation state. You can create and find your own people, your own tribe. Your tribe used to be based on the flag and where you were born, but I don't think it's like that anymore. You have to find people with aligned values because what is a country, right? It's imaginary borders on a map. That's fine. But a country is supposed to be aligned values. It's supposed to be we're all unified under one banner. We're all unified under one song. We're all unified under one.
set of ideals.
That's what America used to be. And as that fails, as America is full of people who all disagree on everything, then what is it anymore as a country, as a nation, as anything sovereign? Whereas if you can find enough people who you agree with, if you can find a tribe, then you don't really need a country. You can be country-less almost because you still find solace and you still find patriotism in the things you truly believe in with people from all around the world from a bunch of different countries who all believe the same thing.
and the old
ideal are changing and i think that sitting there going i want america to be american and be exactly how it used to be
Good luck. So do we all, but it probably won't. But you can find a bunch of people with those ideals from America and also from a bunch of other countries in the world. And you can find your own tribe that way. And you don't need to be so concerned with it.
Biden and XYZ. That's my answer. Anyway.