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This is the rational mail. Um, this is my show. This is Brolo and not so solo today. I have with me, Mr. Andrew Tate. Finally, finally got you back. I'm hard to pin down, bro. I mean, you are. And I get it. And a lot of people are saying, Oh, is he going to show this time? And I'm like, well, yeah, I get it. And I understand like you, like shit comes up and you have to do things, but, um, yeah, I've got one of them kind of lives where shit's always popping up and I've been traveling
the road. It sounds stupid, but
Trying to get a stable internet connection in the hotel room nowadays is, I know it's 2019 or 2020, whatever we are. Most places in the world, even high-tech places, and I'm staying in very expensive hotels and you can't stream or nothing. It's crazy. I was going to say, the first time you were in, well, I shouldn't say that. I've had you on twice. This is actually the third time that I've had you on. And we always get a lot of good feedback. I'm actually kind of glad we waited until, or things didn't work out until 2020, until this month.
like we're starting something new or start something fresh and everything and and i just to just to explain things because i don't people like throwing hate at you because it's it's sometimes shit's unavoidable i get it you know i've i've had to cancel stuff myself for for my own shows um but like i mean you were the first time you were in dubai and you said something to the effect that yeah so i didn't know yeah it turned it turns i thought it was my internet was bad turns out that streaming services are illegal in dubai
I didn't know any of this. So they wouldn't let me use it. And then didn't you say something like they also monitor your – like you can't – is it true that you can't download porn in Dubai? No, yeah. Porn is illegal. All that kind of thing is legal. And Dubai monitor everything. I mean a lot of people use VPNs to get around it.
But if you get caught doing that, I mean, a lot of people do it, but it's one of them subjective laws. If they want to find a reason to put you in jail forever without trial, that's what they'll do. And Dubai is so safe because it's a police state. Like everything you do is modern. Absolutely everything you do from start to finish is modern in Dubai. So also I was kind of thinking, you know, if I'm going to be completely candid and like I am, whenever I talk to Rolo, I might say something that pisses them off. You never know in these places. It's like, you know, I'm just going to shut up till I leave.
to Abu American about, gosh, three or four weeks ago when we were doing my religion, Red Pill and Religion show. And he was saying something like to the same effect. He was saying the same thing, like that whenever he is in those, I guess, Islamic countries, it's you have to watch what you say. You have to you have to be careful of things because they're there. You know, they control the media. They control things, you know, pretty. They don't play games. And to be fair to
tar, like United Arab Emirates, et cetera. They are extremely safe if you don't piss off the government. And the reason they are so safe is because the government has such an iron grip on everything. Like there's no freedom. There's no law against spying on you. There's no freedom, nothing like that. They watch absolutely everything. And if you piss them off, even 1%, you go to jail forever, but they have some of the lowest crime rates in the world. That's just how it is. So in general, if you shut your mouth, you're pretty good place to be, but just got shut up. That's the thing. And then, then the second time I think we were, it was in December
you on and you were in Texas or something and I guess it just didn't work out and like you were having a show. Yeah. And then my, my internet there, uh, my internet and my hotel was absolutely awful.
Um, I was, I was with Alex Jones himself down in Austin, Texas. And man, every time I go back to America, it seems just getting worse. I don't want to be anti-American. I don't want to get political here, but it just seems like every time I go back, it's just people are fatter and there's more homeless. And I'm like, what's going on here? I don't know. Every time I go back, I'm like, what's going on in this place? I was talking to, uh, I was talking to John from modern life dating. And I was, uh, we actually went and looked this up because I'm a, I was under the impression that
of the american population is overweight and or morbidly obese now yeah and i it was funny i was watching your i was watching your um your feed when you were talking about you were in texas and i was like you should go to san antonio because san antonio texas is is supposed to be the fattest city in the united states like there are more like overweight and obese people in san antonio like per capita than any other place crazy man it's this fat acceptance thing like if you in countries
be fat. It's the law of competition, isn't it? It's like capitalism. Competition breeds the best possible outcome. And it's the same with females wanting to look hot. And it's the same with people wanting to be in good shape. It's all the same. In societies where being fat, everyone's looking at you, you feel self-conscious. You don't want to be fat. In America, it's normal. So there you go. And that's why. Yeah. Yeah. And I've been in Las Vegas for the last, actually about a week and a half. I had a show that I had, well, I had a gig that I had to work on New Year's Eve. And so
I actually took a week off from doing this kind of stuff. And it's weird. This is my first show back. So I'm actually glad to have you on my first show back because I wasn't able to do Rule Zero. I wasn't able to do any of this other stuff. The only thing I actually did was my show with Pat Campbell on that last Friday. And that was only because I could call in. So we are back. And, yeah, I get what you're saying.
And I know that when I have been in different places, saying San Antonio, Texas being one of them, but when I've been in some places, I'm a pretty in-shape guy. I mean, considering that I'm not overweight, and so I'm a little bit better than at least 71% of the average population here. But every time I've been out of the country, every time I've gone to, let's say the last one was Amsterdam, I think is where it was, and then Belgium was another place.
I've been in Panama as well. And when you go there, it's, it's just people watching. It's a whole different story. I mean, maybe not so much in Holland, but like certainly in Belgium and certainly in Panama, just looking around you, just seeing what the, the context of, you know, what your looks are and where you are in, in your own life, I guess, as well. And, and looking at other people.
guys all the time and and this is actually something i've been wanting to talk to you about for a while is um i see guys who will put some sort of motivational uh you know thing up on twitter and they'll say yeah yeah you shouldn't compare yourself to other people who cares what other people think right you shouldn't care what other people think right or it's uh um you shouldn't compare yourself to other people you should compare yourself to who you were yesterday or the day before or 10 years ago or something like that i that's always rubbed me the wrong way because i
beings, we always look at somebody else and we can't help but compare. I mean, we can't help but say that person is different from that person over there. And we make those comparisons. And I get the idea that you're not supposed to like, you know, just for your own empowerment or your own, you know, motivation, I guess, is you shouldn't compare yourself to other people, but we do. We do. Yeah. That's feel good bullshit, man. That's feel good bullshit. I see that all the time. Someone goes, you should never compare yourself to someone else and your journey is
It doesn't matter if they're successful and you're not. Listen, we're all on the same time frame.
We're all on the human timeframe. We have 80 or so years if we're lucky. So don't sit there on your ass doing nothing saying I'm on my journey. It doesn't matter that everyone else has their life together. It doesn't matter. I'm on my journey. You're on the same journey to the grave as the rest of us motherfuckers. So you better get something done today. That's some feel good garbage. This.
Don't compare yourself to anyone else. That's all we've ever done. In fact, comparing yourself to other people drives capitalism. It's like the basic tenant of the capitalistic system. Keep it up with the Joneses. It's such a stupid idea that you shouldn't judge yourself with anyone else. What we've tried to do in the West, especially, and this is something I've noticed massively.
and the difference in mindset of people in the West as opposed to places.
is we've tried to make it so that people aren't judged purely on their appearance so much.
So in the West, although we're just as shallow as everyone else, we try and judge people on other things. We may judge them on their car, their success, but we're not as purely, or we at least try and hide the fact that we are purely driven by how somebody looks.
I'll give you an example. If you look at all the Mexican weather girls, they're hot. You look at all the Eastern European weather girls, they're hot. If you look at the British weather girls, they are deliberately unattractive people. It's like they try and find some troll because they don't want to offend anyone. Like if she's hot, that's offensive. She's not allowed to be pretty because it shouldn't matter if she's pretty or not. Of course it matters. What the fuck? Of course it matters. The number one most important thing for females is how they look to men.
I say this all the time. There's nothing more important than that. You can be a complete moron. If you're a 10, life's going to work out just fine. This is how it works. That's life. That's life. The most important thing for a female is how attractive she is. So we've tried to eliminate that in the West. And this is just part of it. Don't compare yourself to anyone else. Blah, blah, blah. It's just complete bullshit. I see that as sort of the result of really, really maybe the last 20 or 30 years of us trying to figure out how we can make everybody a winner, right?
at our participation trophy and at least you tried kind of thing and i i think that a lot of guys right now it's it's it's hard to to emphasize or it's hard to stress the idea that you need to be competitive that you need to be out there that you need to you know become like a ritual always say this is you got to make yourself the best version of yourself that you can possibly be yeah exactly and and uh so if you don't like competition then you need to take a long hard
why you don't like it.
This is the reality of life. Like I get loads of guys who message me about your books about hypergaming. And I say, look, I fucking love it that way. Because I'm fucking them all. Why would I have a problem with it? Like this is the reality. They want big, tall, strong millionaire athletes. Ta-da. Come around. Like whether it's true. Yeah, it's true. But I'm saying it doesn't, it doesn't damage my life.
So winners love competition. So if you're sitting there going, I don't like competition, that's because you don't feel equipped to compete.
But that's, I really do believe that's a personal, that's a personal fault. As men, you're not born with value. We've talked about this in the red pill. Women are born with value. Men have to create their own.
And people say to me, oh yeah, Tate, you're lucky. Oh, you're a kickboxer. There was no luck in becoming a kickboxer. There was no luck in getting up and running to the gym. There's no luck in getting rich. There's no luck in having a good body. There's no luck in having experience with women and being smart and not letting them take the piss out of you and not being played for a fool. That's not luck. That's something any man who has his shit together can do.
So you, as a man, especially as a man, especially you have to be built for competition. Your whole life is a competition.
Everything from the car you drive to the way you walk down the road is competition.
And if you're not prepared to play the game, then other people who are playing the game are going to whoop your ass. Welcome to the struggle. And if you're not doing that, if you're – yeah, you're right. It's feel-good bullshit is what it is. And it comes from the idea that we can all be winners, that we all should just, like, settle down and, you know – see, when I talk to guys about being a competitive person or being – at least finding something that you can be good at, right? Like finding something that you can get into and you can compete.
have to be a competitive bodybuilder. You can be in whatever else that you're doing. I tell guys this all the time because guys will say, well, after my third book came out when I was talking about positive masculinity and then a lot of that stuff that's in there, I wrote that book primarily for guys who wanted to give my first book to their kids, to their sons and say, well, when do you think, Rolo, when do you think is a good time for me to give my 15-year-old son your book so he'll
stuff. And I go, okay, well, that's important. I get that. But if you want to really raise your kid right now to, you know, to be a competitor or to be a winner or to be somebody who's going to like rise above the rest of this crap, you have to teach them how to compete and you have to teach them how to deal. Because if you don't teach them how to, how to compete, they will never learn how to deal with rejection, how to deal with failure, how to come back from that and how to be better the next time and how to learn from that. And so as a result, I would say over the last like 30
school shooters and all these incels and everybody else who's sedated with the, with the internet or sedated with porn or sedated with whatever else it is. Um, the reason you have that is because they didn't have fathers that said, you know what, just go be a competitor, get into something, you know, even if it's chess, right? I mean, heck your dad was, was teaching you chess when you're, here's a great, here's a great example. You learn chess from your dad and most people will say, well, that's for nerds. You know, that's in the high school and stuff like that. But I was going
fight. He did not teach you how to be an MMA fighter. He didn't teach you how to lift weights or anything. I mean, he set the example for you, but he did teach you to be competitive and he did teach you how to play chess and how to work that into, you know, other aspects of your life. And I think it's really important right now that we teach our, this next generation. I'm all about like, you know, helping guys with their kids right now for some reason, but to teach this next generation to be competitors. And as a result of teaching them to be competitive, they also learn how to
and snap back from defeat.
You know, how do you come back better than you were before? Exactly. And there's men out there playing the game. If you refuse to play the game, you're going to get completely destroyed. There are men out there who understand this and are trying their very, very best to be competitive at every single element. And if you're going to not play the game, you're going to get destroyed. I say this all the time. People say to me like, oh, you get girls because you're rich. And I say, look, I know guys who are richer than me.
But because they're not in shape and they have no game and they're laying with chicks, they still don't get laid.
Like as a man, even having one thing, which is exceptional, even if you're exceptionally rich, you have nothing else, not enough. Even if you've got a perfect body, you're a bodybuilder, but you're a fucking dork. And all you do is talk about macros and plan your meals.
No, no, you got to be a multifaceted person.
And you've got to be able to do a lot of things. And you have to be at least competent in many different areas of yourself. This is the basic requirements of being a man nowadays. Because the competition has been ramped up. And it's getting harder and harder. I'm telling you what, man. I was talking the other day. Me and you spoke about this a little bit.
But Instagram has changed the fucking world. I was talking to someone the other day about how that one app has changed the game. And I'll tell you about this. There's a town. Everyone is watching this right now. There's a town in Slovakia called Kshice.
K-O-S-I-C-E. And I used to go there about 10 or 12 years ago.
And it was full of girls. And when I say full, I do not exaggerate. I mean, you'd walk in a club, it was three girls to every guy, and every single one of them was beautiful.
It was crazy. And me and my brother were the only English men who had ever been to this town. There was no airport. You had to fly into Budapest, another country, and get a five-hour taxi up to Kishitsa.
So unless you knew it was there, you'd never find it on accident. And we were tearing through this town like you wouldn't believe. Seven days, seven new chicks, fresh approaches, destroying the place.
I was there last month and I didn't see a single hot girl. Not one. Why? Well, they built an airport. They brought the euro. They can all travel around Europe now. They've gone to London. They're getting hit up on Instagram, getting offered to go to Dubai. There's no such thing as the hot little young village girl. I didn't realize I was hot. I'm still...
humble as a person. All that shit is completely gone. The game is getting harder and harder because any girl who's above an eight, she's already got a hundred thousand followers. She's getting hit up by high value men all day, every day.
And as a man, you think you're going to bag a girl like that without at least being competitive?
On what planet? On what planet you're going to pull that off? You and I talked about that. Actually, this is one of the more common things you and I have talked about is that just because you think the game is easier overseas, just because you think, well, I'm going to go play the game on easy mode. I'm going to go to Southeast Asia. I'm going to find a good feminine, wholesome girl over in Southeast Asia. I'm going to go find my dream girl in the Ukraine or something like that. Even Rush talked about this.
honestly, I think it was the best book he ever wrote before he decided to, to cancel all of his books, but he had a book called pussy paradise. And in that he was talking about how he'd been to Poland and his first trip to Poland. He thought it was the, the, it was his dream, man. Cause it was easy to get girls. The girls were gorgeous. And this is like right around, I think the early like 2011, maybe, or 2000 somewhere around there, he comes back to it like four years later and the whole thing is,
I'm glad you brought this up because this is going to be the topic of my next essay. Then I got it in my notes right here right now. In my next essay, this is actually going to be part of the fourth book that I'm working on as well. I don't know how I'm going to fit this in, but I think that what we're seeing right now, you know, now that we've come into 2020. But I think what we're seeing right now is we're seeing a sort of a new age of enlightenment.
pill or when we use that as our example, I've always used the red pill as in reference to intersexual dynamics and understanding like the real game and understanding how women really are and how men really are. And we have all of this new information. Now we have, we have tons and tons of new information with, with respect to anthropology, with sociology, with evolutionary psychology. We've, we've mapped the human genome, right? We have, we have FMRI scans and we have
men and women's brains, we've already determined that gender differences start in girls and boys in the womb.
in their brains, in the womb, okay? Because of an X chromosome and a Y chromosome, that's what happens. That's what changes. There are definitive biological differences between men and women. We understand that. And so my whole thing, and I didn't realize I was even doing this, really, when I first started out. I was just sort of, like I said, I'm a connector of dots. So I'll say, well, when I talk about hypergamy, or I talk about the epiphany phase,
and just this kind of stuff that we sort of take for granted. Remember that 10 years ago,
To say something like that was sort of revolutionary. Now we're arguing over what is the red pill, what is not the red pill. Should you have some sense of ethics or morality, should you not? And that's just in one area. That's just in intersexual dynamics.
ground who can get video like in 4k you know high definition streaming video right from your iphone to see what's going on right there in the streets that later on in the six o'clock news they're gonna lie through their fucking teeth to you so you already know what the real truth is and what's going on and now guess what the media suddenly it's really it really is all bullshit and we know that it's bullshit because now we have the proof and now we have the technology and now we have the
bullshitting us for a lot longer than we maybe we actually believe. So all of the old school media, all the old media, all the old way of thinking, all the old way of understanding intersexual dynamics, like say from the, from the 1990s up into the 2000s,
We were ignorant of all this. And now, and what happened? And what happened is the minute that we had even just a global consortium or an aggregate of all this information with respect to men and women and men, like we want to shit on the pickup bars. But you know what? They were out there and they were doing it and they were collecting notes and they were gathering data that we use now today so that we can understand these dynamics and sort of process it and understand it. But think of all the things that we used to be able to do or we used to have, we would take for granted.
One of the things in my fourth book that I'm working on, which is about religion, is there used to be a time back in, say, the 80s and the 90s. If you go to church and you go and you listen to the sermon or something, and you were done with the sermon, you couldn't go online and go, you know, it was a great sermon, but I thought you were full of shit on this point. And what do you think about this point? And you have some sort of critique about that sermon. There was nothing like that.
some sort of interplay or some, you know, some sort of reaction with their audience. So that's in, that's in religion. Now look at the, look at professors that remember there used to be a time when I was in school, even when I was going to college and you would have a college professor and you would have a reputation for being a hard ass or something like that. You know, people around, around that local area about it. Now we can talk, we can talk shit about our professors. We can talk shit about our bosses and the places that we used to, you know, that we work at. Think of all the ways that we can communicate right now.
That we were never able to communicate before. We were never able to do those things before. And there's still a lot of people who are stuck in that old way of thinking, in that blue pill. And not just in respect to, like people say, well, okay, that applies to politics and everything else. Okay, fine. But there are still people who are stuck in that old way of thinking, in those old modalities when we already know.
that they're bullshit or we already know that we have this new information. We can talk about these things. We can all come together and sort of compare notes now to decide whether or not that old paradigm is true or it's not true. And I think we're at a kind of a turning point right now where there are guys who are still stuck in that old paradigm. They're stuck in this old way of thinking because it's always worked for them up to now.
And so now like I can remember being as a graphic designer for a while, I can remember when you would go to a design agency or design firm or something like that. And there was a guy who did typography. There was a guy, the print guys. There's the designers. There's the layup artists. There's all these other guys who would do all this stuff. And then the computers came. And then it wiped out the entire industry. Same way that like magazines right now are a dead media. They will be a dead media. There'll be a dead media in this decade. And so magazines will be a dead media.
Why? Because we have more efficient ways to do that. We have more information. We have better ways of disseminating information right now. I mean, just talking about efficiency very, very quickly, talking about efficiency. I live in Romania. I didn't move here for girls. I moved here for business. But the girls in Romania are pretty good looking. Now, I see...
a nine or what I would consider a nine or a 10 now and again in the very, very high end clubs. But in general, now, if you're a 10 and I know because I'm fucking some of them and I see their inboxes, they get a new inbox. Do you have any idea how often they get messaged? Do you have any idea of the choices they have of men? I'm not talking loser men, millionaires, verified athletes, fucking a bunch of people with blue ticks, maybe never heard of some comedian from somewhere,
like a genuine nine, your inbox is full to the brim with the top quality choice males. And you can click on them and view their entire life, the car they drive, where they live, where they go, are they spunking money? You can click on it and girls sit and live on their phone anyway.
So you think a girl's ever going to go to a bar nowadays with the intention of meeting some Joe Average next door? Why? Why would she do that? It's simply not going to happen. It's not only is it getting harder to get the good women. The good women, and I'm talking about good looking, are becoming less accessible. They're less accessible to the general man. You're not going to run into them in Walmart. You're really not going to. I know girls who by the time they're 18 are on boats out in fuck knows where.
And there's a whole bunch of talk, especially a bunch of hate talk on the Internet.
A bunch of people like, oh yeah, they're prostitutes and Arab men shit on them for money. I'm sure maybe there's some prostitutes who do that. But I can tell you now, I know plenty of girls who just get...
Handed a fucking first class flight ticket. Get handed a five star hotel room. Go out there. Party for two weeks. Completely for free on a boat. Probably end up taking a dick on accident or whatever. She was drunk and coming home. But you know, but there is no a lot of especially the ugly girls. They hate on the hot girls.
Like, oh, they're taking, oh, they're getting shot on. They're not. They're getting tickets and they're having fun. Because if you're fucking hot, that's how it is. That's the reality of life.
And I say this to my guys all the time. We're getting to the point now, especially with things like Instagram, you can't fake it anymore.
This is was my kind of problem with pickup. I feel like because I've never been a pickup artist. I'm not a pickup artist. Never had to be. A lot of the pickup guys had like a game and they were not fake, but they had this big persona on this big act. And I'm kind of feel like we've reached a point now where you can't fake it anymore.
Like it's getting harder and harder to fake. You go up to a girl in a bar, you play your game, you get her numbers. She thinks you're a bit funny.
And then she looks on Instagram and some dude has a Lambo and he's messaging her and you ain't got a Lambo. And it's kind of like...
She must, it's just harder and harder. You can't play, you can't bake it anymore. So
We're talking earlier about competition.
It's becoming ultra competitive. It's becoming ultra competitive because any seven can go get herself a 10 guy. Any seven can go look up an athlete or some dude who's near perfect and just like a few of his pictures and wait for an inbox and take some dick.
Any seven or eight can do it.
Like they may not get a boyfriend out of it, but they'll get fucked because we were men. So it's harder and harder. It's the reality. I think, okay. And just sort of finishing up that last point there. I think also another thing that we're going to see, uh, well, coming, I've, I've already written about this, you know, over the last couple of years. And you and I talked about this last time we talked, um, um,
with respect to poly and with respect to like polyamory or Paul, Paul, on your case, it would be polygamy. Um, I honestly, because of this, what you just said with respect to like the, um, to Instagram and the online kind of thing that the way to compete, you have to be able to compete on these new, on this new media, on these new platforms on Instagram. And you know what? I would almost, I,
great. And I think that will end up being, you know, people want Instagram, human beings want Instagram. They want something that is that immediate. They want that, particularly women, they want that immediate gratification. They want that immediate affirmation. What I'm seeing is this is I think what we're doing is when we like back in the old days, when we had like the patriarchs of old, right. And, uh, you know, father Abraham had two wives and his concubines
And then because of agriculture, because we didn't want to have these coalitions of beta males attacking alpha males to kill them and steal their women or whatever, we instituted monogamy. Well, I think really what we're seeing right now in this century right now, going on right now, is sort of a moving away from that monogamy because we don't need it anymore. We don't need it. Let me do you a spin in my chair and tell you what I know about monogamy. Let me tell you something. Let me tell you something.
fucking G a girl will share you.
And I will say that now, right here. If you're the fucking man, a girl's going to share you.
She may cry about it. She may not be happy about it. But if she really believes there's no one better to fuck, she's going to fuck you.
And that doesn't mean if you're fucking someone else, she may cry, but she's still going to fuck you afterwards. This is the harsh reality. Fuck monogamy.
Women know on an instinctual level. Women know. I was saying this. A lot of the guys in the red pill Twitter, a lot of the guys, they're,
Uh, the pickup artists and stuff.
when I feel like having, you know what I'm like, I feel like starting a fight sometimes. And I say to them, look, none of you are top tier. And I'll tell you why you're not top tier. Because when you're a top tier male and you go on a date,
You spend your whole time trying to convince the girl that you're not either married or have loads of other girls or have kids. All I do want to, most dudes are on a date trying to make a girl like them. I'm on a date trying to make up. She's like, but.
"Why aren't you married? So what?" "No, you must have loads of girls." I'm like, "No, I don't." "No, but you must have loads of girls. Well, you have a Lambo and you're rich." Like in their head, they know you have loads of women.
And you have to kind of dequalify it a little bit, but they know deep down and you and they fuck you anyway. And then they all just like turn a blind eye to it. They all kind of know. And even if they find out they don't leave.
A woman would rather, I even say this to guys, dudes, listen, would you rather have a Lambo three days a week or a push bike seven days a week?
Which one would you rather have? The women, the women, they're prepared to share. They may not like it, but that's who it is. And I think that's evolutionary and biological. I'll tell you something, man. Anyone who's watching this who doesn't know who I am, I'll give you a very quick history. I ran a webcam company for a long time. So I've lived with multiple women for a long time.
And I will tell you something about females.
They are happier in many ways when they're in a harem of other women than they are on their own. There is something, this is something we can get into, but I have throughout my extensive experience,
discovered that women are ultra combative.
Women love a fight and we talk about shit tests.
Women are combative. If we were to have to drop the whole game and men could just be honest with their woman,
We'd be much nicer than most women are. We can't, we don't want to fight. Well, you're, well, I'll be nice to you. You'd be nice to me. It's fine. But that doesn't work because women are combative. And I'll tell you something, man. If I was living with three girls, I'd be like,
They would always be fighting with each other, but they'd always be nice to me.
And they'd be saying things like, I wish it was just us. If it was just us, it would be perfect. Now, if for any reason, because sometimes it happened, two of those girls left and I was left with the one girl, gave her everything she wanted. Just you and me now. No other girls in the bed. It's just us.
She was less good of a girlfriend than she was when I had the others. Then she started starting fights with me. I'm like, what's wrong with your ass? They are so combative. It's crazy.
That's competition.
Yeah, it's competition anxiety is what it is. I tell guys this all the time. And this is actually this is basic, basic shit from my first book, which is, you know, one of the iron rules of Tomasi is never move in with a woman. You know, never. I have so many guys who come to me and say, well, Rollo, I was with this girl and the sex was fantastic and we were great. We were on top of everything. And I had frame and all this stuff. And so we thought it'd be a great idea if we just moved in together.
that natural urgency she had to have sex with him and to be good looking for him and to keep, you know, stay on her toes. All of that goes out the window because it's, and it's replaced with familiarity and it's placed with just sort of, you know, commonplace day-to-day life, day-to-day living. And so now the associations of, you know, the emotional high that she got from you because she, it was, there was some sense of uncertainty between the two of you. Now, suddenly it's all gone. And now you're living in this quote unquote domestic bliss. I'm going to, we got to, I got a,
out here. I do want to get to the news of the day about Prince Harry deciding he doesn't want to be a prince anymore, because that really goes into this. But let's answer this question real quick here. This is Giuseppe DeFriere. Can you please address the MGTOW argument of stripping women's rights? And I personally think it's gone too far, in my opinion. It's violence, unethical, and enslavement. Women should be allowed to choose their own path. So what do you think
peel the night teeth. We should, we should take women's rights away. And if we do something, if we take women's rights away, then magically the, the dynamic of intersexual dynamics will change. My view is this firstly, I said this before I said, the smartest thing a woman could ever do is have an arranged marriage and her dad choose to partner. I really believe that's true. I think it's the smartest thing a woman could do. Exactly what I said with Abu American. Because, because you know what they do if you leave them to their own devices,
Or they'd end up doing stupid shit. Like, I think arranged marriage is a fantastic idea. Is it ever going to happen? No.
I always tell men, look, I can teach you every trick I know. That's what I do in my PhD course on cobra tape.com. I teach them every trick I know, everything I know about women. And there are ways you can hack the game.
But in the end, if women have free will, they're always going to gravitate to the top. That's the nature of the game. You have to find a way one way or another to get to the top.
What's good about being a man?
is that you can do it
This is the thing I really believe you can do. I don't want to sound like one of those self-help, you know, blah, blah, positive energy bullshit.
But you can do it as a man. If you're a woman and you're born ugly, you're fucked.
If you're a dude and you're born ugly, doesn't matter. Get big, strong, and rich.
You'll be all right. Like there's always a way as a guy. So I really think that trying to discuss changing the nature of females is almost
inane and pointless.
If you were to put that energy into changing yourself, you'll end up in a position where the nature of females favors you.
And then you're like, this is fine. You know, this is fine. There's not an X I couldn't text and get back.
Not one. Because where are they going to go after the millionaire world champion? Where are they going to go? Dude. They may love him now, and they may love him, but deep at night, deep in the dark, they're thinking about me slapping him in the face and fucking him. Of course they are. So if I text them now, they may not reply straight away, but next time her and her man argue, she's going to reply.
It's the harsh reality of the world.
So like, but I put myself here.
And this is how you have my view. I say this to every dude is, yeah, I'll teach you all I know. But at the same time, if you really want to enjoy the fruits of being a man, do the fucking work. You have to you have to be a G.
I you know what knowing what I know is
I'm trying to genuinely think, how would I date women if I wasn't the man?
I'm being serious. Like, okay, take away all my accolades and my money and everything that a
It would be extremely difficult.
And I understand why dudes are going MGTOW. I completely get it. Because it's just like, this is way too much work. And you have no guarantees of loyalty or anything. It'd be extremely difficult.
But that's the nature of the game. I don't think women are ever going to change because I think women have basically always been the same. I know now it's maybe getting worse.
But I think they've always been pretty much the same. They've always been looking for a mate, the best value mate, the man who can provide for them the most, the highest chance of success, the highest chance of being protected. Women have always been that way. Are you going to try and rewire evolutionary biology?
I mean, it's a hard fight, you know, speaking of which I want to throw this one out here because I actually want I was I really wanted to get in on this conversation last Monday, but I was still kind of coming back from Vegas at that point. So Clint says, what do you guys think about Dr. Glover and Dr. Smith? I don't know if you're familiar with these guys saying hypergamy isn't real or there seems to be no evidence of it on Rich's show.
are still stuck in that old media. This is exactly what I was saying before is it, if your, if your income is dependent on not understanding or not seeing something, you're not going to see it. Okay. So when, when Dr. Glover or when Dr. Dr. Smith say, well, I don't really see hypergamy. Well, here's the thing is, what are you, first of all, are you really looking for it? And second of all, um, who, you know, who are your clientele and are you, are you trying to, you know, put
I think that these guys actually do see hypergamy. They just don't recognize it as such. They don't want to recognize it as such because if they do, then it opens up a whole other can of worms for them and they have to find some way to make a living based on that objective truth. Based on the idea that what you and I have just been talking about for the last half hour here is hypergamy is this. It's alpha fucks and beta bucks. It's being that alpha dude, being the guy who is on top of his game all the time.
biologically the specimen, right? The alpha male guy that she wants to breed with. And then there's the other aspect of hypergamy, which is she's looking for a guy who's also going to be able to protect her, going to be able to provide for her, going to be able to protect and provide for her offspring that you guys will potentially have. Um, there's all, I mean, there's, it's not hard to get this stuff. I mean, this is like some basic shit. Yeah. Women want this and this,
If your practice as a psychologist was now, today, was based on all the old shit that you learned back when you were in college in the 80s or the 90s, yeah, you're probably not going to want to see something that contradicts or accept something that contradicts what your practice and what your revenue and what your livelihood has been based on for the last, you know, what, 20 or 30 years. I mean, I don't know how long these guys have been doing it, but that's the thing. It's like, well, we don't see it. We don't see it. Okay.
that women 70% of women
initiate divorce you don't you don't see the fact that women oil will leave their leave their husbands and go fuck a guy like andrew tate right they'll fly across the goddamn ocean to go and go and see you right this is why is that is that is that i don't say it well they deny it and the reason they deny it is because you know obviously you can you can have a woman who loves you and she doesn't succumb completely to hypergamy instantly that's what that's going to be their denial well i have a woman and i know a woman who doesn't we're not saying that we're saying that
the biological situation,
natural order of females is to try and find the best man they can. And by the way,
Men, it's our natural biological imparer if to find the best looking woman we can.
So, I mean, like, I don't know what you'd call us, but we're out here trying to find the highest thing we can fuck. And they're out there trying to find the highest status thing they can fuck.
Like this is natural humanity. So here's the, here's the thing. Yeah. And I agree with you. I think for men, our biological imperative, our natural innate mating strategy, if you don't put anything else in our heads, right? If you don't say, well, you know, you need to be monogamous or God's going to punish you. If you don't put that in somebody's head, a guy is going to default to unlimited access to unlimited sexuality.
and it's streaming and you can go on your phone and get it at any time because men are interested in unlimited access to unlimited sexuality. It would be nice if we could all fuck nines and tens, but after 2 a.m. and everybody's drunk, nobody's ugly after 2 a.m. So what happened, this is the thing that a lot of guys will say this is like, well, aren't men hypergamous as well? Don't we all want the best for ourselves? Yeah, of course we do. We're human beings. We make
apple, a big red juicy apple. When we see a little shriveled up, you know, rotten apple, which one do you want to eat? You want to eat the one that has the most survival benefits for you. So yes, you do want that. But here's the thing for, for women, it's about quality.
It's about looking for the best guy that their looks can attract and afford because their survival literally depends on getting that guy and hopefully locking him down. That's one of the only reasons. You know what? I don't think it's just survival. I think that women –
are only happy if they live vicariously through men.
So I was having this conversation with a woman the other day. We were talking. I can't remember. We were talking about talking some shit. And I was saying that I think being born a woman would be. She said being a woman. She said being a woman is easy. And I said, yeah, it is. But I think being born a woman would be a disaster.
I think it'd be terrible. We talk, we sit here and talk about how easy they have it. I said, being born a woman would suck. And she goes, why? I said, because as a man, we can, we can do things. We can conquer the world. We can build empires. We can get rich. We can get strong. We can fight, drive fast cars. We can do stuff as a girl, as a woman. I mean, you can get a bunch of likes on Instagram, but we all know they're still miserable inside.
The only thing that makes a woman happy is kids
Or, well, not even just kids, kids by a man she's completely besotted with. So even then, it's still the man. The only thing that makes a woman truly happy deep inside is to be next to a man she views as so high status that she feels like she hit the jackpot.
Without that, nothing's going to make her content or happy. You can give a dude a bunch of easy sex and a supercar. He doesn't give a fuck. He's happy. He doesn't care about these hoes. He's going to bang. He's going to drive his car. He's hanging with his boys. A girl, if you give her that, she's going to be a miss. She may be go out and be a slut and pretend to be happy. She's going to be miserable inside. So it's not just about survival. Women are only happy through men. Women live vicariously through the man they absorb.
that's where you can see this, this crazy loyalty from women. People think women can't be loyal. No, they may not be loyal to you, but I've seen women obsessively loyal to, to like mafia bosses and stuff. They'll sit and they'll wait six, seven years and not touch a dude because they're so besotted by that one individual.
So you can do it if you can get to a point where the woman completely, her whole identity becomes you. I say this all the time. If you and your woman disagree on politics, she doesn't love you.
Because if she loved you, she'd like what you like. That's the truth. I like Trump. My girl likes Trump. Does she know anything about politics? No. I said he's good. She says he's good. Done. Women live from their man. So it's more than just survival. It's their whole identity is from their man.
Yeah. See, here's what's going to happen. Chasing the best status man they can, because then they get to become a better person.
What I think happens is they like, they suck. Sorry. Sorry. What's that guy from Mortal Kombat? They like suck the souls and they take on the identity. You know, that's how chicks are. They associate their egos with the guy that they're with. That's because the kind of guy that they can get that reflects on them as I am the kind of woman that can get this kind of guy. That's where. So there's this ego association, I think. And here's the other thing, just to sort of finish up this last point with, with respect to the conversation that was going on.
with Dr. Glover and Dr. Smith is a lot of guys have these misconceptions about what hypergamy really is. So I'll get guys who will say like, well, one of the things that you just said right now is like, well, you know, aren't we all looking for the same thing? No, only women are hypergamous. Men will, men don't have attraction floors. If we can get with an eight or a nine, we will, we will gladly do that. But if the guy's a six and he gets his chance at an eight or a nine, he'll do it. But if he's desperate and he really, you know, he wants to knock one out
too. And why is that? Because that is our innate mating strategies to spread the seed. And it's, it's just the way we're built that we, with every ejaculation, we could impregnate potentially thousands of women. Right. So it's, it serves us. It's, it's, it's, it's our evolutionary efficient way of, of reproducing. Whereas for women, women have the burden of gestating a child and, and, you know, keep raising that child up from infancy to, to self-sufficiency at least.
who's going to stick around, who's going to protect them and who's going to be invested in that kid that is his kid. You know, that's why men are so obsessed about their own paternity because if they're going to sacrifice unlimited access to unlimited sexuality, because that's what they're asked to do if they're going to marry a woman or if they're going to settle down and be an anogamous with that woman, he has to give up his mating strategy. And that's why in many parts of the world today, they still want virgins. It's the only way to ensure paternity. And that's why any woman who says, oh, it doesn't matter.
It does matter. You know what? Just because you take a little pill now and again doesn't mean that you've changed to evolutionary biology, like you say, that I want to know I'm the dad to whoever's coming out of that pussy. So I want to know no one else is fucking you.
I don't want to raise it otherwise. Yeah. That's complete. You're completely right. As natural as it can be. Well, it is. And that's the, that is men's existential fear is to raise a child of another man and to be told and to be deceived that it is his, that it is actually his child.
carte blanche really with, with respect to their own hypergamy. We say, okay, ladies, it's on you. You have to police yourself with respect to the worst aspects of your own mating strategy, you know, which in this case is cuckolding guys. We, we joke about it when we call guys cucks, but the reason we do that, it's, it's not necessarily like when we first started, you know, cuck is a funny insult like that we see online all the time, but what, what does it actually mean? It means that you are taking care of a kid that is not yours, that you believe is yours.
it's an insult because it's an insult to that guy's existential fear of actually doing something like that. Um, I got this. Well, this is another thing that's funny. I see a lot of guys talk online about how Western women don't want kids anymore.
And I sit there and think,
They don't want kids with you, but I can guarantee you, you got your shit straight. They want kids.
Every woman I've ever fucked wants a kid with me. They're like, oh, well, the genius chess master, millionaire, kickboxer who can pay for all my bills and buy me a Range Rover. I want a baby with this dude. They want kids. They just don't want them with losers. Because they want them with the winner. That's how they want kids with. What was the – and guys, if you're in the chat here, help me out here. There was that one – the one actress who got with the athlete just recently, and she was – she had sworn. She says, I'm never going to have kids. I'm never going to have kids.
elite guy and now she wants kids and she is out there saying i love him so much or i want him so much i want to have his babies it's not i want to have babies it's i want to have his babies and if you're the guy if you're that guy that she has genuine i i constantly harp on genuine desire and how important it is for you know what your woman to have genuine desire for it she needs to say i want to have your babies i want them to look like you i want them to yeah i want to i want to be in
I think the last time we talked, we also talked about how the girls that you have, the girls that are in your life will will tattoo your name on them. That's what that is. Right. First of all, that's that's the ultimate. But like when I read guys or when I read guys who saying, oh, I'll take her last name or it's OK. We live in a new future right now and women don't have to take a man's last name because that's a that's a sign of ownership.
women who won't take a man's surname and they, or they'll hyphenate it, right? They'll say, oh, I'm, you know, the dual last names or something. There was just recently in, on Twitter, there was a story about this guy and they made this custom coin. And on one side, it had his wife's name and a little picture of her. And on his side, on the opposite side was him and his last name. And they flipped a coin at their wedding and it came up her name. And so now he has to take her last name
I'm like,
How pathetic do you have to be as a guy to, first of all, to agree to something like that, but then to laugh about it and put up, you know, and, and write a story about it and make a big deal out of it on top of everything else. It's just a path of least resistance, isn't it? It's just, it's what they're doing is saying, if I have zero standards whatsoever, if being with me means she has to do zero work at all, then she'll never get rid of me.
Like if I expect nothing of her, why won't she keep me around?
Like if I come up to you and offer you a sandwich, even if you don't really want a sandwich, if it's completely scot-free...
You go, well, it's free. All right, well, I'll take it. I don't even like cheese, Sam, just free.
That's what they're doing. They're saying, look, you haven't got to take my name. You haven't got to fuck me. You haven't got to be nice to me. I'll just, just take me for free. And you may as well just keep me. It's just the ultimate cowardice. It's just they're afraid of getting dumped because they don't think they get anything else. There is a 1000% chance that chick ends up fucking some other dude.
on her knees with a dick in her mouth, praying she gets to take his name. Fact. 100% fact. And this dude still won't leave her. He'll still be like, he'll still stay with her. These people are doomed. They're doomed. It's crazy. I got one real quick question here from Christopher Baker. Who are good nutrition experts? Ben Greenfield, Myron Gaines. Who are good experts on biohacking, et cetera? What do you do to maximize your health? I do not.
to ask about nutrition because I smoke cigars and I drink vodka and I eat KFC. I believe in hard work. That's my nutrition. You go to the gym and you train hard enough, you need whatever the fuck you want. So if you're getting fat and you're still training, you're not training properly.
Go and start training like for real. Michael Phelps eats 10,000 calories a day.
He needs the calories. So if you're lazy ass trained properly, you wouldn't need anything else. So there, there's your answer. Go get McDonald's and get in the gym. Done.
What's your favorite vodka? I drink Belvedere usually. I usually like Belvedere. Oh, okay. So old man gin. Okay. Old man vodka. Old man vodka. Do you drink gin? Yeah.
I do drink gin. Bombay Sapphire. So Sapphire. Okay, good. Good brand. What's your favorite whiskey?
Or do you even drink whiskey? I don't drink whiskey. My brother's the whiskey guy. He's always talking about all these different malts and spending all this money on all these different bottles. And to me, it's all horrible. So I ain't got a clue.
I'm asking because that's, I have two brands. So we'll talk about that. We'll talk about that. So I wanted to get into the whole thing that's going on with the, with Meghan Markle and Prince Harry right now. And I, I, I want to talk about this because I made a prediction and I think you actually did as well when they got married. I said that she was, she has classic signs of being a
things that are, that it's isolating. And she's done something today that really is really going to isolate them. But she, yeah, she is. And she's, she's older than he is. I don't think she's quite 40, but I know that she's in her, in her mid to late thirties right now. She's already been married once. Yeah. It makes me angry. If I would, I'm, listen, listen, I'm actually a peaceful man.
But if I was the older Prince and my younger brother started playing these games, tomfoolery with this thought, I would have to say, listen, BBC One, call them up, we're boxing live on TV. I'm going to have to whoop your ass on TV. And afterwards, I'm choosing your girlfriend.
Because you're the prince of the fucking most famous royal family on earth. And you're fucking around with some divorcee and letting her tell you what to do. Like, what the, what is going on? The level of pathetic, the level of pathetic is hard to quantify. This dude needs to get his ass knocked the fuck out and wake up with a reset.
You know when your computer freezes, you have to unplug it from the wall. This dude needs a left hook. Because I don't know. If I was the prince, do you have any idea how little shit I take already? If I was the prince, do you want to come to me and start talking shit?
You're out the door. What the fuck? He's an idiot. But you know what? This is the crazy thing. I already know their relationship.
I can already see her sitting there going, I'm just not happy with the media. I'm just not happy. And him appeasing. Oh, I know, babe, but you know, it's not my fault. I was born into the family, like apologizing for being a Royal. It's not my fault. I'm so sorry. I made you a billionaire. My poor used up divorcee. Like, and she's just fucking blaming everything on him. And now he's going to be like, okay, anything you want. It's just.
appeasement with women doesn't work. It's a black hole. It never ends. It goes forever. You give them an inch, they take a mile. You give a mile, they'll take light years. You'll never make, give a woman what she wants. If you start giving her what she wants, she just makes more and more ridiculous demands.
And if you're sitting there thinking that can't be true, she's literally telling the guy not to be a prince anymore.
And he'll do it and she'll make him something else. Make him a vegan. She made him a vegan, didn't she? She took his meat away.
So it's like, like, Oh, what level there has to be a point you stand up as a man and say, sorry, female. No.
Either accept the know or leave. You can look at the difference between him and his brother as well. And maybe his brother is not the best example of being an alpha, but he's certainly a whole lot more alpha than Harry is. And so when I see this, and for people who don't know, I guess they are planning to move or have sort of dual citizenship between the United States or North America. They want to say North America. Somebody was saying it was Canada. I don't know if it's Canada or not. Maybe it is. But somewhere between those two. And he's going along with it.
basically renouncing his, his claim to being, what was it? The head of the royalty or, or some shit like that. And so essentially he's saying, I don't want to be a prince anymore because my wife says we need to, I need to earn money independently or, or what are you going to do, man? Are you going to be like a sandwich artist now? What skills do you have?
That's all she's like, Oh yeah, well they control us. Cause they pay for things. They control it. Like bitch.
just i don't know what's going on with this guy but i do know one thing
There is nothing worse as a man than being in his position. He is miserable when you're trying to appease some female, no matter how any guy who's been divorced will tell you.
No matter how hard I tried to be nice, no matter how much I tried to reason and compromise. She was a nasty bitch anyway.
Any man who's been through that will tell you that's the worst possible position.
I he's a miserable dude and he needs to be told he needs to wake the fuck up. His only answer is to say, sorry, I married you. Turns out you're a trash bitch. I'm going to go find some young booties because I'm the Prince of England and you can fuck off and be a fucking actress. A failed actress. See ya.
And watch her fucking attitude change. But he ain't got the balls to do it. And his life is eternal misery until he does exactly that. And he deserves what he gets. Hey, man, I'm not one of them dudes. I don't feel sorry for the guy.
If you're going to set yourself on fire, you're going to burn. Like you're an idiot. You're a fool. And he ain't listening to nobody. I guarantee his older brother at some point said, bro.
Oh, yeah. Well, there's already that division between the two of them. And you know, it's because of Meghan Markle, right? There's a separation between him and his brother, his brother. In fact, everybody in the family. And I don't follow the Royals. I don't even give a rat's ass about them. But people keep throwing this back at me saying, look what happened now. And look what happened now. And they want some sort of analysis of this. And I'm like, okay, well, I know more about the Royals than I ever would have wanted to know on my own.
Yeah, exactly. He's a great example of what not to do. So when I look at this guy and when I sort of just did a little bit of background check on Meghan Markle and find out what her family was like and who she'd married before and how she doesn't have any kids. Well, now she does. She's got one kid with him.
this guy and here's what women want do you know what women want women want good dick and if you fuck them properly they don't want anything else if your woman comes along goes i'm not content and i feel like i need to be an actress again do you know what that really means you're not fucking me right that's what that means because if you were fucking her properly she wouldn't want to do anything else but get fucked she's bro prince harry ain't competing with the nba athletes who smashed megan marvel she's disappointed night after night and that's the reality of life and
stupid ass games.
Because in her own head, even if she doesn't know consciously what she's doing, in her head, she's miserable. I'm miserable. I'm unhappy. Oh, I'm not happy. I'm not happy. I'm not happy. You're not happy because you ain't getting fucked right. If she was getting fucked right, she'd be happy. I tell you something, man. You can be the worst boyfriend in the world. Fuck being a prince. You can be, we've seen it time and time again. You can be a broke. No, you can be broke. You can have nothing. But if you're laying the dick down properly, you're going to be okay. She'd still be happy to be around you.
wants to be an actress again, and she's so miserable, what she's really saying is, "Prince Small Dick can't fuck." That's what's really happening, and the whole thing's a mess. That's the reality. That's the bottom line.
And I think she knows this too. I think there's, there's probably a part of it because she has had enough guys prior to getting with Prince Harry, like guys who were, yeah, she, yeah, exactly. Enough time. Well, she's an alpha widow. She's an alpha widow. She's had, she's had good Dick before, right? She's had the guy that she's probably still pining for, but the guy's a prince. We have to get with him. He's, he, you know, he's got a lot of money. He's got a, you know, he's, he's, he's actually a real prince. And so look at what's happened since they got together is this systematic,
it's almost like a textbook example of what a what a borderline personality disordered woman will do is she will alienate you from your family alienate you from your friends turn you into some like she he's already a beta to begin with now he's really a super beta because he feels like he has to do whatever it is that she's she is coming out with and of course he's he wants to write it off and say well it's together yeah she's unhappy misery loves company how do i make him unhappy that's
money make him work a job i'm miserable he should be miserable why hasn't he got a big black dick why is his name not tyrone why doesn't he play for chicago bulls i can't believe this mess i'm in
listen all the red pill guys talk about this all the time about like mate pairing and mate bonding and all that shit it's true if you get bit with a girl that's that's one thing that is 100 true the red pills got right
If you've been with a girl who's had a few sexual partners, she is a better candidate for a wife or a long-term partner than if a woman's had a whole ton of dick. Because if they had a whole ton of dick, the odds of them being one alpha widowed is very high. And two, another thing that happens with girls who fuck loads of guys, when they remove that stigma of taking a new dick, it's their instant answer.
Oh, we had an argument. I'll fuck someone else.
When a girl hasn't fucked lots of guys, it's not their instant answer. So now Meghan Markle, because she's a hoe, is sitting there literally itching to get fucking gangbanged by the fucking Los Angeles Raiders. And she can't because she's stuck with this dude. So now she's like, you know what? Fuck it. I'm miserable. He's going miserable too. I'm going to make him work and fucking Toys R Us.
Bullshit. It's bullshit, bro. And the only chance he has as a man, the only chance he has a man, I would come down on her with fire and fury. I'd go to the fucking newspapers and do a candid interview about how I made a mistake marrying a selfish, entitled bitch. I'd come on her so hard that she'd learn some respect for the royal family. And she'd know my name is the prince. And then she'd want to fuck me.
and everything will be fine.
But he's. Yeah. And here's this. This is a real good question here. He says it's hard for an for unattractive men to meet new women. And when he meet women, it's hard not to be all over her. So what's the best game for him?
All right. So,
You know what, women are just like everything else, this experience.
I say this all the time. I say this all the time. You're not going to get good at anything without experience. I don't care if you're playing piano. I don't care if you're gaming chicks.
It's experience. I have guys who come to me all the time and they go, I don't want to be a player, Tate. I said, that's fine. But if you want to have a good relationship with women, you better learn how to be a player first. It's like the key. You need experience in the game. So if you're still shit with women, you need to go on more dates, even the ones that ain't that hot.
Saying it's hard to not be all over her. Well, then you just need to fucking sort your own brain out, bro. Because that's just dark. But you need more experience with women. That's the first thing. Second thing, unattractive. Men build where our attractiveness is.
Men build is Dan Bilzerian a fucking supermodel. No, he's high status.
Done. You build your attractiveness as a man. So increase your status one way or another.
Stop fucking coming along. Listen, I say this all the time and I'm going to do a plug here. I will teach you absolutely everything I know about women head to toe and I will teach you every trick in the book in my PhD course at CobraTech.com. Go to CobraTech.com, buy my PhD course. I guarantee it will increase your conversion rate. However, there's only so much we can do.
Like if you teach, if you teach a small female Kung Fu and put her up against a big guy who doesn't know Kung Fu, the big guy just has too many natural assets. He's going to whoop her ass.
This is the reality, it's the same in the dating market. If you're not going to give yourself any kind of natural advantage,
Then you're fucking, then why are you sitting here complaining on super chats?
If you really see yourself as unattractive, then fucking fix it.
done. Like there's only so much you can do as a person. That's the reality. Whenever guys have told me this is, and I think a lot of guys tend to gross out in one way. Like they will say, well, it's all about looks. All right. And then, so they won't have any game or they don't, they don't concentrate on any other aspect of themselves. Or they'll say, it's all about money. If you just have a lot of money, then women will want to get with you. And I can show you right now, I can show you right now, a guy like Jeff Bezos, who is, because he is still very
Once he got out of his marriage with McKenzie, he didn't go live like Dan Blisserian. He went and wifed up some 49-year-old perimenopausal Latina woman that has a history of all this kind of stuff, of cheating on guys. So he does that. So it's not a money thing. It's not just a money thing. It's not just affluence. And it's not just game. It's all those things. It's everything. You've got to be multifaceted. It's everything. Listen, I'm not that rich.
rich, but I have a little bit of money. But the truth is this.
What, you know why women like guys with money? It's not even that you have money. It's that you can, that you can, you can be a little bit spontaneous.
And that you can give, you have time during the day to give them attention. If you've got money, but you're a banker and you're working 12 hour days and you ain't got time to touch your phone, you ain't getting girls because they want attention all the fucking time. That's the reality. So you can be rich. I know dudes who are rich as fuck, but they are so busy that they're constantly having women's problems. No matter how much money they make and how many times their woman's taken care of, he doesn't text me. You've always heard it. I fucked the gardener because he didn't give me any attention. So it's all about money.
They like, oh, he has money. It's not about money. If you have a little bit of money, you can be more spontaneous and you can often take days off work and see them. That's, that's all it really is. You don't need money to get girls. That is one of the things I would say you need probably the least.
The money is the least helpful aspect, believe it or not. If your other shits together, if all your other shits together, if you're confident and you're smart, you've got some fun stories and you'll go up to girls, you'll be interesting and you're not afraid to get rejected and you'll do the numbers games and you're in half good shape. You'll be all right. You don't need to be a millionaire. The whole money thing isn't really that as important as the other stuff.
Right. And having, having some sort of congruency, I think in your life as well. I, yeah, that's, that's funny. You should say that. Cause I always use this example is like when I was in my twenties and I was playing in like the Hollywood metal scene, I was living in a one bedroom studio apartment in North Hollywood. That was, that was a time in my life where I had the most sex with the most women and I had no money. I had zero money out whatsoever. And I think that my, my assets included a, a, a Toyota pickup truck, whatever my, my amps and my guitars were worth.
and the, you know, whatever was sitting, you know, the cold pizza that was sitting in my fridge. And, and I, and women would come to me to have sex. They would come to my place to do it. Yeah. And it wasn't because I had a, and it wasn't like, Oh, well, you're, you're, you're drapes don't, man. You need to go to bed, bath and beyond to make sure everyone, you know, got the temperature in the room has to be perfect and all that. No bullshit. You have to be the guy at the time. When I think about that time in my life, I always think, well, it was because I was
guy that they wanted to get with. And so as a result of that, you know, I had, I had a little bit of social proof. I played in some, some semi-decent bands back in, back in the day. So I had some social proof. I had a lot of pre-selection because girls would always want to be buying me drinks and shit like that when I was, when I was younger. And so it didn't have any, I mean, my sex appeal back then didn't have anything to do with, with the money that I had in my bank account, because I had nothing. It was certainly wasn't in the, in playing, into playing music because it
That taught me that you don't necessarily have to be like the richest dude in the world to have chicks. It helps, but it's not the only thing. No, PIMs ain't got money. They're taking money. Girls made me millions. I didn't give girls millions. I'm talking about my webcam history. Girls made me money. I started a webcam company when I had no money. Let me tell you something about money.
because this is actually interesting.
There's a level of money you can get to that's detrimental to
to the game. So let me tell you a fact I've actually worked out. So
Before I got verified on Instagram about six months ago.
So before I was verified,
I got less girls reply to me.
But the ones that did reply to me were far nicer and more receptive. Now every girl replies to me, but they're all like, ah, verified guy, rich guy, talks to every girl. And they're all hardball.
All you can get to a point where when I had no money, if I pick a girl up in a normal ass car and say, ah, fuck it, we're going to go for a drive and get McFlurry and talk shit.
They'd be like, cool. Now if I tried out on a date, they're all like, what's the... They've seen a Lambo and money and shit. They want to go on holiday. There's a point where money can actually make the game harder because they expect so much more than they do from a normal guy. I was like, you fucked normal guys. They weren't buying you this shit.
You want it from me because you know I can afford it. So money isn't the be all and end all. And in fact, I will say this now, I started my cam company when I was broke.
And I got more girls when I was broke than I do now.
I really truly believe that because I don't know if there's something about
I don't know if it was something about me or if it's just something about the way the girls view me a little bit different. When you have money, you attract lots of them. But to get to a deeper level with them is actually quite difficult. It's a weird phenomenon.
If girls know you have money, they don't want to fuck you without getting some money somehow. Does that make sense? Yeah, there has to be a benefit. Then it becomes this weird power struggle where they're like, well, he's rich. Why am I going to fuck him now? He ain't bought me nothing yet.
It becomes really difficult. Almost like Briffle's Law. Trust me. Yeah. Yeah, exactly. How old are you now? I'm 33. 33. Do you think that, okay, now think about like 10 years ago. So in, let's say in 2010, you would have been 23. Like, do you think now, like what's changed for you right now? Like now that you're, because you were saying before, like now that you have money that you don't have as much sex or you don't, you're, you don't get the same. You're, you don't get the same kind of girls or you don't get as many girls as you do now as you did back before.
What's changed that? Is it because of something you like, do you like, are you not interested in doing it anymore? I have, I have a constant power struggle with females.
So I still get a lot of women. I'm not going to lie.
But I attract a lot of women. But now I have this really strange battle where I have to try and convince the woman she stands a chance
of being a real genuine long-term girlfriend and not just getting used and thrown away.
And that sounds easy. And that's very difficult to do. It's hard to convince a girl that you're serious about her when she knows women are insecure. They may put on the front, but they're insecure. A lot of even the hot ones, if they're sitting in front of a real G, they know they ain't shit.
They know they ain't shit. They're like, he sat here with how many girls like me?
This fucking dude running around the world with his cars and his money and shit. So you have to try and convince them, no, I'm serious about us. And it's very hard to do without coming across like a complete pussy. Because if you do that, then they don't like you anyway.
So now my, the only barrier I have, I have almost unlimited access to girls. I can message any girl on Instagram and I'll get reply, but it's always a power struggle. It's a power fight. They're, they're trying to get some kind of token of proof that they matter to me. And I'm too stubborn to start buying bitches handbags.
So it's this weird thing that happens. Now I still get a lot of girls. I'm not going to fucking lie. I'm not going to exaggerate. I still am constantly with girls all the time. But when I had no money, I didn't have any of these games.
I have a lot more games now. I'll go on a date with a girl three or four or five times and then she'll say, you know what? I know I can't trust you. I know I can't trust you for no reason.
I know this won't work because they're just intimidated. They're like, this dude's got every box ticked. What the fuck? He's just going to fuck me and leave me.
And they're scared by it. So I think that was different when I was 23 and I was a fighter and I was aspiring and I had I didn't have any money yet, but I was on the right way and I was motivated. I had a half good car and a normal apartment. Every girl was like, you know what, this is a good safe bet and I can see where he's going and he's a smart guy. And they were far easier to back. That's the truth. If you're sitting here and you need millions, you really don't need millions of dollars.
I say this all the time to the people in my war room. They say, well, how do I make my Instagram look interesting? I said, look, just take a bunch of pictures in different places.
Just do a bunch of traveling, drive around the state for a week.
Take pictures of different places. Make it look like you go different places. Chicks love that. Normal ass car, different places, a few good pictures. Bang. That's all you need on Instagram as a guy. Really, really.
But like, unless you're trying to get like the supermodel chicks and the verified chicks and all them girls. But yeah, I think money can make the game a little bit harder in some ways. So don't be looking to become a millionaire because there's a reason a lot of rich guys pay for pussy.
There's a reason they do it.
You know, because it's hard. It ain't easy.
They want to get with it. All right, here. Tate, would you or Tristan ever go vegan for a girl?
So check this story. So in this very house, in this very house, one of my ex. So here's a story for you. So I had a girl for, I'll protect names.
So I won't give you her real name. We'll call her Tina. And Tina was my ex. I had a girl who I was banging called Tina who caught me cheating back during 10 years ago when I was 23. Aspiring fighter. She caught me cheating.
Throw her to fuck off. Anyway, Tina gets married to some dude.
I end up finding Tina again on Instagram messaging Tina.
So Tina's married now. She's got some new guy, blah, blah, blah. But she's still replying to me that eventually I convince her to pretend she's going gym, meet me. I pick her up in the car, blah, blah, blah, blah. Tina starts having an affair with me. Of course. Of course. So anyway, Tina, this is funny. Tina lost her wedding ring in my car. She took it off and it fell down the edge of the seat of the Lambo and you can't get it out. And we come back to this later. So she lost her wedding ring in my car. So I'm fucking her, fucking her, fucking her. She lives in England. I still live in Romania.
I'm just going back and forth.
So anyway, I convinced her to leave her man.
Get a divorce.
Come here and be a cam girl.
to come do cam. So all this goes through. I mentioned the ring because when she said that, you know, I'm just not all the things Megan says, I'm just not happy. I just wanted more. I don't know why all the bullshit excuses because she's getting fucked by some other guy. And, and, and, and her guy was smart enough to say, I think this has something to do with the place. You lost your wedding ring. So he knew, he knew something was going down anyway. She comes here to be a
and another girl.
So I'm sleeping with them two. Anyway, Tina watches some shit on TV, decides to go vegan. She goes vegan on me in my own house.
I was like, bitch, what the fuck? What annoyed me the most about this vegan thing is she wasn't even one of them healthy ones. She was just eating Oreos and French fries.
I was like, you're not even trying to be healthy with it. Like you want to go vegan. You're living on shit. You're just going to look like crap in a few months.
You're supposed to be on cam. What the fuck's wrong with you?
So we were arguing about it. Anyway, eventually she made the mistake of sitting there saying, I would never, I said how much I was making a joke. Me and Tristan were saying, how much would we have to pay you to eat some meat? She's like, I'd never do it. Not for a million dollars. All the stupid things women say. And I was like, well, what about cooking meat for me? She goes, I'd never cook meat for you.
I said, this is my house, you're gonna do as I say.
She goes, no, I wouldn't. I said, listen, you better fucking start packing your bags. If I take a cookie, Tristan was verified. So we had a two hour argument. She went into the room. She started packing. She called her mom crying. She booked a new flight home. We had a whole fight. And guess what happened two hours later?
She cooked me my fucking bacon.
Because it's in my house. And I'm not going to have her impose her religion on me. And to everyone else, that sounds like a stupid story. That had nothing to do with bacon. That had the woman coming along and trying to tell me what she will and won't do. Right. In my house. In my domain. That's what it's about. I would rather lose a girl then and there than start appeasement and end up like fucking Prince Dickhead. No. That's the rule. Cook. I said so. That's funny. That's funny. That reminds me of this one.
I think I wrote about this. I think this might be in the second book or first, maybe it's in the first book. I wrote this once one part of this one essay. And I had this incident with my wife way back in the day. I think we've been married for like maybe, well, we had our daughter then. So it would have been like three or four years. And my wife comes up to me and she says, we need to get this new bed for our daughter. I found this great bed on like Craigslist or some shit like that. And I'm like, I'm looking at it. I'm going, well, first of all, she's got a, the bed's okay. And then, you know, here I am trying to like think like pragmatically,
efficiently. And I'm thinking, you know, honestly, I don't really want to fucking put that bed together because she's got it. She's fine for right now. She's a little kid. She's not going to roll out. Right. And so, so that she's like, well, it's a really good bed and, and, uh, and it's a really good price and we should get it. And I was like, Oh shit.
Uh, no. And that, so that taught like that. And that taught me a lesson right then and there. I go, this isn't about the bed.
This is about this is about that. This is exactly the power struggle, the power thing that you were just talking about. And I said, no.
no we're not getting that but we're not not getting that bed and she was you know she was like all and you know held out on me for like a couple days i know damn well she's gonna come back around again after that but it was not about the bed
It was about, I'm going to tell you what to do. And I'm like, I say this all the time. No, no, no, no, no, no. I say this all the time. If you want to see men who are not in control of their marriage, go to Ikea.
There is no man in the world who wants to spend his only day off work picking out towels in a fucking Swedish maze.
Not one, but they'll walk around with their wife. You see them walking around, pushing the cart and her holding up the curtains. What do you think of these curtains? Oh yeah, they're nice.
What do you think of these ones? And he's pretending he gives a shit. Any man who's in control of his marriage, when the woman goes, we need curtains, he goes, go fucking buy some curtains.
Oh, but I want to go Ikea. Well, then go then. I don't know. I'm fucking, it's my day off. What the fuck? I will never go Ikea. I fucking hate that place. Women have tried every which way to try and get me to go. No, I don't want to go. You fucking go.
If you're, if you're, there's no man who's control of his marriage is walking around Ikea on a fucking Sunday.
And it's a little tiny power control. This is what they do. Women are smart with it.
And I use it against them. So like, when I was in the height of my pimp career,
I used to call my women bitch because I liked it because it was like pimping.
So I was like, I'm going to study the game. I learned from a bunch of pimps. And they called her women bitches. So women, they do these little concessions and they build on them.
So that's what I did back to them. So like, I'd only say bitch in a very positive way.
like you're crazy like that or like that was funny in a super positive way and eventually over time it was like where's my coffee
You just got to get in there. And that's what the women do. Oh, it's a bed now. It's Ikea. I won't cook the bacon. I don't want to work. I don't want to log in. I don't want to. You've just got to be an iron wall.
The only power women have is that men are afraid to lose them.
That's their only power. If you're scared, just say fuck off. If you're not scared of that, they have no control over anything.
It's that you're scared to say, all right, bye.
That is it because most men know that she can find someone else to fuck much quicker than they can find someone else. Right. That's the fear element.
That's the fear. If you can get over that fear, you're going to be fine with women.
You're going to be fine. I want to go to IKEA. I don't, so bye. You're not going to come with me. No.
Well, you're not even going to come and look after our apartment. No, I'm not. You go on Ikea or not. Shut up. It's Sunday. I don't listen to you.
It's the frame. There's no such thing as frame. If you're afraid to lose her, then there is no frame because what sooner later she's going to call your bluff.
The frame is, I will let you leave.
And if you're not prepared to say yes, sign on the dotted line, let her leave. You don't have frame. That is frame. Fuck the rest of it. The rest of it's bullshit. That's frame right there. Will you live without her ass, without chasing her?
Because if you know yourself, the answer is no, then you ain't got frame. I hear a lot of guys. I hear a lot of guys will say this to you. They'll say exactly what you're saying. They'll say, well, you know, unless you unless you can walk away from it, unless you can unless you have the ball to walk away from it, then you and you don't have frame. And that's something I've framed is actually the first thing I wrote about in the Iron Rules of Tomasi. But but with respect to to like walking away, I think a lot of guys are a lot.
what was it? The saying is you, anything you can't say no to makes you a slave. And I've heard this from so many guys and they'll say, well, you know, I'm, that's why I'm MGTOW. Cause I don't want to have to worry about any of this stuff or I don't have to want to want to get in all that, you know, get into that kind of negotiation or going back and forth. And it's like, well, you have to put yourself into a position of power. You have to like, what guys get really upset with me when I say you need to instill dread. And the only way that you can instill dread is if you
you and the only way she can appreciate that is when you say okay go
You want women's rights. You want your independence. Here you go. You can go anytime you want. You either do it the way that I want it to or you don't do it the way that I want it to. And if either this is my frame and you're in it and you are a part of my world or you're not a part of my world. So.
I think it's really easy for guys to say that because there's a lot of guys who are married who will say, yeah, I've got frame and my wife respects me and she lets me lead or she lets me be the man of the house. And it's like, no, once you get into that position, you can't leave her. She is the one who controls your ass.
I can leave anytime I want to. And she's, you know, we're here. We're both here because we want to be here to have frame or to be in control of your marriage in the West is a fucking illusion.
That's my genuine view. And I don't want to get political, but I hear, I see all these guys in the West. I'm in control of my marriage until your woman calls the police and say you assaulted her when you didn't.
Then we'll see what control is when you're in a fucking police cell and she rinses you to death. What a fuck on some bullshit.
You're in control of nothing. You're fucking living a fucking dream. And, and, and this is the reality, man. I'd say this all the time. If a woman knows that her leaving will upset you, guess what? She's going to start threatening to do every five minutes.
Leave. Women love, women want to emotionally affect you.
And I have proof of this.
I learned most of my red pill stuff from fighting.
And I learned that because through fighting, I went all around the world. I met with lots of women. I slept with lots of women, but I also learned when I had long-term relationships, it doesn't matter how perfect my girlfriend was, Rolo, doesn't matter how perfect she was.
two or three days before a fight, she would start an argument because I am susceptible to bullshit. I've lost six kilos. I'm in a wake cup. I'm nervous. I can't sleep. I've got a fight coming up for world title.
Everything's wrong. My whole head's a mess. And she wants to argue me over some
Bullshit! Curtains, towels, kitchen, Tupperware, anything. Because she knows I'm most susceptible to her garbage.
Females want to emotionally affect you. So if a woman says, I'm going to leave and you start being emotionally affected by it. Oh, don't leave. She's going to be using that on you every five fucking seconds.
If a woman tells you she wants to leave you and it breaks your heart, you have to say, okay, okay.
Bye then.
Otherwise you don't set a mission to keep it in a long term. You've got, as a man, you've got to have emotional control. Most of the dudes out here just don't have control of their own emotions. You don't control your own heart.
Well, and the guys in the chat here, we've got a really good question here. I'll get to this in a second. But the guys in the chat here are saying, well, you know, that's indicative of a scarcity mentality. And that's, having that abundance mentality is really difficult for guys.
Thank you.
for you to be in a relationship or for you to be having sex with a woman or whatever has to be in a long-term relationship with her. She's got to be your girlfriend. Otherwise it's not, there's nothing, you know, there's nothing valid after that. Or guys will say this, well, I feel bad for guys like, uh, like Rollo and, and, and Tate and all these guys who, who are spinning plates because they're just having endless, meaningless sex. And I, I am, I'm with my wife and I'm with my girlfriend or what, you know, whatever. It's like, it's, it's this validation of their scarcity.
It's this validation of that. Oh, I would never do something like that. I respect my woman. I, you know, I, uh, I live in an egalitarian relationship with her really quick. Cause you're completely right. Let me say something. I'll tell you, I'll tell you the answer to this whole trad con versus player thing. I'll tell you the answer. Yeah. You know what man needs? A man needs both. A man needs his cake and he eats it. A man needs a woman who he knows is going to be by him when he's sick and going to nurse him when he doesn't feel well and wait for him when he goes to jail and who loves him with all his heart.
Oh.
That's what a man who's true to himself wants.
Cut the garbage. If you ask a man, he wants a woman who is his ride or die, or maybe two. And then he'll go out and bang girls he barely knows. And he wants everything. I tell you now, man, any tradcon who thinks he has more love in his life than I have is wrong. My women who adore me adore me completely. And I fuck whatever I want, and they stay regardless. They love me absolutely. I can be sick in bed. I can go to jail. I can have problems. They are staying by me. They love me just the same.
I don't have. I just have something on top, which is being able to fuck whatever I want.
So that's, that's what a man, if a man's true to himself, that's what he wants. He wants his wife or his girl or his main chick, and he wants the freedom to do what he wants. And you know what? I've never been in a monogamous relationship.
And you know what? I am genuinely a better man to my main chick when I'm cheating.
I am a nicer guy when I'm fucking something else every once in a while. It's an easier relationship for everyone. If she just leaves me the fuck alone to do what I got to do.
We get along just fine. If I had to be monogamous, I don't think it would last two weeks. I don't think I could do it. I'd lose my fucking mind. I'd go out my fucking brain. So the only way, every time I see a monogamous man, there's a degree of, you have to like,
I don't know. I've never been in a monogamous relationship.
But there's some, there's so much compromise involved.
I just see them compromising on so many levels. I couldn't do that as a person. Like, no, I can't compromise to those levels. I can't. As a man, I have to just do what I want. I can't stand being controlled. But this is the truth. People often say like it's player, like you're never going to have any successful players.
You're never going to have kids. You're never going to have love. You're never going to have anything meaningful or trad card. I have both. I have both right now as we speak. And I have for many, many years and no one can sit and say, my women don't love me. So I have it all. And that should be the end goal of any man. If you're a man, you're sitting there going, what should I be aiming for? That's what I believe you should be aiming for. Find your woman, find your wife, make her love you. Make her understand that she doesn't tell you what to do with your own dick. Bang something else when you feel like it and be happy. Bang.
That's it. All right. I got to ask this one. Here's this is from Coco Puff. Thank you for the 50 bucks, brother. It says, uh, I'm six foot three hot, have six figure salary, but half the girls ghost me after the, a date or two and the other half sleep with me. This includes chicks who have approached me first. I know no man gets all of them, but is this normal? And how often are chicks ghosting you? All right, bro. So the first thing you need to do is go to Cobra take.com
Thank you.
So my ratio is I get a lot of girls who will ghost me trying to organize a date.
So if I'm talking to a girl and I'm trying to plan a date, maybe a couple of them will disappear.
After I meet a girl, I have like an 80 to 90% close rate.
after I meet a girl.
because I'm fucking hilarious. So it's, my close rate's very high after I meet them. If your close rate's dropping after you've met them,
Then you need to get the PhD course ASAP and learn my in there. I teach the exact methodology I do for dates, how I break it down, how what I do on dates, the first date, the second date, third date, etc. So you need to get that course because after a girl meets you, things should be a lot, lot easier. I'll only lose a girl if I've been texting her for a while and then I go traveling. And by the time I get back, she might be talking to some of the dude or whatever, whatever.
Fun. After they meet you, it should be a pretty much done deal. Girls don't waste their time. If she's turning up somewhere to see you, she, she's to me, that's in the bag. I mean, at my level of a girl's going to get out of bed and come and meet me somewhere. She wants to fuck, maybe not right away, but she's, it's crossed her mind. Like she ain't wasting women. I got time to
So if it's going wrong after that, you're fucking the dates up and you need the PhD course pronto.
Mm-hmm.
Yeah. Let me ask you this. So how many, how many chicks are living with you right now? Like how many girls are in your harem? Let's just say. I've only got three now. I'm not a big player anymore, bro. I've slowed down. So you're sounding like Abu American because he's marrying a third one pretty soon here, I think. I'm a bit old. I used to have crazy numbers, but you know what? It's not always about the quantity. Sometimes having three and having a peaceful household is just better than having eight crazy assholes. Now, does Tristan live with you too? Tristan lives with me as well, yeah.
So it's you, Tristan, three girls and a total of six girls. And then our cousins here as well is the guy you saw walk in the background. He's come here. So we've got big houses right on. Okay. So of the girls of the three girls that are like your primary girls right now, like what are, what are their ages?
So one is 23 and one is 27 and one is 28.
Okay. So you got two that are pushing epiphany phase era or women, but then you got the younger one that's in there too. That's interesting. And do they, do the, do the two older ones like the younger one? That's a good question. It's actually what I've worked out and I've been doing this a long time is.
Uneven numbers help because women are so fickle and have no loyalty.
So if you're trying to live with four girls, it's going to quickly split off into two teams of two.
and it's going to be war.
But when there's three girls, it's a never-ending tapestry and a constantly changing battlefield. Because two will hate one, and then the other two will hate one. They can't be loyal to each other for more than five minutes, because someone will annoy the other one.
So as long as they're in a constant state of flux...
It's kind of okay. It's kind of organized chaos. Uneven numbers work for that reason. So sometimes the two older ones don't like the younger one, but then sometimes the two older ones are arguing about some next shit and the younger ones join one of their side. So that's kind of how it is. It's kind of weird. People always ask me the secret to living to multiple women. And I say this all the time. You have to be such a domineering force as a man that when you're in the room, no one else is in the room.
So if I'm around, I'm such a life force that all the other shit disappears. I control the entire...
Universe.
But when I'm not around, it all falls apart. Does that make sense? When I'm around, it's fine.
So also there's a, there's a huge level of commitment involved. The idea of living with lots of women, you got to be there all the time. And every single time I go away for extended periods of time, a couple of weeks, I lose a chick every fucking time.
This is how it is. So there's, yeah, I mean, but it's doable. It really is doable. It really isn't that hard, especially living in the world we live in now. And especially if your girls are hot, anyone who's here, I just saw some guy saying, Oh, this Tate guy talks little chicks. He bangs. Look at my Instagram.
at Cobra Tate. And I've got another one at Tate Limited, T-A-T-E-L-T-D. Go check me out. I'm not one of the PUA guys who uses stock images. Go look. You'll see me. You'll see the girls I'm fucking. Go look and judge them yourself.
But if you're hanging with hot girls, every girl's thought of fucking another girl at least once.
I say this all the time. People go, how do you get a threesome? I say, well, what you do is you get a hot girlfriend.
Like, what do you mean? It's like, if your girlfriend's smoking, then it's fucking easy. If your girlfriend's smoking and she's ready to fuck girls, then you just tell your girl, you get in the club, you start throwing bulk around. You tell your girl to find a girl. You ain't gonna do nothing.
You know, if you've got hot chicks, it really ain't that hard. Girls have at least considered it.
The only thing that gets a bit harder is, yeah, family, kids, they get a bit older, that kind of shit can complicate things.
But if I could get five 19-year-olds, I'd get five young chicks easy.
But it just gets to a point where it's not even pleasurable anymore.
You know what? I'm not trying to anyone who's watching this do some full of shit.
Whatever. Check my Instagram. You'll see it. Watch the PhD course. You'll see the proof. I am. I'm tired of threesomes. I want sex with one girl. It's too much work. It's a pain in the ass. It gets to that point where people think living with all these women would be fun. It just becomes a fucking nightmare. You can't sleep. The bed's too hot. It's a nightmare. But it's the truth, bro. It's the truth. But it's just it's just I think any man could do it.
I think any man who was adamant that was his goal could do it. Most men don't believe they could pull it off.
If you're a man watching this and you're a young guy and you're not committed yet,
Get yourself a girlfriend. And then while you're fucking her, tell her you're going to move another girl in and fuck them both. She'll still let you fuck her because she'll be horny at the time.
What she's horny at the time, it's okay. She likes the idea.
So there you go. Keep her horny all the time. Be a G. Make sure she's always horny around you. Bang. Done. Get your other girl. Move her in. Get your dick out. Get to work.
What the fuck? It's not really that complicated. It's just about being man enough to have the frame to say, okay, she lives here now.
Most parents ain't got the frame to do it. They're scared. There's a lot. Okay. So when, when I talk about, when I talk about hypergamy or if I talk about how like men's mating strategy changes, like for instance, you are following a mating strategy that an alpha male, I would expect an alpha male to follow, which is like one guy with many women. Okay. And then also making sure that they are still loyal, that you keep them in your harem, that nobody else is fucking them.
that's fucking them if they go out like I was going to ask you this is like let's just say for sake of argument like the 23 year old says well you know you get to fuck other girls I want to go fuck other guys can I go okay
If my woman replies to a man on Instagram, if she likes another man's photo, she's out the fucking door.
I inflict, I expect absolute loyalty from my women.
And that is not mate guarding. That's not beta. That is just basic territorialism that comes with being a fucking man.
I ain't having my chicks.
Talking to other dudes, liking other dudes to my chicks. Don't go to the club without me. They are at home, home. And you know what? What's crazy about this? I tell guys this and they have this idea that I'm some kind of big, evil, imposing figure.
You know what? The girls are perfectly fine with that. If a girl loves you, she doesn't want to go out without you. And she doesn't want to like other guys fucking photos.
I don't have to enforce that law. I just make it very clear at the beginning. You're with me now. So what are you following dudes on Instagram for?
You're the best man in the world. What do you want to look at? Okay, sorry, sorry. Unfollow, unfollow, unfollow, unfollow. It's not hard to fucking enforce.
But I would never, ever, ever let my woman talk to another man. She did. She's gone. History. Bye. Instantly. Bye. One bad apple. I'm not having fucking one girl fucking fuck it all up for the rest of them thinking they can start doing this dumb shit. No way. They don't go to the club without me. No way. Like, you have to be like that as a man. I get this all the time from guys going, oh, my girl has lots of male friends. I don't know what to do. I'll tell you what to do. Tell her to fucking choose.
You were that because if she chooses them, she was going to fuck them eventually anyway. So what are you waiting for?
fucking lay it down. You, as a man, you got to be territorial. You can't let your woman fucking run around talking to dudes. Talk to me. Then what? Right. Well, okay. So here's what, here's what I get into. Like when I talk about mate guarding, I, and, and I think mate guarding is a really interesting topic in, in the red pill. Let's just say the red pill. Um, because a lot of guys will say like, and this is my, my idea here is like guys who are more prone to mate guard, to actively mate guard, to say, Hey, let me see your, let me see your, uh, your phone or let me
passwords, or let me find some way to implement these limitations or these controls upon you, or make guarding, like, as far as behaviors is concerned, is most guys understand when a woman is in estrus, or when she is going to, you know, she's going off, she's, you know, she comes, she asks you permission to go to Vegas with her girlfriends for a weekend, knowing damn well that she's probably going to go, you know, out clubbing with her girlfriends, and she's supposed to be loyal to you, but she still wants to go have a good time with her girls, and if you don't let
community and so therefore um you implement mate guarding and guys i think a lot of guys particularly more the more beta the guy is the more prone to mate guarding is because he has more invested in that chick now what you just said is real interesting to me because i i do think that there is maybe a form of alpha mate mate guarding as well because we see this in like sort of in in primates as well we say like for an alpha male like chimpanzee or whatever um they will still
out of the, out of the beta males that are around. It's like, so that's how, that's how you, that's how you make guard them. Two things quickly. When you just said about the girl going to Vegas, that's exactly the same as Megan wanting to be an actress.
If your girl comes to you and she wants to go party, you have a problem. Because she should not want to go party. She should want to sit and stay with you. Do you know what my women want to do?
Sit with me and watch Netflix. I refuse to do it. It's fucking boring. They don't want to go anywhere. They don't want to do anything. They don't ask for anything, but please, can you just stop working? Can you have the night off? Can we just stay in bed? Please, please, please. They don't want, if your chick goes, all my friends are going to Vegas. I really want to go. You ain't dicking her right. Cause if you were dicking her right, she wouldn't want to go Vegas. So you've
And two, I say this all the time. Girls say to me, "Oh, are you jealous?" I say, "No, I'm not jealous." I am territorial. They are completely different things.
So my version of mate guarding is this. I don't give a fuck if you have no intention of sleeping with him. I refuse to be disrespected. It is disrespectful for you to talk to another man. It's disrespectful for you to covet another man. You are with me. That is just disrespect. I don't care if you have zero intention.
I'm uninterested in your intention. I'm interested in how you respect me as an individual. If you are with me, you do not do that because that's the level I've set of respect I have for myself. You're not going to play those games.
And if she wants to say, well, you have loved girls. I say, if you don't understand the biological differences between men and women, then you're a dumb hoe anyway. Bye.
Because most women know the truth. But yeah, I absolutely am extremely possessive of my females. And let me tell you another thing.
They, if maybe it's only an alpha strategy, maybe if you're a real G, maybe only then, but they fucking like it.
They like it. I had a girl a couple years ago. She goes, I think if I cheated on you, you'd kill me.
I said, I'm not going to kill anybody. Don't say that. She goes, but I think if you cheat, you'd kill me. And I said, well, I don't know what you're saying that for. You know what she said afterwards? I was kind of hoping you'd say yes.
Yeah She goes I don't know I just like the idea that if I cheated you'd kill me They love the idea of you being crazy possessive When they see you as a G
So because they want because you have value they respect they want that they want that he won't let me he won't let me because he loves me because he loves me because it's a proof it's proof of love for them.
She'd instantly lose.
30% of her respect for me.
instant overnight
And if she can get away with that, what else can she get away with? If that's the case, what else can she get away with? That's what the Muslims have right. Why would she follow a guy if she's with you?
For what?
And people will call you in the modern world. You put this on Twitter. Watch all the bait has come out. You're insecure.
No, I'm insecure. Yeah.
Answer me for what? What is she following that man for? She's with me or what?
There's no answer besides you're insecure. We talk about this all the time. And Rich and I have talked about this as well with the rise of the, what is it? The Instagram boyfriend, right? The guy that's going to be there and dutifully take pictures of her. And if he doesn't get it right, he's got to go get the perfect angle. And he was on, I think he went on vacation last year and he noticed all of these guys that were taking pictures of their girlfriends or their wives or whatever for their, I mean, that's, it's a thing. It's an online thing.
an Instagram boyfriend. And so I looked at this and I kind of analyze it and I go, what these guys are doing is participating in advertising that woman online for, you know, for another guy, for to advertise her sexuality to another guy. And they're, they're complicit in it. They're okay with it. And in fact, they don't want, if you were to have a problem with it, they would say, well, you don't have, you're not securing your masculinity enough to actually go and take a picture of your girl. And I think they throw that share you for everything. Rolo, if you,
dicks. You're not securing your mask. Yeah, exactly. It could be anything.
Yeah, exactly. Well, and I've said this before too. It was like, I've had guys will say that like, as far as being secure in masculinity, I had like guys that would tell me like, well, you need to wear this pink shirt because we're all going to go to the, uh, the breast cancer awareness march or something. And I didn't, I showed up and I didn't wear no pink shirt and they go, well, you're not secure enough. You're a masculinity to wear a pink shirt. And I go, no, I'm, I'm insecure enough in my
wear all of these fucking pink shirts that everybody else is. That's how secure I am in this, in my masculinity. And so when I,
When I talked to these guys, so, and when I'm, I had this, I don't want to say it was a debate, but it was, I guess it was a debate between myself and Abu American. Because Abu American thinks that like mate guarding is something that is done by alphas. And honestly, I think it's kind of done by, it's an innate part of our, of our nature as males to want to ensure paternity. Why do we, why would we guard women in the first place?
and saying, oh, this is your baby. Take care of the baby. You're the alpha. Take care of this baby. And so some beta male can poach your
essentially poach your harem, one of your harems. This is a common...
common practice in amongst primates, right? So it would, it would follow that amongst ourselves, that it would be a natural, innate way of doing these stuff. So I thought about this and I go, okay, well, I agree with you. And this is, this is the side that I took is that if the woman is that into you, if she's tattooing her fucking name, your name on her ass, then that, then she should be into you. And why is she into you? Because you are the best she can do. You are the best male
eight or a nine or a 10 or whatever you want to call her. She's with you.
Because you are the best that she can do. And so you never get to the point
where she says, I want to go with my girlfriends to Vegas on the weekend. It never happens. It's not even a thought in her head to say, I want to go do that.
This is the thing with mate guarding. I say this all the time. If you have to mate guard your chick repeatedly,
It's over.
When I say mate guarding, I say, don't do that. That's done. Don't do that. Done. And she won't do it. If I catch her doing it, she can fuck off. Done. Like there's not like I'm constantly checking her phone and shit. No, I don't need to.
Don't talk to guys on Instagram ever.
Yeah. Okay. Obviously I'm with you. I don't want to.
You don't go out without me. Yeah, I know.
Done.
If you're constantly having to check on her, then she's constantly trying to get away with something. Then you're mate guarding.
I don't see, I just see it as setting the rules of my relationship. I don't see it as main card. Those are the rules of the relationship and she complies to the rules along with every other rule.
That's all it is. I don't have to enforce those rules ever. If I find myself having to constantly enforce a rule,
She's got to go because I'm not living my life as the fucking detective trying to catch her doing something wrong.
That's some bullshit. If you're constantly having to check on a chick, it's already over.
It's already over. Most men can't detect how quickly it's over. Ask any guy who got divorced.
Yeah, three years ago, it was really years go by. It is over. And you need to, what's crazy about it is this. If you're a man enough to just fucking walk away at the beginning of it being over, you might shock her ass into changing.
If you wait out to the end, there's no way you're ever going to get her or keep her.
So you like most men are just not prepared to do it. But I say this to men all the time. You cannot let your woman fucking, I know they're going to come at you with the jealousy angle, the insecurity angle, dah, dah, dah. If you're a woman serious about you, she shouldn't have any interest in that stuff anyway. So if she really is fighting for it, I really want to go out with my girls. I've always gone out with my girls. Why are you being jealous? I want to go out with my girls.
And I'm not saying like, look, if you fucked her once and you try and put all these rules on her,
It's going to be hard. But if you've been with her a few months,
You should be able to say, no, we've been together a while now. I don't want you going out without me.
But I've always got out my girls. Well, I'll tell you what. And here's how you flip it.
Here's how you flip it. Gentlemen, I'll give you something free from the PhD course. Get your fucking pen and papers.
Here's what you do. If you accuse any woman of not being a good woman, even if they're not a good woman, it bothers them. They can't stand it. So let's say you've been with girls for a few months and you say, look, you don't go out to the club without me. I've always gone out with my girls every Friday, blah, you know, I don't cheat, blah, blah, blah. I say, look.
The kind of relationship I'm going to take seriously
is the kind of girl who's only going to go out with her man. If that's not who you are, if you're not that kind of girl, if you're not the kind of girl to be serious, then okay.
Thank you.
Put it on them. You're not marriage material. You are not a serious woman. You are not a good enough candidate for me to be serious with.
Watch them try hard to prove they're serious. Watch them. That is the number one thing men don't do. They never put the fucking burden on them. They start coming, oh, well, I just think I am. No, it's not about me. It's about you. If you're a serious woman, you wouldn't want to go out without me.
Put it on there. It wouldn't be a thought in your head.
Mm hmm. So so that's what I said. That's what so that was the that was the side that I took, I guess, was that if if you have that degree of genuine desire for you, you're not going to get into those situations where you're going to need to make our butt.
guy has his, he's got his responsibilities. He's got to take care of you. That's the whole thing. Like if you're going to marry a Muslim guy, he's going to be the guy who's, you know, you, there's an exchange. There's an understanding. There's a social contract for you right there, but there's also boundaries. And there's also like guys talk about this all the time. Well, you need to enforce boundaries or you need to make sure that you, she knows that you're serious, you know, or you need to be the guy that's going to pick up and walk away. Right. Most guys can't
You legally can't do that because all rights default to that woman. No matter whether you decide to say, hey, you know what? You can't go fuck other guys and she goes out and fucks them anyways. Guess what? If you walk, she's the one who makes a way like a bandit. She's the one who is incentivized to divorce you and to take money from you, take your kids from you, to get you for alimony, whatever else, because that's just where we're at right now. So there is that aspect of it as well.
well, you know, you need to be the man, you need to be the guy, or she needs to respect you as being the leader or the alpha. That's great.
But there's no teeth in that. There's no way you can walk away from that. So unless you are in a, if you're in a polygamous relationship or you're in a, I talked to Abu American, he was saying that he married these girls, but they're not like legally married in Germany, which is where he's at.
is their natural inclination to play by those rules. But when they are brought up in a social order that completely favors them for pretty much everything, they already know, I'm a strong, independent woman, so I'm independent of you, even though we're supposed to be in this mutual, complementary relationship, it doesn't make any difference because they know at the end of the day that the state's going to side with them no matter what. So when we talk about boundaries, and I think
Most guys, certainly in this country and most Western societies, don't know how to – they wouldn't even presume to establish boundaries in the first place because they wouldn't want to step on their independence or ruin their egalitarian marriage or something like that. And one last thing here is that when I talk about frame, I've always said this is that the frame that you enter into a relationship with with that woman is going to set the tone for the rest of that relationship.
Look, if you decide that you want to go, like guys ask me, well, what do you tell, what, what happens if, if your girlfriend says she wants to do a girl's night out or she wants to,
um,
She wants to go do a weekend in Vegas. I say, you know what? Let her do it. And then all her shit's packed up and it's out on the sidewalk when she comes back. That's the only way she's going to understand what those boundaries are. You can tell her till you're blue in the face, but it's not real for her until she sees her shit out on the sidewalk and you're like, the locks are changed or you've moved on or you've done something else because you have to, boundaries make no fucking difference whatsoever unless you are ready to enforce those things, unless you're ready to walk.
you can say, Oh, well, I, I use dread or I have all this dread stuff that I, I, you talking about it means shit until you can enforce it until you actually show it. So I've always said this as well is that men need to demonstrate and not explicate because the more you talk about it, the more you say, well, you know, if you ever did that, I'm going to do this. The ultimatums are declarations of powerlessness. You, if you're going to do something, you don't talk about it, you do it. And it's already out there and it's already done. And she, she comes back from Vegas and all her shit's right there.
It's true. And you know, another thing I noticed a lot of, I see like in most relationships, 90% of the time, it's just a dude constantly trying to prove he's a good mate. And they expect so little of their way. And it's crazy. I say to women all the time, well, are you a good girlfriend? They're like, yeah. I'm like, why?
Oh, because I'm this and this and this, we'll see.
Put some, put, put it on them. Qualifications. Make them have to work because it makes it interesting for them as well. They like it. They like it. I was, I was coaching a guy. One of the guys I was coaching.
I have a guy in my war room, one of the guys I was coaching him. He goes, look, Tate, I know this is weird, but I super want this girl.
Can you just tell me what to text? So for a while I was texting for him to get this girl. And I text the girl, can you make soup?
And she was like, soup? What? No. I was like, all right, ignore her.
And the next day she's like, hello, hey, how are you? I'm like, can you make soup yet? So we started fucking with this girl saying, you can't make soup. You're not a real woman. You can't make soup. What kind of wife are you going to be? And all this bullshit. He fucked the girl. Now he got the girl. But even he was like, what soup?
I was like, you just got to fuck with them. You got to put it on them. You can't make them gas. It ain't worth shit. You can't even fucking cook.
But dudes don't put anything on the girl. The girl qualifies instantly because she has tits.
Well, that's boring for the girl as well. It's boring for them. And it's especially the same in the relationship.
I have such high standards in my relationship because one, it makes it interesting for the girl too, because I fucking deserve them.
She has to work hard to keep me happy. It's not easy.
I'm an extremely difficult man to be with.
I expect a lot of things.
But she has to do them. That's it. If you're just going to be like, oh, it's fine. It's fine. It's fine. Then she'll get bored. Guys, you're watching this. Do you play a video game on easy?
No, because it's boring. Play on hard so that you might lose. This is life. This is basic psychology, but so many dudes don't do it.
I say this to all the time, your girl needs to qualify that she's a serious girl. If your girl wants to go to Vegas, you need to tell her, look, girls who are marriage material,
don't want to go to Vegas with their girls when they have a man. If that's the kind of girl you are, you're not the kind of girl I want to be serious with.
Yeah, we can still fuck. Lay that in. I always say that. Yeah, I'll still fuck. Yeah.
Because I hate that shit. What? You're not going to fuck me if we're not serious. It's like, well, you don't act serious.
If you want to act like just a hoe who gets fucked, then go to Vegas and come here when you want some dick and whatever. I'll get a girl who's serious.
You start telling them they're not a real woman because they're not really serious. Watch them change. Watch them change to be a real woman. Yes. I've got guys saying, can you turn a hoe into a housewife? I said, it's hard, but you can do it. It's not worth the effort.
But if you really, really, really are strict enough on them, you can do it. But it's the same game. Make them qualify. You dudes aren't qualifying your chicks ever.
And I'll tell you the other thing is like because of that and there's, you know, it's harder when you're in an LTR, but like even when you're not, even when you are spinning plates and you're still single, you have to get to the point where you're, you know,
So you have, first of all, you have to think about yourself in that, in that respect. You have to say, I'm the prize. You have to have to say, I'm the one that she should be, you know, she should be honored to get with. Right. I'm sure that like someone such as yourself is going to be like, you know what, that chick's hot. And she, um,
You know, she she deserves a guy like me.
You know, like most guys will self-deprecate. They'll go, I can't believe my wife, my wife is the, you know, she, I can't believe she'd be with a sucker, a chump like me. Right. I, she, she, you know, she lowered herself to get with me. Why? I'll never know. You know, and thinking that that is in some way making her feel better about herself or making her feel better about her choice about you. It's another thing when guys like ask me or they'll, if I'm with my wife or something like that, I'm introducing my wife and we're talking about shit. I'll say, I'll, I'll drop like real, little cocky lines. Like, yeah, she's lucky to be.
with me.
And then they'll go, oh, you know, and they lose their minds because they never heard anything like that before. It's just one little stupid little, you know, quip, you know, like, oh, yeah, she's lucky to be with me. And I need kind of joking. And, and, but it's, it's different. Like they, like that is a joke for me because that's, that's kind of like second nature to me. But like for most guys, it's like, well, I can't believe my, my blushing bride would actually have, would actually lower herself or deign to, you know, to go out with a guy like me.
have no options because they don't have access to the kind of women that you have. They don't have access to. And so that's why most guys. But one of the things I was going to say is that as far as men's mating strategy is concerned, is I already talked about.
men's innate mating strategy, which is unlimited access to unlimited sexuality. The other mating strategy is this, is that it's called strategic pluralism theory. And what that means is that there are guys who are, the guys who are higher in sexual market value are going to be able to pursue their innate nature, which is what you do, right? You have unlimited access to unlimited sexuality or as much so as you can possibly do it because you're a high value man and women are
guys can't most men are beta males and so what do they have to do how do those guys solve their reproductive problem well what they do is they invest everything in one girl and so it's always it's so they're always qualifying to her they're always trying to you know to make her happy they're always trying to to and so that when when they hear what you just said when these guys when a beta male hears what you just said it sounds like counterintuitive to him because he would never
She's the best I can do. She's the only girlfriend for me. She's my one. She's my soulmate. So therefore, I could never offend her. I would never want to offend her. Or like when I talk about dread and I talk about passive dread, and this is the example I give. Like if you're sitting in a restaurant or maybe you're at a club or something like that, you're sitting in a restaurant and the waitress comes up to you and she's kind of flirty with you.
And not like overly so, but just like to the point where like chicks get it right. Chicks know when, when another chick is like flirting with the guy that they're with and you don't try to like put her off or you don't try to like, like most guys will do this. Like if, if, uh, if the waitress tries to flirt with them after they're done with the meal and the woman, their woman, their width has got a little all pissy. Oh, you choose flirting with you, blah, blah, blah. What they will do is they'll go, it's okay, babe. You're the only one for me. I would never do anything like that. I love you so much. And they, they would be Prince Harry, right?
like everything that qualified to and to make her feel comfortable and i always tell guys this is you need to do exactly the opposite that's the counter to the counter to everything is like well i can't help it i'm just fucking irresistible and there's so many women that want to get with me and guess what you know what you're lucky to have me because all these other chicks want me and who did i who did i select i selected you so you better shut the fuck up and so and what that does is that instills a sense of dread and a sense of competition anxiety so when i talk to guys who are
relationships, I say, what are you doing that is instilling some sense of even passive dread? Are you even sensitive to the fact that you can actually do something like that? Because most guys think that when I say use dread,
They think that give them an ultimatum, like if you don't do this, I'm going to leave. You don't know. You look for those opportunities where you can, you can most married men, most, most guys in an LTR, they don't have the opportunity to, to display social proof or pre-selection. They never have those opportunities. And so their wives are like, well, who gives a shit about this guy? I'm on it. I'm on Instagram and I've got tens of thousands of guys who want to get with me. And this guy, nobody wants. Why am I still with this guy?
I completely agree with you. And I think a lot of this comes down to, I am of the belief that long-term relationships are not natural for men.
I mean, monogamous ones. I don't think they're biologically natural. I think they're societal, but I don't think they're natural. I don't think that we're supposed to be in them. I think that there's a reason why every look, how many married men do you know who loves his wife with all his heart? But as soon as he goes away with the boys, he's trying to bang hookers and strippers. Like, it's just, let's just be honest about the fucking reality of men. Men want to fuck girls, different ones. Let's just cut the garbage. Why is that so controversial?
You say that, people start arguing with you. No, I don't. If you could keep your wife exactly the same and still fuck other girls, you'd do it. There's no fucking doubt. And you know how I, and you can also prove that. You know how you prove that? You go, why is pornography so popular? Why is it that 68% of Christian men...
Admit that they have a problem with pornography. Why would you would think that these guys are living in marital bliss? Why is that? Is it because there's some sort of something some kind of corruption? No, it's your base nature. You want you like when I was talking about. Um.
When I was talking about the strategic pluralism theory, it's these guys who are lower on the sexual market value spectrum. It is in their reproductive best interests to put all of their eggs in one basket, to put all of their reproductive efforts into one woman. Now, that doesn't mean that they wouldn't rather be...
having unlimited access to unlimited sexuality. And that's why pornography is such a big deal. So they're in the real life, in the real world, the only way that they're going to solve their reproductive problem is by putting all of their eggs in one basket with one woman. But-
on the, so what are they doing? They're doing exactly what you just said. They're with one woman.
But they can be with many, many women online on Pornhub or whatever it is. So they are actually doing exactly what you're saying right now. Yeah, and this is the reality. A lot of people are just not true to their biological nature, and that's the truth of it. But I say that there's so many guys who have everything wrong about women.
I'm talking about everything. There's a lot of guys out there who don't know shit because they've never had the experience. Like one thing I never do is say my notch count because it sounds unrealistic and everyone lies nowadays. So I don't even say mine.
The point is I know what I'm fucking talking about. That's the point. And if you don't have the experience, you're not going to know. A lot of these guys have no idea. They have no idea what to do.
Like no idea from the ground up and they're getting circles run around them by these chicks, man.
I've seen it. They're getting ripped up by these girls because girls are ruthless. Don't fuck with you for fun. I've seen, I've seen girls, man, organizing the eighth date.
canceling when he's at the table and shit obviously and they're doing it for fun these girls are ruthless they will fuck with you for a joke like poking you they don't give a shit so like you you've got to have your head switch on you've got to know the game that's what in the phd course we start with the very very beginning about like how women think how men think exactly like you do in your books the whole basis from the bottom to the top because so many guys have got absolutely everything wrong
But I really do believe like people call me crazy all the time. All I've ever done is say, I refuse to do something I don't want to do.
That's it. I've ended up here because I've refused to compromise and live a life I don't want to live.
I am truly adamant of the fact that maybe I'm wrong.
that no man really wants to get married.
Like he knows the woman wants it.
He might do it for the woman and he knows it makes the woman happy. But I don't think any man out there is really desperate for a wedding. Like what a waste of fucking money. Like really? I don't know. I'm not saying there's anything wrong getting married. I'm just saying that like every man was, and I'm not shitting on married people either. I'm not saying that.
I'm just saying that I live a level of animal ruthlessness that most people can't. I understand that. But if you are completely ruthless with who you are,
Would you like as a dude?
Would you get married? I don't know. Maybe some would, but me, I've had so many girls say, what would it take for us to get engaged? And I'm like, bitch, a miracle.
I think a lot of guys will
I don't fuck you already. And we're fine just now. And I don't see the point.
You know?
It's how it is. But I, a lot of guys will say this, they'll, they'll say, well, and I know that the last time you and I talked, I asked you this too, cause I know you said you were planning on having kids at some point and you're 33 now. And so, so maybe that comes in the next, maybe it comes in the next decade, who knows? But a lot of guys will say that like they, the fact that you are, and I know why, but the fact that you are, um,
dating many women or you're spinning plates or you're increasing your notch count. I think a lot of beta guys who are living that, where they think that they're living this monogamous dream, the reason why they come down on guys like you, guys who have a notch count of well above their own, let's just say, they would like to qualify that kind of sex as being meaningless because whatever their definition of sex is or their definition of family is, is supposed to be
Um,
You know, because they're doing things the right way or they're doing something the way that they've been told. And I think they come at me with some bullshit, like I'll never have a family or you can't have kids. It's meaningless. You know, you'll never have kids. And my reply is very simple.
I have choices of who I have kids with.
I have 30 phone numbers of women who would agree right now to have a child.
instantly
We're having kids this year. Oh my God. Really? 30 girls.
I have plenty. I have many kids. I can have more kids than any trad con. I can have a hundred kids because I've got enough women to do it. Women, you know, I've got ovens to cook the fucking bums. I can do it.
The only difference between me and a Tradcon is I have more choice.
I can have kids and I can love my kids and I can have a loving family and I can love the girl and I can have everything they have.
I just have more choice.
I don't need a piece of paper to love my kids. I don't need a marriage to love my children.
If I decide to have kids with one of my women and start having kids and we're not married, I don't love those kids any less. Piece of paper don't mean shit. Piece of paper ain't fucking nothing. I don't trust governments anyway. Fuck them.
So I really, truly don't see what a Tradcon has over my lifestyle. They don't have anything I don't have.
Now, if you're just purely, purely, purely playboy and you never have a girl who cares about you, then you are missing out. Yeah.
But I'm not that. I have women I've had for six, seven, eight years. That's longer than a lot of marriages. Some of my chicks. I've been with them for fucking, I've been married effectively. I just want to sign the paper. So I don't think I'm missing out on anything. So when they say, oh, you're meaningly sex. What do you do when you want a family? When I want a family, I'll fucking scroll through the Rolodex. Make a choice. What do you mean? Put my dick in it. It's easy. It's fucking easy. I'll make the choice and it'll be done. And I'll have my kids. And I'll love them very, very much.
this sort of, was it you that said this too? I, I have talked to guys and I, I think that guys definitely owe it to themselves to at least spin plates for their twenties, at least to, to be,
non-exclusive. I mean, you're already living this life right now, but to be non-exclusive with women, because I think guys owe it to themselves to experience what it is like to be with multiple women, what it is like to be desirable, what it is like to be, um, you know, to get it out of your system, like women will say, yeah, to get it out of your system or something like that. Um, what it is like to have more than like the, the one chick that you've been with, like guys will say, will always say, well, I wish I had a, I wish I had a virgin bride, right? I wish I could find a virgin
I understand why guys want a virgin because they want to ensure paternity. But once you've got that, once you've had the sex with that girl and she saved herself for marriage and you had sex with her and that's it, and all you've ever had is sex with that one woman, that is what defines sex for you for the rest of your life. I mean, assuming you stay with her for the rest of your life and you avoid pornography your entire life. Every single guy I have ever talked with, Christian or otherwise, who has had
They married their high school sweetheart. Every single one of them has said, I wish I, what is it like to have sex with more than one person? I wish I knew what it was like, or they will try, they'll either say that they'll either admit to that, or they will say something like, um,
I'm so glad that I only had sex with my one wife and they'll pontificate. Right. Then suddenly what they do is they make their necessity of a virtue. Right. They're no, they, they found one girl who would have sex with them. And so now they built a life around that. And so they want to have some sort of affirmation or some sort of legitimacy because of that. I want to, we're, we're at the two hour mark right now. I do want to get to this one question. Cause this is actually a really good one too.
quality male friendships? I find it, I find this to be just a difficult, just as difficult as finding quality women to date at times. What is your take on vetting for quality male friendships? Okay. So a friendship, I'm assuming he's talking about him having friends, not the girl having friends. Cause just, yeah, himself. Yeah. Guy, guys, guys having friends with guys. Cause your girl should have zero male friends. Let's just quickly make that very clear. She should have absolutely zero male friends. She doesn't need male friends. If she has to talk
hey, that's it. She has no reason to talk to dudes.
That's that. As for a man to find quality male friendships, if you're struggling to find quality men to be friends with, maybe you're not a quality man.
Every relationship in the world, including friendships, are mutual.
Me and Rollo are sitting here because we both have value. It's mutual. If one of us was a shit muncher, one of us wouldn't be here.
So if you're really going through life and you can't find anyone who's of quality to be a friend with, maybe you're a dickhead.
You need to look in the mirror and realize, well, maybe I'm a nobody.
Because if you're a quality person, you meet quality people, male and female. That's how it goes. So it really, when you're saying vetting, you shouldn't have to vet your boys. Your boys should have your back no matter what. Your boys are who you go to war with. That's what men are about. This is, oh, we're going to go to war. You want to attack me? You got to attack us all.
So it may be, maybe you're just not worth shit.
Sorry to fucking break it to you, bro, but that's the reality. I've never had problems finding good people.
If you want a hack to that, I don't know who you are, but I'll tell you something. You want to meet honorable, good, honest people who understand real work. Go to a boxing gym. Start fighting. Start punching other men in the face. Start punching other men in the face. You're going to learn. You're going to meet good men. You're going to earn their respect. They're going to earn yours, and you're going to have good friends. Don't fuck them over. There. You'll make fantastic friends in the Army and through fighting. But if you're a team, they're never going to like you. The first thing I tell guys is this.
divorce and they're, they're, they're risking being zeroed out and sort of losing their shit. And then either becoming alcoholics or killing themselves or whatever. And guys will say, I can't believe I'm alone. I have to rebuild my life. I have to recreate myself. Uh, uh, Rolo, how do I get laid? You know, how do I finally go out in the sexual market? Like I have like some magic formula to do that. The first thing that I tell these guys is this, I say, look, you need to go out and build your social network. You need to go out. And I don't mean like get on, you know, Facebook. I mean, like go and hang out with people. Like just what you said,
go to the gym, go do something like that. One of the reasons why we always say go to the gym is there's a physical aspect of it as well. Um, it, it makes you feel better about yourself. Not only are you getting in better shape? Um, it also, uh, releases like endorphins and reduces your stress. And there's all kinds of stuff that goes along with that. But what I tell guys is this, is that you need to do something with other guys. And one of the best things you can do, like just what we were saying a minute ago is to compete and you need to be able to get in the ring with somebody
afterwards. Or when I, when guys hit me up and they'll say, um, Rolo, we're starting a rational male book group or something. I'm like, okay, that's great. But you know what you need to do? Go and, uh, work on a car together or go do something because women talk men do. And the way that men communicate and the way we forge friendships and we, we, we, we create bonds between other men is by having a project or having a hobby or having a sport or having something
We were seven C's religion. Yes. You have to, because human, human males need to form coalitions. And the only way we do that is we have to have a community goal, whether that's build a fucking house, build a community, build a tribe, build whatever, because that's essentially what you're doing.
Our base coalition is your family right now. Andrew's family is his three girls, his brother, probably his girls and whoever else is hanging out. They're all in your one house and you have a tribe that's going on right there. That is the base unit. And then it expands from there. So your tribe, like my tribes might be the band that I'm playing in. It might be the church you go to. It might be the guys at the gym that you hang out with who are like, you know, there to be your workout partners.
what the get involved in doing whatever it is that you are doing that you have a passion for and and that those friendships will come those as a natural result of that you'll get friendships absolutely absolutely true completely spawned
Cool. All right. We got a, we got a break and we're at two hours and 10 minutes right now. This has been really good. You know, it's funny as I went into the, I went into this conversation and I got a whole bunch of notes right here and I think I covered pretty much every one. And I didn't even have to really refer back to them because that one leads into the next. So it's always good to talk to you because we, we, we kind of riff off of each other. And, and then I, I ended up hitting all of these. The one last thing I wanted to talk about before we go though is.
I feel the same way. But the last thing I want to talk to you about is you were just on Alex Jones. And I want to know, are you planning on doing something more regular with Alex Jones on his war room thing?
Yeah, so firstly, I am a huge Alex Jones fan.
Now, the reason I'm a huge Alex Jones fan is because if you're going to judge a man purely on his honesty and being true to himself and speaking his mind, then Alex Jones is the greatest man alive.
Like he says what he thinks. He doesn't give a fuck if you think he's crazy. He will sit there and tell you right then and there about the lizard people.
I respect that about him because everyone nowadays is self-censoring to some degree.
He does not self-censor. And I respect people for that reason. So I'm a huge Alex Jones fan. Secondly, he is exactly the same in person as you imagine him being.
He is exactly the same. He's the same. He's a force of nature, Alex Jones. He's super interesting. Yeah, he wants me on the show a lot more often.
I don't like America and Texas and Austin. He invited me a long time ago. He wants me to go back more often.
But I live far away and, you know, maybe I'll be, we're working on something now, but maybe start a European chapter of Infowars and that kind of thing. So we're looking on it. But to be honest with you, honest with you, I'm not too political a person. I have my political opinions, which are obviously very right wing, but I don't believe in politics as a mechanism.
And I want to make this very, very clear for anyone who's considering joining my war room.
We're not a political group. We don't believe in politics. And the reason I say that is because as pessimistic as this sounds, I believe the war of politics has been lost long ago. I cannot see any kind of conservatism in a genuine conservative stance coming back in the West.
The Fed-centric
the war that's being waged is going to get worse and worse. Every year it gets worse. Every year conservatives concede more and more. What's the last thing conservatives have conserved?
Fucking. So I ain't got my time to waste sitting there talking about conservatism. Like it's over. Like the people who control all the information in the world, Google are liberal. The people with all the money in the world are liberal. Like the whole game is done. So I'm not political because I don't believe you can win the fight.
So I believe what you need to do is, and this is what we teach in the war room, personal sovereignty.
If you haven't got enough money to get up and bail, you don't need to be worried about politics. You need to be worried about that.
Because if shit really goes wrong where you are, go somewhere else. That's the easiest solution to politics. I'll just move to Romania. Politics solved. Done. Now I have no femme-centric bullshit in my life.
If I was still living in England, trying to fight the good fight, all I'd do is end up in jail.
like Tommy Robinson for Talk of Truth and NFT Platform.
Why? So that's the short answer. I love what Alex is doing, but I don't believe he can win.
And for that reason, I don't feel like flying 18 hours
Every two weeks. Back and forth all the time. Well, this is. To just talk fruitlessly. In my project, the war room where I teach men to be self-sufficient and you can survive anywhere and you can escape all this garbage. That's why. Cool. All right, man. We got a break. So go ahead and give your plugs, man. That's fine. Yeah, absolutely. Anyone watching me and if you don't believe a word I've said, then you've made a mistake because my word is iron and I don't fucking lie. Everything I've said here has been completely true. You can see on my Instagrams at Cobra Tate at Tate Limited.
If you're interested in my website, cobra tape.com, I have the PhD course, which teaches you everything I know about women, everything I learned about girls in running my webcam industry. I've had over 75 girls work for me in webcam.
And they gave me all their money. So I obviously know something.
Start to finish is in the PhD course. And the war room is my community where I teach people how to make money online and become independent, getting second passports, second driver's licenses, and just make a strong network inside of the war room. So any questions, you can go to covertake.com, message to live chat.
that's basically it nice nice okay guys i will be on with pat campbell on friday uh morning regular time uh as last week i was not on rule zero last saturday although it was a really good conversation uh i will be on this saturday uh that is at 11 30 eastern a.m uh so check that out everybody knows i'm not hosting i think it might be rich who's hosting this time um i will also be on uh red
30 p.m. We canceled that last Sunday because I was away in Vegas. Also, I'm considering I might actually be on.
on rich cooper's channel for uh the train wreck for his before the train wreck thing on monday i don't know if that's going to go down this week or next week but i'll let you guys know as well so that's coming up uh i will have a new essay set up on my uh my rational mail blog if you are not a subscriber for that or a subscriber for this uh make sure that you hit the like button make sure you hit the subscribership also make sure you go over to cobertate.com and check out uh his channel
stuff that he does as well. And also follow both of us on Twitter. You guys probably already know where that is. So thanks, man. This has been really fun. And we got to do this again, man. I know we've been talking about doing something a little bit more semi-regularly. So that's a possibility for something in the future. I think if we do something more regular, we'll probably be a little bit more topic focused. So we can just like, instead of just shooting the breeze, we can actually focus in on specific topics. Yeah, man. Now I'm in Romania. Now
I'm staying still. Now's the time to do it. So cool. Work it out. And then, yeah, topic specific or questions anyone has, you know, we have all the answers. We're the goal. Yeah. Yeah. Right on. Okay, guys. Thanks. Thanks so much. And we will see you next time. Bye bye.
Thank you.