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Guys, hey, welcome back to the Fresh Rave Podcast After Hours Edition. Guys, so basically the internet service provider decided to do a firmware update in the middle of the stream. So we got everything square now. We're good to go. With that said, I'm not even going to get into announcements. We'll do the super chats real quick and we'll get right into it. So...
I prefer a guy that makes six figures. I don't care who he's seeing because at the end of the day, I'm going to do what I want anyways. Okay. Okay.
I don't like sharing so if you're gonna cheat I'm gonna cheat too. That's the only way I'm keeping a six figure guy. If you're gonna sleep around I need to have my own options as well. That's the only way it's gonna work. Otherwise, no. Alright, okay.
Your turn?
I completely agree with Andrew. If you know... See, this is what I'm saying. You see what I'm saying? I'm saying if a guy is taking care of me, you know,
He can't handle what he's doing.
At the end of the day,
I'm gonna be driving a Ferrari I'm gonna be getting money. I'm gonna be buying Gucci. I'm gonna be happy. I already know who you're going home with
I agree too because I feel like I
I just, I don't know, like...
I want someone to be faithful, but...
I want to be taken care of as well.
I'll go with that. So six figures for me. Okay. All right. Is Vietnam? Yes. I agree. A hundred percent. I prefer a man who makes seven figures. Um,
But I don't really consider it cheating if he's successful in exercising his options. You know, men can fuck other people.
and still be in love with you, but women can't. - She nailed it. Before we go to the couch, sorry, she nailed it. It's not, the word cheating is the wrong word. - It's not cheating. - Because it's cheating if you're like, "I really like this other girl." If you catch your man and he's completely in love with some other girl, then yeah, that's cheating. If he has a second relationship, yeah, that's cheating. If he comes home and he smells a pussy and he's like,
"Who is that girl?" And he's like, "I don't even fucking know. "Sorry, I don't even know." It's like, it's exercise. Who cares? Like if he doesn't care, why would you care? That's not cheating.
Well said. You got another point? The way I see it, it's just it could either be automated or somebody else could take care of it if he's out on the road doing whatever.
Cool. And then ladies on the couch. So Andrew, back to what you were saying. I'm sorry to cut you off, baby. I didn't mean to do that. But I just have to say, that's where it comes where respect is.
communication yeah if you communicate with me we're good yep now don't over bound it though yeah that's what we're gonna have problems yeah we're gonna be good so I
As long as you communicate with me, we good. So it doesn't matter what you make. I'm down for you. No, see, and I respect that because that's that's the healthy way to do it. Right. If you're a man and you're lying, then you're a punk.
if you're gonna come home and lie to your to the girl you care about over some dumb then yeah you're a punk right but if you come home and say look i was out last night i was acting crazy there's girls in the house i some girl i don't know her name she ain't got my number if she mess me on insta i blocked her who gives a right let's go for dinner move on yeah your tits are better who gives a let's get the out of here but it is what it is right it is what it is but if you're gonna sit there and go no i didn't touch her i promise i didn't do this is where most most men make the mistake most men make the mistake because they just lie
And when you lie, you look like a coward.
You look weak, right? And if your woman really truly respects you, she's going to be angry. She might cry. She might be upset. But if she truly respects you as a man and you truly look after her, she ain't fucking leaving. Why would she leave the big boss who looks after her over some fucking stupid shit that happens a couple times a fucking year? Who gives a fuck? The big boss, man. The big boss. It ain't happening. Okay. Slim, slim, slim. Okay. So, yeah, I agree. And I agree to what she's saying. But...
Times have changed. Women are the big boss now. Exactly. Put her on the table. Period. You're saying that you're taking care of her.
i have my own money i take care of myself so if you're cheating then you know
I can cheat too, just have that same energy. - Okay. - You know, have that same energy. - No, no, no, and I understand what you're saying, but when I say taking care, I'm not just talking purely financial, right? A man has a bigger role than purely financial. I'm talking about taking care of you in every single way. - And there are also sex toys.
So how else can you help me? Because if someone breaks in the house, you're going to have to wave your dildo around. They're going to help you. They're going to break you in the house. Get a gun. They're...
our contractors to come out and fix the plumber yeah my point is i truly believe men and women are are designed to be together i believe that i agree i believe that men and women are happier together they are but if they can keep each other happy and stay faithful to each other that's where the unhappiness comes from is when the other one steps out on the other and then that loyalty and that promise that you guys have together is broken broken if i agree if i sleep with another woman
- If a woman sleeps with another man that's with you, is she faithful to you? - No, absolutely not. Don't say crazy stuff on the podcast. Don't say crazy things. - Keep up standing. - I have a question. - What about the same energy? You have to. - You're thinking of men and women as, men and women have completely different roles in society. We have completely different attributes, completely different advantages. We go through life in completely different ways. You can't compare us as an equal.
You wouldn't consider men and women equal in 99% of situations where men are expected to perform. You would not consider yourself an equal if you're rolling with your boy and a guy rolled up and you're trying to hurt you. You'd expect your man to fight, right? That's a man's job. You can't say we're equal when it suits you and we're not equal when it doesn't suit you.
We are not the same. We are not the same. It's the reality of the world. We're not the same and the reason women even though they have unlimited options I'm not running out here sleeping with a new dude every single day is because they won't sleep with a man They don't have at least some degree of feeling for that's the difference you will have some feelings for somebody you would sleep with I promise you a dude can sleep with a chick and she can get in a car crash and he won't give a fuck I'm telling you that's the game that's the difference between it. It's true. That's a difference. Can I ask you a question? Sure
What if you're married? He has no gender. Let me give you a nice place. It does. Of course it has a gender. Let me give you, let me think of some examples. And real quick ladies, just so you guys know, that's just the way Andrew talks. So don't be scared to speak your mind. No, no, no, no, no. Hold on, hold on. I just want to put that out there because I could already see some of you guys like, Oh, holy shit. What's going on?
So don't be, don't be scared. Like he ain't going to attack you. Nothing like that. As long as we have respectful discourse, it's cool. Me and Fresh are just here to moderate.
and jump in if we need to but real talk like you know this is your chance to talk to a multi-millionaire kickboxer. It's an interesting person. Yeah. A real alpha male high value guy. You know what I'm saying? So you guys can get kind of get the real talk. You know what I'm saying? So
If you have a disagreement, it's okay. Don't worry. You'll have your chance to speak and everything like that. But don't be scared. He ain't going to hit you, okay? I just want to say that. He's just a very loud, auspicious person. But trust me. He's passionate. He's a very good man. Passionate man. You got a point, right? Go ahead. Slim? Another girl.
No, I think it's... Lexi? Was it Lexi? No, I don't think Slim finished though. Wasn't she... Slim. Oh, no, I just said that loyalty doesn't have a gender and he said that it does. I mean...
loyalty is loyalty, whether you're a man or a woman.
Thank you.
Period. I agree completely and a man should be absolutely loyal to the woman he loves and he should look after and make her as happy as possible and he can still fuck that other bitch. And she can too. No she can't. Yes she can. Let me tell you something. Let me tell you something that I hope you all understand right. There are actually far less genuinely high value men than there are pretty girls. You can go out and you can go out to the club today and see pretty girls. Wait can you repeat that. There are actually far less genuinely and I'm not talking about the
guys who front genuinely high value men than there are pretty girls. You can go to any club in any country in the world. I've been to 72 countries.
You can go to any club in any country in the world and see pretty girls. If you're going to find a young, in shape, smart, tall, intelligent, rich man, it's extremely difficult to find. And that man has options. He has more options than a beautiful girl. And I'll tell you something what a high-value man respects.
When he meets a girl that's genuinely ride or die, as in, I'm with this man, I like this man, this man loves me, I love him. He fucked that bitch, but it doesn't matter because he came home to me. That man has choices. Why would he choose a girl who thinks, oh, if he sleeps with another girl, I'll go sleep with some dude. He'll just ignore you. He won't be with you. You're not going to have the best of the best if you're going to think that way.
What you don't know won't hurt you, right? Say again?
what you don't know won't hurt you he will know he'll smell it because he's a bad boy like me he'll smell it but like no something ain't right something ain't right and i'm telling you this is the way the world works and i'm not saying it's i like you i don't thank you i'm not saying it's easy for a woman right i understand it can be heartbreaking i can understand it can be difficult but it's not easy but it's a competitive environment right why would you do that to the woman you love because listen let me tell you something about options that's why no it's not
sunshine without rain. You need up and down. This is how the world works. Make her cry a little bit. Take her to the Maldives. One, two, bang. This is what makes life fun. You can't be sitting there all day. I'm telling you, you could get the most high value man in the world who ticks every single box. If he has no hose and he's home with you every day watching Netflix, you're going to get bored of him anymore. Fast. Hold on, hold on, hold on.
We got Lexi here as well, so I wanted to speak. Sheesh. I missed the whole entire question, but if my guy is fucking a girl, I'm fucking a guy. Exactly. End of story. Okay. Can we fuck those together and believe that? Okay.
I mean, I agree and disagree because I prefer loyalty over anything, but
This day and age
that doesn't exist. As you said, you visited 78 countries. That doesn't happen in other countries at all. Women are nothing in other countries. Like you said, you... 72.
But yeah, just yeah, no girls don't have any type of rights when it comes to that So United States is the only way like that is that's just the reality of it So you either take it and leave it if you want a high valued man as you said, that's just how it goes So, okay, so what about the change that whatever change the question, right? Let's assume that every single high-value man across a 10-year span at some point is gonna fuck another girl
Yeah, would you do you want him to lie to you or tell it or tell you tell me the truth? You want to tell you the truth so you can go out there and fuck some idiots
Raven right?
No, we're not even. No, we're not. That's absolutely not even. You've been with a guy for three years who's been taking care of you. You're a couple. He's been paying the bills looking after you. He slept with some idiot girl he doesn't care about anymore. You're going to go bang fucking Pedro with no money in the bank.
- Why does it have to be Pedro? - Why does it have to be Pedro? - Why did Eddie Pedro move my bank out?
Okay, Jane. Who cares? Isn't the girl he slept with at the club a dork? So why is the girl she fucks at the club a dork? If you want to talk about why men and women are different, we can analyze it.
I'm talking about why men and women are to leave you don't seem to know why please okay we can just okay We can discuss it. You don't seem to know why I'll tell you why I want to say that I'm interested one thing I'm noticing is that the ladies think it's if you cheat if you have sex with another woman with them they can have sex another guy but
- For me, I didn't have sex with a girlie in the house. - Hold on, hold on, ladies, ladies. Andrew's gonna break it down why, and I've done it many times on the show too, but I wanna hear Andrew's take on this, why it's unacceptable for women to run around and have sex with multiple men, whereas it's completely acceptable for men to do so. Go ahead, Andrew, take it away, man.
you might not like this lady so get ready we're gonna talk about biology is this fire right now so let me make this first we make this clear for anyone watching this let's see let's say I meet a girl I really like yeah I'm not saying the first time I do is run out and cheat on her I'm not saying that I'm not saying I'm not even saying I can't be faithful because I could I'm just trying to explain the difference to you in the realities of the world female promiscuity has always since the dawn of human time across every culture that's ever existed
from China to the Aztecs been frowned upon.
Every single culture since the dawn of human time has mocked women who are promiscuous. If you were a hoe, you were laughed at. In most cultures, if you weren't a virgin, you couldn't get married. To this day, in half of the world, if you're not a virgin, you can't get married. Female promiscuity,
across every culture since the dawn of human time has been seen as a negative that is not a coincidence it's because females are designed to meet a man get pregnant fall in love with said man if you keep sleeping with x dude x dude x dude popping plan b's taking taking the morning after pill and removing the stigma this is the big point for a female in the beginning of her sexual process
with enough of them, you remove the stigma. And now it's like, oh, I'll just fuck this guy, this guy, this guy, this guy. That...
Cheapens you it doesn't matter if a man slept with 20 girls or 200 girls. He is still the man if a woman slept with 200 men She is worth less. This is the basis of the banks. No man is gonna marry a woman that 200 men Slammed and threw to the street so when the problem with the Western world and it's the Western world as a whole But it's especially America women think they have some kind of power. Oh, well, I'll go sleep with a guy You didn't fuck a guy
The guy fucked you. And you ain't worth anything more by getting fucked. You need to get that out of your head. It's a bad idea. Get that out of your head. Okay, I have another question. Slim, we heard what you said. Go ahead, Andrew. Go ahead. I mean this with all respect. And Slim, thank you for giving me all your opposing viewpoints. I appreciate them very much. I do. I appreciate them. It's a good discussion. It's a good discussion. I appreciate them. And I mean this with all due respect. Absolutely no patronization, right? But I am, compared to all of you, a relatively old man.
I'm a well-lived man. I've been to lots of places. I've done lots of things.
You know what the most beautiful thing in the world is?
It's love. And I mean this in a non-corny way. When a man truly loves a woman and a woman truly loves a man, and they're together ride or die no matter what, that is truly beautiful. Let me tell you something. Let me tell you something.
A man can do things that men do and still be completely obsessed and head over heels in love with his woman. I know as a fact, no matter what any of you say, if you take another dick, you will never love your man the same. I don't care what lie you try and tell. I don't care you saying, oh, it was just sex. Bullshit. You can't love your man and be sleeping with other men. And a man can truly be ready to die for a woman and sleep with another woman now and again. I'm not saying he's going to have other relationships.
he's married twice, but I'm saying if a man has a woman and she's truly there for him and he's out with the boys in another city one weekend, does something, it really truly doesn't matter. And if you think the answer to that
is to run around a club and find some nobody to fucking jizz in you. You have a problem with how you view the world, because that is not how you build a relationship
that you're gonna be happy with in the long term. That's the truth. That's the truth. Let me make one more point. If you think you're gonna get a high value guy and you're gonna say to him, "If you cheat on me, I'll fuck some nobody from the club." And he's gonna stay with your ass, you're gonna end up lonely. That's not gonna happen. No big G's gonna put up with that shit. Would you put up with that shit? Hell no. You know what I'm saying? It's just bullshit. It's garbage. It's not real. I wanna just say this real quick for the ladies on the... I gotta hook up sex away quickly. Okay. Men don't... Two different parallels.
- Oh my goodness. - We're different. We're different in every regard. I don't know how else to explain this. We're different in every regard. - Why are we not equal? - Why are we not equal? I'll tell you why we're not equal. Biologically, we're not equal.
You can have children, I can fight, right? We're different. Do you agree that we're biologically different, or do you think you're as strong as men? - No, of course not. - Okay, well there you go then, so there you go. So we already have a biological difference. - So like you're the protector and I'm like the birth. - No, we have a biological difference, and if you have a certain biology, wouldn't you agree that your biology lends to your mentality?
Right. Okay, so we have a different biology and a different mentality. Do you agree? Yeah. Okay, so we're not equal. Done. Next. I have a quick question. Next question. For the men, what do you guys consider a high valued man? Is it looks? Is it money? Or is it both? Or I mean, what's your opinion on that? I'm just curious on what you guys as a man thinks a high value man is. You want to go first CEO or me? You can go first. You know what I truly think a high value man is? A high value man is doing something which nearly okay. It's a
a few things, right? So there's the obvious evolutionary triggers.
The easiest way to be a high value man is a man who's capable of violence. If we look at it from a biologically trigger, it doesn't matter if he's got muscles or he's big or he's tall, whatever women understand from a biological perspective. They like a man who can fight. Yeah. It doesn't matter if your man had money, a Ferrari, everything. But if you knew for a fact,
If any dude stepped to him, he'd get sparked, you wouldn't want him. So that's the first thing.
You need a man who could fight. But really, truly, to answer your question, I think the true value of a high value, the true marker of a high value man is a man who could say no to pussy.
Thank you.
And I mean this on a genuine level. Here's the problem. Here's the problem. You girls don't understand all the lower level dudes. You say, I don't want a high value man who cheats. If you got a lower value guy, he'll cheat up with anybody. He'll fuck anything. He has no choice. If you get a high value guy, at least he has the option to say no to something.
Wait.
Who's this nigga?
Yeah.
Andrew.
All right.
Thank you.
Is he saying my name? Is he saying my name? I don't know who this guy is. What the fuck? I don't give a fuck. We're doing a fucking podcast, my friend. Get out of here. Yeah, get the fuck out of here. How did he get in here? I don't know. Fucking weirdo. He's trying to fight you. He's trying to fight you. You ain't trying to fight me. He's trying to say hello to me. He doesn't want to fight me. I think he just said he's trying to fight you.
No, no, no.
I didn't even take my jacket off. I took my jacket off on a motherfucker. He's like, oh, Tate's so rich and sexy. How the fuck did he get in here? I don't know. Why did he get inside? Who let him in? Who was that? Literally. Who? Who let him in, bro? Wait, how did he find us? Wait, what happened just now? What's some scary shit? I'm gonna take my watch off in case I have to change my mind. You're like, it quit this shit happens.
What happened just now? So this guy, his fan, right? Found the room. He was like, hey, I'm trying to suck your dad's crazy. How did he find the room? How did he get in here? How did he get in the stairs? I don't know. Somebody told him. Somebody told him. Somebody told him. Somebody told him. Somebody told him. Somebody told him.
I'm so confused
I got threatened. Now we got lesbians. We got a podcast. This is what the podcast is. We need to kiss here. We need to kiss here. We need to kiss here. You know what? Okay. Let's get it. We're a private couple. Okay. We're private. We're private. We're private. We're private couple. Okay. Okay. Okay. Oh, man. Oh, man. What is going on right now, bro? Uh, yeah. Listen, I wanted to say something. I wanted to say something in regards to what he's saying.
You can't say that and speak for all females.
Wait, what did you say? What did you say? Okay, okay. What did you say?
What do you say? You put me on the spot. Oh, going back to what you were saying, what I was saying before is like, if I take a girl on an extravagant first date, her losing respect for me. Whoa, whoa, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry. I really hate to interrupt. Yeah. What if the game... Sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry.
I thought men and women were equal.
There was a crazy dude. There was a crazy man at the door and not a single woman stood up to fight. Why is that? Why is that? I thought we were equal. I would have fought. Men are protectors. I would have. I would have. You weren't doing shit behind you. I'm a black belt. I'm a black belt. I ain't fighting. I got my strap in my bag. I'm a taekwondo black belt. Taekwondo.
- Oh, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
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